Over 50s Ladies - Our Special Needs

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  • happylifex10
    happylifex10 Posts: 56 Member
    Hi ladies; haven't checked in in quite a while as was busy with my grandchildren for 2 weeks. They came for a visit while their parents renovated the main bathroom....can't have a 4 and 2 year old around while there is no bath. Although I enjoyed having them immensely, I am very tired (they went home yesterday). I slept in until 9 this a.m. (so not me) and am feeling like doing nothing today.
    I have not been on the scale for 2 weeks and am thinking I might not as it is to be my TOM on Wednesday and usually that brings on some water weight. I tried to stay true to my WOE while they were here but man it was hard. Having the carbs and sugars in the house was a major temptation..if you look at my diary, you will see that I gave in a few times for a little taste but I think I did pretty darn well.
    On a good note, the weather here seems to be heading for spring...yippee. We are finally out of the negatives and is +2 here today (or almost 40) and feels like 70 and the sun is shining very bright....got myself a 30 minute walk in this a.m. and felt so great.
    Chris, sorry to hear of your troubles with your husband lately - I hope and pray that all will straighten out and he is feeling better and remember, you need to take care of yourself as well!
  • RisiM
    RisiM Posts: 180 Member
    I'm in! Had full fat Greek yogurt with a measure of whey protein powder (banoffee flavour) for breakfast, mid afternoon had 3 eggs scrambled with butter and cheese and 2 burgers. Can't eat any more but calories are too low. How do you ladies get the numbers up? Iris
  • RATSMITH69
    RATSMITH69 Posts: 127 Member
    I was born in Texas but we lived in 12 different states before I was a freshman in high school. We moved to Virginia in 1980 where I met and married - - I was a sophomore in high school and married before I went to one school for a whole year. I moved back to Texas is 1997 when I divorced and I would gladly go the rest of my life without ever seeing snow again!!

    Someday, when I'm rich and retired, I am going to Ireland. That is my dream anyway... at this rate I'll be able to take my grown GrandFlowers with me!!

    My fat fast went well and I fell off the wagon a bit on Saturday. Out shopping with the GrandFlowers and lunch at a Chinese Buffett . . . not bad but I'm sure those sauces have tons of MSG and sugars. Oh well, this mornings weight was only 190.4 so it's all good so far. Hopefully I'll be able to keep it off and keep loosing.

    Good day to all!!

  • sbom1
    sbom1 Posts: 227 Member
    edited March 2015
    Good Monday morning ladies. Welcome to the newbies! Glad to hear (most) things are on track for everyone. Someone asked about Magnesium, I didn't take at first but was having hard night leg cramping so have started and it has improved. Make sure to get a good quality and the citrate version. I take 400mg twice a day. Slow downward creep still for me on the scale. I think some of my clothes are maybe slightly looser around the waist but not much change around the hips where I carry my extra weight.
  • totaloblivia
    totaloblivia Posts: 1,164 Member
    @totaloblivia, My mosaics and house yard animals are all together on Flicker.

    http://www.flickr.com/photos/50185661@N03/

    Hahahaha view at your own risk there is some crazy stuff going on here. Even the toilets are mosaic. When hubby spent so much time sick from chemo all I could think was when life gives you *kitten* mosaic the toilets. I am taking a short break from the hallway wall project. It is eleven foot long and so far 40 inches tall and I needed to get a fresh look at it.. I am working on a silly little project now then back to the wall as time permits..

    Wow, love the mosaics...I've always wanted to make one, just never got round to it. Toilets are amazing! Your cats are gorgeous too. Thanks for letting me have a peak into your life. Xx

  • KnitOrMiss
    KnitOrMiss Posts: 10,103 Member
    @totaloblivia, My mosaics and house yard animals are all together on Flicker.

    http://www.flickr.com/photos/50185661@N03/

    Hahahaha view at your own risk there is some crazy stuff going on here. Even the toilets are mosaic. When hubby spent so much time sick from chemo all I could think was when life gives you *kitten* mosaic the toilets. I am taking a short break from the hallway wall project. It is eleven foot long and so far 40 inches tall and I needed to get a fresh look at it.. I am working on a silly little project now then back to the wall as time permits..

    Wow, love the mosaics...I've always wanted to make one, just never got round to it. Toilets are amazing! Your cats are gorgeous too. Thanks for letting me have a peak into your life. Xx

    @shadesofidaho Your level of craft and skill is mind boggling! And your hubby doesn't mind all the sparklies? LOL
  • shadesofidaho
    shadesofidaho Posts: 485 Member
    PHEW we just got home and even though we did not shop except one quick stop for pills and garden potting mix I am done in. I do not know why it is so stressful to go to town and doctor. I had my bone density scan and darn it did not scan the visceral fat. Hips are good back is bordering on osteoporosis. Dang I did not expect that. I expected everything to be good. Oh well It does not change anything life as usual.

    Thanks on the mosaics. Funny hubby kind of ignores it yet when the sun hits some thing just right and there are rainbows on the floors and walls he will point it out. And when some one comes over they get kind of gob smacked by the kitchen and divider wall ends and he gets in a hurry for them to see it all because there is so much of it. LOL I do not know if this is good or bad. I have been doing the mosaics for almost 10 years. I am obsessed doing them. When I knew I could not mosaic the walls in other houses because we always bought to re-sale=flip, I did our furniture. Now I CAN do the walls it is so much more fun. I want to get the hallway done. It is amazing to see what will be an 11 foot long mural in glass on the wall. I have a long way to go yet. It is my release.
  • totaloblivia
    totaloblivia Posts: 1,164 Member
    We all need a release. I like to do papercraft :)
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    edited March 2015
    @happylifex10 It’s good to see you here and know that you had a lovely time with your Grandies. I hear you on how tiring they can be even though my longest session has been 2 days with the night in between. They’re rather like whirlwinds in the mess they can create aren’t they?

    @RisiM I have days like that too, where it’s hard to want enough food. Other days (not often) I want more than I’ve scheduled. I think that *occasional* low calorie days are OK as long as you don’t do it day after day. My diary is open if that is any use to you. I'm keto so it may or may not help you.

    @RATSMITH69 Wow that’s a lot of moving around. I don’t understand the American words freshman/sophomore etc but I guess it’s young. I got married when I was 18. 40 happy years ago.

    @sbom1 I’m glad that your cramping has improved. Professor Noakes says that stretching muscles before bed for several weeks, and then once a week will help prevent this. He says it’s actually a spinal cord trigger mechanism that is little understood which causes the cramps and not the muscles themselves. That’s not to say that the magnesium doesn’t help. I’ve had very little change (if any) around my waist, but the rest of me looks so different that I just have to accept it. Wanting size loss and accepting what we're given are 2 different things though aren’t they?

    @shadesofidaho I’m so sorry you have to go through this stress so regularly. Perhaps it brings forward subconscious memories from those trips where the news was bad and that’s why it’s so draining? I hope you can move forward from that point *hugs*. It sounds to me as if your husband is proud (in the way that men [don’t] show it) or your mosaic work.

    And my day so far... My sinuses are more clear than yesterday, my tickly cough isn't happening so often, and the stabbing pain in my ear is only happening about every half an hour today. I just feel that I'm on the mend and that this will now be the last bad health thing. I'm normally so robust that this endless stream of things over the past 5 weeks has been weird and frustrating. I now weigh 84.9 kgs, the same as yesterday which was a new low. I'm very very happy about that. That's 3.4 kgs (7½ lbs) gone and I'm content with slow but sure. I'm finally feeling that I know the macros and calories that I need to stick to in order to produce fat loss. It has become obvious that I need to keep track of calories, carbs, fat *and* protein and keep all of them roughly within my desired goals, or there's no weight loss, even if the calories and carbs are correct. Sshhh don't tell Fit_Goat LOL. I also measured my blood ketones after exercise yesterday and they were 0.8, which apparently means that I'm burning fat for my exercise energy!!! And presumably my day to day energy as well.
  • LesleyJDee
    LesleyJDee Posts: 10 Member
    Hello ladies. New to this group and new to LCHF.

    I tried my hand at LC cooking today, somewhat unsuccessfully though. I'm not much of a cook, never have been, but I'm all inspired with the promise of good health and fewer curves.

    I made cheesy bread ( I really miss something to put my vegemite on). The recipe requires cottage cheese. Do you know I could not find a single full fat cottage cheese at either of my local supermarkets. They only had low fat (high sugar) in stock. Made me mad. I substituted Ricotta cheese, and my 'bread' turned out rather salty. Same deal for the Cheese & Spinach Frittata - had to use Ricotta and my frittata ended up not so nice.

    Anyway I noticed in my recipe perusals quite a few dishes requiring dark chocolate. Sadly, all the dark chocolate I could find locally had heaps of sugar, even the cooking chocolate. Ditto with the coconut flour, a whopping 27.9g carbs per 50g. I couldn't find coconut oil or almond flour.

    So sorry for the whinging on my very first post, I'm just raring to go with this and the current contents of my pantry/freezer don't come up to scratch.

    :):D:#
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Oh gosh Lesley :( I had to search through all the sour cream yesterday to find the *one* brand that was full fat. I feel your pain. Reading about the huge variety of products the Americans seem to have at their disposal makes us seem quite backwards doesn't it? I suppose Sydney and Melbourne would have what we want but that would add to the cost, and time, of a shopping trip rather ;)

    Sugar is in everything. I even read recently of someone noticing on their salt packet that there was sugar in that! I did read someone on this forum saying that they spread their (vegemite wannabe) just straight on a piece of cheese. I think they buttered it too. That's always an option, and no 'cooking' skills required B)

    Might you be able to find the 70% cocoa chocolate along with the Cadburys stuff in the lolly aisle? I was using 72% Whittakers Dark Ghana when I was doing the Jonathan Bailor 'Sane' style of eating last year. That's still 33g per 100 sugar though. I have heard of a 90% chocolate that I've never seen, and there are sugar free diabetic versions too, but I haven't looked into what atrocities are in that LOL

    Whinge away. I think I've set the target for that recently, though I'm trying hard to change my ways ROFL
  • RisiM
    RisiM Posts: 180 Member
    Can you buy Lindt chocolate in Australia or Green & Blacks, they both do 70% cocoa +
  • camtosh
    camtosh Posts: 898 Member
    Check out Ditto Dan's chocolate covered strawberries recipe! looks easy and tasty.
  • LesleyJDee
    LesleyJDee Posts: 10 Member
    Thanks GrannyM - just wondering why did you give up Bailor? I just found him and thought he was okay. Should I be wary?

    Lindt yes - we have that, thanks @RisiM . It didn't really occur to me to look in the confectionary section, (that aisle is one I'm trying to avoid) I stuck with the cooking stuff.
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    No, no, Bailor is not a problem at all. I took him at his word of eating all the vegetables you can cram in, having a good sized portion of protein, and was making all of his associate chef's sweet creations for dessert and snacks though, so *for me* it didn't work. I ate too much, and that was not his fault at all. I was also an addictive sweet tooth so the desserts just helped me to stray off and eat 'normal' sweet things as well. Totally not anything wrong with his teachings, it just wasn't radical enough to turn me around.

    I'm an 'all or nothing' gal so when I continued reading more about LCHF and found keto, well I had to do keto >:)

    If you do want his associated recipe site it's marmaladeandmileposts.com/ Interestingly, Carrie Brown was born not far from the same place as myself in England, and she has lived here in Perth as well, before moving to America. She sounds fairly similar to me, which makes me cringe because I hate my voice LOL
  • KnitOrMiss
    KnitOrMiss Posts: 10,103 Member
    @RATSMITH69 Wow that’s a lot of moving around. I don’t understand the American words freshman/sophomore etc but I guess it’s young. I got married when I was 18. 40 happy years ago.

    @GrannyMayOz

    Freshman/Sophomore here in the US applies to either high school (secondary school) or college (university). For the former (secondary), it is grades 9 and 10 respectively (out of 12 total - I think that's the same most places). For the latter (Uni), it is the first and second year. Sorry I looked back a couple pages and couldn't find the original reference.

    These terms are also casually used as "introductory terms" for any sport or new position (work, volunteer, etc.). Someone's "freshman" year/term is generally the start of their work, whereas someone's "sophomore" year/term is past the basics, but not in advanced stages yet. American English can be quite confusing for those who use terms more literally (instead of to mean a half dozen different things!)...

    Hope this helps.
  • bjmcq
    bjmcq Posts: 305 Member
    I find that my ketosis numbers change during the day, and are lower after food, higher in the evening. I have found that eating too much protein at once - even when in my ratio -
    - will throw me into low ketosis numbers. Also, your body has ways to tell you it has lost...
    do you feel some burn in your thighs, or your arms....? I only weigh myself when I have these cues. Every day weigh ins does not recognize that the body will hold fat and then release it on its own time....has nothing to do with being a regular machine! Hope this helps!
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    It helps quite a bit Knit, but what ages (usually) are they? We start school the year you turn 6 (though there's kindy and pre-primary before that for those who wish). You start primary school in Year One and go to Year Six. After that you go to high school and do Years Seven to Twelve. That has most students getting their driving license during Year Twelve, age 17. There have been recent changes to the driving license structure (it takes longer to pass your test with log book hours required now) but I think I'm still right in that. We don't have nicknames for any school year ;) Well, sometimes Year Six and Year Twelve can be called 'leavers' but we far more often use the year number.
  • wheatlessgirl66
    wheatlessgirl66 Posts: 598 Member
    Hello LCHFers, Just found this group and have a question. I started eating macros 5/20/75 on March 1. That gives me 18-20 carbs/day. I had dropped wheat and most sugar from my diet 3 years ago but had no weight loss. Incredible. Anyway, I recently read Gary Taubes' Why We Get Fat and jumped on board. Here's my question: Do I have to get in the entire amount of macros, or can I just eat until I'm satisfied and be done with it? I have no problem eating the <20 carbs, but struggle with getting all the mgs of fat and protein in every day. Is following macros really important, or can I just keep at or below the carb amt and not worry about counting fat and protein. Thanks for your help. :)
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Hi wheatlessgirl :) I'm a very long way from an expert. I only discovered LCHF on 23rd January this year, so I can only give you my opinion based on what I've read and experienced since then.

    I think as long as you are eating a balance of fat and protein - not over-doing the protein (you obviously aren't!) - and not under-doing the calories then you are probably doing the right thing.

    However, if you want weight loss and haven't had any at all, you may want to look into things more deeply. Have you been logging your food so one or more of us can have a look at your diary? If you were already wheat- and sugar-free, perhaps your body has reached its happy place and you have nothing to lose?

    If you're older, as most of us in this thread are, then your weight and you might be really good friends and not so keen to part with one another. Concensus is that it's harder after menopause, or with PCOS.
  • wheatlessgirl66
    wheatlessgirl66 Posts: 598 Member
    Thanks, GrannyMayOz---Yes, I'm 68. Can't say I'm really good friends with my weight :s but I realize it may not go down very much. I've lost 4.8 lbs since starting LCHF, and am happy about that. My CW is 224.6, so for my health I really need to lose. I wasn't totally sugar free before, so dropping it all the way may help. I log my food and you're welcome to take a peek and give feedback. The balance of protein and fat is what seems hard for me, and sometimes my calories are probably a little low. But than, I have so much fat stored up does that really matter? It's not like my body has to look for something to burn....
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    No worries. I sent you a friend request so that I can view your diary. Bearing in mind it's 11:35pm for me so it may get done tomorrow ;)
  • KnitOrMiss
    KnitOrMiss Posts: 10,103 Member
    Thanks, GrannyMayOz---Yes, I'm 68. Can't say I'm really good friends with my weight :s but I realize it may not go down very much. I've lost 4.8 lbs since starting LCHF, and am happy about that. My CW is 224.6, so for my health I really need to lose. I wasn't totally sugar free before, so dropping it all the way may help. I log my food and you're welcome to take a peek and give feedback. The balance of protein and fat is what seems hard for me, and sometimes my calories are probably a little low. But than, I have so much fat stored up does that really matter? It's not like my body has to look for something to burn....

