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Were we somehow in the same meeting??? Only difference is I added "Why the hell am I still here?" to mine.

Have come back after several years of trying the whole "ignore it and hope it goes away" method of weight loss. Feel free to add me, definitely could use a good set of accountability partners again. Recently started running again in the hopes that someday I'll be able to knock out my first marathon (I was so close back in…

YES! You hit the nail on the head, I think I'm allergic at this point! lol

Yup it sure does!

The Blob (and that's not a weight crack...the blob is slow moving, all consuming and filled up all empty spaces...just like my ex :s )

Couldn't have put it any better if I'd tried! Ditto!

Personally, if it was me, if you can't really afford a cheat day because of type of diet you're on, tell me upfront about it and I would work around it. If the guy has a real problem with it, then he probably wasn't the right one anyhow. I mean you don't want to end up in a serious relationship with someone who is going to…

Great post, I needed that reminder...yep I'm in!

The only good thing though is that unlike women, men are totally OK with you looking somewhere other than our faces...you'll never hear us say "Hey my eyes are up here!" LOL Sorry...couldn't resist... On a more serious note though it's amazing how much reading stuff like that effects your view of things...in any area. I…

Nothing to apologize for, I can understand how it would be a tender subject. I do understand it from both sides I guess. I know I didn't get "noticed" either when I was up around 220 (funny thing to me is that I look SO much younger without the weight...that was an unexpected benefit...first thing I get when I talk about…

Yikes is that why he is an ex now??? I guess you have to give him some small amount of credit for honesty, but still...

I'm single because well...I'm not really sure why. Have had a year-long relationship that ended 6 months ago for reasons that I'm not entirely sure of (and neither is she though fortunately we're still really good friends). Have had several great starts to relationships that inexplicably ended after an awesome first or…

Now look what you did, you scared all the crickets away! sigh

You've made plans with one of your best friends to spend Thanksgiving with her...won't be a lie, I'm sure you are one of your best friends! lol I get the wanting to spend a holiday or just SOME time alone. I had the kind of thing with my daughter back in the day and while I loved her to death, sometimes...we needed some…

lol sorry but the "doing reconnaissance" made me picture you in camo with a bunch of spy gear...hiding in the bushes, etc. (think I need to eat, my brain is just not right at the moment lol)

John from Port Huron, MI...single and thought I'd shout out in the midst of the sound of crickets here...lol B)

Having been through it recently I completely agree with the waiting until at least the divorce is complete (and maybe longer). I made the mistake of starting what ended up being a serious relationship when I'd just gotten through my divorce and she was in the middle of hers...while it was a great relationship while it…

Yeah they really need to do something about that...notifications when something you comment on gets a comment, anything! lol

Welcome and chilly here in Detroit today! :neutral_face:

Speaking for all of the old(er) guys out there...that isn't bad at all! haha

LOL OK OK maybe it just isn't women that are confusing. Maybe it isn't so much gender-based as people that have a screw loose. Whatever the case, I've moved on from mine. Not sure what the issue is/was and it is a bit of shame since the first (and only) date was so much fun (I've contacted her a couple times since then but…

Um...wow! So when are you two kids going out on a date? LOL He's an obvious winner there, you can't pass up this opportunity you know! hahaha

I sympathize with the abracadabra poof they're gone thing...just happened with the girl I was seeing...no explanation, no fight or anything like that...just "poof". And @Jennifer10723 I really really hope it still can happen like that at any stage of life (I honestly think it can...just requires finding the right person I…

Added you :smile:

Rebel yell - Billy idol

Can't you be both? lol Just kidding, that's a valid point...even if I did end up in a serious relationship I think I'd stick arthinound in the group. Not if I was married though, that's not a conversation I would want to have with my spouse "why are you in a Singles group?" "Uh...I thought I could still chat with my…

Single here too...went on a great date Friday night but not sure where that's going yet. If you'd asked me after Friday night I would've said that my singleness looked like it was coming to an end, but she's been kind of standoffish since then...we'll see I guess. Whatever the case I had a lot of fun so it was worth it…

Wow...very nice! You definitely don't look or act your age from what I see! :smiley: Both are very good things though! lol

Awesome, congratulations! Have a great time! B)

This made me think of one good thing about the distance here or even in the last couple relationships I was in...if it doesn't work out, you don't have to worry about running into them at the store or gas station or whatever. It doesn't sound like that big of a deal, but not having to see them with a new SO (or vice versa)…