For the ladies that have approached a man...

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  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    I say go for it. Say hello and see where that leads. Don't worry about being sweaty. Guys like girls that workout.

    This. No guts, no glory!
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    To La_Amazona and pkiesch
    I have a friend that is 5'9 about 6' with heels on and she just goes up to guys shorter then her and says I like them short it's closer to my boobs.
    Try that next time.

    disclaimer (this friend has also gone up to guy's grabbed their junk and said "you will do")

    On Saturday night, my bff was trying to get me to bring a guy home with me. I had a room to myself, I'm from out of town, it would have been "perfect". I found a guy who was hot hot hot and we were flirty. But... BUT.... BUTTTTT.... I couldn't. I didn't know what to say, how to act. Eh well.
    So instead I climbed into my huge nice beautiful hotel bed all myself and played on my laptop. :laugh: :ohwell:

    I could never do it either. This last weekend though I was pretty much babysitting my friends so they didn't end up in a gutter that I couldn't find anyone that "I" found cute. My friends and I have such different tastes in guys so we kept hanging out with guys I had no interest in.

    She told me to do the following:

    Go to him, look him in the eye and say, "Look, let's cut through the bullsh*t. I'm not from here but I want to have some fun tonight. No strings, just fun. I am staying at a hotel and you're more than welcome to come back to my room with me if you'd like as long as you make it worth my night."

    WTH?!?!

    She's married, her husband was right there too.. would probably NEVER do this either but she is living vicariously through me now that I'm single.
    How would I say that without giggling or passing out?
    Yeah... no.




    Ok so I can say I'm pretty ballsy and I can honestly say that I would never make a comment like this lol:blushing:
    I have however let a man that he would be welcome to come over but nothing as ....hmmmmm whats the word I'm looking for... Oh yes sluttly as this.....
    This is the kind of line I've seen girl use on my guy friends and it usually gets talked about for days afterwards...
    Not saying don't invote the guy over , just saying I would not listen to your friends advice on how to do it lol:laugh:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    To La_Amazona and pkiesch
    I have a friend that is 5'9 about 6' with heels on and she just goes up to guys shorter then her and says I like them short it's closer to my boobs.
    Try that next time.

    disclaimer (this friend has also gone up to guy's grabbed their junk and said "you will do")

    On Saturday night, my bff was trying to get me to bring a guy home with me. I had a room to myself, I'm from out of town, it would have been "perfect". I found a guy who was hot hot hot and we were flirty. But... BUT.... BUTTTTT.... I couldn't. I didn't know what to say, how to act. Eh well.
    So instead I climbed into my huge nice beautiful hotel bed all myself and played on my laptop. :laugh: :ohwell:

    I could never do it either. This last weekend though I was pretty much babysitting my friends so they didn't end up in a gutter that I couldn't find anyone that "I" found cute. My friends and I have such different tastes in guys so we kept hanging out with guys I had no interest in.

    She told me to do the following:

    Go to him, look him in the eye and say, "Look, let's cut through the bullsh*t. I'm not from here but I want to have some fun tonight. No strings, just fun. I am staying at a hotel and you're more than welcome to come back to my room with me if you'd like as long as you make it worth my night."

    WTH?!?!

    She's married, her husband was right there too.. would probably NEVER do this either but she is living vicariously through me now that I'm single.
    How would I say that without giggling or passing out?
    Yeah... no.




    Ok so I can say I'm pretty ballsy and I can honestly say that I would never make a comment like this lol:blushing:
    I have however let a man that he would be welcome to come over but nothing as ....hmmmmm whats the word I'm looking for... Oh yes sluttly as this.....
    This is the kind of line I've seen girl use on my guy friends and it usually gets talked about for days afterwards...
    Not saying don't invote the guy over , just saying I would not listen to your friends advice on how to do it lol:laugh:


    I think she's been watching too many movies lol.
  • jaxdiablo
    jaxdiablo Posts: 580
    To La_Amazona and pkiesch
    I have a friend that is 5'9 about 6' with heels on and she just goes up to guys shorter then her and says I like them short it's closer to my boobs.
    Try that next time.

