What makes you a "catch...?"

mrmanmeat
mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
edited December 20 in Social Groups
I've seen La_amazona post a few times that she thinks that she's a catch (which is great, everyone should feel like they are, if in fact they are) to a guy. So it got me thinking...


What makes you a catch to someone you'd date or are dating...?
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  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    I'm NOT a sociopath!
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    My lack of herpes for one.
  • 10acity
    10acity Posts: 798 Member
    I'm NOT a sociopath!
    hahah high standards!

    I'm intelligent, very reasonable, generally pretty self-aware (this one is important to me in others!), pretty, and confident. Total catch, dude.
  • BelMckenzie
    BelMckenzie Posts: 249
    I'm rational, confident, not clingy, have my own life, smart, sweet and great in bed :) Plus a lot more, but those are just the general ones.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    I take care of myself (physically, emotionally, and financially), I like playing and watching sports so usually have some common ground with most guys, I don't tend to be clingy and allow the guy to have time to do their own thing just like I would like time to do my own thing. I find it odd when guys don't have a boys night every once in awhile. I am usually upfront about things and don't hide my feelings.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I'm logical, practical and low-maintenance. Someone that appreciates a woman who is motivated, pursuing her dreams, passionate about her (soon to be) career, an avid reader and still likes to play video games on the side would consider me a catch. I cook damn well and love bacon. I don't get upset about insignificant things. Even when I'm drunk I am fascinated by genes, the function of biology and the human condition. I'm also cute, and my legs are amazing.

    I'm a catch, which is why I won't settle.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    First off, what's a catch for me, might not be considered a catch for MissingMinnesota... just putting that out there.

    I'm a catch for the following reasons:

    I'm a fun girl. We can go to the park down the street and you'll have fun with me.
    I'm a smart cookie. I can talk about most subjects and carry my own.
    I'm sexy, pretty and cute. I know how to work what I got. I know how to carry myself.
    I have hot legs and cute perky boobs.
    I'm outgoing. I like people (for the most part anyway).
    I know when to be a lady and when not to be one.
    I'm honest and loyal. I will tell you the truth.
    I march to my own beat. Always will.
    I am feminine and love being a woman.
    I'm strong and have survived many obstacles in life which make me appreciative of the little things.
    I'm optimistic and hopeful.
    I'm very passionate in bed. I'm definately not one that just lies on her back. If I'm sleeping with you, it's because I WANT to.
    I can cook and like to keep my place clean.
    I have an awesome sense of humor!
    I'm adventurous. Will try most things at least once. I'm usually the one in my group to go first whether it's trying a new food or jumping off a cliff.
    I wear skirts and heels but I don't mind getting dirty when outdoors. I love it!
    For some reason, I give the vibe to men that they can tell me anything and can be themselves with me so they feel "safe".
    I want my man to always be himself. I appreciate our differences and will always encourage you to be yourself.
    Boys nights and girls nights are a must!
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    I'm cute, funny, and make a lot of money. What else do women want? :laugh:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I'm cute, funny, and make a lot of money. What else do women want? :laugh:


    Don't forget height! lol

    Apparently that's a big one.
  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member
    I'm cute, funny, and make a lot of money. What else do women want? :laugh:


    Don't forget height! lol

    Apparently that's a big one.

    I'm all this and 6'4
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I can fix things when they break. :smokin:
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    I'm humble

    Hmm.. That's all I have to offer :laugh: :grumble:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I've thought of more.... :bigsmile:

    I'm dedicated. Whether it's a project, a goal, relationship, an outfit, my mind gets on it!
    I'm family oriented. I love the unity in my family and plan to keep that going if I ever have a family of my own.
    I am assertive. I say what I want and expect.
    I'm in touch with my emotions.
    I'm a great kisser.
    I'm confident. (obviously, look at this list!)

