kdtesoriero Member

Sorry you are going through this. It's important to keep going, not for her but for yourself. Maybe deep down she is afraid if you change too much, you won't want to be with her or you will find someone else so she is putting doubts in your head.

I am a licensed clinical social worker in NYC. Ask me any questions you might have. I own my own business as a Psychotherapist and I love it. I used to do more work with kids, but have moved away from that and work more with adults now. I believe being a therapist or social worker (mental health person or in human…

Sorry you are going through this. I wish you all the best.

I wear knee length leggings and usually a tank top and sports bra and orange sneakers. My family calls them clown shoes but I love them!! It is a pet peeve of mine when I am at the gym and see people in like uggs or timberlands working out, or jeans. I saw one girl in a pump at the gym once.

I think it is...

Tod[img]https://us.v-cdn.net/5021879/uploads/editor/o9/c7cs4dnfhob8.jpeg[/imgToday's self is me in a size medium shirt for the first time ever![/img]

I started to do this for my health... I am diabetic and started with arthritis and the doctor told me I had to lose weight. Now it's to feel better for myself as I feel great when I leave the gym or when I fit into something new in a smaller size and to look better to others.

I am 5'10 1/2" tall!

42!

I am married, unhappily right now... My sex drive is more intense then ever partly because of my age and partly because of my exercising. It's really bad timing for me!!!

Chips Ahoy chocolate chip cookies!!! They get me every time!

Undersized possibly because of our weight.

I think the flirting and dating come with the confidence people find when losing weight.

Lmfao! Hysterical!

I don't think I have a gym crush... Hhhmmmm maybe I am missing something!

Yep! It's fun!

I belong to PF with the black card membership. I have been a member of other gyms but I like them the best. I go seven days a week and have only seen pizza there once. Yes there are tootsie rolls by the door but I never liked them so they are not a temptation for me. Now if they were Hershey kisses my *kitten* would never…

Last night... By my husband....

I also tend to gravitate towards more male friends then female friends for a few reasons but one being I believed men to be lass drama. They start that way, but beware guy drama can happen as well!

Eyes!! Always the eyes!!

Flirting with a male friend Real housewives of just about anywhere Long car drives Singing in my car to Cher's Do you believe in life after love People watching Long hot showers Sleeping with the windows open even in winter

Flirting is fun...

Love your honesty!!!

I have no other words then I am so sorry.

Hi Jane... I am also in my 40's. My weight problems began when I was 12 and I have fluctuated my entire life. At my heaviest I weight between 320-326. Now I am at 217. My best advice to you is start with small goals. Don't concentrate on that first 100 pounds, concentrate on the first five. I started just by adding water…

I am in.

Try giving her small breaks in between... Like okay let's do this page of math and you can go get a glass of water or stretch for a minute or some other little thing. If she can't do a whole page, try one or two problems. Ask her what does she want to start with. If she has three assignments, which would she like to do…

Left my eye glasses at home because I was wearing prescription sunglasses. I looked like a strung out mom wearing sunglasses on the elliptical.

My two boys Laughing with a friend Being understood Campfires The beach Hiking A good sweaty workout Good sex Reading Being outdoors

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