Single Peeps Pairings (Be the Matchmaker!)
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I have seen the disgusting things he has said to women on here and have read his messages and am very put off and I am the farthest thing from a prude. I never thought informing the women of this forum of his dishonesty would result in such negativity.
Yeah… I am kinda surprised this would cause such a stink too. The #1 rule (According to counselors like Dr. Harley and Dr. Dobson) for recovering a marriage from emotional or physical infidelity is to expose it.
Now, I’ve never seen The_Iron behave inappropriately, but I *do* know many people do on this site so it does not surprise me that a wife would discover something like this. And if she did, I think it’s smart to get online and bust him.
Smart to get on-line and bust him? Like a Jerry Springer episode? Yeah, that's going to end well. Since guys love to be embarrassed in front of others.
The woman comes across as a shrill &!*@#... I'd be trolling single sites, too, if that was my wife. It beats suicide...
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Can we really be sure that she is married to the Iron?? Maybe she's just some crazy *kitten* ex.... I will continue to flirt with him till I have proof.0 -
Well, I still think Joshua is pretty awesome. He was always supportive and very witty. People make mistakes.... hope all involved heal soon.0
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I have seen the disgusting things he has said to women on here and have read his messages and am very put off and I am the farthest thing from a prude. I never thought informing the women of this forum of his dishonesty would result in such negativity.
Yeah… I am kinda surprised this would cause such a stink too. The #1 rule (According to counselors like Dr. Harley and Dr. Dobson) for recovering a marriage from emotional or physical infidelity is to expose it.
Now, I’ve never seen The_Iron behave inappropriately, but I *do* know many people do on this site so it does not surprise me that a wife would discover something like this. And if she did, I think it’s smart to get online and bust him.
Smart to get on-line and bust him? Like a Jerry Springer episode? Yeah, that's going to end well. Since guys love to be embarrassed in front of others.
The woman comes across as a shrill &!*@#... I'd be trolling single sites, too, if that was my wife. It beats suicide...
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Can we really be sure that she is married to the Iron?? Maybe she's just some crazy *kitten* ex.... I will continue to flirt with him till I have proof.
From what I know I believe this to be the case....she's his ex.0 -
Can we really be sure that she is married to the Iron?? Maybe she's just some crazy *kitten* ex.... I will continue to flirt with him till I have proof.
That was something that I was thinking, but am glad someone else said it.
It'd be nice if he told his side of things, but he has deactivated.
I didn't know him all too well.
I'm neutral.0 -
If a spouse catches their SO cheating, they should be free to post it without being jumped with name calling and disrespect. In this case, my opinion is that a more appropriate response would be (as I and several others said) to just leave it at "I'm sorry to hear that, hope you’re ok, but just so you know I never saw The_Iron behave inappropriately."
Since you are no doubt without sin (to use your vernacular), and would appreciate your alleged indiscretions being exposed on a public forum.
I guess it's time for a Single Peeps!'s pop quiz:
You've just found out your SO has been flirting with others on-line, perhaps even misrepresenting his marital status. Choose the best response:
A - Ignore it and hope it goes away.
B - Confront him privately. Discuss it with him calmly.
C - Post the entire drama on-line so all his virtual friends know he's a "cheater." Hang around a bit and answer a few questions to embarrass him even further.
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A- I guess, I don't really give a *kitten* if my girl flirts with dudes hundreds of miles away... I know she doesn't have the funds to travel.
Heh. Funny you should mention that, Poncho...
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I have seen the disgusting things he has said to women on here and have read his messages and am very put off and I am the farthest thing from a prude. I never thought informing the women of this forum of his dishonesty would result in such negativity.
Yeah… I am kinda surprised this would cause such a stink too. The #1 rule (According to counselors like Dr. Harley and Dr. Dobson) for recovering a marriage from emotional or physical infidelity is to expose it.
Now, I’ve never seen The_Iron behave inappropriately, but I *do* know many people do on this site so it does not surprise me that a wife would discover something like this. And if she did, I think it’s smart to get online and bust him.
Smart to get on-line and bust him? Like a Jerry Springer episode? Yeah, that's going to end well. Since guys love to be embarrassed in front of others.
The woman comes across as a shrill &!*@#... I'd be trolling single sites, too, if that was my wife. It beats suicide...
--P
Can we really be sure that she is married to the Iron?? Maybe she's just some crazy *kitten* ex.... I will continue to flirt with him till I have proof.
From what I know I believe this to be the case....she's his ex.
Or could she actually be the_Iron himself, posing as some chick......I don't know what to believe anymore!0 -
I would not have bothered to go online and alert everyone. Too often women focus their anger on the other woman/women than where it needs to be.... their *kitten* husbands.
I would be pissed...because as a very sexual person myself, I can't really imagine that part of my partner's life would be unfulfilled. But...people do these things for many reasons and variety is the spice of life I suppose.
