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  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    Kissing

    +100 for Christine
    + 1 for everyone else

    We will get this done Christine!! (And, I mean absolutely no offense in this sweetheart) :flowerforyou:
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    Ok, here are some of the points as suggested. This is meant to be about breaking out of your comfort zone (and we Peeps are at all different levels of that so I tried to make it as fair as possible). With that in mind, this isn't a 'sex' game either so there are only a few points for physical actions.

    Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point
    Smiling at a stranger = 1 point
    Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating site = 1 point
    Any conversation on a dating site that makes it to 10 replies back and forth = 5 points
    Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points
    Flirting with someone you don’t fancy = 10 points
    Asking for/or giving out your phone number = 20 points
    Asking someone you know to fix you up = 25 points
    Telling someone you’re not into them (instead of poofing) = 25 points
    Attending any social event/function you wouldn’t normally (including dates you would might have previously said no to) = 30 points
    Flirting with someone you fancy = 50 points
    First kiss = 50 points
    Starting an online dating profile (only valid if you don’t already have one) = 50 points
    Asking someone you like out on a date = 50 points
    Asking a stranger out on a date = 100 points
    Having a one night stand = 100 points for women / -10 for men
    Sincerely telling someone you love them = 100 for men/ 1 for women
    Going to a bar on your own and flirting with someone = 500 points


    We have to go on the honor system, so add a post anytime you do anything from the list and keep track of your own points there! If you do/say something and you think you deserve points for something not listed, perhaps Run could dole out the points since she offered to help? Should we let this go until the end of January (basically a month) and I'll figure out a small prize for the winner then?

    Good luck Peeps and have fun!!!! :drinker:
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    Kissing

    +100 for Christine
    + 1 for everyone else

    We will get this done Christine!! (And, I mean absolutely no offense in this sweetheart) :flowerforyou:

    Agreed 100%! :flowerforyou:
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    Man.....you all are making me want to be single now (that's my competitive side coming out...) :laugh:
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    One night stand
    + 100 women
    - 10 men

    Sincerely telling someone you love them
    + 100 men
    + 1 women

    Fair?
    Pssh I'll win this game easily. Come later this year in March @Emerald City Comic con, Seattle's comic con, and San Diego's comic con in July, I'll declare my sincere love to all female cosplayers I run across.

    *edit oops, forgot it's already 2013, lol
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    One night stand
    + 100 women
    - 10 men

    Sincerely telling someone you love them
    + 100 men
    + 1 women

    Fair?
    Pssh I'll win this game easily. Come later this year in March @Emerald City Comic con, Seattle's comic con, and San Diego's comic con in July, I'll declare my sincere love to all female cosplayers I run across.

    *edit oops, forgot it's already 2013, lol

    I :heart: your confidence Cesar!
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Kissing

    +100 for Christine
    + 1 for everyone else

    We will get this done Christine!! (And, I mean absolutely no offense in this sweetheart) :flowerforyou:

    Yes I can't wait!!
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I just made eye contact and smiled at a random guy...what is happening to me? Lol how many points is that?

    2 points honey - you're in the lead !! :bigsmile:
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I just made eye contact and smiled at a random guy...what is happening to me? Lol how many points is that?

    2 points honey - you're in the lead !! :bigsmile:

    Woo hoo!!!!
  • shamrck44
    shamrck44 Posts: 91
    And now I want to go sit alone in a bar and flirt. I think I am a points *kitten*.
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    Having a one night stand = 100 points for women / -10 for men
    I will never discourage a challenge that encourages women to have more one night stands. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    A server told my friends and I to behave and I asked him what he would do if we didn't. Does that count as flirting with a stranger.
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    A server told my friends and I to behave and I asked him what he would do if we didn't. Does that count as flirting with a stranger.
    Absolutely! Way to go Kits!
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    A server told my friends and I to behave and I asked him what he would do if we didn't. Does that count as flirting with a stranger.
    Absolutely! Way to go Kits!

