This November I Will ...
MadisonMolly2017
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Welcome!!
🍎 For information on achieving our goals through tiny habit changes, please Google “BF Fogg.” He has some very short talks < 3 minutes and longer interviews.
The bottom line, habits trump motivation. Tiny habits give us confidence in our ability to be successful in changing our behavior which leads to more tiny habits which then leads to success.
🍏 It's a brand new month! What's your favorite part of November?
What healthy habit would you like to work on this month? Is it something new or a continuation of your October focus? Whatever it is, let's dive in and make it happen!
🍐If you are new to our group, welcome! Please let us know what you will be working on and how we can help! Just a suggestion: set a reminder to check-in periodically with us. Check-in daily, weekly, or as often as works for you, but let us know how you are progressing! We're here to support and encourage you, but if you don't post, we can't cheer you on!
🍇You might frame your goal along these lines:
1. My goal for this month (This November I will...")
2. The small actions I’ll be taking to accomplish this goal
3. The trigger or cue to remember to do my habit
4. How often will you do your new habit (daily is best if possible)
5. What reward will you immediately give yourself for doing your habit? (Small positive feedbacks reinforce the habit you are trying to build.) An arm pump, saying “you did it! To yourself, stickers, hugging yourself...
6. What help do you need from us?
7. What does success look like to you at the end of November?
Optional:
Short form for tiny habits:
AFTER I ________________________
I WILL __________________________
Examples:
After I brush my teeth, I will floss one tooth.
After I drink my afternoon coffee, I will put on my walking shoes.
After I put away my breakfast dishes, I will prep 3 servings of vegetables for the day.
After I clean up after dinner, I will plan tomorrow’s dinner & move necessary items from freezer to refrigerator.
After I weigh myself in the morning, I will drink 2 cups of refreshingly cool water.
After I start my coffee brewing, I will stand on each leg for 30 seconds.
You get the idea!
#TinyHabitsWork
🍎 For information on achieving our goals through tiny habit changes, please Google “BF Fogg.” He has some very short talks < 3 minutes and longer interviews.
The bottom line, habits trump motivation. Tiny habits give us confidence in our ability to be successful in changing our behavior which leads to more tiny habits which then leads to success.
🍏 It's a brand new month! What's your favorite part of November?
What healthy habit would you like to work on this month? Is it something new or a continuation of your October focus? Whatever it is, let's dive in and make it happen!
🍐If you are new to our group, welcome! Please let us know what you will be working on and how we can help! Just a suggestion: set a reminder to check-in periodically with us. Check-in daily, weekly, or as often as works for you, but let us know how you are progressing! We're here to support and encourage you, but if you don't post, we can't cheer you on!
🍇You might frame your goal along these lines:
1. My goal for this month (This November I will...")
2. The small actions I’ll be taking to accomplish this goal
3. The trigger or cue to remember to do my habit
4. How often will you do your new habit (daily is best if possible)
5. What reward will you immediately give yourself for doing your habit? (Small positive feedbacks reinforce the habit you are trying to build.) An arm pump, saying “you did it! To yourself, stickers, hugging yourself...
6. What help do you need from us?
7. What does success look like to you at the end of November?
Optional:
Short form for tiny habits:
AFTER I ________________________
I WILL __________________________
Examples:
After I brush my teeth, I will floss one tooth.
After I drink my afternoon coffee, I will put on my walking shoes.
After I put away my breakfast dishes, I will prep 3 servings of vegetables for the day.
After I clean up after dinner, I will plan tomorrow’s dinner & move necessary items from freezer to refrigerator.
After I weigh myself in the morning, I will drink 2 cups of refreshingly cool water.
After I start my coffee brewing, I will stand on each leg for 30 seconds.
You get the idea!
#TinyHabitsWork
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Posting this here, too.
Hi Friends!
Thinking of this organization of discussions for November:
1. The “This November I Will” strand where you post how your “I Will” (aka tiny habit change) is going. Receive support & recognition.
2. The “November Social Strand” for chatting about gardening, free motion stitching, and life in general!
Of course, we also have the on-going discussions:
The 2020 Move It Monday Challenge
Declutterfest 2020 with a twist!
Etc!
Hopefully this will help us target our behavior changes & also enjoy the great social interactions that have formed in the group.
