maddyk91 Member

i'm not doing that, i hope it didn't come off that i am being mean to him because of my desire to lose weight!

Hi! i don't mean to put all the blame on my husband, sorry for coming off that way. i just mean that i am having a hard time because i am doing this alone, and don't feel supported in general, so i am reaching out to a community to receive support. :(

i'm a vegetarian, so i do the best i can. that wasn't the point though, i don't only eat burgers!

Thank you all for the kind words! It's nice hearing from other people who "get it"! I will start saying no to more than one beer, having my husband pick up fast food on the way home, and so on. :smile: I really hope I can make this work and stick with it. I just hate failing myself and feeling badly about my body.

thanks for the answers!! those do help me feel more confident in my logging. :)

Bump!

TDEE for sure.

I lose on 1500. Maybe more slowly now, but it will still happen. I have a feeling your pound weight gain might just be a sodium/hydration=related gain, because gaining on 1500 is just.....silly. 1lb=3,500ish calories. That would mean that for you eating like two days a week, you're just putting on straight poundage…

Mmmm, I dunno. "I'm very sorry for your loss. Your mother was a terribly attractive woman"

Bleh, I hate that quote. Food still tastes good when you're skinny, just dont eat so much of it. ;)

Before, at ~165 and after, at about 125. :)

Keep up the amazing work. You're really doing a fantastic job.

My skinny pants are now too baggy!! I bought them as my fat pants were too huge after about 20lbs down. NOW! my pants for my skinny self are too big! Time to go shopping again.... :) And I am excited because I wont feel like such a lump trying on shorts for this summer!! Last year, the fitting room made me cry. This year,…

5'4.5"-5'5" I went from 161lbs to 125lbs! I hit my goal yesterday! :smiley:

that's a solid no.

Vegetarian refried beans are a solid YUM. Flan?

^^Basically my dream hunk.

Scenester?

he's always keeping the community active

Sounds like you have an unhealthy obsession with your control over food. You should probably not be talking to a community of randos and instead a doctor or therapist. :wink: It's awesome that you recognized this unhealthy relationship on your own!

How often I lied to myself about the impact of my eating habits.

"My weight is not a conversation topic." "I would rather us not talk about this, please" "I appreciate the concern, really, I do. But I do not want to talk about this." "Cool!" "Thanks for your opinion." "My doctor thinks it's great, so..." "So the weather is sketch/nice today!" "Ok." All of these are ones that I have…

Drinking water and weighing my food. My food scale was one of the BEST purchases to help me reach my goals. :)

what about heating up tea?? or reheating tasty leftovers?? or popcorns for movies?? nooooooo way jose. I am keepin my microwave!

spices, coffee creamer, coffee, when i take the occasional bite of something and nothing more, often times i dont log certain veggies i eat when i learn their calorie count per cup

She likes instagram!

Mine says 121, from when I was 18. Now, after losing 35lbs, I am 5lbs away from not lying to the state! ;)

I did the 30 day shred a while back. It was difficult and pretty hard for me to keep myself accountable with only the TV watching me. Sometimes I just ended up letting her do some of the parts while I rested. :stuck_out_tongue:

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