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It's been a while since I posted my status. Still single, 2.5 years, 6 months ago, I became celibate by choice, I was tired of BS. Luckily for me, FWB is back after a year travelling the world. I trust him, no BS, he's been honest and open with me, we kept in touch the whole year. I'm looking forward to seeing him. ;) I…

I have a few, not all related to weight loss: - Read more (watch less tv) - Get out more - Workout - Finally lose the 35 pounds I need to lose to get healthy - Keep working on myself, I feel i'm almost where I want to be after 2 years being single and working on what made me do bad choices in life and relationship :) That…

I am single because almost 2 years ago, I decided to take some time for me, rediscover and learn to love myself. I was in 10 years of bad relationships, so it was time for me to learn to live on my own and figure out what I want. Still working on that, but 2015 could be the year I decide to date again ;)

Going to a dinner and party with friends outside of town :)

Nothing much going on here, single and not attempting to change that. Bought myself some Christmas present, going for a tattoo soon, my brother had his fourth kid 2 weeks ago (and i'm visiting this weekend). Other than that, nothing much.

Single and happy :)

People who take up the whole space on a sidewalk or a shopping center and walk slowly. Tragically Hip People that are closed minded, what other people do is none of my business as long as it is respectful, why should I care? Nosy people, if I want to tell someone about something, I will, if I don't, I won't.

Been married, been divorced, been there, done that too...so I don't think i'll ever marry again. I live in a province where after a year living together you are considered common-law partners and it gives you some protection in case of a separation. According to the 2011 Canadian census, about 38% of the population of my…

The feelings and all are normal. When I separated at 30, I was watching my friends getting married, having kids and I had this idea at that time that there was a logical follow up with age: you finish studying, you find someone, you get married, have kids and tada! It stressed me out and pushed me to get into a…

A lot of things make me happy. I love what I did this weekend, doing everything I wanted even if no one wanted to come with me and on my terms and time. I went to see a concert by myself on Friday, took a trip outside of town, visited friends, visited some city's attraction (one was planned, the other I happen to walk by…

Gatineau, Quebec, Canada :)

I know how you feel :flowerforyou:

You are right not to settle, I've been single for 1.5 years now and i'm staying single by choice. I met someone and we started seeing each other, my problem: allergic to cats to the point of wheezing when he came over, but said that cats were a non issue, even if I told him I wouldn't get rid of them. Clearly, I could've…

My next guy has to be confident and be able to communicate properly. I would also like someone that is open minded, not just pretending to be. Physically, someone that`s taking care of himself and not eating out every day.

date someone with a mental health issue Seems mean to say that, but my last two relationships were with a guy that was obsessive, compulsive, high anxiety and paranoia and a guy with borderline personality. I just can't do it anymore, it didn`t turned out well in either relationships. I believe in the best of people, but I…

Based on what I knew about relationship (mostly bad ones), the benefits of me being single are: - My mood doesn't have to depend on someone else's mood when I get home. - I can watch whatever movie, documentary or tv show I want, all day if I want to - I can go on trips on my own and learn more about myself without having…

I confess that in the last month, I've been doing activities with a guy, getting to know him but I don't think it will go further. I realized with him falling hard for me that I wasn't ready for a relationship. It's always been agreed that we would take time to know each other and then see the outcome, but I can see him…

The spreadsheet sounds passive aggressive to me and to send it by email while she's going away, it doesn't seem like he knows how to communicate or stand up for himself. And I sure wouldn't want to have sex with someone who can't talk about it and just sends me that crap. It's the equivalent of breaking up by text for me.…

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I was suppose to go have a drink with a colleague tonight, didn't hear from him. I'm sure there's a good reason for it (was working, might have finished late). I didn't let that ruin my night, poured a drink, watching Saturday Night Fever (for the first time in my life :laugh: ) and just having a pj night on my own and i`m…

I confess I have no interest on going back to the gym, I just don't like the people there getting in my way :laugh: I much prefer playing outside and doing some workouts at home on my own. And...I still don't feel the need to find a bf, but would love to get another cat, I hope I won't turn into a crazy cat lady :tongue:

I don't really listen to radio and when I do, it's only the Classic rock station so I don't know much about actual bands. With that said, I can't stand Tragically Hip and Nickelback (I have to turn the radio off every time it's on) :explode:

I confess that i'm unusually excited about my weekends plan. FWB invited me to go with him to a Suicide Girls burlesque show near his place, which means end of evening and night at his place having a lot of fun. I'm planning on making him go crazy by dressing sexy for the event and he will only see it at the event, not…

No spring here :sad: it`s winter going and going and going :sad: I confess that i've taken today off to go visit my FWB for some afternoon delight :love:

I confess that my crush for Mads Mikkelsen is increasing every time I see him. :smokin:

I confess I had to change FWB, the old one has been trying to manipulate me back in ...*sigh* My new one is a simple man who is passionate about life, I love the intellectual stimulation he brings me :love:

This! I`ve been tested before, I never get on board with it. A relationship should be based on honesty and trust. These games are useless.

Lyne from Gatineau, Quebec, Canada (and you don't pronounce the E in my name, just saying from experience). LGrill27: I had braces from 26 to 30 years old and I must admit it wasn't always easy to see myself with the jaw teeth, but I was always thinking on how good it would look after. Now, it's just a bad memory (the pain…

I'm divorced too, I know the official date is somewhere in July and I remember taking a pic with the court paper, I was so happy. Ex bf took the pic. I don't think you should see it in a negative way, think of it as your first day of freedom from this person and just enjoy your day with your new boyfriend, it's the day…