grangerka Member

Thanks everybody for the advice. Here it is - Monday again - I'm feeling much better and (almost) ready to make a decision ;)

This is very true. oh god, I wish it was an easy decision. It's impossible to take out the relationships and other people in general from this type of dilemma!

That's what my rational side is telling me to do! screaming even.

Fair point but: yes - unless there's a counter offer - the benefits are seriously better. There's possibly more prospects in the new place but it's not going to be easy.

I think it may come and this will make my decision even harder.

Nicely put!

PS. I think I have one too....

I had to google foo-pa.... so innocent!

Nah, I'd feel like in granny knickers. Although, they do look nice on the models. only.

This is my problem too. I can be good for days and one night out makes my body look poofy and horrible. It disheartens me no end. In my all or nothing mentality (I know I know!) I can see all my efforts ruined. It usually takes me another few days to get to grips. Like today. It's my day 1 again. I wish I could stay…

Seems like a good idea! Apparently fluctuating your kcals helps in boosting metabolism too - your body gets used to the same number of cals. I did something similar before my wedding - together with some heavy lifting it really worked. I wish I had the same motivation now ;)

I hear you!

Have you ever felt your weekend undoes all the hard work you put in over the week? It's a big thing for me. I guess I'm an emotional eater and I feel I relax more when I stuff my face. Sick twist on work hard play hard!

Thanks guys. I can't unbell the bells I guess. Yes, I'm staying focused today and I'll try to limit my intake to a little below my daily. I went to the gym yesterday and went pretty heavy - I guess extra carbs and sugars helped with that ha! - so I must recover today as well as get rid of the bloated belly! Back to work…

Thanks Ladies. I wish it was possible though! Maybe even a 3 kg will help. I'm about 8kg away from my favourite weight ;)

I'm 5'4 and my goal is 128, I'm at 136 and I can't shift those few pounds. Annoyed with myself! I think I'll look great at 128 :)

Just to give some perspective to those using/not using metric system I'm 136 pounds and want to be 127. :ohwell: