I have a crush.
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Oh and we're on for hiking tomorrow!!!!!
Yay! Have fun!
PS don't forget to leave the booze at home this time
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Have fun today!0
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Oh and we're on for hiking tomorrow!!!!!
PS don't forget to leave the booze at home this time
Ha!!!! :laugh:
It's been raining all day and night but it's supposed to clear up today by noon if not, hike is postponed. Boo!!0 -
this was so funny to read because im going through the sammmmeee thing! except he suddenly stopped talkin to me as much but ill play hard to get!
did ya'll mess around too? lol
haha yes we did! and he instigated that! and i know exactly how you feel, like omg i shouldnt have done that i should have played hard to get, but you know what it was fun, felt right at the time, i dont regret it.0 -
Yay :-)0
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has anyone ever read the book the secret? The laws of attraction, power of positive thinking! We got to stop doubting ourselves and just be positive! than anything can happen right
its so hard to be positive about everything tho! wait no its not its easy...haha 0 -
I haven't read it... I've heard nothing but great things about it though.
So far in my dating journey I have read He's Just Not Into You. I just ordered Why Men Love Bi*ches. I've heard great things about that book.
I wanted to say.. for those that are reading this and have crushes of your own... EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEK! :blushing:0 -
haha omg u are funny ahhaha! yes read the book the secret or the power its awesome! totally changed my life around 2 years ago!! And look i was all negative this weekened and now im positive and my crush is talkin to me again lol!!0
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I wanted to say.. for those that are reading this and have crushes of your own... EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEK! :blushing:
I know, right? I have a little budding crush. What sucks is he is young (9 years younger than me :blushing: ) and lives literally on the other side of the world (in NZ - talk about an amazing accent...) :frown: Hard to keep reminding myself that while it's fun to flirt, there's a very good chance nothing will ever come of it0 -
and all this time I thought I was the only one.0
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I like them, only when someone has a crush on me lol0
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*Sigh* I have a crush now too.....
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we hung out at his place for a bit. i was at the lake for my wednesday jog and he lives 5 min around so he suggested i just go over to his :huh: .. i used the bathroom and just hung out for about 20 min. we chatted and laughed. it was normal.
we finally left and it was fun. we did our little hike.. it was cold and windy but we explored for a while.
we went to another park he wanted to show me and talked in the car for a bit. it's fun because we crack up- ALOT!!
we went back to his place and by then it was 7.. so we hung out for about 3 hours?!? didn't seem that long.. anyway, he didn't ask me up to his place and all we did was hug.
he has an interview tomorrow and said if he got the job he wanted to celebrate.. if he did, he wanted me there. Hmmmmmm. i just laughed. he said "what you don't want to drink and celebrate with me??" I just said OKAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY we'll celebrate.
IF we do celebrate, i hereby vow I will not get drunk nor will i be sleazy. i will look f-ing hot and i will flirt but will not go there. nope!!!
the dude acts nervous around me.. but still at ease. I can't explain it. so i get confused (but will NOT overthink it hehe) whether or not he likes me as a friend or what. i was the one that told him i wanted to be just friends and if something happened, to let it flow naturally... so why do i get all anxios when he's doing exactly what i requested?? lol0 -
Yay! Glad it went well. Maybe your heart wants it to be more, but taking it slowly is probably for the best Have more plans with him soon?
I had another very late night. Was up until 3:30 chatting with my crush yet again. We game together, which is how we met, so we're having fun while talking. And, when I joked about him visiting, his response was, "I probably will sometime" :blushing: I feel like a little girl again. Hehe.0 -
Nothing is set but maybe we'll hang out tonight. Maybe.
The cool thing is yesterday he texted me when he found out about his interview. He was excited and he decided to share the news with me. I think that's sweet.
I don't know. I seriously have relaxed. I guess I realized nothing is going to change if I freak out. Whatever is supposed to happen, will. I like this approach much better!!! I'm not constantly checking my phone or my FB. I will just enjoy each moment with him and apart from him.
I want to invite my crush over sometime but I guess I'm still hesitant. Maybe in a couple of weeks he can by. He will hint around about it here and there so I'm sure he'll be delighted, hopefully anyway.
