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Thanks for the support everyone! I pushed my boyfriend to talk about it again and he said he was really sorry and he thinks my body looks great and what he meant was that it bothers him that I always complain about my weight and say I'm gonna lose the last 10-15 pounds and then don't change anything. I'm not sure if I…

5'2" about 155 trying to get to about 125. Having a ton of trouble reducing calories below 1500. I exercise a lot but this would be way easier if I could actually eat and be satisfied at 1200-1500 Cals instead of 1700-1800. I don't usually eat out of hunger but out of string compulsion and urgency. Any tips? Anyone also…

I'm 21, it's definitely cool to see other young people on here. Gained 35 pounds in college and just graduated. Lost 10 last summer from that but I'm determined now to lose the rest. Need help eating clean/not snacking. I like running and cardio I exercise 4x a week at least. Add me! Need more friends and motivation!

I felt the exact same way and I'm very close in height and weight. I was always about 130 and felt enormous and then started gaining and stopped checking my weight out of fear. When I came in at 169 I was shocked but didn't feel much bigger than before because I have ALWAYS felt like a giant. But I feel thinner than…

I agree, we all instinctively over eat as an evolutionary adaptation and of course some more than others, but I know I have more of a propensity to binge eat and overeat and was certainly raised to overeat and eat junk too. It's a combination of both that hopefully I can overcome and not put my children in that position…

I'm 5'2" too. Got up to 169 last year, currently at 156 but my goal and my old healthy weight is 132. Never had a problem exercising I do cardio and weight lifting almost every day, it's eating. Trying to cut portions, not snack or drink my calories and only eat when I'm hungry. Only been a week in this game but I'm…

Thank you. You guys are all right and I'm really glad for the support and positive comments. People can be so harsh and judge mental. I am fat, I went from being healthy and in my weight range to obese to very overweight ( I lost 10 pounds since my heaviest). Technically someone that is 5'2" should not be over like 138 and…

Thanks everyone for the positivity and support. It's very much needed from the constant thoughts of all the negativity I have been exposed to. And of course, my head agrees and knows you are all right and I shouldn't care what people think of me and not let it bother me, but my heart is still hurt. I wonder if my bf feels…

They're not really his close friends. He was in fraternity at our college, our actual close friends don't make fun of me it's the acquaintances he only saw when he came back to visit me (I just graduated yesterday and he graduated last year). He never told me, one of our close friends said something to me when he was drunk…

3 years ago I struggled with severe bulimia. Now I'm binge eating/overeating and feel out of control. I gained ~35 pounds last year and I NEED my body back. I found out that people I know joke about my weight behind my back and I need to show them (and myself) I can be fit. HELP MEEEEE

I'm desperate to lose 20 pounds ASAP. I found out I was being called fat and made fun of behind my back after I gained 30 pounds last year. I want to show them I can control my weight again and I can't stand to be in this body any longer. It's just so hard when everything I do revolves around eating and drinking!