    Definitely!!
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    How much for making a porn movie?
  • kerrymh
    kerrymh Posts: 912 Member
    Ok, here are some of the points as suggested. This is meant to be about breaking out of your comfort zone (and we Peeps are at all different levels of that so I tried to make it as fair as possible). With that in mind, this isn't a 'sex' game either so there are only a few points for physical actions.

    Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point
    Smiling at a stranger = 1 point
    Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating site = 1 point
    Any conversation on a dating site that makes it to 10 replies back and forth = 5 points
    Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points
    Flirting with someone you don’t fancy = 10 points
    Asking for/or giving out your phone number = 20 points
    Asking someone you know to fix you up = 25 points
    Telling someone you’re not into them (instead of poofing) = 25 points
    Attending any social event/function you wouldn’t normally (including dates you would might have previously said no to) = 30 points
    Flirting with someone you fancy = 50 points
    First kiss = 50 points
    Starting an online dating profile (only valid if you don’t already have one) = 50 points
    Asking someone you like out on a date = 50 points
    Asking a stranger out on a date = 100 points
    Having a one night stand = 100 points for women / -10 for men
    Sincerely telling someone you love them = 100 for men/ 1 for women
    Going to a bar on your own and flirting with someone = 500 points


    We have to go on the honor system, so add a post anytime you do anything from the list and keep track of your own points there! If you do/say something and you think you deserve points for something not listed, perhaps Run could dole out the points since she offered to help? Should we let this go until the end of January (basically a month) and I'll figure out a small prize for the winner then?

    Good luck Peeps and have fun!!!! :drinker:

    So far since yesterday I have re signed up on POF and emailed a man..who did email be back but said I looked too much like his sister also another conversation that was over 10 replys ..we are meeting for coffee sunday..lol so whats that 56 pts.
  • 4themoney
    4themoney Posts: 797 Member
    is this outside of your comfort zone?? ;-)
    How much for making a porn movie?
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    How much for making a porn movie?

    Definitely 500 points, but only if we see all your junk AND your face to prove it's really you... :wink: :laugh:
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    So far since yesterday I have re signed up on POF and emailed a man..who did email be back but said I looked too much like his sister also another conversation that was over 10 replys ..we are meeting for coffee sunday..lol so whats that 56 pts.

    Awesome!
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    How much for making a porn movie?

    Definitely 500 points, but only if we see all your junk AND your face to prove it's really you... :wink: :laugh:

    :laugh: :laugh:

    I'd like to see the evidence too, please!! :bigsmile:
  • oualum26
    oualum26 Posts: 128 Member
    I'd love to do this, but for me, smiling to the stranger is 500 points. Considering I'm pretty sure I'm the worst flirter ever and a guy hasn't asked me for my number in two years... I'm pretty sure I need lessons. I also am scared to death to give my number out. But here's to trying!
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    I'd love to do this, but for me, smiling to the stranger is 500 points. Considering I'm pretty sure I'm the worst flirter ever and a guy hasn't asked me for my number in two years... I'm pretty sure I need lessons. I also am scared to death to give my number out. But here's to trying!

    You should totally join us then! It isn't about winning, it's about challenging ourselves to step out of our comfort zones!! :drinker:
  • oualum26
    oualum26 Posts: 128 Member
    I'd love to do this, but for me, smiling to the stranger is 500 points. Considering I'm pretty sure I'm the worst flirter ever and a guy hasn't asked me for my number in two years... I'm pretty sure I need lessons. I also am scared to death to give my number out. But here's to trying!

    You should totally join us then! It isn't about winning, it's about challenging ourselves to step out of our comfort zones!! :drinker:

    Ill try. I don't go out much. I pretty much just go to the gym and work. And the average age at my gym is 55 so no dice there. I'm supposed to go out with a friend tonight. Maybe with some liquid courage ill give this a whirl!
  • FitnessPalWorks
    FitnessPalWorks Posts: 1,128 Member
    Back on POF... but do I really have to flirt with the guys 15 years younger? Oy vey!! LOL
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Ok, here are some of the points as suggested. This is meant to be about breaking out of your comfort zone (and we Peeps are at all different levels of that so I tried to make it as fair as possible). With that in mind, this isn't a 'sex' game either so there are only a few points for physical actions.

    Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point
    Smiling at a stranger = 1 point
    Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating site = 1 point
    Any conversation on a dating site that makes it to 10 replies back and forth = 5 points
    Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points
    Flirting with someone you don’t fancy = 10 points
    Asking for/or giving out your phone number = 20 points
    Asking someone you know to fix you up = 25 points
    Telling someone you’re not into them (instead of poofing) = 25 points
    Attending any social event/function you wouldn’t normally (including dates you would might have previously said no to) = 30 points
    Flirting with someone you fancy = 50 points
    First kiss = 50 points
    Starting an online dating profile (only valid if you don’t already have one) = 50 points
    Asking someone you like out on a date = 50 points
    Asking a stranger out on a date = 100 points
    Having a one night stand = 100 points for women / -10 for men
    Sincerely telling someone you love them = 100 for men/ 1 for women
    Going to a bar on your own and flirting with someone = 500 points


    We have to go on the honor system, so add a post anytime you do anything from the list and keep track of your own points there! If you do/say something and you think you deserve points for something not listed, perhaps Run could dole out the points since she offered to help? Should we let this go until the end of January (basically a month) and I'll figure out a small prize for the winner then?

    Good luck Peeps and have fun!!!! :drinker:

    Ok after reading this list I can't play it simply wouldn't be fair.

    Going to a bar on your own and flirting with someone = 500 points (Done this 2 x this week already)

    Starting an online dating profile (only valid if you don’t already have one) = 50 points (restarted my old one )

    Telling someone you’re not into them (instead of poofing) = 25 points (2 guys on okcupid)

    Asking for/or giving out your phone number = 20 points (x3 this last week)


    Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point
    Smiling at a stranger = 1 point Not counting this three Im to big a flirt lol
    Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points


    So my total so far is 1160 lol

    I still wanna play though I love to win lol:bigsmile:
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    Ok, here are some of the points as suggested. This is meant to be about breaking out of your comfort zone (and we Peeps are at all different levels of that so I tried to make it as fair as possible). With that in mind, this isn't a 'sex' game either so there are only a few points for physical actions.

    Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point
    Smiling at a stranger = 1 point
    Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating site = 1 point
    Any conversation on a dating site that makes it to 10 replies back and forth = 5 points
    Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points
    Flirting with someone you don’t fancy = 10 points
    Asking for/or giving out your phone number = 20 points
    Asking someone you know to fix you up = 25 points
    Telling someone you’re not into them (instead of poofing) = 25 points
    Attending any social event/function you wouldn’t normally (including dates you would might have previously said no to) = 30 points
    Flirting with someone you fancy = 50 points
    First kiss = 50 points
    Starting an online dating profile (only valid if you don’t already have one) = 50 points
    Asking someone you like out on a date = 50 points
    Asking a stranger out on a date = 100 points
    Having a one night stand = 100 points for women / -10 for men
    Sincerely telling someone you love them = 100 for men/ 1 for women
    Going to a bar on your own and flirting with someone = 500 points


    We have to go on the honor system, so add a post anytime you do anything from the list and keep track of your own points there! If you do/say something and you think you deserve points for something not listed, perhaps Run could dole out the points since she offered to help? Should we let this go until the end of January (basically a month) and I'll figure out a small prize for the winner then?

    Good luck Peeps and have fun!!!! :drinker:

    Ok after reading this list I can't play it simply wouldn't be fair.

