OMG ~ Discussions Starting 1-11-16 and Beyond
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Patti- One more thing, does Joann's have to send out daily emails? Geez, I like getting the coupons but getting so many emails is ridiculous. I know this is not your control, but the advertising is crazy.
Karla0 -
Survived my first shift at the register. Had a totally "duh" moment this morning. Thought I worked 9-2 today and tomorrow, I actually work 10-3! Sat it the break room reading a magazine until 10. Will not make that mistake again. Only had one real mistake, closed register without giving change. Had to have a manager override to reopen the drawer. All in all, not as bad as I thought it would be. Working the register tomorrow and then back to the cutting counter where I feel safe, lol. Stopped by. Y son's on the way home to check progress on the kitchen, dining room and living room redo. It is really coming along, but lots to be done yet.asked Edd how long he would be working and his response was "I'll be here all year!" I am itching to get to my watercolors but afraid to start.
Patti0 -
hi Ladies-
yesterday was business reading about the craft of writing and of course the blog post.
Patti- Meg is melting down- very homesick, lost and alone feeling so if the offer still stands I'll send you her contact information. Maybe you could meet her from lunch someplace? She really needs someone who is there for her- she's not making friends at this point and feels isolated.
Karla- I agree about a man's voice- lol
Janet- rest and do what you want- did you order take out- high protein and calcium are both top priorities for us all. -Dive into the watercolors- you can always buy more paper...
Suzi- did you enjoy the game
Diane- how is Carrie healing-
I've had some bad eating days- in part cuz nothing tasted good and I kept trying things to see if something would taste better- if you've ever done that you know its not a good thing.
But today- I'm on track again. Some days I'd like to give up- accept that I'm a girl with too much in the curvy department - but then i think about where i carry the weight and remind myself about the health risks. Sigh
I have a new goal- after attending my writers meeting on Saturday I was inspired.
- I want to be financially independent and a full time writer in 5 years.
So need to run but I'll see you all later.
Cindy0 -
Cindy, absolutely give Meg my info and I will be happy to meet her. I know she must really miss home and family. I will do whatever I can. I hate it when I eat all kinds of things and nothing tastes good. I learned that if I stop and ask myself "what is it you really want?" I can hopefully stop the grazing by having a small amount of what I am craving. Usually it is something I probably shouldn't have but for some reason it is in the house, like chips or ice cream cones, lol. If I don't have what I crave in the house I try to go to my craft room for distraction. Funny how I am never hungry there. I don't take food in my craft room.
Sorry no other personals, need to leave for work in 5.
Patti0 -
Mornin' y'all! A bit of upset tummy last night and this morning so I skipped yoga. Not bad, just enough that I didn't think it was a good idea to flip myself upside down and inside out while in a crowd.
Cindy - are y'all in the storm path for this next biggie blowing into the northeast?
Patti - at least you got to work an hour early instead of an hour late!
Karla - I'll put my thinking cap on and try to come up with some discussion topics and challenge suggestions. Would you like to have them posted here?
Shower time. I'll yack later,
Suzi0 -
Thanks Patti-
Suzi we've had two storms since Thursday and a ton of snow and heavy wind at the moment. So not fun here in the great northeast.
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Hello, friends - Tummy is a bit weird today. Think I will toss the rest of the pizza I ordered Saturday - it tasted good for three meals over the weekend but I'm over it now. Got my cast cover delivered so am going to cross my fingers & have a shower in a bit, with new pjs after.
Not feeling too chatty today.
Cindy, I bet you will achieve your goal sooner than five years hence. Wish I could hve your weather! If I rulled the world, I'd let everybody donate their winters to me in exchange for my summers - physically and psychologically horrible months for me.
Patti, the more you can do around there, the more flexibility they're likely to give you during cabin season. Brava!
Suzi, sorry/not sorry abut the Ws/Thunder game. I did feel bad for Russell - such a great player but without KD and Serge Ibaka, it's tough sledding. But I heart my guys and the most wonderful Steve Kerr (not to mention - sigh - Bruce Fraser, who is just great to look at).
Karla, did you get to the parades or was JJ still too sick to make it? I put "The People vs. OJ" onto my Netflix list for later. I've also heard that the new version of "One Day at a Time" is terrific. But first I must start "The Crown" and a few other things.
Bert, do you have some YOU time built into your busy week? I know it's early but hope Mike will settle into retirement happily. Once it gets nicer out, you will both have fun (and I hope no major pool woes this year).
