Dating challenge
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I'm sorry to anyone who feels this is too easy! For others of us it really is a challenge to be more social and extroverted though. Again I hope everyone just remembers we're all in different places in our lives, and the thread was just meant as a silly game to get some new year's resolutions in. :flowerforyou: Feel free to start some new challenges or add/adjust points to fit your own level!
No reason to apologize. I think it's a fun challenge and gets people out of their comfort zones. I've been talking more to strangers and making more eye contact (not keeping score for myself). I think it's just as you said, everyone is in different stages and needs to work on different things.0 -
Eye contact with a stranger = 1 pt (X4)
Smiling at a stranger =1 (X4)
Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 (X1)
Not much today. Still pretty tired.
So that's +9 points for me today.0 -
Ok so at last tally I was at 50 points....
Over the last two days I...
Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating site (before I actually deleted my profile) = 1 point (got rejected)
Smiled at a stranger and started a conversation: 6 points (a guy at my gym who's there at the same time as me always. He's absolutely not my type, but hey, I'm usually the unsocial girl at the gym so it counts right)
Total now: 56
If I got out more and didn't have a monotonous routine I'd probably get more. If I also went to a gym that more than 2 guys that were in the age range of 28-35 I'd be better too.0 -
Sorry, not had time to play this PJ, but I was with a solo guy client last night and he made me cringe. Kept playing with his balls through his trousers and basically just invading my space......I thought he was fairly attractive when I first met him too.......urgh!!!
Funny how people can just turn you off.............:sick:
So I guess that's minus 5000 points then...........:laugh:0 -
Stats as of 11:20 EST, 6Jan13....
christine24t - 2
kitsune - 10
pa_jorg - 26
oualum26 - 50
kerrymh - 56
smallerbridesmaid - 62
shammxo - 82
jenbit - 1,167
fitnesspalworks - 2,131
Way to go ladies!!!
I know JenBit and she's been using some "performance enhancing" techniques.. like a short skirts and push-up bras. It's like playing home run derby against Barry Bonds and Mark McGuire.
Mike this made me laugh so hard my coworker came to see if I was ok......
New additions for my score from esterday night
Any conversation on a dating site that makes it to 10 replies back and forth = 3 different conversations on OKC =15 points
Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points = Its dangerous to le me loose in the bar lol..2 guys who were friends of a male friend. 2 guys at the bar while ordering drinks and one guy who was amazing at Kareoke =25 ponts
new total =1207
How many point do you get for initating a pool game and then whooping the guys *kitten* lol.
Oh I forgot one lol
Asking for/or giving out your phone number = 20 points x2= last night was busy 1 was a guy watching me play pool (considoring what I was wearing I assumed he enjoyed the view jeans and a very low cut top lol) and the guy I beat at pool lol
1247
So telling someone your not into them instead of just poofing = 2 guys on OKC last night =25x2=50
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I have the day off today...once I wake up I think I'll try to get a few points at the gym!0
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I have the day off today...once I wake up I think I'll try to get a few points at the gym!
Have fun! Tell us how it goes!0 -
Sorry, not had time to play this PJ, but I was with a solo guy client last night and he made me cringe. Kept playing with his balls through his trousers and basically just invading my space......I thought he was fairly attractive when I first met him too.......urgh!!!
Funny how people can just turn you off.............:sick:
Eeeeeeewwwww, hope you at least got a sale out of dealing with that! :laugh:
Great attitude! Good luck!! :drinker:I have the day off today...once I wake up I think I'll try to get a few points at the gym!0 -
Kept playing with his balls through his trousers and basically just invading my space.....
........... wat.0 -
Sorry, not had time to play this PJ, but I was with a solo guy client last night and he made me cringe. Kept playing with his balls through his trousers and basically just invading my space......I thought he was fairly attractive when I first met him too.......urgh!!!
Funny how people can just turn you off.............:sick:
So I guess that's minus 5000 points then...........:laugh:
Eck... I think you get 500 points for not punching him in the junk...0 -
Pa, no need to apologize, I was just noting that nothing on the list was outside my comfort zone. I realize we all have differnt comfort levels etc. I like your game but feel i would be taking unfair advantage because i am a social butterfly and would ruin the curve!!!
Becky, you want me to come up with a fitness challenge? Hmmm I shall think about this one...anyone desiring to play PM me a basic understanding of your current fitness level and your short term goals. Ill try and put something together....0 -
Sorry, not had time to play this PJ, but I was with a solo guy client last night and he made me cringe. Kept playing with his balls through his trousers and basically just invading my space......I thought he was fairly attractive when I first met him too.......urgh!!!
Funny how people can just turn you off.............:sick:
So I guess that's minus 5000 points then...........:laugh:
Eck... I think you get 500 points for not punching him in the junk...
PMSL!!!!!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:0 -
Pa, no need to apologize, I was just noting that nothing on the list was outside my comfort zone. I realize we all have differnt comfort levels etc. I like your game but feel i would be taking unfair advantage because i am a social butterfly and would ruin the curve!!!
