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  • Kylebeth
    Kylebeth Posts: 11 Member
    You've mentioned something that I think is **Key** ...."WLS does not fix your head"...I've often thought about doing an eating disorder program, at first I thought it was just for people who were anorexic.. but the more I read, the more I find that it's for all types of eaters.

    I'd love to hear more about your story!

    Good luck on your journey :happy:
  • Kylebeth
    Kylebeth Posts: 11 Member
    A little about me- I had WLS 12/22/2005 when I was 23 years old. I started my weight loss journey at 364 pounds. My lowest weight was 248 (Post Baby #1) over the past year i've gained up to 298 where I sit very frustrated today.

    My WLS had a malfunction and i've spent the past 3 years trying to find a doctor who will fix it, once I found one and had a date, my insurance company changed and of course he doesn't accept my new insurance. So here I sit with a broken pouch and a constant feeling of hunger.

    About my "Malfunction"- My stomach a.k.a Pouch looks like an upside down funnel. Everything I eat slides right through to my intestines and I never feel full. I'm always hungry and nothing I eat satisfies me more than 20 minutes. The last WLS doctor I saw said that this happens to about 2% of the WLS population. If I had it to do all over again, I would have had the DS with a more experienced doctor.

    I've accepted my position as it stands and the only way around it now is do it on my own. I've put so much effort into working with various doctors on a revision and I should have been working on me. So here I am!! If talking/typing was exercise, I would have lost 5lbs already!

    I have two kids- a 3 year old son and a 1 (almost 2) year old daughter...... boy do they give me a run for my money!! I work full time and between work and the kiddos I .....barely have much time for any hobbies!

    I am here to be 100% supportive of everyone-- and i'm only an e-mail away! I was a very active member on Obesityhelp.com and I feel that online support is some of the best support you can get. I look forward to getting to know all of you :)
  • MacMadame
    MacMadame Posts: 1,893 Member
    Have you considered just paying for the revision yourself, Kylebeth?

    Also, if your insurance changed once and your doctor was out of network, it could change again and he could come back in. So really this situation is only temporary.
  • Kylebeth
    Kylebeth Posts: 11 Member
    Have you considered just paying for the revision yourself, Kylebeth?

    Also, if your insurance changed once and your doctor was out of network, it could change again and he could come back in. So really this situation is only temporary.


    I've looked into self pay- I was quoted $40K, with no complications, this excludes the hospital stay. I'm just not in a financial position to pay that much right now. Perhaps in the future that would be an option, but not at the moment. Also, I feel like it would be a gamble, considering my 7 night stay for Gastric Bypass the first time due to complications. Hospital bills can rack up quick!

    I haven't looked into outside of the US though. I agree this could be a temporary road block, the only catch is, my insurance is through the Hospital that my husband works at. So if your not getting a procedure done at that specific hospital, it's not covered.

    Who knows what the future holds!

    :)
  • Hi All,

    My name is Samantha I had WLS November 2009 (can't believe it's been so long already!) I went in for surgery at 312 pounds. I was a junior in college living in West Palm Beach Florida and super active. When I moved home in May 2011 I was the director of a summer camp and running around just as much. By August 2011 I was down to 167. I was absolutely loving life, I had dropped from a size 28 to a size 8. Then I started graduate school and the cold weather hit, since I have gained back 20 pounds and have never been more unhappy with how I look.

    My plan of attack is to cut out the munching ( I do this while cooking, then am too full for dinner and munch later). Nothing other than water past 9:00pm (later because I am in class until 7pm three nights a week so my bedtime is later). Exercise five days a week (thank goodness for the gym in my building). Back to the basics! Protein first, veggies seconds, limited carbs.
    After one/two weeks I'll be cutting back to breakfast/lunch 12 oz protein shakes and a high protein dinner with greens. I lost 12 pounds before surgery doing this, I also think it will help to shrink my pouch back down.



    I'm in this for the long haul, I want to continue being healthy. I want to continue buying adorable clothes. I want to feel confident in myself. Here's to 2012, holding onto my size 8 clothing and by confidence!
  • Hello,

    I am a 30-something mother of 2 and elementary school teacher. After ballooning up to 313 pounds I finally ended up getting sleeved May 19, 2011. It's been over 7 months now and I am down to 205. The last month or so has been challenging. I indulged over the holidays and started grazing. I'm on day 2 of a self-imposed liquid diet to try and stop the hand-to-mouth habit and detox from carbs. So far so good. I decided to try out this site after hearing good reviews about it. I need to get back into tracking what I eat and losing faster. Don't want to waste this prime weightloss period!

