Over 50s Ladies - Our Special Needs
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Morning ladies, slept awful last night and woke up with a headache. I have decided I need a maid after looking at this house I need to clean today, haha. Hope everyone is well. @Karlotta a 16 lb increase is so upsetting. Keep your head on straight cause it will turn around. Welcome newbies my diary is open and I welcome new friends. Well gotta go and start on the house, need to cut grass too, never enough hours.0
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Hello Ladies. So sorry about your mishap with the deer Kathie. I'm glad you are OK. I almost hit a moose once, scared me half to death. We see road kill along the highways all the time. It's so dangerous if you hit something.
I read about someone, an American woman I think, who scavenges for road kill and cooks and eats it, and published a cookbook about it. I saw a bear a couple of years ago on the roadside..... Still waiting for my hairdresser to bag a bear and share some meat with me. My chiropractor hunts and got a bear last year, or was it the year before, I can't remember....and gave us some steak. I cooked it alongside a beef steak to have a taste test. It was darker in colour, denser in texture and deeper in flavour than beef. OMG I really got way off topic here. Is it the ZC making me think about where my next piece of meat is coming from ? I've got a hankering for some moose meat now too....
Well I had my dreaded Dr's app't today and posted the news on my news feed and also on the LCD forum. I surprised myself by how nervous I was about this physical. I'm sure the worrying was what had me reaching for the cherries and rhubarb etc.....even marshmallows around the firepit for Pete's sake ! At least my stress eating now is way better than the carbier things I used to eat.
I was so worried that my Dr would criticize this woe I have adopted. I love it and I wanted to show him that it is working for me. But I didn't know until today what thee results would be. So I worked myself into a tizzy worrying. Along with stress from work the past week has been something else, haven't felt like myself at all.
My Dr said I was doing good. I admit I don't understand the numbers on the test but most values are within normal. But cholesterol and LDL are up a bit. But I basically passed the test ! It's just taking all day for me to wind down and have it sink in. I experienced the worst anxiety I have felt in years, so was pretty worried about my inability to cope. I'm still on edge, but hope I will sleep better tonight.
The main thing is that my Dr is happy with me, and after work I took my results to my beloved chiropractor Dr Randy to get his take on it, and he is pleased, so that is the best part. Whew ! Now maybe I need some of my daughter's chokecherry wine to try to relax.0 -
Good morning/afternoon/evening all.
So happy to have the time to sit down and catch up with you all!
Welcome foutunebc and batlady. Lovely to have you with us!
@cdpits I have never seen hornets, not something you come across much in the UK. We do get blooming big wasps here in Dubai though! Reminds me of a holiday years ago to Egypt when we got in a taxi and the driver had his window open. I saw on his headscarf a huge insect with a big stinger! Being very allergic to bee stings I was panicking in case the breeze from his window blew it onto me! I was practically climbing over my (now ex) husband to get out! I made him stop the taxi and change! Phew. Now I am used to them and just avoid them but man, are they scary! Lol. Btw, whats white gas?
@fortunebc you have my utmost respect for the time and patience it takes to look after a person recovering from a stroke let alone adding in the Alzheimers. It must be heartbreaking when the body is there but the person you have spent a lifetime with is locked away.
I think all of us here have had/still are on plateaux! The lovely thing about here is that we all help and support each other through them...and they do switch eventually. The general feeling is that its your body healing and dealing with past illnesses, hurts, diets or trauma and when it has done that it can go back to dealing with losing weight. Hang in there!
Same respect to you Liana and anyone who is living with caring for another person young or old. It makes every loss you have so much more hard won as your cortisol levels must be higher by default.
@ Karla....of sweety. You didnt say before that it was jumping up. After such an amazing loss your body has obviously rebelled! It will sort out again and drop. Maybe the ZC was just too much of a change even though you had been LC before. Maybe all that protein was turning to glucose and caused fluid retention. You are soooo strong and successful now. WE know you will be fine and stick with it until it whooshes the other way!