Becky, you want me to come up with a fitness challenge? Hmmm I shall think about this one...anyone desiring to play PM me a basic understanding of your current fitness level and your short term goals. Ill try and put something together....
That's easy - lose 30lbs by Easter :bigsmile: I am a P90X graduate and Turbo Fire is my current thing. With my work schedule just trying to at least do a 20min HIIT 4x per week.0 -
Pa, no need to apologize, I was just noting that nothing on the list was outside my comfort zone. I realize we all have differnt comfort levels etc. I like your game but feel i would be taking unfair advantage because i am a social butterfly and would ruin the curve!!!
Becky, you want me to come up with a fitness challenge? Hmmm I shall think about this one...anyone desiring to play PM me a basic understanding of your current fitness level and your short term goals. Ill try and put something together....
You can't ruin the curve....I'll put you in the Majors with jenbit & fpw
Yep. Somebody asked a question right before Christmas about whether we were on MFP more socially or actually using the fitness side. It was mentioned by a few that they needed to start getting fit again and I've been trying to think of ways to get that moving. Since I'm sidelined right now, I'm demotivated in that area....you seem like a good person to get us going on this.
ETA - My goals - I have a Tough Mudder June 1st, but a possible torn meniscus right now. Doctor has said no running, treadmill, elliptical, bike or lower body weights..... I'm afraid of bulking up my upper body and looking weird, so all I've been doing is walking and crunches for the last 3 months.
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Kept playing with his balls through his trousers and basically just invading my space.....
........... wat.
Yeah, I know. What a creep eh. Kept saying how he split up with his g/f and was hoping to meet someone else...........probably got aroused by my perfume.........urgh!0 -
Kept playing with his balls through his trousers and basically just invading my space.....
........... wat.
Yeah, I know. What a creep eh. Kept saying how he split up with his g/f and was hoping to meet someone else...........probably got aroused by my perfume.........urgh!
................ your perfume??0 -
Pa, no need to apologize, I was just noting that nothing on the list was outside my comfort zone. I realize we all have differnt comfort levels etc. I like your game but feel i would be taking unfair advantage because i am a social butterfly and would ruin the curve!!!
Becky, you want me to come up with a fitness challenge? Hmmm I shall think about this one...anyone desiring to play PM me a basic understanding of your current fitness level and your short term goals. Ill try and put something together....
You can't ruin the curve....I'll put you in the Majors with jenbit & fpw
Yep. Somebody asked a question right before Christmas about whether we were on MFP more socially or actually using the fitness side. It was mentioned by a few that they needed to start getting fit again and I've been trying to think of ways to get that moving. Since I'm sidelined right now, I'm demotivated in that area....you seem like a good person to get us going on this.
ETA - My goals - I have a Tough Mudder June 1st, but a possible torn meniscus right now. Doctor has said no running, treadmill, elliptical, bike or lower body weights..... I'm afraid of bulking up my upper body and looking weird, so all I've been doing is walking and crunches for the last 3 months.
can you go swimming?0 -
Becky - run/swim in the pool. It is a great full body workout and many places dont require a membership for pool use rather they have a say $5 per use fee etc.
Anna - You dont want to hear it and I hate to say it, but no amount of exercise helps if your feed plan sucks. Look at both and make an honest assessment. Then send me your questions. Oh yeah, it wasnt your perfume it was your tits that got him all aroused!!
Okay if I am in the Majors, then last night flirted with 6 complete strangers. Gave my number and email to a group of 3 women, got theirs in return. One called late last night and I turned down the booty call (that has to get some points)
Went to 3 bars last night by myself and chatted up strangers. smiled at multiple women.
Kissed a girl I met last night,
How many points do I get 5, 6, 10??0 -
Becky - run/swim in the pool. It is a great full body workout and many places dont require a membership for pool use rather they have a say $5 per use fee etc.
Okay if I am in the Majors, then last night flirted with 6 complete strangers. Gave my number and email to a group of 3 women, got theirs in return. One called late last night and I turned down the booty call (that has to get some points)
Went to 3 bars last night by myself and chatted up strangers. smiled at multiple women.
Kissed a girl I met last night,
How many points do I get 5, 6, 10?? Thanks Bill & MM. That's actually part of the plan...my gym has a pool, but I didn't know what to do (I'm not too strong of a swimmer). The bf will be joining me to get started. I just hate swimming.... :P
And, I think you need to readjust your numbers....you missed everything from the weekend. If you're in the majors you need to focus. FOCUS MAN.0 -
fine...this weekend, what I remember and what I saw on video:
Dont Judge me, it was my 29th Birthday!
Went to more bars then I can begin to count
Received numbers from 4 girls and 3 women and one tranny (no not a joke)
Politely rejected tranny, with a smile
got bj in bar bathroom but no phone number??? instead she added me on facebook...wtf???
had twirly time in different bathroom difffernt girl and different day (cleaned my boner in between)
accepted a fwb booty call (drunken mistake so deduct pts for that one because she is crazy and I know she is crazy but it was the trade off for a sober ride home at one of the bday parties)
so that was thur - sat nights
sun and mon were dead and last night I covered in an earlier post...am I up to ten pts yet?0
