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Sounds like the friends zone..it already has that name. More like you want the full meal deal but you are just a friend. So emotional fluffer=friends zone

I think my strength comes from knowing I'm flawed and weak. Sounds funny I know. But I'm not perfect, I want human comfort and love, and I don't see that desire as a bad thing. I think with in my career I draw strength from my patients seeing what they can handle and how they survive when life throws lemons and they make…

not surprised at all. Most men seem to appreciate the natural look and find the "girl" next door much more approachable. You are a beautiful young woman, and don't need all the make up. My favorite pictures of you aren't the ones where you're all done up. Not that I don't get getting all dolled up is fun and so is playing…

So the sandwich is an "after sex" sandwich...um well I'll make one if the guy gets me off....otherwise make your own sandwich :)

Wow, no way would I put up with that. I wouldn't try and change him I would have dumped him if not after the "hot wife and sausage comments" then certainly after calling a 7 yo girl sexy lexi..NOT at all appropriate. Wow. Why put up with that at all??

I'll remember that when I think up my Halloween costume :)

So that's what a duckface looks like..no wonder guys find it annoying..its really not attractive,

Congrats!

Its funny, I'm talking to a guy from POF now..and we have these long conversations about gender rolls, expectations and "lists" and he's very interesting to talk to..no bullh it type guy. I know between us nothing long term would ever happen..and I'm ok with that even though I find him fascinating..I don't believe I have…

I like the people :)

I wanna be you lol sounds like a blast.

This is me, when I'm comfortable and with people I know I'm very outgoing. But put me into a situation where I don't know someone I want to be a wall flower. I'm shy with men, especially if I'm physically attracted to them I can hardly look at a man I find attractive. I'm learning and starting to come out of my shell. When…

Wow, I come home from work and boom...this is quite the thread for the girl who hasn't gotten any action in 2 years:( PS most guys I've known love it when you swallow, they love it. I don't want to unless I actually really care about the guy..and he warns me...warning is important. As for doggy and hair pulling amen that…

EMT"s yummy :) And Yes I'm a renter, hate my current place and my lease is up in March I want a place in a nicer area, that I can have a dog. I have a 2 bedroom and will likely downsize until I can own. I don't need an extra room most of the people that visit ie parents would rather get a hotel anyway. I want more to my…

I've run into alot of Johns...and that is my fathers name...so its alittle odd. Also a lot of Capricorns..which I am as well (not that I put much stock in that stuff..but I've never had good luck with them so trying to avoid). But really meh a name isn't that big of a deal. Probably the guy who had the most unique name was…

I don't have a house/condo..I would kind of like to share that decision for a partner..BUT I won't wait for ever. I will be getting a pet in a year or 2..I really want to have a dog... If I don't have a partner in the next 5 years I will hopefully adopt But really I don't want to put my life on hold of a man...I want to…

OMG seriously we are the same people lol. I am actually contemplating not going home for Xmas this year just because of how work is happening. I will be 36 in Jan. I've never had a bf at XMas time, I've always been home for XMas and my parents are the ones that buy me my big gifts. I know if they stop..and they should be…

:) Glad you ended up clearing things up as to status of relationship. He's a cutie by the way. Crossing fingers that things stay strong.

That is what your 20's are for:) you're young..and have only had a few dates with one guy from what you've told us. You have to get out and meet new people, see what personalities turn you on mentally, what you're needs are emotionally and what you really like physically. As you're meeting people I'm betting it will…

I love going to movies alone actually..I find it funny that more people don't and that its considered a good date activity. I want to go and watch the movie..not have some guy trying to talk to me or feel me up during it...well if we've been seeing each other for awhile..lol sure. I go out alone all the time, not to…

That sucks..but if this is your first crappy date, and first douch bag..wow..I can count on my fingers and toes a few times over the douch bags I've had first meetings with. But I guess I just wasn't screening to well before lol. You'll have another good guy soon interested I'm sure.

I do know..more and more each man I date and it doesn't work out lol. But seriously, I have an idea of what I find attractive, as well as I know my deal breakers. I think for me its becoming more obvious that I'm mainly interested in assertive, masculine man..not a jerk, still a gentleman but someone who goes after what he…

Haha, see you did get to your computer before I did after all. Thanks for the coat complement.. And Carl is a sweetheart! and a gentleman as we all know :) Thanks for going out of your way to meet me.

:happy: Looking forward to it!

Thanks Anna! I love lace, just ordered a dress online that I'm so excited about but now its on back order :(. I say for sure get a bra to match the dress..I think lace = sexy + classy.

I like lace, and I have one that is black lace with a nude background..love it. Better than the normal boring bra's I'm stuck with because of my awkward size. I think color depends on what will look best on individual skin tone.

You are a mystery to me lol I'm not sure why you are haven't made some guy a great status symbol yet hehe.

Welcome to my life since 2010 lol. So what does a man who is all about looks want in a woman..aside from sex? I mean does she serve any other purpose? Do you want a relationship..and if you do why? just for the regular sex? Or do you actually want to know her mind eventually..Sounds like Mike as other people he seeks out…

Lmao.. So what about is girls who like to talk..and have sex..and have inner beauty but don't look like a barbi doll and never will....we can just go grab a B.O.B and have a meaningful relationship with it?

Wow, I mean WOW, So did she tell you what the initial date was like? About why she didn't want to have a second date with him? Did his "crazy" show on the date before the email?