    disclaimer (this friend has also gone up to guy's grabbed their junk and said "you will do")

    On Saturday night, my bff was trying to get me to bring a guy home with me. I had a room to myself, I'm from out of town, it would have been "perfect". I found a guy who was hot hot hot and we were flirty. But... BUT.... BUTTTTT.... I couldn't. I didn't know what to say, how to act. Eh well.
    So instead I climbed into my huge nice beautiful hotel bed all myself and played on my laptop. :laugh: :ohwell:

    I could never do it either. This last weekend though I was pretty much babysitting my friends so they didn't end up in a gutter that I couldn't find anyone that "I" found cute. My friends and I have such different tastes in guys so we kept hanging out with guys I had no interest in.

    She told me to do the following:

    Go to him, look him in the eye and say, "Look, let's cut through the bullsh*t. I'm not from here but I want to have some fun tonight. No strings, just fun. I am staying at a hotel and you're more than welcome to come back to my room with me if you'd like as long as you make it worth my night."

    WTH?!?!

    She's married, her husband was right there too.. would probably NEVER do this either but she is living vicariously through me now that I'm single.
    How would I say that without giggling or passing out?
    Yeah... no.




    Ok so I can say I'm pretty ballsy and I can honestly say that I would never make a comment like this lol:blushing:
    I have however let a man that he would be welcome to come over but nothing as ....hmmmmm whats the word I'm looking for... Oh yes sluttly as this.....
    This is the kind of line I've seen girl use on my guy friends and it usually gets talked about for days afterwards...
    Not saying don't invote the guy over , just saying I would not listen to your friends advice on how to do it lol:laugh:


    I think she's been watching too many movies lol.
    Yeah, and I think we all know what kind... brown chicken brown cow...
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    To La_Amazona and pkiesch
    I have a friend that is 5'9 about 6' with heels on and she just goes up to guys shorter then her and says I like them short it's closer to my boobs.
    Try that next time.

    disclaimer (this friend has also gone up to guy's grabbed their junk and said "you will do")

    On Saturday night, my bff was trying to get me to bring a guy home with me. I had a room to myself, I'm from out of town, it would have been "perfect". I found a guy who was hot hot hot and we were flirty. But... BUT.... BUTTTTT.... I couldn't. I didn't know what to say, how to act. Eh well.
    So instead I climbed into my huge nice beautiful hotel bed all myself and played on my laptop. :laugh: :ohwell:

    I could never do it either. This last weekend though I was pretty much babysitting my friends so they didn't end up in a gutter that I couldn't find anyone that "I" found cute. My friends and I have such different tastes in guys so we kept hanging out with guys I had no interest in.

    She told me to do the following:

    Go to him, look him in the eye and say, "Look, let's cut through the bullsh*t. I'm not from here but I want to have some fun tonight. No strings, just fun. I am staying at a hotel and you're more than welcome to come back to my room with me if you'd like as long as you make it worth my night."

    WTH?!?!

    She's married, her husband was right there too.. would probably NEVER do this either but she is living vicariously through me now that I'm single.
    How would I say that without giggling or passing out?
    Yeah... no.




    Ok so I can say I'm pretty ballsy and I can honestly say that I would never make a comment like this lol:blushing:
    I have however let a man that he would be welcome to come over but nothing as ....hmmmmm whats the word I'm looking for... Oh yes sluttly as this.....
    This is the kind of line I've seen girl use on my guy friends and it usually gets talked about for days afterwards...
    Not saying don't invote the guy over , just saying I would not listen to your friends advice on how to do it lol:laugh:


    I think she's been watching too many movies lol.
    Yeah, and I think we all know what kind... brown chicken brown cow...

    What a skank!