But yes. I would consider it cheating (of a sort) if I did it or he did. I would have a very hard time getting over it, if at all.
I have cheated. But I knew exactly what I was doing and wanted to get caught. I never said I thought that was right...I just said I had personal reasons for it.0 -
I would not have bothered to go online and alert everyone. Too often women focus their anger on the other woman/women than where it needs to be.... their *kitten* husbands.
I would be pissed...because as a very sexual person myself, I can't really imagine that part of my partner's life would be unfulfilled. But...people do these things for many reasons and variety is the spice of life I suppose.
But yes. I would consider it cheating (of a sort) if I did it or he did. I would have a very hard time getting over it, if at all.
I have cheated. But I knew exactly what I was doing and wanted to get caught. I never said I thought that was right...I just said I had personal reasons for it.
He's a tall drink of water... needs to spread his *kitten* out!0 -
IF they are still married, this is an issue for them to to discuss together and he needs to end them. But, that is not our issue. Would I want my husband flirting with other women online, no. But, I would not blast messages out if I found out about it.
If he was flirting with other women on this site, when he disappears, they'll get the message. It's the internet... who cares? Those women will find others to flirt with.
If he had relationships in real life, then he needs to end them or end the relationship with his wife. It's his decision and not one that is any of our business. And, she should not be the one informing the "mistress". That is my opinion. He's made his bed, he can lie it.0 -
@Janie, I think you're taking everyone's surprise, confusion or even some defensiveness as approval here, which isn't the case. I would venture to say that most of us are not interested in getting involved with cheating drama. However, because I happen to read and post online here, am I or others responsible because one person did not take his vows seriously? No. At the same time, do I agree with what he did (assuming the revelation is accurate)? Not at all. My point is that online we must all take what others say with a grain of salt and we can only control our own actions and words, but please don't mistake that attitude for approval. I hope that makes sense.
This exactly. If it's true I think it's terrible. But I'm very unimpressed with the idea of coming in and dragging completely innocent strangers into it. If I was having dinner with a couple of friends and someone stormed in and started shrieking about their husband, who hung out with us a month ago purely innocently, is cheating on her I'd think the same thing.
I don't think cheating is okay and cool, and I have said in the past that I was unknowingly the other woman. When I found out I ended it, but it's hard for me to feel guilty over something that I had no knowledge I was participating in. This is similar except I haven't done anything even remotely connecting me to this guy.0 -
I would not have bothered to go online and alert everyone. Too often women focus their anger on the other woman/women than where it needs to be.... their *kitten* husbands.
I would be pissed...because as a very sexual person myself, I can't really imagine that part of my partner's life would be unfulfilled. But...people do these things for many reasons and variety is the spice of life I suppose.
But yes. I would consider it cheating (of a sort) if I did it or he did. I would have a very hard time getting over it, if at all.
I have cheated. But I knew exactly what I was doing and wanted to get caught. I never said I thought that was right...I just said I had personal reasons for it.
He's a tall drink of water... needs to spread his *kitten* out!
Did you know? He's 6'7"! But what if he was lying about that too! GASPOr could she actually be the_Iron himself, posing as some chick......I don't know what to believe anymore!
Considering the stuff I've seen him post in the past, I wouldn't really put that past him.0 -
I thought of a new pairing
Poncho & CrowdStoppa0 -
Did you know? He's 6'7"! But what if he was lying about that too! GASP
Kits were you exchanging nudies with the Iron??0 -
I find it interesting that she came on here to bust him, but now has 3 pics posted...0
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I find it interesting that she came on here to bust him, but now has 3 pics posted...
Whoa. Pretty sexy. Maybe I take back what I said...
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In before she's flirting with Poncho.
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I'm challenging Praha and Poncho to an arm wrestling contest for her. She's cute (but still a little crazy)!!0
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Did you know? He's 6'7"! But what if he was lying about that too! GASP
Kits were you exchanging nudies with the Iron??
Just the one of him and a tape measure.0 -
I'm challenging Praha and Poncho to an arm wrestling contest for her. She's cute (but still a little crazy)!!
You wouldn't hit that?? She's trashy hot, and has aggression to be worked out!0 -
LOL, Poncho and Patrick, if you guys fight over this chick can you at least do it naked? In mud?
Oh *kitten*, does this implicate me for flirting with you! Poncho, your girl isn't gonna come on here and get crazy at me will she?0 -
I'm challenging Praha and Poncho to an arm wrestling contest for her. She's cute (but still a little crazy)!!
You wouldn't hit that?? She's trashy hot, and has aggression to be worked out!
I'd totally date this chick. Cute and crazy is an incredible combination in the bedroom! Though I don't think I'd trust her around sharp objects.0 -
LOL, Poncho and Patrick, if you guys fight over this chick can you at least do it naked? In mud?
Oh *kitten*, does this implicate me for flirting with you! Poncho, your girl isn't gonna come on here and get crazy at me will she?
