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Thanks so much! I know I haven't done anything wrong. I'm just tired of being miserable. I'm looking forward to moving out and having some peace and enjoying life for once.

No. She, me, and my dad are the only family around here.

I typed up a letter with everything that was going on and sent it with her the last time she went to the inpatient psychiatric hospital, which was about a month ago. She has been blaming me for that as well. I can't win no matter what I do.

She just told me that I don't have a right to be tired after working only 12 hours as a nurse. I explained to her that sometimes I walk over 9 miles in a shift and I'm turning patients, cleaning them up, etc. I then told her that if her behavior doesn't change, I will move out and change my number and she will cease to…

Thanks!

I'm honestly at the point where once I move out, I'm going to change my phone number and not have any contact with her. I left for the weekend and came home and she's trying to start an argument again, and I haven't said a word to her except for hi once I got home. I can't get a minute of peace and I can't get out fast…

It isn't worth it.

Thank you! Yeah, I don't think it's going to get any better. I've finally had enough.

Yeah, that sounds good. Thanks.

I realize that - I am a nurse and work full time. My father and I can't be at all of her appointments because we both work full time.

She's treating him the same way she's treating me. He is still helping her as much as he can.

I'm sure she's making herself look totally fine for him and lying about what's really going on. She likes to make herself look like the victim in all cases and refuses to acknowledge when she's wrong.

I just wonder how much of this is truly mental illness and how much of it is just that's she's mean.

Oh, me too. She went to her psychiatrist yesterday and he didn't put her on anything different.

Hahaha!!

Yes. She is on the same medicine she has been on for years.

There is. I'm considering doing that within the next couple days.

I've started looking at apartments. I'll be out soon enough!

She also called one of her friends earlier and said that she is the victim and that everything is her fault. She can't stand the notion that anything she does is wrong, and if you confront her about it she denies it. Example: I had a bottle of Flexiril, which is a muscle relaxer because I was having leg spasms. She went…

Nope, not really. She is currently in the hospital for medical reasons, and I have not gone and visited her because I already know what it's going to entail...me bringing her stuff and her whining the entire time I'm there, and when I say something she doesn't like, she will tell me to leave. She called me earlier after my…

She apologized to me this morning and is currently calling me a primadonna who does nothing wrong. She literally sees nothing wrong with anything she did. I am done.

It's extremely sick. And she sees nothing wrong with it, and her excuse for saying it was to see if I would go back and tell my dad. Just her trying to be pathetic and start drama because she has nothing better to do.

I think she's just a nasty person.

Her excuse for not calling us is that she couldn't remember our phone numbers. Okay...but you could remember it at 1 am when you called me to start an argument. I don't believe that excuse for a second.

Oh! And the icing on the cake...I called the hospital she was at this morning when I got off work because I wanted to see if she was still there. She wasn't. We called all the hospitals in the area, called one of her friends we thought she might be with, my dad went to the hotels near the hospital she was at and we…

She has a psychiatrist and has been evaluated. She has a history of depression and anxiety, but that's it. I'm not sure if there's something else going on or if she's just a manipulative and nasty person.

When I brought up how sick it was, all she said was that she was saying it just to see if I would run and tell my dad and that she didn't mean it.

Thanks everyone for your advice. I'm going to do just that.

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Thank you everyone for the advice.