Guess I should wish you all a happy Valentine's Day, though it's one of my least favorite days of the year (and was even when I was part of a couple. Today I got the sweetest card from my best guy friend. Still, those who brag about their romanitc evenings, flowers & gifts make me feel like my nose is being rubbed in my singlehood because VD has been bad for me since childhood - I was the one who tended to get the mean, passive-aggressive cards in my box at school - and bright red doesn't look great on me either! I guess I'm just private about things and while I am deeply and truly happy for my friends, feeling marginalized makes me sad. So, eeveryone, enjoy for me and know how happy I will be when it's over and I can get on with the fun of having both nieces' birthdays this week!0 -
Good Afternoon, Ladies. I've been MIA as I had the stomach flu over the weekend. I'm still worn out, but at least my stomach isn't flip-flopping any more. I'll catch up with you later.
Bert0 -
It was a busy day at work. I had to work between the register,cutting counter and the stock room. Truck brought lots of fabric so me and anther lady were given the task of unpacking, racking and putting it away. But also had to run to wherever they needed us when the lines got long. Long day but got lots done. I mentioned to the manager that come summer I would drop back to 2 or 3 shifts a week with no weekends. She said that was no problem, they definitely don't want me to quit for the summer and rehire at the holidays. So I can relax on that front.
Janet, I feel the same way about VD. I was the one that got few cards in my box as a kid and the ones I got weren't nice ones. I was not popular and with me getting pregnant when I was 15 I was pretty much an outcast and of course, no boyfriends. Edd and I have never celebrated what we both call Hallmark holidays, so it will pass as any other day.
Bert and Suzi, hope you are both feeling better quickly.
Time to chill and think about what to fix for dinner
Patti0 -
Bert, hope you feel much better soon. Please rest and let Mike take care of the house - and you!
Patti, what a relief to know that you'll be able to pull back at work without worrying about having to go through the whole cycle again. You are a model employee and working even 2-3 shifts a week this summer will keep your skills sharp. Happy for you!
Going to try that shower now - wish me luck!0 -
Hello all - stomach flu has plagued our house since Friday - first John on Friday and Saturday, Carrie yesterday and me today. I ache all over. Hope I am feeling up to taking Carrie for a new cast tomorrow - this one has gotten very loose as her leg muscles shrink to nothing. John is working a full day tomorrow.
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Well my sick friends, I'm having a colonoscopy tomorrow so while I don't have the flu, I have stomach issues! What a way to spend VD day huh? Lol.
Patti and Janet - so sorry it wasn't your day back as a kid.. I don't really have much memories about it. I was a pretty and popular girl and always had lots of boyfriends, but still don't recall a lot of Valentine cards and such. Lol.
Glenn is taking me for the test in the morning and then dropping me off afterwards at my BFF's house. She was in an auto accident last Friday and can't drive, so we are just going to hang out and Netflix. Lol. Glenn will come back and pick me back up after.
Well, I have to go drink my jug. Wish me luck.
Karla0 -
Good morning ladies. Geez, that prep was awful last night. The positive side effects though is my weigh in this morning has me down to 191.2. We all know that it is because I am completely empty and possibly dehydrated, but I will enjoy it while I can and try and keep it down. LOL.
We are getting ready to leave for the hospital now. I will keep you apprised afterwards of any findings. I didn't have any polyps or issues in 2011, and don't anticipate any now, but one never knows, thus is why we have these screenings.
Karla0 -
Good luck, Karla! The colonoscopy is no problem - but the prep is just cruel. Enjoy your hangout with your friend.
Did get a shower - logistics were a bit daunting & scary and somewhat painful but gosh, it felt divine! I want to try running a few errands - probably tomorrow. Pulling the scooter in after me will be a bit of a challenge but I will figure it out.
Have a great day, all - and please be kind to the non-coupled.0 -
Good Morning, Ladies. Happy Valentine's Day. I'm watching the grandkids this afternoon/evening while Greg takes Carrie to get their taxes done and then out to eat for dinner. I don't know whether or not Mike will go with me (his choice of course) since he's retired now, but will see. I'm off to the gym this morning for a PT to show me some new exercises to help spark up my routines! Have a great day, everyone! I sure am glad the stomach flu is over. I hope it doesn't hit Mike.