@batlady wow a DR who actually told you to go low carb to sort your metabolic syndrome! Yaay. Theres hope yet for the Medical profession,lol. I expect you will find as you get into it that you will naturally get lower and lower carb. A lot of us eat less than 20gm without any bother. Did I read correctly that your protein intake is higher than your fat intake though? Please be aware that higher protein levels can still not help your metabolic syndrome as protein can still be changed into glucose and stimulate insulin. Eating less prtoein and more fat stops you getting hungry too! Do you like butter and cream etc? Slap it on everything,lol. Has anyone told you about working out the best Macro's for you? The percentages/grams of carb/fat/ protein??? There are several sites that have calculators. One of the most common is http://keto-calculator.ankerl.com/
@ Janice...I laughed when I read about your internal alarm. Mine is driving me mad at the moment. As you know like May and David, we keep late hours. Going to bed around 1-2am and sleeping until 10.30-11am. With the new timings for Ramadan/summer we are not going to bed until 4.30am.....my blooming infernal(internal) alarm is waking me at 10.48 every morning and thats it! I'm awake. Grrrr. NOT helping lose any weight with this sleep pattern.
SOOOOO happy your blood results are good and both your DR and lovely Randy are happy with them! Question is....why did you get yourself into such a tizzy about them!??? You know how much better you are on this WOE and the huge changes you have made. A little blood test isnt going to wipe out all of those benefits especially as you dont have any direct influence on them. You are still being too hard on yourself and not allowing yourself the love! Your journey has been amazing and you give so much love to all of us and others in your life. Keep a bit for yourself and what you have achieved and then add it to all the love we send to you!
@ Kathie, it must have been really scary hitting the deer. I know a couple of times in Dorset where my mum lives she has hit a deer. Apart from the damage to the car and shaking her up she says the worst thing is if the deer has runoff and you dont know how badly its hurt.
All of you talking about eating deer, elk, moose and bear....WOW! Venison I love and I would love to try the others but its so funny the way you just drop it into the conversation as a normal thing...its really exotic to me. Anyone want to swop camel burger for moose steak?? lolol.
Glad you are all ok though and good luck with the insurance company. Take extra valerian or whatever first! lol.
@ May....is there no end to your teasing of us??? Lolol. Your lovely crafts which you share with David and then you put us all in a spin with the photo of your hunk!! I imagine several older ladies having extra hot flushes hehehe.
One thing though...I can tell hes been truly Ozzified rather than British!! Do you know how???? I'll wait until you answer!
I dont know if you saw my discussion about this WOE causing depression...its certainly not anything I have felt or heard of before and I didnt mean true depression, it was more mood swings and sadness. I have been aware of this for about 3 or 4 weeks and its not like me at all. Im usually and 'up' person as you know by now. Its been really odd. Snapping, and angry and irritable and it began to worry hubby and I so I thought I would ask. Didnt get any diffinitive answer except it may have been the rhodiola or syrtrinol supplements as nothing else has changed except our hours and it started before that. Have stopped the rhodiola to see if that helps. If not I'll stop the sytrinol and see if that makes any difference. Maybe its neither and just one of those spells! lol.
So, for all you cherry lovers out there I had this in my email today!! Thought I would share it!
http://www.ibreatheimhungry.com/2015/06/cherry-clafoutis-low-carb-and-gluten-free.html
Finally (Thank God I hear you saying! Sorry, have to catch up when I can!) I went up onto our roof to take a couple of pictures and its a windy hazy day and not so good but heres a hint of Dubai.
The tallest building in the world Burj Khalifa. Looks amazing at night! Too scared to have gone up it though! LOL
Yes, thats the sea, Im about 5 mins walk from it and....never go! I hate sand! The crane is where they are building a new hospital. To the left of our villa they are building a canal that will join the sea and go in land right past burj Khalifa and carry on back to the sea in old dubai. Its actually next door but one! Needless to say its a huge building site around here at the moment.
Finally..
I tried to get a good shot of the Burj Al Arab hotel. On a clear days you can see it clearly, typical that today its windy so dusty. You can just see a faint outline to the left of the minarets. Poeple go mad about it but to me its just like a Disney hotel. OTT and garish. Sorry if you are a Disney lover!!
