I could never date someone who....

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  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
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    is shorter than me. It's kind of a deal-breaker for me. That sounds shallow, but considering I am a bigger girl, I couldn't date a shorter skinnier man.
  • AvalonsUnicorn
    AvalonsUnicorn Posts: 425 Member
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    Hmmm, only real deal-breakers I can think of are...

    smoking
    excessive drinking
    excessive tattoos
    already has kids (not quite ready to deal with that yet)
    emotionally unstable ( sort've vague I guess.... just no crazies please )

    hmm cool I meet all of those! Except maybe the crazy part ;) LOL Ya gotta be a little crazy just to get through life :D
  • BioQueen
    BioQueen Posts: 694 Member
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    .... is lazy.
  • melg126
    melg126 Posts: 378
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    drinks uncontrollably.
    cannot control his temper.
    has drama or likes drama.
    doesn't know what he wants out of life.
    doesn't like pets.
    treats me poorly above all!
  • barefootkandi
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    ...can't accept my workaholic tendencies.
    ...can't accept my tendency to swear like a sailor.
    ...lives with his parent(s) or relies on his parent(s) financially.
    ...doesn't like his job.
    ...expects me to be available all the time. Girls need a night out with their buddies too. :)
    ...considers it a woman's job to take care of the home.
    ...has a negative outlook on life.
  • dreamzvt
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    1. Is obnoxiously loud
    2. Picks on people for any reason
    3. Doesn't like children or doesn't have patience
    4. Doesn't have a driver's license
    5. Thinks he is better than anyone. (has a big ego)
    6. Doesn't believe in a higher realm
    7. Is afraid to fly. (I love to travel)
    8. Isn't clean
    9. Doesn't have a job
    10. Cheats

    Yup..... I am still single... just a waitin for Mr. Right to come along
  • realrayne10
    realrayne10 Posts: 388 Member
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    smokes crack.

    is shorter than me.

    but mostly the crack part.
  • adiostrasero
    adiostrasero Posts: 127 Member
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    smokes crack.

    is shorter than me.

    but mostly the crack part.

    lol :D

    I could not date someone who:

    - listens to Nickleback
    - is jealous or insecure (usually the same thing)
    - takes life too seriously
  • Bysshe
    Bysshe Posts: 428 Member
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    I could never date someone who:
    -Racist, sexist, or really any "ist"
    -Someone who hates animals
    -An alcholic (I'm not against a little social drinking, but I've dealt with alcholism... totally not cool)
    -Smokes crack, does meth, etc.
    -Someone who doesn't treat me well.
    -Only listens to country... yeah, I'm from Arkansas... but I keep my country to a minimum
    -Not too much younger or older. (maybe a couple years younger and up to 10 years older)
    -Doesn't believe in God.

    Most other things are negotiable.
  • firesoforion
    firesoforion Posts: 1,017 Member
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    Picky eater, liberal (social issues yes, economic issues no), atheist. Not to say I couldn't see making an exception for the latter two things if I otherwise felt a connection but I don't see a future with anyone who has any of those traits.
  • calvert6183
    calvert6183 Posts: 539 Member
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    who is more inlove with texting than talking to people in person. You know those people who will text the whole time at dinner and never put the phone up to look at you. Also, wont date anyone who is rude to servers, cashiers, and people who work in the public. I dont want to be around them cause the server might spit in our food.
  • castadiva
    castadiva Posts: 2,016 Member
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    smokes, doesn't think for themselves/is not intellectually curious, does not behave honourably. Those three things are non-negotiable. Everything else is up for debate!
  • oOoMicheleoOo
    oOoMicheleoOo Posts: 139 Member
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    who is a *kitten*


    have had my fair share of them

    And someone who has no dreams or ambitions
  • xxoNikkioxx
    xxoNikkioxx Posts: 9 Member
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    I could never date someone who...

    .... doesn't have a good sense of humor
    .... doesn't like music

    I'm a bit of an idiot, I love to have fun & I spend most of my free time going to concerts.
  • missbethea
    missbethea Posts: 280 Member
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    - has zero nerd cred. I'm a huge nerd. D&D, MTG, WoW, etc.

    - hates football. Because I love football o.o
  • rachs02
    rachs02 Posts: 47
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    I could never date someone who.......wasn't outdoorsy, can't laugh at themselves, is self absorbed. Just to name a few.
  • sweetmelissa222
    sweetmelissa222 Posts: 290 Member
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    1. Lacks ambition
    2. Doesn't love/respect his mom
    3. Can't be the right combination of silly and serious
    4. Doesn't like scary movies
    5. Doesn't like music
  • laurastrait21
    laurastrait21 Posts: 307 Member
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    Smokes -- my #1 dealbreaker.
    doesn't like kids.
  • cyclingben
    cyclingben Posts: 346 Member
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    Is taller than me... Freaked me out when i went out with this girl that was...and im 6'2"....thanks to blind dates you get to learn that you have limits.
  • blondierandi
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    -Is not a Christian
    -Smokes
    -Drinks Excessively
    -Not Ambitious
    -Has no respect
    -Does anything illegal
    -Thinks I am brilliant (because I am not...), which ties into can't hold intelligent conversations
    -Does not treat his mother well (you can always tell from that how they will treat you)
    -Plays video games all the time
    -Is willing to text others while they are with you (basically carrying on a convo in front of you, without you)
    -Who is condescending
    -Who cannot drive themselves
    -Who is emotionally unstable
    -Does not have a college degree
    -Does not like to travel
    -Refuses to communicate
    -Cannot be random with me (or scolds me for being random)
    -Only wants a one night stand
    -Swears a lot
    -Suffers from SSA (Society Separation Anxiety) [aka doesn't like camping]


    ....maybe that is good for now.... Not too much to ask right? ;)