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LOL In class one afternoon, I made some comment about how Cilantro was the worst tasting thing ever, and the class was divided. Half of the class, or more, were ready to defend it to the end; the other half agreed with me. It's funny how it is a food that is either an all or nothing thing. You either love it or hate it.…

Cilantro is of the devil. Hate it. It's so sneaky. That is all. :) Flea Willamette Valley OR

There must be a better option. Our local community college has a pharmacy tech certificate. It's a year long program, but at least something like that would definitely be legit and will also offer employment help after. Flea Willamette Valley, OR

Please include me. I miss her so terribly. This is a kindness. Flea Willamette Valley OR

My husband has a job. At least it appears so. He signed the contract about 10 days ago, he received his computer yesterday, his background check cleared this morning. His first day is Monday. This has been a tough year, but this is a good job with a reliable tech company. He knows 6 or 7 people there all ready, including…

I believe he also needs the diagnosis, correct? Can you talk with his doctor about getting him tested? That might help make more resources available. I know all of this is overwhelming, especially as you are also dealing with the grief related to your mother's loss. Hugs to you. Flea Willamette Valley OR

Looks delicious, and yes, please. I am always looking for soup ideas. Flea Willamette Valley, OR

Lanette, checking is a good idea. We all lose some kidney function as we age. And yes, creatinine and GFR are key indicators. And protein in the urine. Flea Willamette Valley OR

Oh my goodness, Machka. To my nephrologist's credit, I have had so many scans over the past 2.5 years -- Two PETs in the first year, CT every six months, and I've had multiple MRIs. Fortunately, those scans do not show any damage to my kidneys. So at least there's that. He is toying with the idea that I'm just chronically…

I share your frustration. My oncologist is the one who asked me, "has anyone told you that you have chronic kidney disease?" After she mentioned it, I went back to look at my historical labs, and I was in the 60s eight years ago, with a steady decline. It would have been nice if someone would have mentioned that I should…

Rita. We're not doing anything about my ckd. I'm trying not to let it bother me, but I had to bring up the diet. All he says is drink more water. I am doing my best to eat the DASH diet. Everyone probably should. So we are eating a lot more veggies, and I am avoiding beef. But not eliminating it entirely. The nephrologist…

Kim. I'm so sorry for your loss of Levi. He was a beautiful dog and such a good friend to you. I'm glad you took time off from work. Take care, friend. Flea Willamette Valley OR

Allie. Carefully think about your motivation. Are you trying to create another tie to Tom to keep the relationship going? This is a great opportunity for you to cut it, for your own emotional health. Not to be too blunt, but he has not been a friend to you, and I am highly suspicious of Elena's motivations of kindness.…

Thank you, Barbie. Still busy at work and losing my patience with it. Hubby is in the final stages of two interesting jobs. I think if one of these doesn't work out, he's just going to retire officially. I've been telling him to do that for the last six months or more. It's not worth the stress, and he's turning 65 in…

Oh, Margaret. I'm so sorry. Flea Willamette Valley OR

Oh dear. It is 20 degrees out this morning, snow on the ground, and currently freezing rain out there. It is going to be a rough weekend, weather-wise, but I am rather looking forward to just staying inside and relaxing. We will likely lose power at some point, because that's what we do. 20 degrees on the valley floor (Our…

Oh, Annie and Margaret. You are both dealing with some very heavy issues. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Take care. Flea Willamette Valley, OR

Congrats on your new car, Rosemarie. I love my RAV4. Your brother is right about the used cars in the northeast. Flea Willamette Valley OR

Brief introduction for me. I just turned 63 and am married with three children and five step children who have five grandchildren. I work in higher education administration and teach literature and humanities as part of my load. I was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer denovo in June 2021. I've had chemo, mastectomy,…

Love seeing your beautiful face! Flea Willamette Valley OR

Hubby and I are celebrating our 19th wedding anniversary today. We are at a beautiful place about 30 minutes from our house. Not far, but so nice and quiet. Just good to get away for a night. They still have the lights up from Christmas. We've walked the path twice tonight. Flea Willamette Valley OR

Actually, Michele, radiation was just as hard on me, if not harder, than chemo was. It makes you extremely tired. I can't even really describe the depth of the fatigue radiation brings on. Maybe you could take something to them to ease their burden? Happy new year to everyone! Flea Willamette Valley, OR

There's nothing wrong with the minister doing it. You could just write up the highlights of her life and have him read it. I believe we did that with both my sister and my mother, then we had a time of sharing, and that's when family members got up to talk about detailed memories. Thinking of you every day. It was nice of…

Michele-- are you on prolia? Look up osteonecrosis of the jaw. I am on xgeva, an injection every 3 months. It is the same thing as prolia, I believe. And I do have to be very careful with dental procedures. Basic check ups, cleanings, fillings, and crowns are fine. But extractions and invasive oral surgery are not…

Oh Beth. So sad about your mom. I hope she is able to get back to where she was. Falls are so serious at that age. Thank you for thinking of me. This season was harder than I expected. I guess last year I was still in shock and there was so much to do. I was trying to make my mom's peanut butter fudge a few days ago, and…

My three loves, plus a spare. (They have their back to the camera. My eldest's partner.) We had a lovely day. Watched Die Hard while we were waiting for the couple to arrive. My two son's say it is a Christmas movie. I remain unconvinced. Lol Flea Willamette Valley OR

Merry Christmas! Flea Willamette Valley OR

Allie. That looks so sore, but you look very cute. Your shirt is very festive. Flea Willamette Valley OR

I'm so sorry, Carol. He looks like he was a very friendly and happy person. What a difficult time for your family. Annie, I'm sorry you felt disrespected when the minster came to the house to talk to your dad. It does seem a little manipulative of him, but perhaps he didn't realize he should be talking to you? It's…

I'm so sorry, Annie. Take care. Flea Willamette Valley OR