And yes bregalad5, I feel like I'm 13 too!!! I am picturing yesterday in my head and I'm so damn happy and myself around him that I was skipping, jumping and cracking up like a hyena (that's what he said when I couldn't stop laughing). I hope he doesn't think I'm not all there haha. That's me, especially when I'm happy!! :bigsmile: :bigsmile:
I think it's cute that he teases me. (are we in 4th grade??) He teased my laugh, my dancing, my workout pants, all in a fun manner but still... do guys ever change?!?0 -
Why!! you are so young and beautiful, you should be just enjoying and focusing on having fun luv :flowerforyou:0
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Why!! you are so young and beautiful, you should be just enjoying and focusing on having fun luv :flowerforyou:
crushing IS fun!!!! :bigsmile:
we talked for 2 hours tonight................................................
we are hanging out tomorrow night. I vow to not drink too much and do more talking. okay? okay.0 -
the dude acts nervous around me.. but still at ease. I can't explain it. so i get confused (but will NOT overthink it hehe) whether or not he likes me as a friend or what. i was the one that told him i wanted to be just friends and if something happened, to let it flow naturally... so why do i get all anxios when he's doing exactly what i requested?? lol
You do realise that he probably likes you too quite a bit and might not be sure you like him, much like yourself?
Trust me I'm speaking from personal experience of the present here! Almost exactly everything that you've said in the last few days has been how I'm feeling with her, the checking the phone, the worrying about everything (one of my threads is in this group illustrates this!) Just act like yourself and don't worry about him. Remember with the kissing at the beginning he was probably worried you wouldn't want to, there's 2 of you in this and he's got as much to lose as you have (especially so considering you mentioned he doesn't know anyone in the area.)
Mine was way worse than yours, you were panicking about kissing a guy when you're 32 on the second time you saw each other?! That's nooothing compared to what we did and ours was on the first! It will all work out just enjoy it, if you think he's feeling nervous or showing signs then talk to him and it will pass! 0 -
We did a bit more than kissing... We left our clothes on but there was some major rated R stuff going on. :huh: Hmm. lol
The more I talk to him the more I'm trying to figure out because honestly he's not easy to read. He seems shy yet can be so confident. It seems like he gets nervous at times but maybe he's uncomfortable?
He also has said his dad isn't very emotional and he can be like that as well. During our hike he said he doesn't get excited about much. He said he wasn't always like that, it started in his early 20's. I told him how I get excited about every single little thing... he then replied "that's good. I guess I just don't have as many opportunities you do to get disappointed though." I was surprised he said that because he's very optimistic, very happy but maybe he's been hurt or something.
I don't know and so far so good. I'm not overthinking it nor will I worry about it.0 -
We did a bit more than kissing... We left our clothes on but there was some major rated R stuff going on. :huh: Hmm. lol
The more I talk to him the more I'm trying to figure out because honestly he's not easy to read. He seems shy yet can be so confident. It seems like he gets nervous at times but maybe he's uncomfortable?
He also has said his dad isn't very emotional and he can be like that as well. During our hike he said he doesn't get excited about much. He said he wasn't always like that, it started in his early 20's. I told him how I get excited about every single little thing... he then replied "that's good. I guess I just don't have as many opportunities you do to get disappointed though." I was surprised he said that because he's very optimistic, very happy but maybe he's been hurt or something.
I don't know and so far so good. I'm not overthinking it nor will I worry about it.
You never know someone's past that well to be fair, you might be right and he might have been hurt. That would explain what you've said about the way he acts. Although seriously you are 100% describing me going out with this girl I'm seeing. I'm confident but I know my insides are moving all over the place and it comes out occasionally as a slight show of nervousness (for me I seem to shiver a little bit as though the cold has hit me)
Oh and you say R rated with clothes...I was meaning mine was without haha. So you didn't go as far so don't worry about it. I overthought it a bit and sent her flowers after that but she's the kind of girl that loved that! Enjoy it anyway because it sounds promising0 -
We did a bit more than kissing... We left our clothes on but there was some major rated R stuff going on. :huh: Hmm. lol
The more I talk to him the more I'm trying to figure out because honestly he's not easy to read. He seems shy yet can be so confident. It seems like he gets nervous at times but maybe he's uncomfortable?
He also has said his dad isn't very emotional and he can be like that as well. During our hike he said he doesn't get excited about much. He said he wasn't always like that, it started in his early 20's. I told him how I get excited about every single little thing... he then replied "that's good. I guess I just don't have as many opportunities you do to get disappointed though." I was surprised he said that because he's very optimistic, very happy but maybe he's been hurt or something.
I don't know and so far so good. I'm not overthinking it nor will I worry about it.