Also, less overwhelming for newcomers!
Best,
Maddie0 -
Hi! I’ll jump in first because I’m too excited to wait😃
1. My goal for this month: This November I will sit on or stand by a piece of my exercise equipment in my basement and visualize for 3 minutes.
2. The small actions I’ll be taking to accomplish this goal: Watch the clock and make sure I go downstairs before noon.
3. The trigger or cue to remember to do my habit: My other morning habits, I’ll just tack this one to them.
4. How often will you do your new habit: every single day that I’m home.
5. What reward will you immediately give yourself for doing your habit? (Small positive feedbacks reinforce the habit you are trying to build.) An arm pump, saying “you did it! To yourself, stickers, hugging yourself... : This is always hard because for me because the real reward is the feeling of success when I keep my promise to myself.
6. What help do you need from us? Be here and let me know that you’re working on your goals, too. And humor is always welcome😂
7. What does success look like to you at the end of November: I will be spending more time using my equipment and less time just wishing for results without doing any action!
I know this sounds super simple, but it’s supposed to be. One of my first goals (years ago) here was to stand in my sewing room for 1 minute every morning and visualize. Now it’s where I spend most of my days creating, learning, and working on a business plan. One tiny thing can snowball into something huge! And amazing!! Happy November 🦃5 -
Love that first photo, @MadisonMolly2017! For some reason, it makes me feel more optimistic.
I'm continuing my October goal to take all my medicine daily. I didn't do that great in October.
Also, I started keeping a list (somewhat sporadically) of things I accomplish each day, no matter how small. I'd like to do this daily since I often feel like I've done nothing. I think it helps to look back and see what I've done, no matter how small.3 -
This month I will focus on gratitude.Thanksgiving and the month I will turn 65 seems like a particularly good time to work on a habit I’ve been meaning to get to.
I’ve set up my tracker for November, but I haven’t settled on the artwork for it yet.
1. This November I will start the day thinking of at least one thing for which I’m thankful.
2. The small actions I’ll be taking to accomplish this goal - I will say one grateful thing before I get out of bed.
3. The trigger or cue to remember to do my habit - getting up
4. How often will you do your new habit - Daily
5. What reward will you immediately give yourself for doing your habit? Smile
6. What help do you need from us? Be my accountability posse 😊
7. What does success look like to you at the end of November? I’ll be more grateful and have a more positive attitude
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Love that first photo, @MadisonMolly2017! For some reason, it makes me feel more optimistic.
I'm continuing my October goal to take all my medicine daily. I didn't do that great in October.
Also, I started keeping a list (somewhat sporadically) of things I accomplish each day, no matter how small. I'd like to do this daily since I often feel like I've done nothing. I think it helps to look back and see what I've done, no matter how small.
Thank you! I took that last Thursday!! Anything that lifts our spirits now!
Please remind me, do you have two regular things you do (your triggers) that you can attach your AM & PM meds?
Do you tend not to take the AM or PM more often?
I use a series of alarms in my phone for AM & PM to remind me to take kidney saving & very important to be timed correctly meds. I set the first alarm 30 mins before, 2nd 15 mins before, and another 15 mins after. The early ones are so I can cook & eat (as directed) prior to taking the meds.
Have you considered small rewards? They help when the hurdle seems higher!
Best,
Maddie
P:S Sorry if I’ve mentioned these before.1 -
This month I will focus on gratitude.Thanksgiving and the month I will turn 65 seems like a particularly good time to work on a habit I’ve been meaning to get to.
I’ve set up my tracker for November, but I haven’t settled on the artwork for it yet.
1. This November I will start the day thinking of at least one thing for which I’m thankful.
2. The small actions I’ll be taking to accomplish this goal - I will say one grateful thing before I get out of bed.
3. The trigger or cue to remember to do my habit - getting up
4. How often will you do your new habit - Daily
5. What reward will you immediately give yourself for doing your habit? Smile
6. What help do you need from us? Be my accountability posse 😊
7. What does success look like to you at the end of November? I’ll be more grateful and have a more positive attitude
@77tes Perfecto! Consider jotting them down on a scrap of paper or the bottom of your tracker! The accumulation of them is really heart-warming!
