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This is not true at all. If your partner is not supportive of you then you have the wrong partner. To the OP I will not regale you with my own life's mistakes. The lesson I have learned for every single situation in every kind of relationship... communicate COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE. There is absolutely no benefit in any way…

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I don't practice free-feeding with any pet but since I am gone 8-10 hours a day during the week I have an automated feeder. No matter what pet OP decides to get, find a reliable automated feeder so that if something happens that prevents you from heading straight home, they will still have that schedule kept. Schedule and…

Thank you for saying this, I was just about to :drinker:

I love pets of all kinds and desperately wanted to get a dog when my boyfriend left for boot camp earlier this year but we live in an apartment without a yard, and I have a horrible job where I work 50 hours a week. I made the decision to find an older cat who needed love like I did (but wouldn't mind having some alone…

In my experience, whenever I'm being negative it's because I'm afraid I'm going to fail. This applies to everything, not just getting back in shape. "The success or failure of your deeds does not add up to the sum of your life. Your spirit cannot be weighed. Judge yourself by the intentions of your actions, and by the…

Nice to see people not dogging on hunters for once:flowerforyou: Alliance on Suramar here!

All day every day :)

This part is confusing me...so you gave them cash to get you food before they left... but you didn't tell them what you wanted when you forked over the money? You waited until later to text them? Between this and sister feeding her dog your frozen food (did she just throw a frozen chunk in a bowl or heat it up first?…

I'm sorry that you went through that but I'm glad the decisions you made have ultimately made you happier and stronger, after all, that's what life is all about :flowerforyou:

HAHAHAHA :flowerforyou:

I tried it back when it came out (and I still thought magic pills could help) and it was pretty gross. I never had any of the "leakage" that people talk about but because of the way the oils *cough* come out *cough* I was literally having to clean my toilet every time I used it, otherwise it left this gross oily ring…

I have to agree here, I'm sorry that you're having such a rough time but it is unfair for you to expect other people to change their habits. I love to bake and cook but since I don't eat much (and my boyfriend has no self control and will gorge himself) I often bring treats to friends or the office so that people can enjoy…

Very rarely do I read every page of a thread so kudos to all with the knowledge that kept me going :flowerforyou: I have nothing smart to add, simply want this to stay in my topics LOL

I haven't read every comment but in my experience a LOT of people are uncomfortable telling someone "hey you've lost weight huh?" or any variation...not everyone is receptive of comments like that. Some people have lost weight due to poor health or stress and would not want to hear it. Have you been vocal to the people…

+1 I've had a lot of friends have babies recently and those who have breast fed did seem to drop the weight much faster. I'm guessing there's a scientific reason for this however I'm tired and don't feel like googling :ohwell:

I wouldn't beat yourself up, eating some sweets does not immediately destroy your "healthy lifestyle changes". In all honestly it doesn't sound like you actually stuffed your face at all. If you had 900 calories available and you say you are still far from going over your goal, I'd say you indulged a little but nothing to…

My mother is a very toxic person so I understand your pain. The list below (From: http://self-love-u.blogspot.com/2013/02/100-traits-of-toxic-person.html) I put on my mirror at home so that whenever we would speak I would look at it and remember that it wasn't all my fault. It helped a lot :) "Toxic people wreck your life.…

2013 Jetta TDI - Kaylee (after Firefly LOL)

I replying to look at this later :love:

I always calculate my net. I wear an HRM and I always subtract my base calories before adding the exercise to my diary. I wouldn't worry about it though, do what works for you :flowerforyou: I just happen to be really picky about it being accurate LOL

As someone who has battled with addiction over half of my life (I've been sober 22 months now) I have to say that I can't really understand why everyone feels the need to argue the point of whether you can really be addicted to sugar. We make the jokes about "sucking *** for ****" and it's funny and we giggle but in the…

Sorry - couldn't resist :laugh: :laugh:

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I'm pretty sure that OP was quite clear in the fact that she didn't actually mean that he grossed her out but YES, you are correct, if she flat out doesn't like his looks at all anymore and is so disgusted by his weight gain to the point that she doesn't even want to give him physical love, then my advice is pointless. If…

When did humans stop being responsible for what they put in their mouths? We are an intelligent species, we have common sense. Use it.

I did not mean what I said in a go put on an apron and please your man (although I happen to love when I have time for that). I don't care if you are man, woman, gay, straight or whatever. If your partner is feeling body conscious and worried that you are unattractive to them, and in turn making more bad choices because…

TBH I didn't read the entire thread but I just play that role where I get a box with my food and immediately portion off what I'm saving for a different meal. It's not hard and the servers don't care. No guilt. And if it's fast food...well if I'm eating fast food then obviously I'm not as concerned.

This is going to sound like a joke but I am totally serious. Have sex more. When I started to lose my weight and made a lot of huge lifestyle changes (including getting sober) my then boyfriend did not want to workout or change his eating habits and did gain a little extra "cake" around the middle. He started to get really…