I confess- Single Peeps version
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I confess I'm disappointed that the other thread was deleted cause there were two issues I wanted to see get resolved. One I guess I can handle in here.
Poncho, you aren't single?! Am I the only one that didn't know this?
There is a Poncha... it's pretty new.
I didn't get why that gal got so pissed, but that thread was heading toward a locking the minute she did.
I was all like "LOL!
" because llama.
Edit: Oh PS! Congrats on the lady!0 -
I confess I'm disappointed that the other thread was deleted cause there were two issues I wanted to see get resolved. One I guess I can handle in here.
Poncho, you aren't single?! Am I the only one that didn't know this?
There is a Poncha... it's pretty new.
I didn't get why that gal got so pissed, but that thread was heading toward a locking the minute she did.
I also confess that I have no idea why Huskey got so pissed.
And I also confess that I thought you'd been a bit quiet lately!!! Congrats on the new Poncha!!
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I confess that I think I'm going to break it off with the guy I've been seeing since June. I've been on the fence for a while now, but I thought it was just because I've been stressed. But now that things are calming down I'm starting to see that I really, REALLY don't have time for this bull****. I never would've pegged this guy as being clingy and needy... But he is. And this is TMI, but we have a lot of sex, and if we go 2-3 days without it he gets all "Are you even sexually attracted to me?".
Too much estrogen!
Plus I haven't seen him in a week or so and it doesn't really bug me.
I also confess that I haven't talked to anyone about this. Not even my family... Since everyone loves him so much. He treats me really well, but I can't be constantly having to reassure someone that I care about them. There is a difference between being a nice, caring guy and being a clinger.
And finally, I confess that I feel REALLY bad posting this but I had to get it out.0 -
Shamm, why do you feel bad? It's completely understandable that you are frustrated, I would be annoyed too! Being with someone that required constant reassurance is annoying at best. I'm sorry that you feel like your family wouldn't be on your side with this one, but ultimately it's about your happiness, not theirs.
Is this why you are having a bad day?0 -
I feel bad because he IS nice. I've never been treated so well by a guy. But I don't think that's enough to balance out his insecurities and what seems like a lack of faith in me.
This is part of the bad day... I'm just having a rough time right now in a few different areas. This "relationship", my family, health crap, and some stuff with my job. It's just been piling and piling! For the most part I've been able to keep it together, but as I mentioned before, I've been becoming increasingly more frustrated and confrontational.0 -
I feel bad because he IS nice. I've never been treated so well by a guy. But I don't think that's enough to balance out his insecurities and what seems like a lack of faith in me.
This is part of the bad day... I'm just having a rough time right now in a few different areas. This "relationship", my family, health crap, and some stuff with my job. It's just been piling and piling! For the most part I've been able to keep it together, but as I mentioned before, I've been becoming increasingly more frustrated and confrontational.
Have you spoken to him about how his insecurities are affecting you? Have you tried to reassure him? Or has it gone beyond that? I remember a needy guy I was seeing once, and he just made me feel on edge, like he didnt trust my integrity and that was a huge turn off. I think we all need to have faith and support our partners, rather than make them feel like being themselves is not good enough.
Dont feel bad. Your happiness comes first :flowerforyou:0 -
I confess I'm disappointed that the other thread was deleted cause there were two issues I wanted to see get resolved. One I guess I can handle in here.
Poncho, you aren't single?! Am I the only one that didn't know this?
It was requested to be deleted by the OP which is usually honored.
She had left the group and saw not much productive coming from it at that point anyways.0 -
I confess I'm watching Tuesday's episode of New Girl and I hope that Olivia Munn isn't on it very long...she rubs me the wrong way. I love the show in general so it's a shame!0
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I confess I enjoyed the nice big fine chocolate hug I got from the guy at the casino today. He works there.
We went to high school together, but other then seeing him play on football nights our paths rarely crossed back then! I don't ever remember talking to him. He was at least one year a head of me.
We have been flirting on and off for over a year. I haven't been to the casino in a long time -- he asked who HE or THEM was so he could beat them up. I said I don't have a him or a them. He also likes to give me crap on my Dallas Cowboys!!
I ran out of money fast (damn machines - how dare they not give me a BIG win) so I got to talk to him for a very long time. He slipped me his business card with his digits and I gave him mine. Cute to see the little old ladies flirt with him. This man is yummy. I'm telling you! He fills out a suit very nicely!
Before I left he said, come here -- give me a hug before you go! Hell yes!! He knew I was sick with a cold too and still gave me a hug.
It was good to see him again. We'll see where this goes.
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I confess that I'm totally lame, but during the Christmas season, I absolutely HAVE to watch White Christmas, It's A Wonderful Life and Elf :laugh:0
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I confess I have read the news piece the local news, too chicken to watch. My friends and family loved it and I hope it makes more people more aware.
