LaPrincipessaFedele Member

Bahaha riiiiight.

I'm just going to put it out there that psychologists tell you not to go to the spouse in the relationship for many reasons, not the least of which is that you're setting yourself up for a very dangerous situation. If the wife decided to go after me I could have been seriously injured or defamed. It's nice to tell someone…

I don't know. This thread is causing so much trauma since my last two relationships were literally someone ghosting me after six months (met my family, talked about what our kids would look like, talked about moving in together, etc.) and someone dating me for quite some time before telling me he was married. I didn't say…

Most likely. Nasty cheaters who make fools out of others for their own sexual gratification don't deserve small courtesies. And before someone says, "well women do it too!!!!", my comment is intentionally gender neutral.

That's a really grim point of view. I did sleep with him several times because I wanted to. I'm a single adult. Anyway I signed up to a different dating site last night and I found him on it and logged on. So I know he's definitely not interested in me and I dodged a bullet. Still hurts yet now I know he's alive and well…

Um no. That guy doesn't even deserve the time of day.

I'm so sorry. I know there are good men in the world, like you :) Hugs, and I truly hope you find happiness someday <3

Age is just a number. I have dated guys almost 20 years older than me and guys almost ten years younger than me (cuz it would be illegal otherwise!) I don't get hung up on age differences. If you're in a situation where you both are happy and don't want anything more, than there is nothing wrong with it.

*kitten*, I agree with you :D

Yes! I think this is what frustrates women so much. An honorable guy isn't going to use a woman for sex and then disappear. Yet when it happens, we're told we'll find someone who cares enough about us someday to not do that. Idk about you, but I want a guy who is empathetic enough to not do that to somebody else no matter…

lol hey, that's up to your wife :D In the interest of full disclosure, I'm not dating because I just got burned badly with my last two relationships. I personally know that my judgment is not the best right now, so it's just me and my cat for the moment ;)

You said you were giving up and going to bed. I respect people's boundaries. Good night. I was also joking since you said the whole conversation was about nothing. I hate text. It's impossible to tell tone.

I honestly don't take any of this seriously. It's a public forum ffs. It was fun sparring with you though :)

Nah I only date feminists ;)

Oh good! I'm sure she loves listening to you pontificate over nothing.

I read it. This point you think you've proven is nonexistent. Hey, good luck to you though on future relationships.

Ok I went back and read what you said. It was a completely unsubstantiated opinion. I'm not sure what point I was supposed to get?

I didn't miss the point. I said that you were talking about how unreliable anecdotal evidence is and then you stated an opinion that is just as unreliable because it's not backed up by anything except your personal experience. Which is anecdotal evidence.

It's always interesting when people talk about how unreliable anecdotal evidence is and then blatantly give their opinion which is not supported by any sort of study or facts. It is a fact that the world is skewed in favor of men. That has been proven over and over for centuries. Men who refuse to see that and act like…

Ya'll acting like I'm one of those women. Trust me, I know lots of quality women who find it impossible to date. Not so many guys. If a good guy wants a relationship, he almost immediately gets into one. He doesn't even have to be good looking. All these guys act like we have so many options. Yeah, if you only want someone…

Yeah, I know. I'm angry that it doesn't matter what women do, it's always the wrong choice. There aren't a whole lot of quality men looking for a relationship in my age group, that is for sure.

Basically...women can't win :'(

Well yeah, I don't date women, so I don't speak from that experience. I think ghosting is *kitten* regardless of gender. If you've met up once and you're not feeling it, then fine. If you've established a dating pattern and just disappear, that's total crap.

I always think it's weird when people tell you to just "let it go" and pretend like you're not pissed off. You are pissed off, and that's ok. Nothing wrong with a good *kitten* you text. Why would you even care if he thinks you're psycho? He's a *kitten* jerk, and I swear to the gods guys keep doing this because they keep…

I miss that show! I had to sneak it back in the day because technically I wasn't allowed to watch it :lol:

Haha those rules are so arbitrary. I think anyone born in the 80s can claim that. I was born in '84 and I played Oregon Trail and know the relationship between a pen and a cassette tape :smiley: Edit: along with my brother who was born in '86. Generation lines are not all that defined.

That one still makes me slightly nervous to go swimming in a public pool :lol:

Lmao MFP wouldn't let me say what I really wanted to say o:)