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That definitely is some i am interested in.!!

That's what people were telling me.

i'm pretty young, he is a little older. Thank you i wrote all that down hopefully we'll be able to go to the grocery soon. :)

Thank you :) Lots of people keep saying you should only gain 35lbs and i'm like i surpassed that already, im getting so fat. That's whats clouding my judgement. I've had a few women tell me they gained 60- 80 lbs but not very many. I felt like it wasn't normal for me too.

Thanks for the great advice, I've been thinking about the social media stuff and I think what's really getting to me is all the TYPES of people that I follow. I need to change my surroundings. I really want to breastfeed. I didn't even know it help with weight, I just knew my baby should have it.

I try not to judge people too harshly but I thought someone would say that. I was hoping to see the best in freelee. For the longest I thought she was the big B word and I saw other people agreeing with her and many of the things growing thats why I though maybe she was somewhat credible.

I don't really consider myself anorexic anymore but I suppose to other people my mindset seems that way. I fight my mindset. I win, the stress of it isn't good for the baby. I find ways of coping and taking my mind off of my thoughts. I know the fast food I eat is awful for the baby. I usually don't get cheeseburgers and…

Well like I said I can't do anything at 9 pm about professional help and I most of the people telling me to seek professional help didn't treat me like I was some dumb idiot. They were being genuine and helpful. I didn't like what many people had to say but they didn't take the tone you did, and you accused me of being a…

I've already heard the advice see a professional quite a few times now. Nothing I can do at 9 pm. I know I am young, I know I have problems, never said I was perfect. I know exactly what you are seeing. I'm not stupid. I know what I look like to you. I'm not exactly proud over here of my situation. Do you think I am happy…

Fast food is more affordable because we can't both afford separate meals at the grocery store. He's a picky eater. I am not trying to make him sound like a monster because he's not. He does his best and he is trying to make the right decisions for us right now.

my boyfriend, it's not that he's controlling it, he just handles the finances to keep our heads above water.

I tried talking to my boyfriend about it and he said we can't afford it. I just wanted to see what other people thought.

I have decided to breastfeed. My family keeps telling me it will take up too much of my time though.

Well honestly most of the times I feel fine about my pregnancy, I run to places like this when I am panicking. My weight gain is always in the back of my head yes but I usually don't let it get to me until something triggers it. I do stupid things sometimes like "hey I should weigh myself today". Then I cry and look for…

And heres some advice for you, instead of attacking someone who has some obvious problems and self destructing behavior maybe you could I don't know be a little less harsh. There's a difference between that and honesty. Luckily I am not THAT fragile. Be careful what you say because responding the way you did can enable the…

Actually my doctor does know, it's even listed on a health chart she posts online and no my tendencies are not there, thoughts yes. I don't skip meals, i even eat snacks. As for asking her about my weight, no I have not. Was I looking for possible ways to lose weight while pregnant yes, do I know my baby is more important…

I just looked up all of the info on that, i'll call them tomorrow when they are open, Thank you both.

Yes my doctor knows I was anorexic, The first thing I told her when I met her.

Just saw my doctor not that long ago, she hasn't said anything about my weight gain, my next appointment is the 19th.

I just saw my doctor a week ago, she hasn't mentioned a thing about my weight gain. I was anorexic right before I had found out I was pregnant. Even talked to a dietitian about a month ago, she didn't say anything about my weight gain.

Thanks that helps.

Thank you. I'll ask her about that.

Honestly when I told my doctor about my ED she looked like a deer in headlights, she seemed like she had no idea what to do. I even asked her about good foods that contain folic acid and nutrients and she had to go check online. I think I may have put her on the spot though. She told me to eat small frequent meals to keep…

Thank you guys for all the input. I can't say its exactly what I want to hear but it is comforting to know for the most part its not out of the ordinary. Especially considering the condition my body was in prior. A lot of people are telling me I look better now than I did when I was 140, (i was never meant to be skinny,…

I was anorexic for about two years on and off twice during losing 100lbs in the whole journey. I haven't used my diary on here. I try not to count calories anymore. My my so many things to take into consideration.

Here's an idea of where my body is at. I did a Pilates for beginners video yesterday and I made it through the abs part easily but when it came to the legs they would cramp and just start to tremble and after a while it was impossible to lift my leg up and try over and over again. Of course she was flexible and I am too so…

Thank you! I know i should go get my body checked out and see what my muscle mass and fat ratio are i am joining the YMCA soon so i will find out there hopefully, my scale last said 22- 23 but it's meant for a healthier type of person and that was a while ago but I feel better and I've remained relatively the same size as…

Wow thanks that's so much good information. I really appreciate it! So it's okay to get going until my legs give up? I shouldn't be afraid?

Thank you. Your probably right. I figured i was probably trying to hard. This stuff seems so simple and you expect to be able to get up and just do it. Its frustrating when you find out you can't.