libtex

All of the questions you are asking us, you should probably be asking her. I have been with my wife for 33 years. Our relationship has always been open. This has not been about pursuing a swinging lifestyle it has been about not owning each other and not setting limits in our relationship. Forays beyond monogamy have been…

Okay, our "as long as he knows how to use it" folks, I hope that you realize that you cannot use it the same on two different women...usually. Build up, location, pressure, speed and pattern (what am I missing) are all unique for each woman. Which, of course, means that the key, as always, is communication, both the man's…

I'm impressed. I was in great shape in college but it was not due to deep thought. It was an accident of being young and active. Even though I studied philosophy and thought about the mind body duality, I tended to take health and agility for granted.

The arousal issue is interesting. Men and women come to arousal very differently. Men, who tend to have fewer shame issues, are often less dependent on arousal. Arousal creates the desire for sex. If there are issues of shame, as our culture tends to instill, arousal is not just about creating desire, it is about creating…

Perhaps more to the point a good technician knows how to use all HER tools. Some times she needs the precision of a trim hammer and sometimes she needs the power of a sledge hammer. Seldom do you find both those tools stored in the same box.

\For me the issue would be less the fetish and more about the framework of communication and acceptance in the relationship. For me there are two key issues here. 1) you have to be able to be open about who you are. This is currently an aspect of who you are that is locked away and largely unexplored. A relationship should…

Interesting article. It seems that the author may have brought some archaic baggage to it. The image of a tapestry lined love grotto of a demure monogamous woman has an appeal for her but I doubt that it matches much of reality. Her critique of modern pornography leaves out the crucial issue that it provides sexual…

I have been married for 32 years. It has been a strange and ever evolving trip.

I am also a liberal Texan. So how do you translate an interest in healthy politics into a healthy lifestyle?