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I agree with the boy shorts for swim trunks hate speedo's. Also unless you are an actual cow boy no cow boy boots. Girlie high pitched voice. And a man who takes longer to get ready than I do..nope no way.
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Hey you feel how you feel and thats a good thing I think..Sometimes we become so jaded in out singlehood that its hard to really relax and trust and fall for someone..Who knows what will happen in the future but hugs for today!
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Date me! I don't know maybe really get to know them hold back the physical side alittle bit. Or pick girls with depth..I'd like to know the answer myself.
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I think the only thing I do that is "fake" would be color my hair. Everything else is 100% me.
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So far since yesterday I have re signed up on POF and emailed a man..who did email be back but said I looked too much like his sister also another conversation that was over 10 replys ..we are meeting for coffee sunday..lol so whats that 56 pts.
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If history repeats itself I will be.. But I'm going to the gym right now and going to just be the best I can be and let the chips fall where they may.
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I expect that we are not exclusive until we have talked about it. In other words I'm assuming he's dating multiple women until he tells me he wants to just see me..And he should assume I am doing the same. It might not be the case...but better assume that than the other. PS glad you got your mojo going..confidence is so…
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lol if only this could work
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Happy Birthday Anna!!!!
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Haha I don't live in a small town, but a small city and I've been on POF for YEARS here and its the same people time after time..(including myself)..so when I do go out to meetup groups or the bars on occassions I do see people I've messaged or are just always on POF. Its weird. I actually went on a kayak tour with a guy I…
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current picture was taken beginning of Dec. 2012. Some of my pictures are before wt loss so 3 years old.
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So has he dated every girl he's slept with?? WTF talk about double standards. Whatever if he wants to be close minded and believe she is a slut for sleeping with one other man who wasn't willing to actually date her (as most men don't seem to want to do now days..) people have desires and sometimes they just want to have…
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Merry Christmas everyone!
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I will say that yes..I have "rushed romantic situations and friendships in the past. Now my issue is more of not giving things a chance....I feel my biological clock ticking and if I meet someone who I know might be "fun" to hang with..or a good friend but I'm guessing would go no where else I don't even bother. I don't…
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Heck most women would date 5 years older. I would be 35..I'd date 40..I wouldn't date 50...thats my problem since that's who is interested in me lol
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I think being educated and intelligent has nothing to do with beta or alpha. In fact I believe a strong alpha can handle a woman with a doctorate any day. I want that kind of a man..who is confident enough in himself that he is not threatened by my personal success. Who I can still be feminine with and who is the ying to…
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yes its world wide, check out oa.org and it will give you a list of meetings close to you, also online and telephone meetings.
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I'm a food addict, go to OA, that is my way to cope with it. Also just saw Hungry for Change on netflix which was great. OA is like AA, 12 step program, I have been binge free for alittle over 3 years. Its a great place to go where people understand you. Its not focused on wt..but on why we are compulsive in our thinking…
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Ok, I can't help but think that a bj isn't a gift if its something the giver does often anyway lol..not talking about you OP..just thinking if it was me. I would cook a nice meal, and get a card but I wouldn't go over board..I've been burned this way before. If he produces a present..then act all shocked and be really…
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I'm going to drink Lol I am exhausted..my job is nuts right now..doing triple work with a full patient load. Someone told me that raspberry vodka, cranberry juice and pineapple juice was yummy today at 10am thats all that got me thru the day. Tomorrow Xmas party at friends house..last year I met a guy at this friends party…
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Its funny when you know just from the title who started the thread....
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In 2012.. I went back to my job in cancer care after working for the company that did my banding surgery..and gained 20lbs back :( I haven't done more than make out with one man for one night, since last year at this time. I'm still running but can't do 10k right now. I feel like financially I'm just keeping my head above…
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Haha, my family doesn't ask me any more. I think they've given up hope...either way my baby brother has a new gf so all the focus will be on them which makes me happy!
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I think that for me right now..children and marriage are important to bring up semi early..because of my age I don't want to waste my time if I feel myself really liking someone. I think its important to discuss sexuality...just doesn't have to happen asap like most men seem to be eager about. Spirituality, seems to be a…
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If the man doesn't want to be a father for sure..the only one he can trust absolutely is himself. So yes..if he is that adamant about not being a father he should either abstain or condom up. Not that I'm saying a woman tricking a man is right....no I'm not that is not fair. But the natural consequence of sex is…
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If I had a strong man I would not be cuddling with him right now..more fun things to do than that! That being said right now..I want a surgary chocolaty coffee..and plastic surgery lol
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Realistically no I know I won't find someone who meets this giant check list of perfection that I want. People are flawed. Does that mean I give up totally and just go find a homeless man on the street corner? No..I still want some physical and mental stimulation. I don't think I'll find someone who has everything in…
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Didn't read it.. But I think there is a stigma against both sexes if the person hasn't been in a relationship for over a year. And sometimes its right to have that "stigma" but other times there are extenuating circumstances. For me Well I was over 300lbs in my prime relationship years 20's and early 30's...I didn't want…
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My smile, my collar bones/neck (weird yes but now that I have them again I like showing them off)...my eyes, hair, *kitten*, and feet (have a tattoo on rt foot and I love it).
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Hehe, well I didn't read all of this so I'm sure someone else must of said it.. The real answer would be just be yourself..work on being healthier..be confident and ask girls out. Ask a variety of women out..not just the 10's if you aren't a 10 please realize that there are lots of girls out there that don't really get hit…
