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  • browneyedgirl7928
    browneyedgirl7928 Posts: 910 Member
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    I confess I have read the news piece the local news, too chicken to watch. My friends and family loved it and I hope it makes more people more aware. :smile:
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
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    I confess I enjoyed the nice big fine chocolate hug I got from the guy at the casino today. He works there.

    How does one go about giving a chocolate hug? Do I have to coat myself in chocolate first? Do I let it dry? Do I just give them a piece of chocolate before hugging them? After? SO MANY QUESTIONS!
    I confess that I'm totally lame, but during the Christmas season, I absolutely HAVE to watch White Christmas, It's A Wonderful Life and Elf :laugh:

    You forgot a Christmas Story!

    You'll shoot yer eye out!
  • MikeM53082
    MikeM53082 Posts: 1,199 Member
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    Deep dark confession time.. I signed up for beautifulpeople.com *and* I got accepted after their 48 hour "judging" period.

    I was more curious than anything after I read a story about how they deleted thousands of members after they put on a few extra pounds over the holiday.

    I'm not a paying member and probably won't join. Has anyone else tried any niche dating sites?
  • browneyedgirl7928
    browneyedgirl7928 Posts: 910 Member
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    I confess I enjoyed the nice big fine chocolate hug I got from the guy at the casino today. He works there.
    How does one go about giving a chocolate hug? Do I have to coat myself in chocolate first? Do I let it dry? Do I just give them a piece of chocolate before hugging them? After? SO MANY QUESTIONS!

    He refers to himself as chocolate -- he is one fine black man!

    Though pretty much anything chocolate with him would be oh so fun!! Especially that coating of one self!! I totally have a halo!! :wink:
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
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    I confess that I have been out of work with the flu since tuesday afternoon. Usually I would feel guiltiy for missing work sick but this time I don't care even with me taking vacation starting next Friday.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
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  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,064 Member
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    I confess that I'm watching the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show I DVR-d and oh my goodness the women are soooooo beautiful I'm so jealous!!
  • browneyedgirl7928
    browneyedgirl7928 Posts: 910 Member
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    I confess that I'm watching the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show I DVR-d and oh my goodness the women are soooooo beautiful I'm so jealous!!

    I confess that I did not watch that, but I am in LOVE with their panties. I may need an intervention. My panty drawer said enough. I'm FULL!! Ha!

    I am in love with their new sparkly bra (I love anything that sparkles and/or glitters), but that sucker is 65 bucks!! And of course i would HAVE to get the panties that matched!!

    I need to find a man that likes to buy lingerie. Be a win/win!
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,064 Member
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    I confess that I'm watching the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show I DVR-d and oh my goodness the women are soooooo beautiful I'm so jealous!!

    I confess that I did not watch that, but I am in LOVE with their panties. I may need an intervention. My panty drawer said enough. I'm FULL!! Ha!

    I am in love with their new sparkly bra (I love anything that sparkles and/or glitters), but that sucker is 65 bucks!! And of course i would HAVE to get the panties that matched!!

    I need to find a man that likes to buy lingerie. Be a win/win!

    Haha that is a perfect solution!

    I love their lingerie it's so pretty...I don't own any as I don't have anyone to wear it for, but as soon as I have a BF, I'll be there buying half the store! Sometimes I go and just try it on for fun!
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
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    I feel bad because he IS nice. I've never been treated so well by a guy. But I don't think that's enough to balance out his insecurities and what seems like a lack of faith in me.
    This is part of the bad day... I'm just having a rough time right now in a few different areas. This "relationship", my family, health crap, and some stuff with my job. It's just been piling and piling! For the most part I've been able to keep it together, but as I mentioned before, I've been becoming increasingly more frustrated and confrontational.

    Have you spoken to him about how his insecurities are affecting you? Have you tried to reassure him? Or has it gone beyond that? I remember a needy guy I was seeing once, and he just made me feel on edge, like he didnt trust my integrity and that was a huge turn off. I think we all need to have faith and support our partners, rather than make them feel like being themselves is not good enough.

    Dont feel bad. Your happiness comes first :flowerforyou:

    Yup and yup. It's to the point where at least once a week he gets all insecure and I have to reassure him. I don't have that much attention to give at this point, and I told him this in the beginning. He told me that was fine and he understood, but now it's like if I don't talk to him every few hours he thinks the world is going to explode.

    I'm going to do the "space" thing and see if maybe he can pull it together. But if he can't, then I'm throwing in the towel.
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
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    I confess that I'm watching the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show I DVR-d and oh my goodness the women are soooooo beautiful I'm so jealous!!

    I confess that I stayed far far away from that in order to keep my self-esteem intact. hahah
  • browneyedgirl7928
    browneyedgirl7928 Posts: 910 Member
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    I love their stuff too!! I have a few bras from them, but I usually wait for their semi-annual sales and then go wild!!
  • julesboots
    julesboots Posts: 311 Member
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    I feel bad because he IS nice. I've never been treated so well by a guy. But I don't think that's enough to balance out his insecurities and what seems like a lack of faith in me.
    This is part of the bad day... I'm just having a rough time right now in a few different areas. This "relationship", my family, health crap, and some stuff with my job. It's just been piling and piling! For the most part I've been able to keep it together, but as I mentioned before, I've been becoming increasingly more frustrated and confrontational.

