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"Wow do you know you are tall?" No I never knew that before thanks for the heads up. I am 5'11"

I am a Psychotherapist.

I get annoyed when 1) there is an entire row of not in use cardio machines and someone gets on the one on either side of the one I am on. Gym etiquette 101 leave some sweat space, at least every other machine when it is not a crowded time at the gym! 2)People who don't wipe down their equipment 3) I get grossed out when…

I see it as playful flirting. As someone who enjoys a good flirting opportunity, I wouldn't be too concerned. It sounds just playful to me. You might want to drop a hint you are seeing someone so he knows it's just playful fun.

I am separated and the thought of dating has motivated me to lose weight. Feel free to add me as a friend.

NYC

I have many guy friends and I am known as a flirt. It's fun and healthy to flirt as long as they know that is where it ends. Most of the guys in my circle recognize the line in the sand and the ones that don't I put in their place and tell them straight out this is a fun flirt nothing more. There wives all seem okay with…

I am extremely outspoken about my weight loss and fitness goals for several reasons. I post it on my FB and Instagram. My reasons is 1) it holds me accountable. At my heaviest I was 325, now 220 and my goal is 160. I started posting on social media when I hit the 100 pound Mark. 2) I find I get motivation to keep going.…

Chocolate chip cookies... My preference is Chips ahoy but really any will do and ice cream! Can't forget ice cream!

Go Big Blue!! (Giants)

My husband and I are not doing well. I workout and he doesn't like it so he doesn't. I have lost about 40 pounds since January but 110 in total. It drives me nuts he won't workout and honestly living in a large city, I find I am so judgmental of very overweight people... And I was one, so I can't imagine dating someone who…

Hi!

That is what tinder is all about... Be ware of the guys who hit you up for money.

How can you come to NYC and not take a subway ride?! Yes it is expensive but everything in NY is. It's like saying wow the ocean is wet! Staying outside the city itself will be cheaper but then you have to commute in. Take in a Broadway show, battery park, Central Park, and 42nd street of course. Crime happens all the time…

I am 42 years old and have been with my husband since I was 19. I retained a lawyer for our divorce about three weeks ago. I can't wait to get back out there. I am losing weight, self employed and have two awesome kids. I never got to play the field when I was younger but I am now. I am independent and love it so why not…

Why wouldn't it be? Trying new people to see what is out there. After a long term relationship or marriage where sex might get boring, why the hell not after a breakup or divorce?

Psychotherapist.

I thought it was just me! My *kitten* kills me some days. Probably less cushion back there.

I am just starting divorce proceedings against my husband so I feel your pain. We met 23 years ago and married 15 years. I used the gym to help feel better, and I see a therapist to help me not to emotionally eat and to realize what I did that effected the relationship and what I want to change about myself in the next…

I retained my lawyer on Thursday so yep... My change is coming.

Well he is married and I am married. We meet for lunch at least once a week and our spouses don't know so hopefully. Based on Friday's conversations others are picking up on "sparks".

Thanks for posting this. I just retained a divorce attorney on Thursday and was wondering about dating again. Very helpful...

Friday night I went to a meeting for my kids Cub Scout pack to learn that all the parents realize I have a secret crush and they all believe my secret crush has a crush on me too! I guess not so secret anymore!

For me, it's my mental game. The feeling or thoughts of not wanting to go to the gym today or I am not seeing enough progress fast enough. My mental game is 90% of my battle.

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I think it was very brave of you to tell her. I don't have the courage to tell my crush my feelings for him. Relax and see where it goes.

I feel so good after working out. I find if I can't get into the gym within 24 hours of my last workout my mood changes. I feel motivated when I step on the scale and it goes down, or when someone comments about my weight loss, or when I try on new clothes and I go down a size. I also feel motivated when I notice my weight…

I actually started posting my weight loss on Facebook on the day I lost 100 lbs. since then I continue to post and people actually do respond and I have had a few ask to join me at the gym so I can help them. My mom who just turned 70 also just lost 10 pounds and told me I was her motivation. So yes it helps me get to the…

I think Romance is different and individual to the two people involved. It's the little things when you know what makes your partner happy and you do it or don't depending on the situation. Seeing a book you know they would like to read and buying it for them, putting their hand on the small of your back to guide you as…

My doctors have all told me to eat smaller meals more often through out the day and that I should be eating every 2-3 hours.