    Going to a bar on your own and flirting with someone = 500 points (Done this 2 x this week already)

    Starting an online dating profile (only valid if you don’t already have one) = 50 points (restarted my old one )

    Telling someone you’re not into them (instead of poofing) = 25 points (2 guys on okcupid)

    Asking for/or giving out your phone number = 20 points (x3 this last week)


    Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point
    Smiling at a stranger = 1 point Not counting this three Im to big a flirt lol
    Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points


    So my total so far is 1160 lol

    I still wanna play though I love to win lol:bigsmile:

    Jen, You're already a master at this!! :drinker:
    So what is out of your comfort zone? Maybe you can play in a different way?
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member

    Telling someone you’re not into them (instead of poofing) = 25 points

    I can do the others. It's just finding the time and motivation to get out there. This is the one I can't do. And I don't poof either, I just end up dating them for far too long. :grumble:

    Edit, just re-read. I'll pass on becoming a porn star.
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    Ok, here are some of the points as suggested. This is meant to be about breaking out of your comfort zone (and we Peeps are at all different levels of that so I tried to make it as fair as possible). With that in mind, this isn't a 'sex' game either so there are only a few points for physical actions.

    Eye contact with a stranger = 1 point
    Smiling at a stranger = 1 point
    Initiating an email (or wink) on a dating site = 1 point
    Any conversation on a dating site that makes it to 10 replies back and forth = 5 points
    Starting a conversation with a stranger in public = 5 points
    Flirting with someone you don’t fancy = 10 points
    Asking for/or giving out your phone number = 20 points
    Asking someone you know to fix you up = 25 points
    Telling someone you’re not into them (instead of poofing) = 25 points
    Attending any social event/function you wouldn’t normally (including dates you would might have previously said no to) = 30 points
    Flirting with someone you fancy = 50 points
    First kiss = 50 points
    Starting an online dating profile (only valid if you don’t already have one) = 50 points
    Asking someone you like out on a date = 50 points
    Asking a stranger out on a date = 100 points
    Having a one night stand = 100 points for women / -10 for men
    Sincerely telling someone you love them = 100 for men/ 1 for women
    Going to a bar on your own and flirting with someone = 500 points


    We have to go on the honor system, so add a post anytime you do anything from the list and keep track of your own points there! If you do/say something and you think you deserve points for something not listed, perhaps Run could dole out the points since she offered to help? Should we let this go until the end of January (basically a month) and I'll figure out a small prize for the winner then?

    Good luck Peeps and have fun!!!! :drinker:

    Ooookay. As I'm already seeing someone, I'm just going to do other things that are outside of my comfort zone. Is that okay? I need to work on my social skills.

    Eye contact with a stranger +1
    Smile at a stranger +1
    Telling someone you're not into them +25

    And this all happened because I went out which I NEVER do. I got invited to a party at a bar, and I was about to say no... Then remembered my new year's resolution. So I said yes, went to the bar, smiled at a cutie across the room, and then had to tell a guy from the group we were in to back the hell off.
    +30

    So far.... +57

    Edit: I don't know if telling the guy to back off counts... Does it have to involve someone you've been seeing?
  • oualum26
    oualum26 Posts: 128 Member
    @Jenbit.... I need to take lessons from you!!! I'm horrible at all of these! People think I'm this outgoing person, and I am to an extent, but when it comes to the opposite sex and dating I'm as shy as they come. I need your help! haha
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    Ooookay. As I'm already seeing someone, I'm just going to do other things that are outside of my comfort zone. Is that okay? I need to work on my social skills.

    Eye contact with a stranger +1
    Smile at a stranger +1
    Telling someone you're not into them +25

    And this all happened because I went out which I NEVER do. I got invited to a party at a bar, and I was about to say no... Then remembered my new year's resolution. So I said yes, went to the bar, smiled at a cutie across the room, and then had to tell a guy from the group we were in to back the hell off.
    +30

    So far.... +57

    Edit: I don't know if telling the guy to back off counts... Does it have to involve someone you've been seeing?

    I didn't know you were seeing someone, but good for you! And yes, all of those things count toward the challenge! The points are the silly part, but the real goal is to be more social and adventurous, and you're doing a great job at that!!! :flowerforyou:

    Oh and I have 26 points from today just from emailing someone online, and then we had a long email convo and I gave him my #. Will have to see where this one goes.

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