Bert0 -
Good morning everyone and happy Valentine's Day, I try to think of this day as another chance to count the people in my life that bring me joy and you all are included when I count my blessings. My usual Tuesday happenings- mom and the gym. Chinese fish packets for dinner and then 3 hours of quality tv time with Edd, unless he goes to the son's to work on drywall at the son's house. Feb 24-26 is employee appreciation and we get an extra 30% off all merchandise. So I am starting my shopping list. I need good watercolor brushes, palette with lid and fabric to make the Snow White apron, may also get some paper crafting supplies. Hope to not spend my whole paycheck. This will be my first time buying anything, it has been a struggle, lol.
Karla, fingers crossed that all goes well. When I did the prep the hardest part was drinking all that stuff, the after affects weren't as awful as I had thought they would be. Need to schedule mine for this year.
Janet, hope the next shower is less stressful and painful but I know it must have felt like a bit of heaven to you.
Bert, have fun with the grands and glad your flu is over.
Diane, how awful to have that flu go through the house when so much is going on. Hope everyone is well soon.
Cindy, thinking of you and hope Meg reaches out to me. Let her know if she doesn't feel comfortable with first contact I will be happy to open that door first.
Time to scoot
Patti
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Hi, all - Patti, you've been the model of restraint! When I worked in a music store in college, a chunk of every paycheck stayed there.
Bert, have fun with the kids! Glad you're feeling better.
Cindy, hope work isn't too much of a bear this week. Do you get next Monday off? I will gladly drive up to meet Meg in a few months.
I've been forgetting to give you a TV recommendation: "Spy in the Wild" on PBS is astonishing. Two episodes have aired (just started the second one). Unprecedented look at the culture and behavior of a wide range of animal species. The intelligence and compassion you see will make you laugh, think and cry. Really cry. It's just amazing stuff.0 -
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Hello all. I'm taking a slow day today to recover. Poor Carrie was so nauseous this morning in the car she had me come home and not go up to Baltimore to get a new cast. Will try again tomorrow. And my son texted me that he and his wife are in the ER because she hasn't been able to keep any food or water down since Saturday night - dangerous in a pregnant woman.
Suzi, I skipped the gym yesterday and today too. Tummy is still a bit tender. I'm making a nice beef stew for dinner, hoping that will tempt us all into eating something. I'm thinking Carrie's continuing problem is partially rooted in eating so little the last few days and still taking pain meds.
Karla, by now I hope you are done with your procedure with no bad news and no ill effects - I agree the prep is the worst part.
Janet, yay for a shower! I'm sure you feel much more human. Hope you can work out what was scary and painful and improve for the next time.
Patti, I can't believe your restraint! Our Joann's here is a very small one - very little in the crafts department, certainly no watercolor supplies. There is a large one about 50 minutes away, but I don't go there much.
Bert here's hoping Mike decides to go to dinner with you! I'm still trying to work out how retirement is supposed to work - give him some time.
Cindy, I have several friends who are full time writers - they are columnists and blog writers primarily. You might consider taking on some of that as a supplement to your novel writing.
My weight was down 3 pounds from Sunday, but I'm sure that won't stick!
No Valentine's day plans here - we don't do much for those Hallmark type holidays.0 -
Hello All-
Valentines Day isn't just for lovers- it is to remind us to give love and accept it in return. So on behalf of St Valentine- remember you are loved.
Now- its been a weird week so far- I've decided to totally revamp my website- it is my store front and I wouldn't go in a browse- so I'll let you know when it looks pretty and maybe you can take a look. I'd love your feedback.
Patti- I'll let Meg know if she doesnt' feel comfortable you'll call her.
Janet- Ah a shower- simple pleasures
Diane- sorry the whole family has the bug- get well soon
Bert- and you too- my goodness.
Karla- and you with a colonoscopy- WOW- we're all into something.
Need to run- but wanted to check in.
Hugs-
Cindy0 -
Yea, we are quite a crew, I am fine, no polyps and just dealing with the queasy bubbly stomach now. Glenn has been quite the dear. We exchanged simple bags of joy. Just little tidbits of things we enjoy. A new Suduko book, his fav candies and some silk boxers for him. He bot me some SF candies, an Eifel tower jewelry holder, a gold necklace and such a beautiful loving card. He took me out to Cracker Barrel for Breakfast after the procedure since I was famished.
Janet - Glad you are refreshed. Caleb is growing up too fast!!!