💞Maddie
PS Happy Early Birthday! I’m following you in a few months!3 -
Hi! I’ll jump in first because I’m too excited to wait😃
1. My goal for this month: This November I will sit on or stand by a piece of my exercise equipment in my basement and visualize for 3 minutes.
2. The small actions I’ll be taking to accomplish this goal: Watch the clock and make sure I go downstairs before noon.
3. The trigger or cue to remember to do my habit: My other morning habits, I’ll just tack this one to them.
4. How often will you do your new habit: every single day that I’m home.
5. What reward will you immediately give yourself for doing your habit? (Small positive feedbacks reinforce the habit you are trying to build.) An arm pump, saying “you did it! To yourself, stickers, hugging yourself... : This is always hard because for me because the real reward is the feeling of success when I keep my promise to myself.
6. What help do you need from us? Be here and let me know that you’re working on your goals, too. And humor is always welcome😂
7. What does success look like to you at the end of November: I will be spending more time using my equipment and less time just wishing for results without doing any action!
I know this sounds super simple, but it’s supposed to be. One of my first goals (years ago) here was to stand in my sewing room for 1 minute every morning and visualize. Now it’s where I spend most of my days creating, learning, and working on a business plan. One tiny thing can snowball into something huge! And amazing!! Happy November 🦃
@nebslp
Awesome approach!! Just getting ourselves to those machines is most of the battle !!
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Maddie3 -
@MadisonMolly2017 , great idea about jotting them down. I’ll do that!3
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MadisonMolly2017 wrote: »Love that first photo, @MadisonMolly2017! For some reason, it makes me feel more optimistic.
I'm continuing my October goal to take all my medicine daily. I didn't do that great in October.
Also, I started keeping a list (somewhat sporadically) of things I accomplish each day, no matter how small. I'd like to do this daily since I often feel like I've done nothing. I think it helps to look back and see what I've done, no matter how small.
Thank you! I took that last Thursday!! Anything that lifts our spirits now!
Please remind me, do you have two regular things you do (your triggers) that you can attach your AM & PM meds?
Do you tend not to take the AM or PM more often?
I use a series of alarms in my phone for AM & PM to remind me to take kidney saving & very important to be timed correctly meds. I set the first alarm 30 mins before, 2nd 15 mins before, and another 15 mins after. The early ones are so I can cook & eat (as directed) prior to taking the meds.
Have you considered small rewards? They help when the hurdle seems higher!
Best,
Maddie
P:S Sorry if I’ve mentioned these before.
Thanks, Maddie! I appreciate the feedback.
I took all my meds and made my list today.
I guess my trigger is that I fill a clear, seven-day pill box once a week and leave it on the table where I should see it when I eat. I have a water glass right there too.
I'm supposed to take the medicine with food (breakfast and dinner), but my appetite has been very up and down lately.
I'd love some reward ideas. I think a weekly reward might be good to try.
For November, I think I'll just track on this thread (as long is it won't take up too much room):
11/1/20 = M 🌟, L 🌟1 -
1. My goal for this month - This November I will do strength/weight training every other day.
2. The small actions I’ll be taking to accomplish this goal - after dinner, I will get my weights out or drive to the gym.
3. The trigger or cue to remember to do my habit - don’t turn on tv till weights are done.
4. How often will you do your new habit - ever day after supper.
5. What reward will you immediately give yourself for doing your habit? - Stretching and adding this to my journal with a sticker.
6. What help do you need from us? Encouragement!
7. What does success look like to you at the end of November? A full month of workouts.4 -
@PKM0515 , I suggest you do something immediately after each time you take your meds rather than waiting until the end of the week. A prize at the end of the week might be a good incentive, but an immediate celebration will help cement the habit.
I struggle with celebrations, too. I tried a fist pump, and it felt weird. I decided I prefer a smile, but I try to remember to smile every time. B.J. Fogg suggests you test a bunch of different celebrations. I think he has a list of 100 ways to celebrate, but I couldn't find a link.
Good going on Day 1. I hit my gratitude goal today, too. I'm a little worried that I'll forget as I wake in a stupor. I might put a reminder of some kind on my bedside table, but I don't want to clutter it. Hmmm, still thinking.3 -
>>>🍏 It's a brand new month! What's your favorite part of November?<<<
Normally, I would say the long Thanksgiving weekend, but this year I don't know. Also, I usually go to a really nice craft fair the Friday or Saturday after Thanksgiving, but I don't think they are having it this year.