    It sounded "hot" but yeah.. not realistic.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    To La_Amazona and pkiesch
    I have a friend that is 5'9 about 6' with heels on and she just goes up to guys shorter then her and says I like them short it's closer to my boobs.
    Try that next time.

    disclaimer (this friend has also gone up to guy's grabbed their junk and said "you will do")

    On Saturday night, my bff was trying to get me to bring a guy home with me. I had a room to myself, I'm from out of town, it would have been "perfect". I found a guy who was hot hot hot and we were flirty. But... BUT.... BUTTTTT.... I couldn't. I didn't know what to say, how to act. Eh well.
    So instead I climbed into my huge nice beautiful hotel bed all myself and played on my laptop. :laugh: :ohwell:

    I could never do it either. This last weekend though I was pretty much babysitting my friends so they didn't end up in a gutter that I couldn't find anyone that "I" found cute. My friends and I have such different tastes in guys so we kept hanging out with guys I had no interest in.

    She told me to do the following:

    Go to him, look him in the eye and say, "Look, let's cut through the bullsh*t. I'm not from here but I want to have some fun tonight. No strings, just fun. I am staying at a hotel and you're more than welcome to come back to my room with me if you'd like as long as you make it worth my night."

    WTH?!?!

    She's married, her husband was right there too.. would probably NEVER do this either but she is living vicariously through me now that I'm single.
    How would I say that without giggling or passing out?
    Yeah... no.




    Ok so I can say I'm pretty ballsy and I can honestly say that I would never make a comment like this lol:blushing:
    I have however let a man that he would be welcome to come over but nothing as ....hmmmmm whats the word I'm looking for... Oh yes sluttly as this.....
    This is the kind of line I've seen girl use on my guy friends and it usually gets talked about for days afterwards...
    Not saying don't invote the guy over , just saying I would not listen to your friends advice on how to do it lol:laugh:


    I think she's been watching too many movies lol.
    Yeah, and I think we all know what kind... brown chicken brown cow...

    What a skank!

    It sounded "hot" but yeah.. not realistic.

    Well if you look at my profile picture the shorter girl next to me did bring a guy back to the hotel and the one in the red is the one that will grab a guy by the junk. She also just walked up to a guy and started making out with him on Friday night. So when I am with them I come off as a prude. Like I was talking to one of the friends of the guys she was making out with and said "I am a good girl" his response "You can't possible be with friends like that"
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    To La_Amazona and pkiesch
    I have a friend that is 5'9 about 6' with heels on and she just goes up to guys shorter then her and says I like them short it's closer to my boobs.
    Try that next time.

    disclaimer (this friend has also gone up to guy's grabbed their junk and said "you will do")

    On Saturday night, my bff was trying to get me to bring a guy home with me. I had a room to myself, I'm from out of town, it would have been "perfect". I found a guy who was hot hot hot and we were flirty. But... BUT.... BUTTTTT.... I couldn't. I didn't know what to say, how to act. Eh well.
    So instead I climbed into my huge nice beautiful hotel bed all myself and played on my laptop. :laugh: :ohwell:

    I could never do it either. This last weekend though I was pretty much babysitting my friends so they didn't end up in a gutter that I couldn't find anyone that "I" found cute. My friends and I have such different tastes in guys so we kept hanging out with guys I had no interest in.

    She told me to do the following:

    Go to him, look him in the eye and say, "Look, let's cut through the bullsh*t. I'm not from here but I want to have some fun tonight. No strings, just fun. I am staying at a hotel and you're more than welcome to come back to my room with me if you'd like as long as you make it worth my night."

    WTH?!?!

    She's married, her husband was right there too.. would probably NEVER do this either but she is living vicariously through me now that I'm single.
    How would I say that without giggling or passing out?
    Yeah... no.




    Ok so I can say I'm pretty ballsy and I can honestly say that I would never make a comment like this lol:blushing:
    I have however let a man that he would be welcome to come over but nothing as ....hmmmmm whats the word I'm looking for... Oh yes sluttly as this.....
    This is the kind of line I've seen girl use on my guy friends and it usually gets talked about for days afterwards...
    Not saying don't invote the guy over , just saying I would not listen to your friends advice on how to do it lol:laugh:


    I think she's been watching too many movies lol.
    Yeah, and I think we all know what kind... brown chicken brown cow...