    Okay... that's enough for today. :tongue:
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    I've thought of more.... :bigsmile:

    I'm dedicated. Whether it's a project, a goal, relationship, an outfit, my mind gets on it!
    I'm family oriented. I love the unity in my family and plan to keep that going if I ever have a family of my own.
    I am assertive. I say what I want and expect.
    I'm in touch with my emotions.
    I'm a great kisser.
    I'm confident. (obviously, look at this list!)

    Okay... that's enough for today. :tongue:

    :yawn:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I've thought of more.... :bigsmile:

    I'm dedicated. Whether it's a project, a goal, relationship, an outfit, my mind gets on it!
    I'm family oriented. I love the unity in my family and plan to keep that going if I ever have a family of my own.
    I am assertive. I say what I want and expect.
    I'm in touch with my emotions.
    I'm a great kisser.
    I'm confident. (obviously, look at this list!)

    Okay... that's enough for today. :tongue:

    :yawn:

    :smokin:
  • Daisy_Cutter
    Daisy_Cutter Posts: 774
    Simple -- I'm me.. .and I rock! :bigsmile:
  • Daisy_Cutter
    Daisy_Cutter Posts: 774
    I can fix things when they break. :smokin:

    This makes you a TOTAL catch! :wink:
  • Silver180
    Silver180 Posts: 294
    College educated
    Motivated
    Hard-worker
    Funny
    Charming
    Honest
    Fantastic family
    Employed and own a car (since women always ask for this anyway, lol)
    Very good with my hands..............
    Zero debt!
    Intelligent
    Did I mention my hands already?

    Lol
  • tangie82
    tangie82 Posts: 285 Member
    I can fix things when they break. :smokin:

    This makes you a TOTAL catch! :wink:

    Yes!!
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    I'm independent (finacially and socially) and have been for years.
    I have an amazing career
    I'm a people person
    I'm funny in a sarcastic way
    I'm blunt and don't sugar coat things
    I like sports and action movies and hate romatic comidies lol...
    I can dance like no ones buisness and still get to work on time the next morning

    Oh and I have no gag reflex lol :blushing:
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    I'm cute, funny, and make a lot of money. What else do women want? :laugh:


    Don't forget height! lol

    Apparently that's a big one.
    I'm usually tall "enough", 5'11" if I round up.
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    I've thought of more.... :bigsmile:

    I'm dedicated. Whether it's a project, a goal, relationship, an outfit, my mind gets on it!
    I'm family oriented. I love the unity in my family and plan to keep that going if I ever have a family of my own.
    I am assertive. I say what I want and expect.
    I'm in touch with my emotions.
    I'm a great kisser.
    I'm confident. (obviously, look at this list!)

    Okay... that's enough for today. :tongue:

    :yawn:

    :smokin:

    haha, you got yawned because I didn't see any drunk messages Saturday!!! :grumble:
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    I've thought of more.... :bigsmile:

    I'm dedicated. Whether it's a project, a goal, relationship, an outfit, my mind gets on it!
    I'm family oriented. I love the unity in my family and plan to keep that going if I ever have a family of my own.
    I am assertive. I say what I want and expect.
    I'm in touch with my emotions.
    I'm a great kisser.
    I'm confident. (obviously, look at this list!)

    Okay... that's enough for today. :tongue:

    :yawn:

    :smokin:

    haha, you got yawned because I didn't see any drunk messages Saturday!!! :grumble:

    Seriously. I waited w/ popcorn
  • will010574
    will010574 Posts: 761 Member
    Im awesome!

    Spontaneous
    Funny
    Self Starter
    Motivated
    Tall
    Awesome, did I mention that already
    Financially and emotionally stable (read not a psycho crazy *kitten* with no job)
    Im okay to look at
    Im always working to make me a better catch
    I like to get my kinky on
    and I am great at relations!!!

    And I am available so feel free to send your requests!!
  • Devolucien
    Devolucien Posts: 52 Member
    because I have a profile on PlentyofFish.

    No, seriously...I'm perfect?

