I have a crush.
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La_Amazona
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And I feel all tangled up now. I hate this feeling. I can never just "enjoy" it. I overanalyze and overthink and make myself crazy!!
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Stop it. I would do anything in the world if I had someone who was into me. If I did, I would just sit back and enjoy being adored by someone and just have fun with her. You are a great woman and any guy would be lucky to have you. Just let the guy try to sweep you off your feet and enjoy it. Just like the swiffer mop commercials.0
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Cavert6183 is right try to enjoy it. It's so easy to over analyze and over think but try not to give into it.0
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this is a brand new crush! as in, i was shot by cupid yesterday. oy.
i don't know if he's into me in THAT way.0 -
I do the exact same thing and i also have a new crush we havent met we have just talked but i like what i know about him so far and have seen pics.. i over analyze things to and drive myself nuts so i try to just not care that way if thing dont work out then im not disapointed i just live in the moment like when we talk knowing that hes talking to me now isnt he so he must like me somewhat ..just dont think about it to much and enjoy the now0
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Stop it. I would do anything in the world if I had someone who was into me. If I did, I would just sit back and enjoy being adored by someone and just have fun with her. You are a great woman and any guy would be lucky to have you. Just let the guy try to sweep you off your feet and enjoy it. Just like the swiffer mop commercials.
You're a sweetheart.0 -
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OKay by now, you all know I talk alot seeing that I start threads and reply alot so hopefully you don't mind me posting.
I feel butterflies, nausea, giddyness, fear, wonder what he's thinking, etc etc...
I haven't felt this in a LONG time.
I know we'll be at least friends. We talked on the phone Friday night for 8 hours. EIGHT HOURS. Just talk talk talked about everything. I know that he feels a connection with me as he was shocked we talked that long. He couldn't believe it. We made plans (over the phone before we met) to go do stuff like shows.
We saw each other for the first time yesterday for like 5 minutes. He seemed very nervous, couldn't look at me for a bit and during our small nervous talk, he mentioned meeting my cat (he had his cat in his car) soon. So he could be a very very cool friend but for some reason, like an hour after meeting him, cupid shot me and all of a sudden I felt my heart beat fast and my belly in knots.
I wanna puke!0 -
I only ever develop crushes on weird people.0
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I only ever develop crushes on weird people.
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Crushes can suck that way - completely taking up your mind and overriding all rational thoughts! LOL.
Best thing to do is realize that unless both people have the same feelings and are willing to give things a go...nothing will happen regardless of how hard you're crushing! Good luck!0 -
Aww!! I act weird and dont know what to do either because I can get very very shy. I say just take one day at a time and he will eventually crush on you back
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thanks for the words.
i just don't like feeling lol. i hate feeling because it's out of my control and i'm a control freak.
i'm insane!!! he did text me after our brief meet up about 4-5 times about random stuff going on. i haven't heard from him since but he's in the process of moving so he's busy.
oy. i want it to go away!0 -
oy. i want it to go away!
LOL...how can a feeling be so exciting and sucky all at once? :laugh:0 -
I only ever develop crushes on weird people.
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Aww Carl!!! You are my exception! I have a crush on you b/c you're awesome :flowerforyou:0 -
he's out having dinner and now at a bar having a beer and we've been texting for almost 2 hours. :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: he asked me out to have a drink but i declined since it was last minute.0
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You should have went for one drink and left.0
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waaa... i thought i wasn't supposed to go last minute?!?
i told him we could do tomorrow so we'll be doing it then :bigsmile: annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnd he might be joining me in my hike tomorrow afternoon. so hike in the a.m. then drinks in the p.m.0 -
I think it's good you declined!! Keeps him guessing...
but yay i love having crushes! unfortunately found out my last one had a girlfriend...and i still kinda like him. ARGH! I just want to find a new crush. It makes life 1000000x better!0 -
I think it's good you declined!! Keeps him guessing...
but yay i love having crushes! unfortunately found out my last one had a girlfriend...and i still kinda like him. ARGH! I just want to find a new crush. It makes life 1000000x better!
haha it just makesme 10000000 crazier.0 -
haha it just makesme 10000000 crazier.
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Lol me too!0