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I confess I enjoyed the nice big fine chocolate hug I got from the guy at the casino today. He works there.
How does one go about giving a chocolate hug? Do I have to coat myself in chocolate first? Do I let it dry? Do I just give them a piece of chocolate before hugging them? After? SO MANY QUESTIONS!I confess that I'm totally lame, but during the Christmas season, I absolutely HAVE to watch White Christmas, It's A Wonderful Life and Elf :laugh:
You forgot a Christmas Story!
You'll shoot yer eye out!0 -
Deep dark confession time.. I signed up for beautifulpeople.com *and* I got accepted after their 48 hour "judging" period.
I was more curious than anything after I read a story about how they deleted thousands of members after they put on a few extra pounds over the holiday.
I'm not a paying member and probably won't join. Has anyone else tried any niche dating sites?0 -
I confess I enjoyed the nice big fine chocolate hug I got from the guy at the casino today. He works there.How does one go about giving a chocolate hug? Do I have to coat myself in chocolate first? Do I let it dry? Do I just give them a piece of chocolate before hugging them? After? SO MANY QUESTIONS!
He refers to himself as chocolate -- he is one fine black man!
Though pretty much anything chocolate with him would be oh so fun!! Especially that coating of one self!! I totally have a halo!! 0 -
I confess that I have been out of work with the flu since tuesday afternoon. Usually I would feel guiltiy for missing work sick but this time I don't care even with me taking vacation starting next Friday.0
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I confess that I'm watching the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show I DVR-d and oh my goodness the women are soooooo beautiful I'm so jealous!!0
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I confess that I'm watching the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show I DVR-d and oh my goodness the women are soooooo beautiful I'm so jealous!!
I confess that I did not watch that, but I am in LOVE with their panties. I may need an intervention. My panty drawer said enough. I'm FULL!! Ha!
I am in love with their new sparkly bra (I love anything that sparkles and/or glitters), but that sucker is 65 bucks!! And of course i would HAVE to get the panties that matched!!
I need to find a man that likes to buy lingerie. Be a win/win!0 -
I confess that I'm watching the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show I DVR-d and oh my goodness the women are soooooo beautiful I'm so jealous!!
I confess that I did not watch that, but I am in LOVE with their panties. I may need an intervention. My panty drawer said enough. I'm FULL!! Ha!
I am in love with their new sparkly bra (I love anything that sparkles and/or glitters), but that sucker is 65 bucks!! And of course i would HAVE to get the panties that matched!!
I need to find a man that likes to buy lingerie. Be a win/win!
Haha that is a perfect solution!
I love their lingerie it's so pretty...I don't own any as I don't have anyone to wear it for, but as soon as I have a BF, I'll be there buying half the store! Sometimes I go and just try it on for fun!0 -
I feel bad because he IS nice. I've never been treated so well by a guy. But I don't think that's enough to balance out his insecurities and what seems like a lack of faith in me.
This is part of the bad day... I'm just having a rough time right now in a few different areas. This "relationship", my family, health crap, and some stuff with my job. It's just been piling and piling! For the most part I've been able to keep it together, but as I mentioned before, I've been becoming increasingly more frustrated and confrontational.
Have you spoken to him about how his insecurities are affecting you? Have you tried to reassure him? Or has it gone beyond that? I remember a needy guy I was seeing once, and he just made me feel on edge, like he didnt trust my integrity and that was a huge turn off. I think we all need to have faith and support our partners, rather than make them feel like being themselves is not good enough.
Dont feel bad. Your happiness comes first :flowerforyou:
Yup and yup. It's to the point where at least once a week he gets all insecure and I have to reassure him. I don't have that much attention to give at this point, and I told him this in the beginning. He told me that was fine and he understood, but now it's like if I don't talk to him every few hours he thinks the world is going to explode.
I'm going to do the "space" thing and see if maybe he can pull it together. But if he can't, then I'm throwing in the towel.0 -
I confess that I'm watching the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show I DVR-d and oh my goodness the women are soooooo beautiful I'm so jealous!!
I confess that I stayed far far away from that in order to keep my self-esteem intact. hahah0 -
I love their stuff too!! I have a few bras from them, but I usually wait for their semi-annual sales and then go wild!!0
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I feel bad because he IS nice. I've never been treated so well by a guy. But I don't think that's enough to balance out his insecurities and what seems like a lack of faith in me.
This is part of the bad day... I'm just having a rough time right now in a few different areas. This "relationship", my family, health crap, and some stuff with my job. It's just been piling and piling! For the most part I've been able to keep it together, but as I mentioned before, I've been becoming increasingly more frustrated and confrontational.