    Looking forward to getting to know you!

    -Kim
  • Hi everyone,

    Some of you already know me from the thread we used to keep around here, but it looks like there are a LOT more faces now!

    My name is Rachael, and I had DS on 6/2/2011. I had considered surgery for several years but I was always too worried about the side effects of RNY. When I read about the DS, I felt like it was the answer I'd been looking for. I started at 350, managed to get down to 325 by my surgery date, and am currently at 238. I'd really like to get down to 170.

    The first 6 months weight seemed to simply be falling off, but the last few weeks it's been at a major stall, going up and down between 230 and 240. Partly I'm sure that's due to the holidays and all the candy that seems to be EVERYWHERE! In any case, though, I'm renewing my commitment to logging my food on MFP, and getting back to the gym (I've been slacking off for a LONG time!).

    -Rachael
  • Hi! I'm Kim, and I had RNY on November 9, 2011. It will be two months on Monday and I've had a pretty good experience so far, having lost just over 40 pounds in that time. My BMI was only 40 but I was a very sick woman with diabetes and its complications. Sugars are pretty much normal now, and I am off all diabetes meds. I wore size 22 and now fit into a plus-size 16 (which we all know is not the same as a regular 16). I find MFP to be a fantastic tool for me. Right now I am still struggling to get all my water in, as well as my protein and vitamins. I seem to be able to eat most nutritious foods, but I haven't tried raw veggies or beef (my clinic's rules). I know that this is going to be a lifelong struggle for me though, because even with my eating restricted, I still manage to get in a few things I'm not supposed to have or have much of. You can't undo a lifetime's worth of bad habits in 2 months, right? I just read through the message boards and this seems like an encouraging place.

    All the best to everyone in your journeys!
  • myskinnyyear
    myskinnyyear Posts: 70 Member
    My name is Nita, I had gastric bypass in March 2011. I was at about 270, and now I'm down to 186. Would still like to lose about 50 more pounds. I'm not losing the weight as fast as some of my counterparts, but I'm working at it daily. I belong to a secret facebook group for wls patients and future patients if anybody is interested in joining please send me a msg. you have to be invited to the group. As on mfp, the people are great, and full of advice and encouragement.
  • thenewstephaniee
    thenewstephaniee Posts: 3 Member
    Hi, my names is Stephanie, I had a band done in September 2006 which worked well for me for 4 years, then something clicked in my body and the weight started coming back on. After many talks with my doctors we removed the band in the beginning of November 2011 and at the end of November we did a GVSleeve.

    I am married for 17 years at the end of this month and have 4 children ranging in the ages of 13 - 23.
  • Robyn_T
    Robyn_T Posts: 540 Member
    Hi, all!

    My name is Robyn. I had RNY surgery just under a month ago--Dec 15, 2011.

    Considering I was 300 lbs and only 5'1", I was pretty healthy. No high bp; no diabetes, but would very likely have had both within a couple years. I do have a spinal birth defect that I will need to have surgery on eventually and it would be a waste of time at the weight I was at. Also, the extra weight made me infertile. I was off of birth control for over two years and couldn't get pregnant. Per my doc, that was very likely my weight.

    I lost about 20 lbs during my pre-op process and approx 25 since.
  • Hello everyone,
    I am 25 years old and I am new to this awesome site. I have my GB scheduled for the end of April, and I dont have many people who I know that have done the same. I am looking to find people who are on every step, and looking for some freinds to make. I live in Hartford, WI, for six months now with my boyfriend in our old (very old 1910) home.
    XOXO,
    Lisa
  • Hello to the entire group. I had gastric bypass surgery on 2/9/10 and lost 140 pounds in less than a year. Then I started having health issues with included exhaustion, severe anemia, and severe/chronic back pain. Due to everything I went through/still going through I went through a miniture breakdown. During all of this, I can to the realization that I am also a food addict and I have gained back 70 pounds. So, now (or just a few weeks ago) I weighed in at 330 pounds. This is still better than my all-time high of 407, but not where I ever imagined myself again. After struggling with the food addiction for the past year or so, I'm tired of not getting anywhere and am trying to take control. I'm trying to get back on track and surpass the goals I met previously. So I'm open to advice....
  • prbyjennyd
    prbyjennyd Posts: 25 Member
    Hello to everyone, my name is Jennifer and I'm from Michigan!! I had a vertical sleeve done in August 2010. My start weight was 304 and I got as low as 187. Last year was very stressful for me, my daughter was struck by a speeding car on her bike (she is ok now) and I couldn't deal with everything that followed. I started smoking again, and medicating with food. I am now up to 195, and am determined to not go back to what I was!