Diane - My your family has been through the mill. Thank goodness you are available to be there for you and Carrie. Beef stew sound good and comfort foodish.
Cindy- I will definitely go to your site and give my praise.
Patti - I know you and your Mom had a grand time.
We all need to get well!!
Karla0 -
TRX got cancelled so I had extra time to spend with. My mom. I bought her some pretty pink and purple flowers to brighten her day. When I was in the store buying the flowers a young boy, about 6 came up to me, tapped my leg and said Happy Valentine's Day the. Handed me a little 3x3 card that was stamped with the sentiment and a few hearts. It punt a smile on my face that has lasted all day. Edd is off doing drywall duty until time for our shows. So dinner plans changed to whatever I want. I do have an Italian beef going in the pressure cooker, so he can have that for dinner later or we will have it tomorrow. Working 9-2 tomorrow and really need to get th grocery after work.
Sounds like everyone is on the mend and so happy to hear that Karla's test was clear.
Patti0 -
Hi Girls-
We had a nice relaxed dinner for a change last night- I overate but concentrated on protein and veggies. It was delicious and not a place we go often.
i started working on my website today- so I'll let you know when the grand unveiling happens. Stay tuned.
Right now its super blah.
Patti- the little boy has the right idea- so darn cute too
Karla- glad all is fine with your innards now.
Where is everyone today?
I'm going with my friend who's husband just passed from ALS to an Indian place for dinner. Rick was invited by declined. She really is looking for something normal to do- so I'm happy to oblige, She is a sweet woman who still has to go through a hip replacement as before her hubby passed she fell and broke her hip and its never healed. Her surgery is 3/21
but back to work
Cindy0 -
Sure is quiet here today. Strange work day. Few customers, so I spent most of my time learning the store. Translated that means putting things away that customers leave all over the place and seem to end up at the cutting counter. It was a good workout and now I know more about where to find things. Now doing a little housekeeping and have an easy dinner planned, Italian beef over baked potato with a sid of steamed broccoli.
Cindy, my heart goes out to your friend, so happy you are providing her with some "normal"
Patti0 -
Hello all. Tummies slowly getting back to normal at our house. DIL got IV fluids at the ER then they sent her home - still can't keep anything down. I took Carrie to Baltimore today and she got a new cast. Her old one had gotten very loose as the swelling went down. This time they had colors! She opted for purple. The healing of the surgical site looks good, but her foot around her toes is still swollen.
I'm going to try going back to the gym tomorrow, then I have a lunch date with some of my old work friends, then an appointment to drop my clothes off at Dress for Success. So it will be a busy day of running around. Hopefully I'll get a few more steps - I've been only getting around 5k the last week (but still more than 20 flights while I run up and down for Carrie all day!).
Cindy, have a good time with your friend. I know for my sister (divorce not death) finding friends to have a social life with made a huge difference for her. A church friend died from ALS not too long ago, and I know his widow went through the same thing.
Karla, glad your results were so good. I remember the only thing I wanted after mine was real food!
Patti, look at the putting away as more steps! I am thinking about what crafty thing I would like to get involved in. Wish there was a decent place here to take a few lessons in something.
Janet, I must have cross posted with you when you were posting Caleb's photo. What a cutie! Can't believe how big he is already.
Waving to Bert and MaryLynn.
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Hi, all. Not much to say today - got maybe three hours of sleep (awake 3:15-7:30) so planning to take Advil PM or something this evening and hope to stay asleep. Doing a few small things here - there's a box delivered today I can't get inside so cat sitter can bring it in tomorrow. It's a few new glasses- double-walled, to keep things hot or cold without sweating - I ordered on sale.
Cindy, so sorry about your friend's husband's passing. Indian food sounds wonderful. A good friend has had both hips replaced and though it's not fun, it's much less awfu than it was even a few years ago.
Patti, nice to have some uncrowded time at the store to learn more and take time putting things away. Retail is an endless job of putting things back where they belong - so many customers don't respect the merchandise the way we would.
Diane, glad things are settling down with everyone's digestive systems.
Karla, hope your tummy is calm after the colonoscopy.
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Hi ladies- it took me most of yesterday to get over that colon cleansing!! Geez that really made me weak! I could barely stand for for than five minutes even into the evening. I am all better today though.
Diane- You are sounding more chipper. Carrie is picking bright colors. Your DIL received her some fluids, so maybe you all are on the mend. I'm bet you will enjoy seeing your old comrades.
