OK men .. brutal honesty time..
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some men can. me personally? no.0
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I think generally unless the woman is very unattractive, the man can get it up!0
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Basically .. if you went on a date with someone that you didn't necessarily want to see again .. but because she was willing .. you had sex with her. I don't like to think that men could be so cold.
Not without making sure she understood that was the case as far as another date.
I would not be with her then if I didn`t find her attractive or appealing enough to go out with so this changes the context.
Had a one night stand with a person I met in a bar while on a golf trip and before we started I asked if she was cool with things knowing full well that tomorrow I was heading back to NY and she her place.
She did,we had fun and actually remained friends and in touch since then although there was never another meeting.0 -
Ooooooh this! Yeah, this is fine in my book.Basically .. if you went on a date with someone that you didn't necessarily want to see again .. but because she was willing .. you had sex with her. I don't like to think that men could be so cold.
But women do this too, I hope you realise. Except most men are willing to do the deed anyway and don't get too emotionally involved initially - so having sex is still better than nothing for most men.
(PS: if the woman is willing, can't see what's wrong with that - or is she already completely in love after the first date? Damn, she's creepy then.)0 -
Nope impossible, I've got to be attracted to them first othersie it's just never going to work lol.0
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Basically .. if you went on a date with someone that you didn't necessarily want to see again .. but because she was willing .. you had sex with her. I don't like to think that men could be so cold.
Not without making sure she understood that was the case as far as another date.
I would not be with her then if I didn`t find her attractive or appealing enough to go out with so this changes the context.
Had a one night stand with a person I met in a bar while on a golf trip and before we started I asked if she was cool with things knowing full well that tomorrow I was heading back to NY and she her place.
She did,we had fun and actually remained friends and in touch since then although there was never another meeting.
Awwww, you see Carl, you live in my ideal world :bigsmile: Just proves the point you can be a perfect gent, with respect and honesty, and still get laid :flowerforyou:0 -
Basically .. if you went on a date with someone that you didn't necessarily want to see again .. but because she was willing .. you had sex with her. I don't like to think that men could be so cold.
Not without making sure she understood that was the case as far as another date.
I would not be with her then if I didn`t find her attractive or appealing enough to go out with so this changes the context.
Had a one night stand with a person I met in a bar while on a golf trip and before we started I asked if she was cool with things knowing full well that tomorrow I was heading back to NY and she her place.
She did,we had fun and actually remained friends and in touch since then although there was never another meeting.
Awwww, you see Carl, you live in my ideal world :bigsmile: Just proves the point you can be a perfect gent, with respect and honesty, and still get laid :flowerforyou:
Once in a blue moon though...but I am not going to be any different regardless.0 -
Basically .. if you went on a date with someone that you didn't necessarily want to see again .. but because she was willing .. you had sex with her. I don't like to think that men could be so cold.
Men and women both can and do participate in this! True story0 -
Basically .. if you went on a date with someone that you didn't necessarily want to see again .. but because she was willing .. you had sex with her. I don't like to think that men could be so cold.
Jen, there are some awful men out there!! Unfortunately.........
I went on a date once. They guy was sooooo into me. Chatting and cracking jokes and looking into my eyes etc. Bought all the drinks. We got drunk, I invited him back to my home. NOT for sex, as I stipulated to him, but he tried it on! We just kissed and cuddled and chatted for a few hours. Fell sleep. The next morning he was the coldest person ever! Didnt even smile. Asked me where the station was and left. I never heard from him again.
I absolutely think that some men will do anything for sex and are cold hearted bast*ards!
So glad I didnt oblige! :bigsmile:0 -
Basically .. if you went on a date with someone that you didn't necessarily want to see again .. but because she was willing .. you had sex with her. I don't like to think that men could be so cold.
Jen, there are some awful men out there!! Unfortunately.........
I went on a date once. They guy was sooooo into me. Chatting and cracking jokes and looking into my eyes etc. Bought all the drinks. We got drunk, I invited him back to my home. NOT for sex, as I stipulated to him, but he tried it on! We just kissed and cuddled and chatted for a few hours. Fell sleep. The next morning he was the coldest person ever! Didnt even smile. Asked me where the station was and left. I never heard from him again.
I absolutely think that some men will do anything for sex and are cold hearted bast*ards!
So glad I didnt oblige! :bigsmile:
Some will, yes.0 -
it all depends on the tequila . 1 tequila 2 tequila 3 tequila more tequila mas BONITA0
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Basically .. if you went on a date with someone that you didn't necessarily want to see again .. but because she was willing .. you had sex with her. I don't like to think that men could be so cold.
You must not watch, read or listen to too much news cause (Hu)man(s) are cold, very mean and cruel to each other in the world.......
Sad but true.
As you get older, mature your libido changes your sexuality matures as well and the whole concept of sleeping with a woman that your not attracted to loses its appeal. However when I was in my late teens, early 20's a lot of women were just vaginas on feet. Sorry ladies some men do think like that beyond there teens. It's a cultural thing too as a black male coming up I was taught to try to hit as many women as I could.
Another guy said that he wouldn't sleep with a woman who he thought was hot but didn't like their personality. This guys personal view doesn't reflect the view of 99.9% of men . Please believe that.0 -
I've always wondered about some guys who will keep a girl as a F*** Buddy but won't date them. I know in some cases it's because of a mutual just want to scratch an itch without ties, but in my head it's similar to this OP where they are good enough to get it on with but not to keep around the rest of the time.
I just can't help but to have a skewed view on this because my best friend who has a really hot FWB won't date her because she's 30 pounds overweight...like he's straight up said this to her face. She's only good enough for the bedroom, which makes me want to tear his eyes off and cut off his....., but she stays in that messed up "relationship" because he's hot. So she's superficial too, so it evens out??? But she definitely has growing feelings for him and I just keep trying to pull her away! She thinks if she loses weight things will change...but we all know that isn't true.0 -
Basically .. if you went on a date with someone that you didn't necessarily want to see again .. but because she was willing .. you had sex with her. I don't like to think that men could be so cold.
Believe it. The same is true for both sexes.0 -
Basically .. if you went on a date with someone that you didn't necessarily want to see again .. but because she was willing .. you had sex with her. I don't like to think that men could be so cold.
Don't hate Im this cold :laugh:
I really think it goes both ways...0
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