becky611

I cancelled my gym membership when I moved up here to Alaska and I just started doing Turbo Fire...It is alot of fun and some serious *kitten* kicking.

I didn't check in last week but I lost about 9 pounds and then I weighed in today and I lost 1 pound since last week. I am down to 153.4

sorry ladies..I just got blindsided when my husband decided to tell me on Saturday that he was only with me for our son. Im slowly trying to jump back into this. I have no appetite and I know that it is not healthy but I will get back on track.

I feel fortunate enough that I have a couple of great friends who have been so great to me. I have told them that if it wasn't for them, I think tht I would have lost my *kitten*. You never know who your true friends are until the crap hits the fan.

The soon to be ex and I are meeting tomorrow to discuss the money issues and our son. I am hoping that we can come to an agreement tomorrow and then I will be calling the lawyer on Friday to get this going. I am not going to let him drag me around any longer than he already has.

You're right, it is for the best. I think I am lucky that I found out now versus 10 or 15 years later.

I know that this is having an affect on his life and I know it will I just want to make sure that it is not a negative affect on him. I want to try to do everything right for him.

Honestly I dont know. With Nicole I just told her daddy was at work or he was out when he didn't come home. [/quote] I told Aiden that daddy and mommy aren't going to be living together anymore. I told him that I love him very much and that I am not going anywhere. I told him he will live in a new house with me and he can…

What is the most appropriate way to tell a child what is going on? He is so smart.

After finding out that he has been lying to me everyday for years, I think that I am more ANGRY than hurt. Im not sure if this is a good thing or not. I am looking forward to moving on and not feeling like an idiot and fool anymore.

Thank you so much for the support. I know that I am not the only person this has ever happened to and I am so grateful that there are so many people around to be supportive!!

I really appreciate all the advice. My biggest fear is that my son will be negatively affected by this and my ability to financially support him and myself. I really have found it quite interesting all the things that I have learned about myself. I know that time heals everything, but I am just not a patient person at all…

I have been trying to make myself eat, but I have absolutely no appetite. Im not hungry at all. i know this is not good at all, I just do not want anything.

I find it amazing that the person that is suppose to love you the most is the one who lies to your face everyday. Mine is apparently a master liar. He played me like a flippin fiddle all this time.

You are so right. I have absolutely no desire to get into any relationship. My son is my biggest priority. I plan on taking this time to learn more about me and about who I am and the things that are important to me. I have realized alot about myself already.

Thank you all so much. I am just trying to figure out and navigate this time in my life. I know time will make it better.

I am hurt by the situation but I realized yesterday that I am more mad and that I actually have hatred for him. I never thought I could hate him but yesterday opened my eyes to the fact that I do. I am most scared and concerned about being able to financially support my son and myself.

did we marry the same man? Thats what I've been thinking too lately. [/quote] LOL.. maybe we did. The lying is the worst part of it all. I thought that my marriage ending would be the toughest part but it is the fact that he lied to me this whole time. He was a coward who wasn't man enough to admit there was a problem. He…

I never thought I would end up in the situation. Everything I thought I knew about our relationship was nothing but a giant lie. That is all he did was lie to me and boy did he do it so well.

I just ordered it this week. It should come in the mail early next week. I am so excited to start it.

I do Zumba on the Kinect and I just created an exercise and called it Zumba and I put in the calories from my heart rate monitor

I lost about 25 pounds before I dropped a size. But I had 75 pounds to lose total.

I have Zumba on the kinect and I do it practically every night just for fun. I really wanted to get the Exhilarate set but I figure I can just keep on doing it on the Kinect until i make it through all the levels.

Im here...has anyone heard from the rest of our group??

I just ordered the Brazil Butt Lift and I can not wait for it to come in the mail. How do you like it?

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I have the Zumba for the Kinect and I pretty much use it every night

Good morning ladies and happy Monday :tongue: I hope everyone had a good weekend. I just had my second weigh in since starting this Hot Mom Challenge and I am down another 1.8 pounds.

Alcide all the way baby!!

That is really cute