I'd like to come up with a new "tradition" I can do on my own. Maybe I will make a favorite casserole that my Mom used to make (it's a broccoli rice dish).3 -
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Well is my face red😡. I think I was scrolling and must have hit the disagree button by mistake. Sorry! I don’t know why they put that button on there in the first place🙄. If I disagree I’ll tell you...won’t be rude and just hit the button. I try not to be disagreeable😉6
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@nebslp I’ve done it myself, much to my horror. I will never post a disagree.
Agree position of button - and the whole concept- is rather uncool. 😎2 -
@MadisonMolly2017 and PKM0515 😊
@PKM0515 I think I will also post here daily for accountability as well. 3 min in workout room before noon= 💪🏻. I made a tracker that has daily, 3x/week, and 1x/week goals but it’s a bit much so I won’t post that right now. I used to feel like I didn’t get anything done, too. Keeping track pushed me to do so much more than I ever thought possible. It didn’t happen overnight, but now my days are more productive.
@goingape I think it’s starting to snowball for you already! Putting a sticker in your journal when meeting your new goal will reinforce your first one of writing every day😍 Great way to link them up!
@77tes what a great way to start your day! It will set the tone for whatever comes later. What about putting a picture of something/someone you love on your alarm and changing it out once in awhile?
@MadisonMolly2017 That picture is awesome!!! I didn’t realize photography was part of your artistic interests as well as mixed media, etc. That made me 😃.
November might be a tough month. My daughter and I are planning Zoom craft days with the kids (thank you for the idea, Maddie) to soften the blow of not having a traditional holiday. We have to find creative ways to stay connected during this social distancing time.3 -
Coming Attraction: more I Wills, I hope!!!1
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@MadisonMolly2017 and PKM0515 😊
@PKM0515 I think I will also post here daily for accountability as well. 3 min in workout room before noon= 💪🏻. I made a tracker that has daily, 3x/week, and 1x/week goals but it’s a bit much so I won’t post that right now. I used to feel like I didn’t get anything done, too. Keeping track pushed me to do so much more than I ever thought possible. It didn’t happen overnight, but now my days are more productive.
@goingape I think it’s starting to snowball for you already! Putting a sticker in your journal when meeting your new goal will reinforce your first one of writing every day😍 Great way to link them up!
@77tes what a great way to start your day! It will set the tone for whatever comes later. What about putting a picture of something/someone you love on your alarm and changing it out once in awhile?
@MadisonMolly2017 That picture is awesome!!! I didn’t realize photography was part of your artistic interests as well as mixed media, etc. That made me 😃.
November might be a tough month. My daughter and I are planning Zoom craft days with the kids (thank you for the idea, Maddie) to soften the blow of not having a traditional holiday. We have to find creative ways to stay connected during this social distancing time.
@nebslp wow, thank you, for your thoughts & comments.
I haven’t really thought of photography as a skill of mine, but your comment made me reflect & realize my iPhone has been a”game changer” & A class I’m taking has a photography component, so now I do recognize that as an art form of mine. What it lacks is the hands-on, non-digital aspect, but I have decided to broaden what I consider as “Making Art” I love growth!3 -
My November plan:
I looked over the things I track. I honestly asked myself if each one was an entrenched habit. I was left with 4 to practice to make more automatic.
G= guided meditations 🧘♀️
R= written reflections on my art (and sometimes emotions/day to day activities too) pen✍️
A= artmaking 👩🏻🎨
C= chat 👭
and I added E, exercise, 🥾 although already a habit to spell GRACE.
Just realized CHARM would be better
chatting, hiking, artmaking, reflecting , meditating
📞🥾👩🏻🎨✍️ 🧘♀️
Because these 5 things work like a charm for me ❤️
Nov 1 📞🥾👩🏻🎨✍️🧘♀️
0📞Son
0🥾-bay
0👩🏻🎨 sorting nature collection (class) & 📸,
1✍️yes
5🧘♀️yes (didn’t want to, but felt that deep inner alert, yet calm feeling, relaxed around the eyes) THAT is my reward for pushing through to meditate.)Resistance was high because 1) there were other things I wanted to do & 2) I’m taking a 40 day class & my mind decided it didn’t like this topic (difficult emotions) but it was great. Moksha- I am emotionally free led to great realizations I am creatively free too. I am free.)
