MzRawkqueen

I think you need to vary your weight lifting to give your body time to recover. Do arms one day and then legs another and incorporate core in each :)

Hotness is a balanced combo of looks and personality.

I think it depends what type of work you are looking for!!

Holy poop, good on ya! I agree, dancing is fun, but you would have to Zumba, which will make you sweat like crazy. Shaking your butt while cooking up a storm in the kitchen won't melt the pounds.

For the longest time I hated being single, Until I took a trip by my onesies to Costa Rica (surf camp!) Then I LOVED being single. I'd go out for dinner and get whatever I want. I can do whatever I want without checking in with someone to let them know I'd be home late, etc. It's a wonderful time to be selfish. But now I…

You can't walk to 50 minutes girl, you gotta SWEAT! I walk over an hour a day and that's just to work and back. I also don't count that as working out. Have a solid crazy burn workout, or do the bum wiggle walk to really up that heart rate. Also, why not lower your loss rate to .5 lbs a week and see if that helps. Or just…

When I was heavier, I was still getting hit on majorly by guys - shallow and decent. And the guys haven't changed now that I'm thinner.. It really has nothing to do about size! A guy who is not attracted to a 'fat' gal probably has over the top demands anyway, which makes him a *kitten* not worth dating! One guy told me I…

I've dated around Toronto and am convinced that the people in this city just aren't for me. Pretty much all the guys I meet are stuck on their ex's, or there is simply no chemistry, which can't be blamed at all. Still, it is of course very frustrating. I've resorted to speed dating and online dating and finally was matched…

I am totally going to try this out!!

Cliffy I can relate. My ex fiance was very verbally abusive. There are a couple surefire ways to grow confidence. Note that it does take time to get back to yourself. It took me a year! So first, you must have patience. Second, surround yourself with only positive, loving people. I also went to see a therapist - just once…

1. I have INCREDIBLY stinky feet. 2. I have a suitcase full of make-up and perfume 3. I often don't wear make-up 4. Eating chicken off the bone really grosses me out. 5. I LOVE ribs.

I've dated rich boys and poorer ones. Guys who were 300lbs and those who even weighed less than me. Preps and stoners; rockers and rollers. Even a couple dads. All the guys I have been interested in, weren't intersted in me and vice versa. Finding that special chemistry is really tough. (It eludes me, actually.) Looking by…

You handles that so eloquently! Good for you. I'm sure she feels way worse.

Don't cry, girl. You will only dissuage yourself from your goals. Remember you are beautiful and have your husband's love and support!

When a guy told me I needed to lose weight to date him. After we had already slept together. Nice.

I integrate portions of the Insanity workout when I feel I am at a plateau and need an extra kick. I am way too tired from those workouts to keep it up on a daily basis, but it's great to break up my usual weight training/cardio routine. I also love the Plyo workout in the P90X series and use that one to break up my…

Girl that is so tough! Good on ya for keeping on. And for surviving the stress of four weddings! *Inspired* :)

Heya! I'm 29 - a bit older than most of you on here, but I know how to have fun. ;) Feel free to add me!

I had Mirena inserted back in November and had to have it removed a week later. My body just rejected it. VERY badly. I was writhin in pain for an hour at the gyno's office before I could go home. I have migraines with halo's once in a while, so the IUD was suggested as a safer option than the Pill. Thankfully, all I had…