    Have you spoken to him about how his insecurities are affecting you? Have you tried to reassure him? Or has it gone beyond that? I remember a needy guy I was seeing once, and he just made me feel on edge, like he didnt trust my integrity and that was a huge turn off. I think we all need to have faith and support our partners, rather than make them feel like being themselves is not good enough.

    Dont feel bad. Your happiness comes first :flowerforyou:

    Yup and yup. It's to the point where at least once a week he gets all insecure and I have to reassure him. I don't have that much attention to give at this point, and I told him this in the beginning. He told me that was fine and he understood, but now it's like if I don't talk to him every few hours he thinks the world is going to explode.

    I'm going to do the "space" thing and see if maybe he can pull it together. But if he can't, then I'm throwing in the towel.


    So, I remember awhile back there was a thread where you posted your career goal as special education teacher (I work in this world, so remembered- yay you!). Just knowing that, you might be a magnet for neediness and not realize it (often veiled neediness)? Don't know if you've experienced that before, but I ran into it in my early 20's, and a lot of lady sped teachers and case managers have described similar dynamics. Just saying... for the future. Good luck with everything now, though. Sorry.
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
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    I feel bad because he IS nice. I've never been treated so well by a guy. But I don't think that's enough to balance out his insecurities and what seems like a lack of faith in me.
    This is part of the bad day... I'm just having a rough time right now in a few different areas. This "relationship", my family, health crap, and some stuff with my job. It's just been piling and piling! For the most part I've been able to keep it together, but as I mentioned before, I've been becoming increasingly more frustrated and confrontational.

    Have you spoken to him about how his insecurities are affecting you? Have you tried to reassure him? Or has it gone beyond that? I remember a needy guy I was seeing once, and he just made me feel on edge, like he didnt trust my integrity and that was a huge turn off. I think we all need to have faith and support our partners, rather than make them feel like being themselves is not good enough.

    Dont feel bad. Your happiness comes first :flowerforyou:

    Yup and yup. It's to the point where at least once a week he gets all insecure and I have to reassure him. I don't have that much attention to give at this point, and I told him this in the beginning. He told me that was fine and he understood, but now it's like if I don't talk to him every few hours he thinks the world is going to explode.

    I'm going to do the "space" thing and see if maybe he can pull it together. But if he can't, then I'm throwing in the towel.


    So, I remember awhile back there was a thread where you posted your career goal as special education teacher (I work in this world, so remembered- yay you!). Just knowing that, you might be a magnet for neediness and not realize it (often veiled neediness)? Don't know if you've experienced that before, but I ran into it in my early 20's, and a lot of lady sped teachers and case managers have described similar dynamics. Just saying... for the future. Good luck with everything now, though. Sorry.

    You know, that's a REALLY good point. Thank you very much! :flowerforyou:
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
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    Deep dark confession time.. I signed up for beautifulpeople.com *and* I got accepted after their 48 hour "judging" period.

    I was more curious than anything after I read a story about how they deleted thousands of members after they put on a few extra pounds over the holiday.

    I'm not a paying member and probably won't join. Has anyone else tried any niche dating sites?

    Congrats! What kind of things did you get judged on?
  • julesboots
    julesboots Posts: 311 Member
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    Wait, I came here for an actual confession. I had a very emotionally draining day at work, and my last bf (awesomely lewd and absurd) texted a suggestion- maybe "pubic rhinestones that say something clever like CUM IN" I think I'm still in love with him? Not sure what I'm doing : )
  • 4themoney
    4themoney Posts: 797 Member
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    you are soooooo beautiful, said in my best maya rudolph, in bridesmaids voice ;-)
    Deep dark confession time.. I signed up for beautifulpeople.com *and* I got accepted after their 48 hour "judging" period.

    I was more curious than anything after I read a story about how they deleted thousands of members after they put on a few extra pounds over the holiday.

    I'm not a paying member and probably won't join. Has anyone else tried any niche dating sites?
  • 4themoney
    4themoney Posts: 797 Member
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    i confess that i have seriously thought about getting a tattoo that says " by invitation only" in calligraphy ( think wedding invite). my hang up so for ( for the past 3 years) has been WHERE to put it.....

    it means VASTLY different things based on location...........
    Wait, I came here for an actual confession. I had a very emotionally draining day at work, and my last bf (awesomely lewd and absurd) texted a suggestion- maybe "pubic rhinestones that say something clever like CUM IN" I think I'm still in love with him? Not sure what I'm doing : )
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
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    i confess that i have seriously thought about getting a tattoo that says " by invitation only" in calligraphy ( think wedding invite). my hang up so for ( for the past 3 years) has been WHERE to put it.....

    it means VASTLY different things based on location...........
    Wait, I came here for an actual confession. I had a very emotionally draining day at work, and my last bf (awesomely lewd and absurd) texted a suggestion- maybe "pubic rhinestones that say something clever like CUM IN" I think I'm still in love with him? Not sure what I'm doing : )

    The correct answer is belly button, because lol
  • browneyedgirl7928
    browneyedgirl7928 Posts: 910 Member
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    I have a guy friend that has a tattoo that says Slippery When Wet. I'm pretty you can take a good guess where that's at. :wink: