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Losing weight and men looking at you - bringing up fears.
I don't know about anyone here, but my weight really protected me from men. In my head, and physically I had a layer to protect me from their advances. It helped to a point - I mean, I got married, divorced and married again while fat so obviously fat doesn't = ugly, but I felt protected from sexual advances. Now I am 155.…
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NSV's
My husband lifted me up off the floor for the first time ever last night! And even jumped up and down! I have always felt bad sitting on his lap or leaning on him but no worries anymore. We found out because I lifted him up (he weighs 210 and is muscular, I work as an aide and reguarly transfer an obese lady alone) to…
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Looking for friends? Advertising myself here -
My name is Kate and I am 28 years old. About me: I have a daughter who is 5 and I just got married in January (my second [read:last] marriage). I moved from England to America when I was 19. I am a caregiver. I work in a personal care home and as a home health aide. The home health aide is sedentary work one on one…