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Hey, I'm sorry for your loss. Toxic relationships and bad breakups are the worst! I've been single for a bit, I'm in school, recently moved... I definitely more myself than ever on the inside. I'm extremely decisive, and these are the reasons why my standards/expectations are higher than ever. I know the way I want to be…
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Haha! Thank you for bringing the sunshine! I needed that. I hope you're right... I'm definitely trying the online dating thing. So far, no energy has been returned, but today is a much more hopeful day than when I originally posted.
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I appreciate the edit lol. How'd you know there was a he? That obvious? ...I guess, the not deserving part is true and I knew that, but I sure wish I hadn't wasted my young and thin body!
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Haha!!! This has got to be the most encouraging thing I've read all day!!! Thank you for making me smile. Based on your picture, you have a cool vibe, so I definitely get it. I guess I'll take another look at my wardrobe, that can't hurt! Good advice, thank you!
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If I may ask, why don't you date? Personally, if I got down to single digit body fat, I'd want someone to enjoy my BOMB body with! lol... and not just hookups either, like someone who really wanted the whole package. That's literally goals. To answer your question, I suppose the answer is technically yes, but only because…
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Awww!!! You're super romantic. My goal is to think that way, but honestly... I want both! I want really sound and thoughtful romantic interactions with someone I find devastatingly attractive, who is equally attracted to me! lol This is the part where I wonder if my expectations are too high. There was ONE guy. One. We…
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Thank you for the advice. Currently, I have no choice but to remain single lol, so mission accomplished!
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This is a great quote. I totally understand what you mean, but I haven't arrived at the point where I don't care how people see me... Mostly, like ever since I was a kid, I just wanted to be beautiful and loved. On a bad day, being overweight and single does major damage to my confidence. Next time that happens, I'll try…
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Yeahhhh... Having experienced both ends of the spectrum, I know that even men who knew me before prefer me slim. I prefer me slim as well! lol... Literally, my only issue is maintenance. I haven't created a good system to maintain the weight once I get it off beyond walking multiple hilly miles per day and being…
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That's really helpful advice! I think I think I do know this on some level. The things that are most important to me: faith, family, stability, generosity, flexibility, wonder/adventure... These are things that I am and currently enjoy, but would prefer to share with a partner. However, not so long ago, I made a move on a…
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*sigh that must be nice! lol
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Wow, I'm so encouraged by the responses I got from you all. Honestly, on the rollercoaster of life there are good days and bad days. I posted this on a particularly bad day when I was feeling fed up with being single on top of my frustrations with my body and myself for letting it get this way. A little insight helped…
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Ooooh! Meeee! Pick me! Lol
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I think it depends on what “dating” means to you. If you literally mean going on dates, then I don’t see the harm in having lunch with multiple people per week, but once someone expresses serious interest, and begins to become emotionally invested, then I think it’s fair to explain whether or not you’re interested in…
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I used to work at Nike, so I got some Zoom Pegs for free, as well as FS Elite Runs... I typically just wear them because they’re cute lol, but eventually I want to put them to proper use
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Wow, you all have given me a lot to think about! I was nervous to post, but I’m really glad I did, and grateful to you for taking the time to answer! I’m going to a field by my house this evening to walk... thanks for not being judgy!!! I’m new to fitness, and I promised myself to put in sincere effort. I’m going to…
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This Christmas, my goal is to be 10lbs less than I was when I started (currently at -7!!) I recently applied at Winghouse, which is sort of like Hooters. If I get the job, I’ll be really proud of myself because the uniform is tiny and that is great incentive to continue working on my goals. Also, the pay will be AMAZING on…
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He probably thinks he was being helpful and motivating, but sounded like a jerk instead. If you two are a “thing” maybe give him the benefit of a doubt that he would be mean to you on purpose. Sounds like a foot in mouth comment imo.
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I wrote you a book, but it didn’t fit... sorry! The good stuff got left out, but basically, if you need help finding ideas, I can help you. The trick is to feel good inside. There are things about you that are AWESOME that you’re ignoring to focus on things you think are less awesome. It’s a trap. Wear what makes you feel…
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I wear a uniform. ALWAYS. I used to have a TON of clothes, but I’m tired of fighting, so I decided that I will always look stylish no matter what because I always wear the same thing. First of all, I don’t have a big budget, but I like to look expensive, so most of my clothes are basics in neutrals or pseudo-neutrals.…
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Hi! I’m 5’4 and currently weigh 163. My highest weight ever was around 185 My goal weight is 140 I know this is waaaaayyyyy far off, but one day I’d like to be bikini model fit
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I gained a lot of weight after a breakup. I just felt lost and sad, but I know deep down that I’m just lowering my odds of finding the right person if I don’t take better care of myself. I’ve never been a slim person, but I’d like to challenge myself to be something I’ve never been and do things I’ve never done. I don’t…
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I begged my ex to grow a beard... I miss it!
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I like to take pictures every day! When I finally reach my goal weight, I’m going to animate them, so I can literally watch the fat melt off! 112 days of awesome!
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Hi! I live in Palmetto, Florida. It’s very central on the west coast between Tampa and Sarasota. I typically prefer to go to St Petersburg for fun though. It’s a good life
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I post EVERY DAY!!! Come talk to meee!
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I’m 5’4 164lbs. My goal is 140. I’m not a “success” yet, but definitely a work in progress. Being pear shaped, I carry most of my weight in my thighs/butt, but recently I’ve developed a belly too! It’s not displeasing aesthetically, but I can feel when I’m not healthy. Also, I don’t want to deal with the same health issues…
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You look FANTASTIC!!! Congratulations on your hard work and amazing results.
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Okay, so... I’m hearing everyone say that a 2lb/wk weight loss goal is “bad”, but not why. If one pound is good, two pounds is great! That’s why it’s a goal! It’s s challenge.