Have you spoken to him about how his insecurities are affecting you? Have you tried to reassure him? Or has it gone beyond that? I remember a needy guy I was seeing once, and he just made me feel on edge, like he didnt trust my integrity and that was a huge turn off. I think we all need to have faith and support our partners, rather than make them feel like being themselves is not good enough.
Dont feel bad. Your happiness comes first :flowerforyou:
Yup and yup. It's to the point where at least once a week he gets all insecure and I have to reassure him. I don't have that much attention to give at this point, and I told him this in the beginning. He told me that was fine and he understood, but now it's like if I don't talk to him every few hours he thinks the world is going to explode.
I'm going to do the "space" thing and see if maybe he can pull it together. But if he can't, then I'm throwing in the towel.
So, I remember awhile back there was a thread where you posted your career goal as special education teacher (I work in this world, so remembered- yay you!). Just knowing that, you might be a magnet for neediness and not realize it (often veiled neediness)? Don't know if you've experienced that before, but I ran into it in my early 20's, and a lot of lady sped teachers and case managers have described similar dynamics. Just saying... for the future. Good luck with everything now, though. Sorry.0 -
I feel bad because he IS nice. I've never been treated so well by a guy. But I don't think that's enough to balance out his insecurities and what seems like a lack of faith in me.
This is part of the bad day... I'm just having a rough time right now in a few different areas. This "relationship", my family, health crap, and some stuff with my job. It's just been piling and piling! For the most part I've been able to keep it together, but as I mentioned before, I've been becoming increasingly more frustrated and confrontational.
Have you spoken to him about how his insecurities are affecting you? Have you tried to reassure him? Or has it gone beyond that? I remember a needy guy I was seeing once, and he just made me feel on edge, like he didnt trust my integrity and that was a huge turn off. I think we all need to have faith and support our partners, rather than make them feel like being themselves is not good enough.
Dont feel bad. Your happiness comes first :flowerforyou:
Yup and yup. It's to the point where at least once a week he gets all insecure and I have to reassure him. I don't have that much attention to give at this point, and I told him this in the beginning. He told me that was fine and he understood, but now it's like if I don't talk to him every few hours he thinks the world is going to explode.
I'm going to do the "space" thing and see if maybe he can pull it together. But if he can't, then I'm throwing in the towel.
So, I remember awhile back there was a thread where you posted your career goal as special education teacher (I work in this world, so remembered- yay you!). Just knowing that, you might be a magnet for neediness and not realize it (often veiled neediness)? Don't know if you've experienced that before, but I ran into it in my early 20's, and a lot of lady sped teachers and case managers have described similar dynamics. Just saying... for the future. Good luck with everything now, though. Sorry.
You know, that's a REALLY good point. Thank you very much! :flowerforyou:0 -
Deep dark confession time.. I signed up for beautifulpeople.com *and* I got accepted after their 48 hour "judging" period.
I was more curious than anything after I read a story about how they deleted thousands of members after they put on a few extra pounds over the holiday.
I'm not a paying member and probably won't join. Has anyone else tried any niche dating sites?
Congrats! What kind of things did you get judged on?0 -
Wait, I came here for an actual confession. I had a very emotionally draining day at work, and my last bf (awesomely lewd and absurd) texted a suggestion- maybe "pubic rhinestones that say something clever like CUM IN" I think I'm still in love with him? Not sure what I'm doing : )0
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you are soooooo beautiful, said in my best maya rudolph, in bridesmaids voice ;-)Deep dark confession time.. I signed up for beautifulpeople.com *and* I got accepted after their 48 hour "judging" period.
I was more curious than anything after I read a story about how they deleted thousands of members after they put on a few extra pounds over the holiday.
I'm not a paying member and probably won't join. Has anyone else tried any niche dating sites?0 -
i confess that i have seriously thought about getting a tattoo that says " by invitation only" in calligraphy ( think wedding invite). my hang up so for ( for the past 3 years) has been WHERE to put it.....
it means VASTLY different things based on location...........Wait, I came here for an actual confession. I had a very emotionally draining day at work, and my last bf (awesomely lewd and absurd) texted a suggestion- maybe "pubic rhinestones that say something clever like CUM IN" I think I'm still in love with him? Not sure what I'm doing : )0 -
i confess that i have seriously thought about getting a tattoo that says " by invitation only" in calligraphy ( think wedding invite). my hang up so for ( for the past 3 years) has been WHERE to put it.....
it means VASTLY different things based on location...........Wait, I came here for an actual confession. I had a very emotionally draining day at work, and my last bf (awesomely lewd and absurd) texted a suggestion- maybe "pubic rhinestones that say something clever like CUM IN" I think I'm still in love with him? Not sure what I'm doing : )
The correct answer is belly button, because lol0 -
I have a guy friend that has a tattoo that says Slippery When Wet. I'm pretty you can take a good guess where that's at. 0