She's very artsy... I can sleep with anyone I want as long as she can paint the scene.0 -
LOL wow I take a couple of vicodin and go into sleep mood and people do this ,,,,
The correct answer is B privately ... Second of all has anyone actaully heard from the Iron before he gets judged...... Someone said this girl is his ex which if true makes her well, I'll be nice
Also The Iron has never been anything but nice and not flirty at all beyond telling us all that he is 6'7.....We only have her word thus far and if he did deactivate it maybe because she is his an ex well you've seen the above.0 -
LOL, Poncho and Patrick, if you guys fight over this chick can you at least do it naked? In mud?
Oh *kitten*, does this implicate me for flirting with you! Poncho, your girl isn't gonna come on here and get crazy at me will she?
She's very artsy... I can sleep with anyone I want as long as she can paint the scene.
Alright, I'll get the mud and camera, you guys start taking off your clothes and stretch out.
Edit: Interesting pairing. Poncho and Patrick. Haha, I didn't know it was going to go this way :laugh:0 -
I'm challenging Praha and Poncho to an arm wrestling contest for her. She's cute (but still a little crazy)!!
You wouldn't hit that?? She's trashy hot, and has aggression to be worked out!
I'd totally date this chick. Cute and crazy is an incredible combination in the bedroom! Though I don't think I'd trust her around sharp objects.
or your home address lol0 -
LOL, Poncho and Patrick, if you guys fight over this chick can you at least do it naked? In mud?
Oh *kitten*, does this implicate me for flirting with you! Poncho, your girl isn't gonna come on here and get crazy at me will she?
She's very artsy... I can sleep with anyone I want as long as she can paint the scene.
Alright, I'll get the mud and camera, you guys start taking off your clothes and stretch out.
I think there was a miscommunication here... my computer antenna must be acting up again.0 -
LOL, Poncho and Patrick, if you guys fight over this chick can you at least do it naked? In mud?
Oh *kitten*, does this implicate me for flirting with you! Poncho, your girl isn't gonna come on here and get crazy at me will she?
She's very artsy... I can sleep with anyone I want as long as she can paint the scene.
Alright, I'll get the mud and camera, you guys start taking off your clothes and stretch out.
I think there was a miscommunication here... my computer antenna must be acting up again.
You're backing out NOW?! What am I supposed to do with all this mud?
*siiiigh* Alright Jen, looks like you and I are going to fill in for these slackers.0 -
Also The Iron has never been anything but nice and not flirty at all beyond telling us all that he is 6'7.....We only have her word thus far and if he did deactivate it maybe because she is his an ex well you've seen the above.
Are you suggesting that she is a stalker?? That makes her so much hotter.... I'm going to PM her.0 -
LOL wow I take a couple of vicodin and go into sleep mood and people do this ,,,,
The correct answer is B privately ... Second of all has anyone actaully heard from the Iron before he gets judged...... Someone said this girl is his ex which if true makes her well, I'll be nice
Also The Iron has never been anything but nice and not flirty at all beyond telling us all that he is 6'7.....We only have her word thus far and if he did deactivate it maybe because she is his an ex well you've seen the above.
I have heard from him....he gave me a heads up this would be happening. He calls her his ex. And no...I was never inappropriate with him. Lol. Just talks about lifting and his daughter.0 -
LOL, Poncho and Patrick, if you guys fight over this chick can you at least do it naked? In mud?
Oh *kitten*, does this implicate me for flirting with you! Poncho, your girl isn't gonna come on here and get crazy at me will she?
She's very artsy... I can sleep with anyone I want as long as she can paint the scene.
Alright, I'll get the mud and camera, you guys start taking off your clothes and stretch out.
I think there was a miscommunication here... my computer antenna must be acting up again.
You're backing out NOW?! What am I supposed to do with all this mud?
*siiiigh* Alright Jen, looks like you and I are going to fill in for these slackers.
Oh goodie mud wrestling... LOL we may be on even ground here Kits ...I have partial mobility in my leg cause of the brace but I've been wrestling with guys for years (and not like that boys) so I think I can take you whose got the camera0 -
LOL, Poncho and Patrick, if you guys fight over this chick can you at least do it naked? In mud?
Oh *kitten*, does this implicate me for flirting with you! Poncho, your girl isn't gonna come on here and get crazy at me will she?
She's very artsy... I can sleep with anyone I want as long as she can paint the scene.
Alright, I'll get the mud and camera, you guys start taking off your clothes and stretch out.
I think there was a miscommunication here... my computer antenna must be acting up again.
You're backing out NOW?! What am I supposed to do with all this mud?
*siiiigh* Alright Jen, looks like you and I are going to fill in for these slackers.
Oh goodie mud wrestling... LOL we may be on even ground here Kits ...I have partial mobility in my leg cause of the brace but I've been wrestling with guys for years (and not like that boys) so I think I can take you whose got the camera
Sure, I just won't tell about the jiu jitsu classes :devil:
I need a robe for this.0