    What a skank!

    It sounded "hot" but yeah.. not realistic.

    Well if you look at my profile picture the shorter girl next to me did bring a guy back to the hotel and the one in the red is the one that will grab a guy by the junk. She also just walked up to a guy and started making out with him on Friday night. So when I am with them I come off as a prude. Like I was talking to one of the friends of the guys she was making out with and said "I am a good girl" his response "You can't possible be with friends like that"

    Haha...

    Okay.. making out? That's different. I'll make out. I do when the opportunity arises. My friends already know to just walk away and let me be when I'm sucking face. :blushing: It's funny. When the atmosphere is right (dancing, drinking (or not), fun, friends, etc) I can go up to a guy and act very aggressive.. kiss him if I want (don't grab their junk though).
    But if I really like him or am REALLY attracted to him like the guy from Saturday? I can't.
    I lose my senses and turn into a gushing school girl. Hmm. The guy was HOT.
  • pkiesch
    pkiesch Posts: 259 Member
    To La_Amazona and pkiesch
    I have a friend that is 5'9 about 6' with heels on and she just goes up to guys shorter then her and says I like them short it's closer to my boobs.
    Try that next time.

    disclaimer (this friend has also gone up to guy's grabbed their junk and said "you will do")

    Haha! I had a creepy older man tell me once he liked his girls taller, because "it's worth the climb"

    I threw up in my mouth

    So introducing myself and Sir Edmund Hillary and offering to plant my flag wouldn't get me points huh? lol

    Oh no definitely not!! lol
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    your girl boner!!! bahahahahahahahaha! I have never heard that before! That is hysterical!
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    your girl boner!!! bahahahahahahahaha! I have never heard that before! That is hysterical!

    :laugh:
    really lol all my girlies use this one lol
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    I'm not from here but I want to have some fun tonight. No strings, just fun. I am staying at a hotel and you're more than welcome to come back to my room with me if you'd like as long as you make it worth my night."

    How would I say that without giggling or passing out?
    Yeah... no.




    Ok so I can say I'm pretty ballsy and I can honestly say that I would never make a comment like this

    I would never do that either, but one thing I like about that statement is the emphasis on making it worth your while. Living vicariously through my friends it seems like the guy almost always gets the better deal during one night stands.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I'm not from here but I want to have some fun tonight. No strings, just fun. I am staying at a hotel and you're more than welcome to come back to my room with me if you'd like as long as you make it worth my night."

    How would I say that without giggling or passing out?
    Yeah... no.




    Ok so I can say I'm pretty ballsy and I can honestly say that I would never make a comment like this

    I would never do that either, but one thing I like about that statement is the emphasis on making it worth your while. Living vicariously through my friends it seems like the guy almost always gets the better deal during one night stands.

    Honestly, I added that part in. :wink: If I were to ever, ever go out of my comfort zone and do something like that.. OH IT BETTER BE WORTH MY TIME. So that'd be the deal.
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    Wait so what happened with the gym guy? Did I miss it? Lol
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    See the amazonaaaa post. She didn't hang around to see if he would show... she bailed for unavailable crush. Bird in the bush doesn't compare to no bird in the hand.

    Do women wonder why men find it so hard to figure you ladies out?
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    I thought she was gonna see him again tonight at the gym?
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    Nevermind, I found it. lol.

    I don't really have black hair, haha.
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    See the amazonaaaa post. She didn't hang around to see if he would show... she bailed for unavailable crush. Bird in the bush doesn't compare to no bird in the hand.

    Do women wonder why men find it so hard to figure you ladies out?

    Nah we know why. Ladies are rules by their hearts. Most men aren't. Simple :smile:
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    See the amazonaaaa post. She didn't hang around to see if he would show... she bailed for unavailable crush. Bird in the bush doesn't compare to no bird in the hand.