Patti- That was good news about the store working around your summer schedule.
Janet - I'm so glad you have such wonderful helpers nearby. Definitely take you some sleep aid as you know it affect the healing process if you do not get enough sleep.
Cindy- You are such a great friend. Have you been back to the counselor yet this year? What will Rick and you do about the camp site this year I wonder? Of course, that is a ways off. I pray he comes to his senses and sees what a prize he has.
I am going to lay down and keep getting my rest. I worked for six hours today and that's about my quota. lol .
Karla
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Hi Girls-
My friend and I had a nice time and we'll do it again. We talked for over 90 minutes and the time flew.
Rick was quiet when I got home... so he goes to therapy today - hopefully she can make him see things in a different light.
I am still going every other week which is good for me.
We are still scheduled to open camp in May as we have the camper and spot reserved. I take each day as it comes.
If we end up going in separate directions - it will be what will be. If that makes any sense. I love my husband but I can't fix his issues and when he is unkind and mean it breaks my heart. So many sad stories but I took my vows seriously and it may come to where I have to say I just can't continue. I don't believe we're put on this earth to be treated poorly by our spouse. It is about respect and love, all the rest should follow. As my therapist said if he had cancer he would get treatment to get better- is he doing that with my mental illness? I thought it was a good point to ponder.
Glad everyone seems to be on the mend.
Need to run- hugs to all
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Just back from the gym, a kick butt session that just proves I need to be more consistent with my workouts. TRX tonight, hoping she doesn't cancel again. Car is still in the shop. Currently at the Mercedes dealer. They said that they cannot program the main computer if we didn't buy it from them, which is total bunk. My mechanic is looking into other options. But, unfortunately, his mother passed away on Monday. The shop is a family business so they will be closing to go to Youngstown for the services and family time. So everything is on hold until Monday at the earliest. Just a delay in paying the bill in. Y mind. Still hopeful it won't break my piggy bank. Thankful we have a backup car. If we didn't I would have to borrow mom's.
Cindy, what a great therapist you have. Her analogy is spot on. I also agree that you can love someone with all your heart but letting them hurt you is not healthy for you or the relationship. I pray he finds a way to grow to trust you and work on his inner demons too.
Patti
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Hello, friends!
Cindy, your therapist is wise. I tried a similar analogy with Tony when he steadfastly refused to even try therapy or medication. You treat high blood pressure or thyroid stuff and mental conditions are no different. Never worked on him (from me or his folks) but maybe something will turn the light bulb on in Rick's head. If he loses you, he loses a treasure. But you WILL not only survive but thrive, however things turn out.
Patti, sorry about your car woes - hope it's all fixed by convertible season (which is next week!) and doesn't cost a fortune.
Karla, glad you're past the rumbly grumblies from the colonoscopy.
Bert, loved the photo of you and Mike - you look beautiful and happy.
Suzi, how are the pups getting along now? Has Dinky made his peace with his wacky baby brother?
Diane, your camellias are confused - but beautiful. What a lovely, delicate color.
MaryLynn, has the shoveling stopped? Myra, how's that smile doing this week?
Made my first solo trip out since my surgery this morning. Did the order online/pick up at store grocery run at Walmart and it worked marvelously. Not a big Walmart fan but my Kroger doesn't have that service yet. I'll be getting my groceries this way for the next few months. So now I have a ton of fresh produce so I can get back on track. Yay!!!
I also went to the DMV and got my handicap placard. Two men who were just leaving there were kind enough to help me get my scooter out of the car (I collapsed the handle and pulled it in to rie shotgun) and others were kind enough to hold the door. A tiny girl with her dad was fascinated with the whole deal. So now I'm officially an old lady with a handicap placard, which feels a bit weird but it will be a real help. Also hit the bank and brought black bean soup and half a sandwich home from Panera to have for dinner & got pain pill prescription filled.
Wrestling the scooter in and out of the car isn't the easiest thing in the world, but I did it, twice. I won't be going too many places where I have to get out of the car but know I can drive myself to the doc from now on and can get food, cash, etc. When I need gas I will drive to Costco and ask the attendant to help. People are kind - not all of them, but every bit of simple human decency I received today made me grateful. It's small stuff, but important small stuff.
Going to take it easy - needed Percocet when I got home but that's OK. Hugs to all.0
