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Well she told me she wants a divorce this morning, so I guess that tells me everything I need to know.

I really just feel like she has no interest in general, I'm sure there are bigger issues, but it's still frustrating!! Infuriating actually. She shows zero interest in me anymore

Well thank you all for the support, I just need to find a way to gut myself out of this funk!

It is not even a hard goal, I can just feel myself wanting to eat like crap and emotionally support my life with amazing delicious food, I have almost completely quit logging so it doesn't matter what i set my goal for.

Honestly the past 5 weeks it's been a struggle just to maintain,

Thank you all for the support! I still have not lost any more weight but I'm pretty sure I have been allowing myself to make some less than perfect food choices. I guess at least I have been maintaining!

I get plenty of time to relax, but with the work i do the stress never goes away. My employees are always calling with an issue or i know the stress if tomorrow woll still be there.

I am only about 10lbs away from my goal. I have lost 33lbs so far. I think being that close is infuriating!

I certainly wish i knew how to reduce the stress right now!

For me it was all about finding that true motivation and remembering why i wanted it. Then it was much easier for me to stay focused..

Thanks!!!

WOW everyone i cant believe all of the support! I have had a few very successful weekends were i have stayed on track! i am currently down about 8 lbs and devoted to keep doing better.

No not at all. I don't care what she looks like, i am perfectly fine with her size, but when she only wants to go out to eat at a place i can't eat healthy it is hard for me. I work best when i have someone there to help me instead of tempt me. DO i worry about her health? Of course i do.

I wish it was that easy

That is exactly what i have been experiencing.... that pout when there is not any good food on the table. Then I feel guilty and end up cooking something or worse ordering something that i know she likes.

I am really going to try to eat what i need to eat and let her do her own thing. I do most of the cooking so i am at the point I need to just cook my healthy meal and if she doesn't like it she can fend for herself. Honestly it is just the weekends that kill me. We actually live in different states during the week for…

Personally for me I have to truly find a reason and personal motivation or I will fail. Why do you really want to lose the weight? If the justification for your goal does not outweigh the satisfaction of a short term enjoyment of the foods we love to eat, then you will always chose the easy way out!!!

That is too funny, I just started an office weight loss challenge to lose 25 lbs by April 10th I could use the support!

Well I used to have a heated pool that i would swim laps in, I had a huge Kitchen to cook in and meal prep I also had plenty of space to constantly be involved in a hobby. Truthfully I think it is the lack of friends that has really been the biggest issue, and yes I have made several attempts to go out an be active.

There is the true challenge. I am the Manager of this location, It can cause real issues blurring the lines between work and friends.

No my apartment does not have a Gym. Honestly I enjoy having the place to myself, I just cant figure out how to keep motivated. The new position came with significantly more stress.

I don't really want to reinvent myself, I am happy with who I am. I used to have great habits. I have a hard time going to New places if i don't have someone to introduce me. It is just hard because i am still transitioning from Dallas and it hard to set a routine.

I am trying to get motivated. Does that count?

You can kill it! Just do what works for you,

Just keep killing it every day!

Sure

That is exactly what happens I start to slow my weight loss so she sees me eating more and still losing weight. Then I just end up not loseing weight so she does not feel bad. But not this time I am going to hit my goal regardless!

So in context she needs to lost 80lbs I want to lose a total of 40lbs, I have lost 20lbs and she might have lost 5lbs. But she constantly is negative and won't put in any extra work.

Honestly I get a huge boost of motivation when someone says they see the results or that they like the way I look. Yes this is very shallow but I know it motivates me. @BrittaneyH_7712 I'm sure you are used to those complements!

@busyPK Yeah i am trying a similar approach but i feel discouraged when I stop seeing the results.