    Do women wonder why men find it so hard to figure you ladies out?

    Nah we know why. Ladies are rules by their hearts. Most men aren't. Simple :smile:

    Change "hearts" to "hormones" and I'd be more inclined to agree.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    See the amazonaaaa post. She didn't hang around to see if he would show... she bailed for unavailable crush. Bird in the bush doesn't compare to no bird in the hand.

    Do women wonder why men find it so hard to figure you ladies out?

    Nah we know why. Ladies are rules by their hearts. Most men aren't. Simple :smile:

    Change "hearts" to "hormones" and I'd be more inclined to agree.

    Yeah,not looking to start an argument but I see far more ladies who make relationship choices and decisions based on things other then their hearts.
    Might make an interesting thread of its own.
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    See the amazonaaaa post. She didn't hang around to see if he would show... she bailed for unavailable crush. Bird in the bush doesn't compare to no bird in the hand.

    Do women wonder why men find it so hard to figure you ladies out?

    Nah we know why. Ladies are rules by their hearts. Most men aren't. Simple :smile:

    Change "hearts" to "hormones" and I'd be more inclined to agree.

    Thus demonstrating why you don't understand the ladies :laugh:
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    I can't argue against that. Women don't even understand women. :drinker:
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    No I mean you don't undererstand them because you think.... OH NEVERMIND!!!

    (men :grumble: )
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    See the amazonaaaa post. She didn't hang around to see if he would show... she bailed for unavailable crush. Bird in the bush doesn't compare to no bird in the hand.

    Do women wonder why men find it so hard to figure you ladies out?

    BAH! You are hilarious! Loved the chicken btw!
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    See the amazonaaaa post. She didn't hang around to see if he would show... she bailed for unavailable crush. Bird in the bush doesn't compare to no bird in the hand.

    Do women wonder why men find it so hard to figure you ladies out?

    Nah we know why. Ladies are rules by their hearts. Most men aren't. Simple :smile:

    Change "hearts" to "hormones" and I'd be more inclined to agree.

    Wellllllll you know how guys have 2 heads? Women have 2 hearts.
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    See the amazonaaaa post. She didn't hang around to see if he would show... she bailed for unavailable crush. Bird in the bush doesn't compare to no bird in the hand.

    Do women wonder why men find it so hard to figure you ladies out?

    Nah we know why. Ladies are rules by their hearts. Most men aren't. Simple :smile:

    Change "hearts" to "hormones" and I'd be more inclined to agree.

    Wellllllll you know how guys have 2 heads? Women have 2 hearts.

    Lol so true :smile:
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    Yeah,not looking to start an argument but I see far more ladies who make relationship choices and decisions based on things other then their hearts.

    and the ones who do base decision on things other than just their hearts are called weirdos and no fun (because it's harder for men to take advantage of them)
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    Yeah,not looking to start an argument but I see far more ladies who make relationship choices and decisions based on things other then their hearts.

    and the ones who do base decision on things other than just their hearts are called weirdos and no fun (because it's harder for men to take advantage of them)

    "Just" being the important qualifier here. The best choices are those where emotional needs are met and choices are also informed by a rational assessment of long term interests. If there's a head/heart clash, however, I think women tend to go with their heart (despite knowing it's not sensible to do so). Men are just as driven by their emotional needs but are often not tuned in to them at all, so especially when they are younger, they tend to approach mate selection on an entirely logical basis, much as if they were solving a difficult crossword puzzle. (eta: exaggerating slightly here to make a point :wink: - I know many men do in fact have high emotional intelligence)
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    See the amazonaaaa post. She didn't hang around to see if he would show... she bailed for unavailable crush. Bird in the bush doesn't compare to no bird in the hand.

    Do women wonder why men find it so hard to figure you ladies out?

    :angry: :angry: No wonder my ears were ringing last night!!!

    Gym guy lost out. I didn't lose out. He's usually there by 6:15.. I pushed it till 6:20 or so. Hmph! His fault, not mine.
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