tylersmama1224

And this is why I love you :)

I haven't slept with him since we split over a year ago.

In case this was unclear to anyone, I did not walk out on my son. When I moved out I took my son with me. The only reason he is not still with me is his father took him from me on a regular visit and never brought him home. I never abandoned my son and never could.

Thanks :)

When I left I took my son with me. I NEVER abandoned him and the only reason he isn't with me now is my husband took him from me against my will. I had him for six months after I left him and we had a great life. I am fighting to get my son back home where he belongs. Trying to not get mad reading this, I could never ever…

Exactly my perspective on things. I am devout and I know God will not lead me wrong, which is why I pray to him about this daily and he says he prays about it as well. It can work, we just both have to stick to it and never let God out of our lives again.

I don't mind answering. I did take my vows very seriously and it was so hard for me to leave. If he is willing like I am, yes, I do want to spend the rest of my life working on us. I think all relationships are a work in progress. We married for love and yes, I still do love him and I believe there is some part of him that…

Thank you, God has never steered me wrong. I am going to just give this up to Him, He will show me my path.

True, and seeing as he was the last one I had sex with, it is very tempting. But I don't think sex would solve anything at this point, it would just screw things up ever further.

She was someone I trusted with my life and I didn't think I needed to question her. She had always been honest with me... or at least I thought. And honestly, I at that point I would not have blamed him if he did sleep around. I was always exhausted from taking care of our son and the house and bills and errands, we never…

Thank you for your advice. I am sitting her listing positives and negatives about what I see now and what still needs to change.

Thank your for your advice. I am having a hard time with the seeing people as who they are, it's kind of my downfall. I always try to find the best in people.

This is exactly what I am afraid of.

Very good point.

This is why it is so hard, he has changed. He has come lightyears from where he was when I walked out. And the reason I walked out turned out to be false. I was told by a woman he worked with that they had been sleeping together two of the three years we were married and without a second though, I just left. I didn't know…

See like now, he just texted me to wake up because I have a job interview in an hour. I never asked him to, but he remembered and set his clock early to be sure to wish my luck before I go in.... arg! I just don't know what to do with him!

That is on the top of my list. We went for a very short time right after he was diagnosed, but we thought we could fix things ourselves.... obviously not.

He has great qualities, just isn't great about talking things out. I have always seen the best in him and he can be a great guy when he tries.

Yes, it is our son.

Thank you, I will def look into this.

That's what has been so hard. I had our son, he practically told me to take him when I moved out, then when he started dating this woman since custody wasn't arranged yet, he took my son on a normal visit and never brought him home. He said he had a new mommy and I was no longer needed. I devoted everything I had to my…

This is where I am torn because it was his way of showing affection. He has been holding my hand and kissing and hugging me, even told me he misses me. But he has expressed concern over being hurt again and I completely understand... just kind of don't know what to say to him to get out of him what he wants.

Thank you for all of the excellent advice guys! I want things to work between us, but there has to be work on both ends, not just sex.

Absolutely no doubt there. I just need to know if he is willing to do the work required to make things work. We married fast and had a kid within our first year together. Our son is special needs and it really took a toll on us and instead of working it out, we stuffed it down and let it fester. There are things he needs…

He takes excellent care of our son, there is no question there.

Well, that is kind of it. It was a nasty split and things have not been civil this entire time, then out of the blue, he is nice. Kissed me the last time I saw him and said he wishes we could have been a family. Then starts with all this sexting and has me just sitting here scratching my head.

Thank you. I have been so confused lately. I want so badly for things to work out, my son deserves a family.

@goldn, can't see the face but body is def a 10

Wow, sorry to be harsh like this but that was a really ****ty move to make. If you are going to break it off at least do it face to face and have a reason! Nothing I hate worst that *kitten*.

I'll try anything once!