    I'd love for any one of these answers to be 100% true but in general, most people may be most or all of what they are listing here a good portion of the time. I highly doubt that everyone's vanity list is %100 true in all situations.

    I'm a catch because I realize that I'm not perfect nor am I ALWAYS all of the things I'd like to think I am.

    Legen- WAIT FOR IT! - dary in my own mind!
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
    I'm not crazy.
    Make my own dollars.
    And I make sense. ;-)
    I really like having sex...a lot.
    Love my family. But not too much.
    I try to be a good friend.
    I gots a J-O-B and a car.
    I gots me a degree and I is on my way to gettin another...
    I am very open minded and I love trying new things.
    No baggage.
    My boobs rock.


    And so much more :flowerforyou:
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I want to bring out the best in both of us
    Im tall and worth the climb
    When I walk into a room people look at me
    When I walk into a concert, everyone (inc theband) hugs me and starts inviting me to amazing events and parties
    I work hard on my mind, body and personal growth
    I have a salivating need for adventure
    I dont have any naked hangups or weird fetishes
    I can completely lose myself in sex
    I effing love giving a *kitten*, and im not just saying that. I crave it.
    I love sports - watching and playing
    I love trying new things
    I never correct you in public
    Or tear you down
    When I talk abotu you to other people, its always about how amazing you are
    I can pull off a little black dress and heels like someone is paying me to do it
    I always say awwww when you get hurt
    Im half Italian and can cook with a natural talent that even surprises me
    Im fiercely protective of my independence and insist that we spend time apart to get hammered with our friends with no reporting in
    Ive traveled and lived in lots of places so I have no hesitation about doing it more
    I dont call names or belittle you when we argue, why would I when you have my heart
    When I have a problem, I talk about casually when you arent busy with something else, distracted, just walked in the door, in the middle of a game, etc - and I start it all with "i" instead of "you" so you dont accidentally think Im accusing you of something.
    I believe that a man and a woman DO compliment each other, sometimes the man has to be allowed to put down the reins, and sometimes the girl has got to be able to put on the pants.
    I believe you and I believe in you
    Once IM yours, you'll finally realise what it means to have someone get your back.
    Once IM yours, Im yours. No matter how bad the storm gets- cause I already see your shining face on the other side
    Im funny and quick and I love to learn
    I love quickies and all nighters
    I love tv marathons as much as skydiving and barhopping
    Ive been financially independent and self-reliant for 16 years
    Im brave
    Im sassy
    I call you on your bullsht but I'll be sweet about it
    I'll never leave you wondering if I even notice when you try...
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I've thought of more.... :bigsmile:

    I'm dedicated. Whether it's a project, a goal, relationship, an outfit, my mind gets on it!
    I'm family oriented. I love the unity in my family and plan to keep that going if I ever have a family of my own.
    I am assertive. I say what I want and expect.
    I'm in touch with my emotions.
    I'm a great kisser.
    I'm confident. (obviously, look at this list!)

    Okay... that's enough for today. :tongue:

    :yawn:

    :smokin:

    haha, you got yawned because I didn't see any drunk messages Saturday!!! :grumble:

    There was no way I could have typed. I put on a show instead apparently. :noway: :embarassed:
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    I am:

    caring,
    thoughtful,
    intelligent,
    college-educated,
    witty,
    ambitious,
    motivated,
    funny ( i think ),
    a good speller,
    a good cook,
    self-sufficient,
    independent,
    tall.


    I am also extremely financially successful, have all my ducks in a row when it comes to most of my life. I value each day as recent events have taught me how important life is. My problem is I am picky and won't settle. This is the downfall of my dating life. I bring a lot to the table and I think she should as well.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    My problem is I am picky and won't settle. This is the downfall of my dating life. I bring a lot to the table and I think she should as well.

    I don't think "problem" is the right word, it has too much of a negative connotation. Of course, I might be projecting because I'm hella picky as well, haha!
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