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Good morning all !! Hope everyone in having a good week. Finally got to my semi-goal and am down 126lbs and have an even 50 to go woohoo !! I weigh less now than I did when I got married 28 years ago (RIP Dave XO) Feeling pretty good about that
@jumanajane , I am not allergic as far as I know but don't want to be stung and have to find out. White gas is camp stove fuel. My dad always called it that and I do too, not sure if it has another name LOL! Here is what Wiki says " In its most common modern usage, "white gas" is used as a generic name for camp stove and lantern fuel, usually naphtha. "
Came across a tiny birds nest in the underbrush I was clearing. The nest is about 4 inches across and the babies are covered in dark grey down.I left the last area of clearing and will finish it after they are gone .
Also had a chipmunk keeping me company, shared my raw almonds with him. Way better than the hornets !!
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Good morning/evening ladies. It's a beautiful morning here, but going to be a scorcher today. (Around 30 Celsius).
@ May love the miniatures! The time, talent, & patience you must have. Wish I'd found this group sooner, i would've commissioned wedding decorations from you, lol. (Shipping might've been impossible, tho.)
@ Jane sometimes I find my moods are cycling like TOM, even tho there's no parts left & I've been menopausal for years now. I'm snappy & very quick tempered & even tho you know you're being a witch you can't seem to stop. I hit a deer 10 yrs ago & my daughter (10 at the time) was with me. She wanted me to go find it & take it to vet. Had to get someone to look for it to appease her (didn't tell her it had run off & died).
@ Karla you've been such an inspiration, motivator, & great help please don't let yourself get too down over this increase. I am still going to send you pics of the Atkins package carb stuff as soon as daughter shows me how.
@ Janice at least you're chiropractor is fully on board even if your Dr is a little unsure. Too bad you got so worked up about the appt when it looks like it went well. I was looking forward to making some chokecherry wine, but between oodles of blossoms & now looks like I'm not going to have much fruit. I'll have soom with you when Ellen & I come for borscht.
@krazyforyou please send the maid my way when you're done. I have stuff strewn all over. Am just putting blinkers on til after wedding & kids get into their own place. Forgot how much crap comes with a baby, lol.
@cdpits we smoke the hornets out at night. Nothing else seems to work. My inlaws house has bees in walls & beekeeper came out & vacuumed them. Seriously, hooked up a shop vac & sucked away. Worked for 2 yrs, now seem to be coming back. Think when we tear place down some walls will only be held up by honey & honeycombs.
Well my son is driving around like madman trying to get my water going, so I should give him a hand. He just got off a night shift & is a little out of sorts. Have a great day/evening0 -
Hey all. Gotta work from 2pm to 10pm tonight for my extra job. How is everyone?? Got the house sorta clean. Got the backyard cut, but tomorrow the front yard is calling. Hope you have a great Thursday.0
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Hey everyone--gosh, it's hard to keep up anymore, there's so much going on in your lives. Dubai must be a fascinating place to live, Jane. You have quite a view from your house! I cannot imagine going to the top of that tallest building---it boggles the mind how they ever built it!
@cdpits Congrats on reaching your goal! How wonderful--a huge accomplishment! Thanks for sharing your pics--amazing that you got so close to the birds and squirrel, too.
@krazyforyou Work, work, work--you have a busy schedule! Hope you enjoy the weekend that's just about here.
@Janice So happy for your good blood work results and that your doctors are pleased with how you're doing! You've come a long way, baby! Your hard work is paying off big time!
Hope you're all looking forward to a good weekend. One more work day!0 -
@jane Love the pics of Dubai -- thanks!
@cdpits -- wonderful pictures, especially the baby birds!
@Sk8Kate -- So sorry about your deer encounter! At least you were all alright.
I gave away 10 shopping bags of clothes to Goodwill today (yes, I had way too many clothes.) Some of them were the size 18W jeans I bought last year; some still had the tags on (I bought thinking I'd lose into them, and by the time I lost into them, I didn't like them, or they didn't fit.)
