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Today I am going to try to survive the day and be content with my life. After all I still have decades to live so I might as well try to be happy although I'm not allowed to have a partner and kids.

What are you majoring in?

You mean the fact that other women are arrogant and that men are judgmental?

what issues specifically, can you be specific so I know what to work on? thanks :)

I don't ask EVERY man out, I haven't asked my father out because I'm not into incest plus I walk past men every day without asking them out. But I ask SOME men out and they say no because they judge me! I am having a very bad day today because I'm ANGRY that I can't have coffee with a man, IT IS NOT FAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good luck!!!!!

Why would you try to lose weight while having a baby, that is very selfish of you! Grow up

It is not possible for people who are in relationships or getting married to lose weight because they spend all their time going on dates and eating with their partners. Also they get complacent because they figure they must be very good-looking if someone wants to be with them. If you want to lose weight, you should break…

nope I come across as happy and confident frienda have said. Of course Im going to be a bit more soul bearing on a support forum.

I don't understand why men refuse to go on a date with me. Here's the thing. Usually when I meet men at social events or cashiers and random guys like that, I talk to them for only 5 minutes. I tell them my name and hobbies and ask their name and hobbies and then ask if they would like to go on a date sometime and they say…

You guys are right. I could have a coffee on my balcony or enjoy myself while single. It cheered me up reading your comments yesterday. But today I feel pretty down and miserable. I just don't see why other women can get married and have kids and I can't. What makes me so much worse than them? Even Hitler and bin Laden…

Yes, you're right, I think it's fairly unlikely that the cashier meant I was a pig in terms of weight if I think about it logically. Because although I have gained weight, I am still under 100 lb and it's not often that I see someone as thin as me. The interactions that took place were that I used to buy a drink every…

Thank you Angelina, that's very kind of you. Today I was feeling OK but then I ended up feeling like nothing in life gives me any pleasure. I do try hard to tell myself I can be happy without a man but life feels empty and meaningless. It's an ongoing battle where I try hard to think positively but my natural feeling is…

Yes, he called me a pig as an insult. I don't think he is a hypocrite though as I don't know him well enough to know what his principles are other than he seemed like a friendly and polite guy before he called me a pig. That's great that men are interested in you :)

I'm the second from the left. Before I gained weight~

Ugh that does not sound fun :/

Thank you for concern. Well the cashier may have called me a pig as an insult rather than referring to my weight. I don't know what he's thinking but I have been unable to go back to that store. Generally men don't like me. Last night a guy who was asking me to help him on his English told me that no man would ever like me…

I think 35 is the default setting and I never bothered to change it. Thanks for adding me as a friend by the way Alicia. I don't know why it is that people keep writing about random things on other people's threads. It's a bit annoying as I'm truly going through a tough time and people keep writing nonsense on my threads.

Of course I'm not trolling. Maybe he meant pig as an insult, not as a reflection of my weight, or maybe he wanted me to weigh less. I'm really down today. I want a boyfriend to talk to about my day and to call me sweetheart. Is that too much to ask? I feel left out of society because other women much younger than me are…

Thank you so much, that is beautiful what you wrote and thank you for your empathy. The story about the fish is funny.

I don't really know but I want to say best of luck to you! I admire you for embarking on a journey of getting strong! Take care

I don't know if there is a support group but I'm really sorry for the struggle that you are going through. HUGS You can message me if you want and I'll try to be empathetic and a good listener

I'm so sorry that you both have depression. HUGS

I think men want me to lose 10 lb~

I think 35 was the default age on the profile.

I admire you Osiris, for buckling down and losing weight. That takes a lot of will power <3 I hope you will become more confident. I'm sorry you have experienced similar feelings :(

A lot of these posts are confusing. Anyways, I do not PERSONALLY think I am fat, but I think guys think I'm fat, that's the only explanation I can think of as to why guys don't like me~

Yes, if she is happy and healthy that is great. It is important to be happy

*hugs* you're so brave. and Zeinna is a beautiful name :)

Thanks! I think I eat pretty healthy :3