    @wheatlessgirl66‌

    You need to eat below your carb level, which it seems you are easily doing. You need to aim for enough protein to maintain your muscles/lean body mass. If you know what your body fat percentage is, this is easy enough to calculate. if not, there are ways to guess it. Mine at last count was about 48%. According to my recent losses, it should be closer now to 46%. That means my LBM is 54%. 54% of my approximately 250 pounds is 135 pounds. to maintain that, I need to eat 0.6 g/lb - 1.0 g/lb depending on my exercise needs (less for low activity/muscle levels, more for lifting weights and such). I usually use the lower number... That's 81 grams of protein I should aim for in a day. I don't want to go much over or under. After staying under carbs and targeting protein, fill the rest of your food with fats to satiety. The fat % is not as critical as the other two numbers. I hope this helps.
  • KnitOrMiss
    KnitOrMiss Posts: 10,103 Member
    It helps quite a bit Knit, but what ages (usually) are they? We start school the year you turn 6 (though there's kindy and pre-primary before that for those who wish). You start primary school in Year One and go to Year Six. After that you go to high school and do Years Seven to Twelve. That has most students getting their driving license during Year Twelve, age 17. There have been recent changes to the driving license structure (it takes longer to pass your test with log book hours required now) but I think I'm still right in that. We don't have nicknames for any school year ;) Well, sometimes Year Six and Year Twelve can be called 'leavers' but we far more often use the year number.

    Mostly in the US, Year 12 (Senior) is 17-18, Year 11 (Junior) is 16-17, Year 10 (Sophomore) is 15-16, so Year 9 (Freshman) is 14-15. (No idea where this originated. In college/uni, it is based on the number of course hours rather than age).

    Other nicknames are far more simple - Kindergarten is before your year 1. Year 1 is "First Grade," Year 2 is "Second Grade," and so on and so forth.

    School-aged children start Kindergarten (pre year 1) at at 5 (minimum) to 6. First Grade (Year 1) would then be 6-7, etc. I have a late summer birthday, so I was 5 starting school and 17 graduating. There is a September cut-off for age to start school Most of my classmates were older than me, though by less than a full year. In most US starts, there is Pre-K/Head Start that can start at age 4 and 3 respectively, but "traditional" school is Kindergarten, starting at age 5...

    And much like all manner of silly things in the US, schools can be different wherever they are. Primary School (called Elementary here) is typically Kindergarten all the way through grades 4-6, depending on school. Some places have a middle school, which can be grades 5-8. Other places are Junior High School, which can be grades 6-9. High School (your secondary) can start as low as grade 9 through grade 12. (some are 9-12, some are 10-12). A lot depends on how small or large of an area you live in (has to do with need for class sizes, age maturity, total school capacity, other factors)...

    The town I live in, when we first moved here had one school that was Kindergarten and Year one only - to keep the youngest kids away from being bullied and whatnot. Then there were three schools that had grades 2-5, one school with grades 6-8, one school with grades 9-12. Now, they've redone that. We have one school with K-4, one school with 5-6, one school with 7-8, and one school with 9-12 - and the year 9 students classes are completely separate from the rest of the school (excepting gifted/talented and/or honors classes and things like band, choir, etc.).

    As for driving - I think, but would not swear to the fact that you can still get a learning permit to drive at 15, a license at 16, restrictions removed fully by 18, I think. They've changed so much since I had to worry about all that.
  • wheatlessgirl66
    wheatlessgirl66 Posts: 598 Member
    Thank you, KnitOrMiss! Very helpful. I went to a site that figured my macros for me per BMI, so it should be correct. I've been getting protein in, but not always all fat. But I figured as long as I don't try to eat low fat, i.e., eat the skin, etc. I'll be pretty close. I don't mind counting carbs, but sometimes trying to log the ingredients in my home-cooked meals is a pain.

    GrannyMayOz, sounds like you better call it a day! Tomorrow is fine. Have a good, restful sleep.
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    @Knit - thanks for that, I think I'm the full bottle now (as they say). At least Australia is uniform across the whole country now LOL

    @wheatlessgirl - I just went to look but your diary is still not visible, it must be locked down as totally private.

    And yes, my husband is home from work now (he finished at 1am) so we're off to bed very shortly.
  • LesleyJDee
    LesleyJDee Posts: 10 Member
    Woot - look what I found today :D
    - ulhv6frzh2ja.jpg
  • GrannyMayOz
    GrannyMayOz Posts: 1,051 Member
    Ha ha. Victory!!!! Well done Lesley!
  • yturie47
    yturie47 Posts: 170 Member
    LesleyJDee wrote: »
    Woot - look what I found today :D
    - ulhv6frzh2ja.jpg

    I have been buying this at my ALDI store if this helps anyone looking! :)
  • sbom1
    sbom1 Posts: 227 Member
    Ghirardelli also makes some great dark chocs
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