    As of Sunday the 8th of January, I have quit smoking ( using the Nicoderm CQ patch ) and I am in my second month of using Sensa ( with no results ) and yesterday I found this website through a friend on fb. I used a similar website after my surgery, but stopped using it because they didn't have enough food items on there that I was eating and I got frustrated.

    I posted on the forums yesterday about having a vertical sleeve and a gentleman replied with a less than friendly opinion and I was very upset. Then a gal that friended me also replied and told me that wls is taboo on this sight and recommended that I reach out and find other people here that have had wls.

    So, that's my story, and am looking forward to chatting with you all!!

    Jennifer
  • tncmom
    tncmom Posts: 79
    That is such BS that WLS is taboo on this site - the only thing that is taboo on this site is personal attacks. Welcome and I hope you find what you need here. I am sending you a friend request.
  • MacMadame
    MacMadame Posts: 1,893 Member
    I'm not sure what you mean by that tncmom, but I have been attacked for having WLS on this site so I know it happens.
  • IsMollyReallyHungry
    IsMollyReallyHungry Posts: 15,385 Member
    I'm not sure what you mean by that tncmom, but I have been attacked for having WLS on this site so I know it happens.

    Yes It most certainly does happen on MFP. That is why this group was created so we can have a safe place to talk. Many on MFP feel that WLS is the easy way out which I am sure you all know is soooo far from the truth. I have learned to ignore it and see it of what it is -- and it is not our problem but theirs. I have learn not to react to ignorance and un-informed people who really don't have a clue what it is to be morbibly obese. Or if like me super morbibly obese.
  • tncmom
    tncmom Posts: 79
    no, no, no - I know it happens, it has happened to me, too. I am just saying that it is not in the TOS to not talk about weight loss surgery and that it is BS for anyone to tell any other poster that it is taboo. The only thing that is taboo per the TOS is personal attacks, yet they happen all the time.

    I was just fired up when I spouted that off and I didn't explain myself well.
  • Hello! I had Gastric Bypass on 10-25-11 and have lost 50 pounds. My initial weight was 282 and I am down to 232.

    I am still figuring out what I can eat and cant, but I find this site SO effective in tracking my protein.

    My biggest struggle, aside from drinking enough water, is my need for instant gratification mixed with the fact that I'm an RN and think that I know better than my doctors (not really, but it's a mindset). I've been in trouble for advancing my diet too quickly, but otherwise I think I've followed the rules fairly well. I do eat the occasional sweet. I don't seem to have the dumping side effect, which is unfortunate in a way.

    I look forward to getting to know you all!

    I'm married, have a 15-year-old son and we are in the process of adopting a 10-year-old boy as well. I'm in grad school for my Master's degree to be a nurse midwife.