Decided I will rate my resistance (hurdle)or willpower needed to do the item — as my goal is to get that to 0, ie automatic
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@MadisonMolly2017 absolutely adore that bougainvillea photo at the start. Gorgeous! I think my favorite part of November is that the weather turns cooler here but it is not yet normal to frost so it's perfect for running.
So glad to see the participation this month Welcome to Nov my friends!
1. My goal for this month This November I will favorite and file my photos daily
2. The small actions I’ll be taking to accomplish this goal
3. The trigger or cue to remember to do my habit reviewing my photos from the previous day.
4. How often will you do your new habit daily
5. What reward will you immediately give yourself for doing your habit? (Small positive feedbacks reinforce the habit you are trying to build.) A check mark in green on my daily planner!
6. What help do you need from us? make sure I don't lose my marbles.
7. What does success look like to you at the end of November? All favorite photos files in the correct albums and easier to update the flash drives with only a new month of data vs several months
Nov 1 accomplished. Below were filed into album My flowers and Sunsets
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@MadisonMolly2017 You're off to a good start! Resistence can be a real issue but you'll work through it, I'm sure.
@SummerSkier Gorgeous keepworthy pictures! Do you always know the names? They look like 3 differnt kinds. Keeping up will be much easier than catching up with your photo storage (don't ask how I know this:O ) AND I found an old film canister that had 3 more marbles in so I'm gathering my goodies and I'm willing to share. Sometimes I'd like to see inside those little brains (gkids) that put them there so I can understand the logic.1 -
Checking in.
1. My goal(s) for this month
a. strive to be clutter free on a daily basis
b. continue my goal of an extra workout, however small, besides just walking
c. finding balance in my day. I find that I tend to focus on one thing and put off other things. My life is quite out of balance I am realizing. I am not sure how I fix this but a first step is becoming more aware.
2. My actions I'll be taking to accomplish this is to set up a tracker just for these things and keep it simple. And to use bright colors to track. I enjoyed looking at everyone's else's brightly colored trackers. There is something very satisfying about seeing all the colors. I also have a morning reminder planned as I start my day.
3. I will strive to complete my goals daily but will still be proud of myself if I achieve them just part of the time knowing that I am making forward progress.
4. Having encouragement and learning from others is terrific support.
5. Success is checking in from time to time and reporting forward progress and making through all of November.
Maddie, I will look into BF Fogg. This group is always sharing great resources.
@nebslp I love your goal for the month. I may copy that on the days when I want to do a weight workout but not really... If I move myself toward a barbell, who knows what might happen!!! I really do love this idea.
This is looking like a terrific month with everyone's goals. I am very inspired. Happy November.4 -
Hi all, I haven’t checked in for a day or so and I see there is lots of activity!
No worries on the accidental disagree! I think that button is in a bad place ! I appreciate everyone being so kind.
@znaoiec i like your goal of being clutter free. I think I will have to do a spin on that for next month and that would be to have no clutter on the kitchen table.2 -
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My November plan:
I looked over the things I track. I honestly asked myself if each one was an entrenched habit. I was left with 4 to practice to make more automatic.
Just realized CHARM would be better
chatting, hiking, artmaking, reflecting , meditating
📞🥾👩🏻🎨✍️ 🧘♀️
Because these 5 things work like a charm for me ❤️
Nov 1 📞🥾👩🏻🎨✍️🧘♀️
0📞son
0🥾bay
0👩🏻🎨 sorting nature collection (class) & 📸,
1✍️yes
5🧘♀️yes
Nov 2 📞🥾👩🏻🎨✍️🧘♀️🥣
0📞Husband on a drive
0🥾to town & back
0👩🏻🎨 collecting, sorting, arranging & 📸 nature items. Prepared space to paint & collage tomorrow. Will make sure art space is set up at night, so easier to jump in the next day.
0✍️yes
1🧘♀️yes, peace meditation.
0 🥣 began daily oatmeal per doctor
Going to figure out potassium next week.
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