You never know someone's past that well to be fair, you might be right and he might have been hurt. That would explain what you've said about the way he acts. Although seriously you are 100% describing me going out with this girl I'm seeing. I'm confident but I know my insides are moving all over the place and it comes out occasionally as a slight show of nervousness (for me I seem to shiver a little bit as though the cold has hit me)
Oh and you say R rated with clothes...I was meaning mine was without haha. So you didn't go as far so don't worry about it. I overthought it a bit and sent her flowers after that but she's the kind of girl that loved that! Enjoy it anyway because it sounds promising
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Update!!!
My update is: :happy: :happy: :happy: :blushing: 0 -
yes i want an update! haha0
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It was good. We hung out at his place then went to watch a b-ball game at a place by his apt. We came back and drank, played a game of scrabble and watched some comedy shows (we both love stand up). I then suggested to go out again so he took me to his fav little hole in the wall bar and we had a good time. Came back to his place and talked some more.. and I ended up staying over again.
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I'm not sure what's going on.. we've seen each other alot over the last 2 weeks. I don't like that I feel confused with him. If he was REALLY into me, I'd know. So for now, I'm going to chill out.0 -
I don't like that I feel confused with him. If he was REALLY into me, I'd know. So for now, I'm going to chill out.
He could be just as confused. Especially since you said you don't want to be more than friends, he might be backing off...?0 -
true, but then the fact that he just literally moved here 2 weeks ago and me liking him so fast is just crazy. i think i'm assuming too much but part of it is because he doesn't say much either. i am very open. i think i make it obvious that i like him by showing him that i'm happy to see him and by making 1st moves here and there. i don't see him increasing on anything. i have made the observation that he isn't very expressive and what he said that one day about how he doesn't get excited about much makes alot of sense now.
he is a confident guy. i *think* if he really liked me, he'd have no problem saying so. i could be wrong but i guess its easier to back off at this point.
i said i wanted to be friends and although we just met, i'd like to pursue something more with him or i at least see him in a way that i haven't seen another guy since my divorce (potential bf) but i'm not sure how to say that w/o sounding crazy so instead i will just take a step back before i get hurt.0 -
i said i wanted to be friends and although we just met, i'd like to pursue something more with him or i at least see him in a way that i haven't seen another guy since my divorce (potential bf) but i'm not sure how to say that w/o sounding crazy so instead i will just take a step back before i get hurt.
I think someone needs to have a
to with him
Heck, I've only been talking with my crush for maybe 3 weeks now and we've already admitted feelings for each other and such, and have discussed (and decided it's better right now if we don't) a relationship, and instead see what pans out over the next little while until one of us can scrounge up the money to take a trip. Of course, I'm one to, like you it seems, wait for the guy to bring things up for fear of sounding crazy/silly, so I totally know where you're coming from on that. So yeah, he was the one to bring absolutely everything up in this... maybe I just got luck in that :laugh:0 -
honestly at this point i couldn't handle his rejection so i rather not. i rather just move on and next him if he's not stepping up.0
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Heck, I've only been talking with my crush for maybe 3 weeks now and we've already admitted feelings for each other and such, and have discussed (and decided it's better right now if we don't) a relationship, and instead see what pans out over the next little while until one of us can scrounge up the money to take a trip.
Erm, well, I spoke too soon (that was our discussion last night, and we hadn't chatted yet today when I posted that). Scratch that... we're giving it a try 0 -
honestly at this point i couldn't handle his rejection so i rather not. i rather just move on and next him if he's not stepping up.
You say that but you'll regret it soon if you don't just go for it, the worst that could happen is he says he's not interested (he clearly is if he spent that long with you on the phone..seriously we don't like spending more than 3 mins on a phonecall unless we like someone..especially a guy that you say is a man of few words and doesn't like expressing himself. Even if you were talking most of the time, the fact is he stayed on the phone, he could have made any excuse like I'm making dinner I'll speak to you later or going for a shower it's not hard.
Seems like we're both in the same boat anyway, one of us likes the other more. Yours is a guy, mines a girl. I know what you mean. Mine keeps seeing me a lot but made it clear she wasn't interested in commiting (similar to your friendship thing) but the thing is it seems like it's more than that but nothings been said. I think we should make a pact that if it hasn't been spoken about in the next 2 weeks we both talk to them directly about it I'm backing off too for a few days and letting her contact me like you did earlier anyway. I'm not always being the one chasing! 0
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