    Oh, and I despise exercising. I haven't been able to get myself to do it even somewhat regularly. I'm considering the couch-to-5K though.
  • hello everyone! im jil---10 months ago was my VSG--down from 320lbs-146bs!!! my journey has been incredible!! i am excited to gain support and offer any advice i can to my fellow sleevers. and wls people :)
  • LoveNevrNds
    LoveNevrNds Posts: 321 Member
    Hello everyone! My name is Tasha, I am 25 years old. I have been married for 4 years and have an 18 month old son. I have struggled with my weight all my life, and have dieted since I was 13 with very little to no success. When I hit my highest weight ever in May 2011 (286.8 lbs) I decided enough was enough and I joined MFP and ventured on yet another diet! Since I was 17 my Dad has worked very closely with surgeons that preform WLS, so I have had a detailed knowledge of the process and success of people that underwent the surgery. When November rolled around I was feeling so discouraged, I asked myself one day, "If I was given a large sum of money today, what would I do with it?" I realized that WLS was among the top three things that I would do for myself and that is when I realized that WLS was something that couldn't wait until later, it was something that I needed to find a way to do now. Through a series of very fortunate events I was able to complete all of the pre-surgery requirements and was submitted to insurance for approval this month. I am currently scheduled to be "Sleeved" on February 7, 2012. I could not be more excited that everything has worked out for me and that I will have this wonderful tool to aid me in my weight loss journey.
  • Hi everyone! My name is Sherry and I am 47 years old. . I had gastric RNY in October, 2006. My highest weight was 370. I lost about 170 pounds. I am no longer on blood medication or on the C-pap for sleep apnea and I was border line diabetic. I have also saved myself from having to have back surgery because of the weight loss. I went from a size 32-34 to 16-18 so far. I never got below 200 which that now is my first goal for getting back on track. My ultimate goal is to reach 145. I did gain back up to 232 and started this site at 228. I look forward to making some really good friendships and getting some much needed support and encouragement. The surgery helped me to lose the majority of my excess weight, but I have a lot of emtional issues to overcome to learn to eat like I should. I remember quotes from a Weight Watchers leader, "Eat to live not live to eat" and "Nothing tastes as good as thin feels". I want to be able to experience both of these.
  • MissMeshia81
    MissMeshia81 Posts: 13 Member
    Hello all, My name is RaMeshia and I am 30 yrs old. I had my RNY 10/26/10 and I am at a halt in losing weight. Of course those bad habit crept back in, but I am trying my hardest to get it back off. Back in September, 2009 I had hit my heaviest 297 lbs and I had been telling myself, that I would not get to 300 lbs and before I knew it I was almost there. I am a diabetic, had high blood pressure, and high cholesterol. I was the highest and strongest insulin ever put out U500 which is an insulin that is 5x's normal insulin. Going into my surgery, I did Weight Watchers for 8 months and lost somewhere between 15 and 20 lbs getting down to 277-279 lbs 3 weeks before surgery. Then during my liquid diet I lost another 10 lbs dropping me to 267 the morning of my surgery. Before my weight halted, I got down to 187 lbs and not drifting back and forth between 190 and 195. I have 58 lbs to go to get to where I want to be. I want to get to 135 lbs, but before my wedding in Oct, 2012 I am trying to get to 145 lbs. I am having difficulties because I am a diabetic and will never come off insulin. My problem is going good, then bottoming out, the only thing to level me off is eating something I do not need, cause eating the basic holds me for about 30 min to an hour then, have to eat something to hold me longer, so I have been experimenting with the time I eat and what I eat based off my work schedule, which so far has worked. With the increase in exercise that I have been doing its another hurdle I have to climb, tweaking things and trying to stay leveled. I know I can do it, it just takes work....

    So I am trying hard to get back on track and lose these hard 58 lbs standing in my way...
  • it is so difficult i know. i often try to remind myself of the days when i use to say i would do ANYTHING to weigh 187lbs! lol its crazy but at one point that was perfect in my eyes :) and still is!!!

    i was 320, and now weigh 146. i can honestly say that 20lbs heavier, i felt stronger, healthier, just not as "saggy" as i feel now. i am currently trying to maintain my weight or gain 5-10lbs. (of muscle)

    i am constantly learning new things about wls and weight gain and wight loss...any kind of support i can offer to you, im here :)

    good luck
  • Hello Everyone! I'm Jenni, and I had VSG on 12/08/11. The first month out was pretty tough, but now I'm starting to feel more like my old self every day! I am down 47 pounds from my highest weight.
  • :flowerforyou: Hi everyone! I'm Kim i had gastric sleeve Dec. 2010. Weight prior to surgery was 411.8 lbs. Now 299.0. I have gained 4 #'s over the past 3 months. I stopped journalling, tracking,etc at about the same time. I am ready to get back to basics and back on track. I live several hours from my surgery center and support groups there so I am hoping to find that here and locally. I have severe arthritis in both knees and hips and use a walker most of the time. Any suggestions for activity/ exercise would be appreciated.
  • MacMadame
    MacMadame Posts: 1,893 Member
    Welcome to all the new people!
  • Hi,my name is Taciana,I'm 31 years old.I'm having a Lap Band done on Feb 2nd,
  • trud72
    trud72 Posts: 1,912 Member
    Hi guys and gals,
    My name is Trudy i will hopefully getting a rny(bypass) done in may ish(2012),i have already lost over 100lb on my own but there are reasons for getting the bypass done long story and i don't wanna bore you to death!!! lol :blushing:
    I am 40(OMG) this year,just wanna say hi! :drinker:
  • I'm Kristine from New Hampshire. I had RNY April 2nd, 2007 and lost 135lbs. I am joining because I have had a wee bit of re-gain and I want to stop it before it gets too far. I just shocked myself after entering what I ate for breakfast. I need to get back on track!