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  • Wash/change mine about every month, unless they have gotten dirty before that.
  • My girlfriend has told me since day one that she would leave me for Jennifer Lawrence if the opportunity ever came up.
    in Girl Crush Comment by grum84 August 2013
  • I have quite a few females friends, several who are very close and have been that way for quite a while. I would never ditch my female friends because a gf wanted me to. I prefer to just introduce my gf to my friends, and usually they all become friends with each other. If someone wanted to dictate who I could and couldn't…
  • Wow, a totally new person. I wouldn't have believed your before and after are both of you.
  • I actually re-installed WoW recently and activated the 7 day 'please come back to us' offer. I played for about 2 days, and there were just way too many changes that had occurred since the Burning Crusade expansion. I loved the game back then and knew it all. Now it was just way too much to relearn and just don't have the…
  • No, way too f*ed up in the head and no physical attraction really isn't good. I wonder sometimes what the hell my gf is thinking.
  • I know that I still flirt a bit while being in a relationship. There isn't really anything behind it, just flirting that doesn't lead anywhere. I find it fun with certain people. I would imagine that my gf flirts too, but when we are around each other we don't. That would just come off as disrespectful imo.
  • I have my happy days and my leave me the *kitten* alone days. These are totally independent of weight. Overall I would say I am pretty happy with my life in general and where I am at. Although I would definitely say I am not happy with myself. I think that for a lot of people on here that I have met, if their self…
  • Same thing here Cesar. As I am looking to move out of Michigan, I really don't think I want to start a relationship that could turn into something that stops me. So I am actually considering now maybe a FWB, as when I am ready to go, I can just go. I confess that I am still not sure tho if I could actually not develop…
  • I wouldn't really say that I have a problem getting a date (whether it be from online or offline dating). However online dating really opened my eyes a bit. The type of girl I would most like to see myself with, was not the type of girl that was checking out my profile. I would send messages and never even get a view. I am…
  • I just have always left the body type blank. Granted I may get missed in searches that eliminate 'body type'. But I have a couple of full body pictures. So anyone can see my body shape and decide for themselves. I am really athletic, but don't fit 'athletic' being overweight. But didn't like 'overweight' because of how…
  • Wow, that is an interesting response. I guess I am guilty of dating many people in order to find one that is really suitable and compatible with me. I have dated more women than I have test driven cars, that is for sure. Of course I look at a car as a semi-short term investment, and look at settling down with the right…
  • To turn this around from a guys perspective, I wouldn't make any large purchases (house, car, cell phone even) with a woman who was just separated and not divorced. On a side note, I was with a separated women (1 year apart) and she still ended up going back to her husband. So I am probably biased and jaded anyways.
    in Would you? Comment by grum84 April 2013
  • I don't know the type of area that you are in, but for me, I have had success with meetup groups (meetup.com). I just joined a few groups of varying interests and try to attend those. The people in them vary in age and single status, but at least we have some common interests rights off the bat. Example...played trampoline…
  • You have scored 29 points. Yeah, that pretty much sums it up for me. On a side note, I also took the 'Self Esteem' quiz that I saw after taking this test. It was right on sadly enough. SCORE 20-30 A score at this level indicates that you lack confidence in your appearance and your self-confidence is shaky. You may not be…
  • Just to preface...I didn't read through the 2 pages of back/forth responses yet. If I am texting friends/gf's, then that means I am probably doing something else that makes me busy enough to not just call and hold a convo with them. So with my friends/gf, I will leave conversations without a 'sign off'. Of course I don't…
  • Lol, now you see where I was coming from. It is a slippery slope. Have to find a way to say: I love having sex. Everything works great down there. I could get you pregnant, but don't want to. I am not a pedophile. My genes aren't great, so just don't want to pas them on. Now...how are you?
  • Just want to give a bit of love to Ann Arbor, MI where I am from. Go Blue in the final 4.
  • Thank you Danielle, glad I wasn't the only one that took that last line straight to the gutter. No offense intended at all, just where my head goes.
  • Now there is a job that I think I would find fulfilling and enjoyable. Need to start looking for ads from women posting for this.
  • So I will be perfectly honest here since I don't know any of you in person anyways. TMI warning! I am on the smaller side of average, but with average girth. I quickly realized porn would not be in my future as a career. But to compensate for it, I have learned that the tongue and fingers are such a great extension of the…
  • So I am a single guy, and due to certain genetic predispositions in my family tree, I really don't want to pass on my genes. However, I love kids (I coach youth sports, volunteer to work with them at church, special olympics, etc) and want to have the whole family unit. I had thought about joining one of these sights in…
  • About 300 pounds when I started/finished last fall. Will be starting again this spring and back up to almost 300. I could definitely feel it on my body as I lost weight, but nothing like making it hard on myself.
  • Couch 2 5K program. I hated running with a passion. My girlfriend at the time and I signed up for a 5k to try out. I did the whole C25K program and ran my first 5k last year. Still hate running, but I find by signing up for races it gives me some motivation to actually run when I don't want to, since the girlfriend is gone.
  • That is what I was imagining. Either that or just a pic that is overtly sexual in nature.
  • Tonight: Going away party for a coworker Saturday: Volunteering at an Easter Egg Hunt all morning and into the afternoon. Then maybe a singles party tomorrow night, but unsure of that as of now. Sunday: No plans other than church in the morning. So will be finishing my taxes, laundry, dishes, all that fun, boring stuff…
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  • I confess that we have never been formally introduced. Hi, how you doin'?:tongue:
  • I was told recently by an ex that I was her 'one that got away'. She said I did things for her that nobody has been able to match yet, but she was crazy. And I have one too, though who knows how things would have actually worked out had we stayed together. I did an internship during college down in Kansas City, MO. We…
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