JamesBC78 Member

EVE Online for the win!!!! I love the open sandbox community.

I think you look good already but can understand wanting to trim as well.. ;)

There really are so many factors as has been mentioned. There were times I would go out thinking I was looking so cute and was putting myself out there with my flirt on and got nadda.. Then other times I slopped something on, went out with a big group of friends, and got flirted with... WTH. Don't get down on yourself…

Ok - I had to re-read this three times to get the full grasp of the entire post. You cracked me up. And I really needed that today! Very unique post, thank you for being you and sharing it with us!

I am a chubby guy and like everyone, working on that. I would just like to be thinner and healthier. Not sure I would ever get buff but we shall see. My SO loves me being a bit bigger than him and being hairy so that is a good thing but still need to lose some.. :)

This is a very interesting topic in that I am just starting down my path of being a better me... again. I think confidence could alter that part of the relationship just as much as not having confidence is now. It will be interesting to see how it plays out.

I leave for 5 minutes, and look what happens! This is all your fault Kyle (kyle4jem).. :P Which is a good thing! ok ok.. its been a month since I have been to this group... HI EVERYONE!!! Anyone feel free to add me as a friend!!! As to the introduction questions: 1. Where were you born? LA, CA 2. Where do you live at the…

If I don't get into better shape and lose some weight, the Dr. said I need to have a disc replaced in my lower back...... That is not going to happen.

I am trying not to think of it of a NY Resolution but rather a lifestyle change but I am just being healthy. Eating smaller portions and making better decisions about food. I am ordering veggies instead of fries or only eating half a sandwich instead of the whole thing. Plus I am doing some exercising but just small things…

I understand what you mean though. My pool is at a gym and I don't know ANYONE there but I am STILL self conscience about it. I hate changing there and getting in / out of the pool. BUT, I have to overcome that in order to get some exercise in.. :)

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It's not an easy path. If so, everyone would look fit and wonderful. Even doing little changes, like going a little further when walking your dog, will help. Tracking your food is an amazing discovery process. I have been getting in the habit that anytime something goes in my mouth, I open the app on my phone and log it.…

I bought a Keurig and use K-Cups - Flavored coffee and only 2 calories. Don't put anything in it.

Nah.. there are more of us out there.. But like me, just have to hunt a bit to find them.. :)

Swimming is the one exercise that I actually LIKE doing and is easiest on my body. I have arthritis in my needs and back issues so have to be careful what exercising I do. Swimming is something I can do for a long period of time and actually enjoy myself. So is it the best workout? Maybe not. But for someone that likes it…

How fantastic for you!! Great job on your goals so far! Keep it up!

You look fantastic! I hope to have the same success by this time next year!!

Great job! The important part is sticking with it which it sounds and looks like you did. Very inspiring!

Even though your journey is not complete, I hope you are proud of what you have gotten done already!!! Keep up the good work. You are doing FANTASTIC!