I know people are of two minds about giving away their "fat clothes." Some say you should give them away, because it will keep you from re-gaining if you would have to buy bigger sizes. (That didn't work for me!) Some say keep them. I didn't want to. They represent 8 years of being at a weight which made me very unhappy. It felt good to pack them up and say "goodbye! (and good riddance!)" And I'm hoping some shoppers will be ecstatic at all the new larger-sized clothes waiting for them at Goodwill.
I still have tubs of clothes from 12 years ago that are classic and about 20-30 lbs too small, so I'm hoping that maybe by this time next year.... I cannot wait until everything in my closet is something that looks great and feels good!
It's going to be record high temps here in the Pacific NW these next 2 weeks -- 108 on Sunday! (about 28 degrees above normal.) We have been hiking every day recently -- now I fear being housebound for two weeks (we're hoping to at least be able to walk the neighborhood in the very early am and late pm.)0 -
That had me mystified, but I reckon it's the lack of socks. Am I right?jumanajane wrote: »@ May....is there no end to your teasing of us??? Lolol. Your lovely crafts which you share with David and then you put us all in a spin with the photo of your hunk!! I imagine several older ladies having extra hot flushes hehehe.
One thing though...I can tell hes been truly Ozzified rather than British!! Do you know how???? I'll wait until you answer!
I'll reply properly to everyone later. Gotta get off the computer before I'm offered a divorce
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@emmaps55 I too donated all my good "big" clothes as soon as I for too small for them. It helps keep me motivated, I just think, uh oh, nothing else to wear !! I also don't buy jeans with any stretch in them any more, same reason Super hot here too, I am on the coast in BC ! 0
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I woke up this morning at 3---WIDE awake! Tried to get back to sleep, but nope, can't do it. Gained another .2 lb this morning, definitely continuing the upward trend. I really don't think it has anything to do with what I've been eating even though I haven't been logging. The only 'out of line' thing I ate during that time was blackberries a couple of days.
I noticed a really nice improvement yesterday that had just slipped by me. My back is a lot better--it usually kills me after sitting at my desk for hours, and the last two days I had very little pain! Also, a trigger point on my upper back that periodically gives me a lot of pain (I've had to do Lamaze breathing sometimes!) hasn't been a problem for quite a while, and I hadn't even noticed it. Duh. I guess my attention has been on other areas of chronic pain and I didn't even realize the improvement in my back. I hope LC eventually improves my SFN pain!
@emma It's such a good feeling to give away the 'fat' clothes and clear out the closet! I'm right with you in the desire to have everything in my closet look good and feel good when I wear it. Maybe by next year!
@karla I've been thinking about you and hoping the scale numbers are returning to their rightful place! This is a process for perseverance, that's for sure! I keep thinking of the ZC 20 lb lady, but she also was re-feeding herself with tons of calories while she was gaining that weight. I don't know how that correlates with what we're experiencing. I guess the bottom line is to keep doing what we're doing and see what happens. Hope it's soon! 0 -
Just thought I would pop this in quickly....sorry I havent time to do a full post....
YES May!!! Lolol. No socks! The badge of an Englishman.....trainers AND socks...usually grey! Uuuggghhh.
Made this yesterday...OMG its to die for and only 3gm carb a slice and soooo easy! Raspberry cheesecake slice.
http://www.ibreatheimhungry.com/2012/10/low-carb-raspberry-cheesecake-bars.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Feed:+blogspot/VCiSP+(I+Breathe...I'm+Hungry...)
At Ellen and Kathie...really hope you get some sleep soon! I am right there with you!
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@Ellen, I haven't been back on the scale yet. The head games are too great right now, so I'm just going with how I feel. This woe has been so much more beneficial than just the scale for me, which is my motivation to stick with it. Patience is definitely a virtue for me though! I'm glad too, because I would have given up the first time I saw an increase on the scale, as I've done so many times before! I know the ZC lady's experience isn't the same as ours, but it does give me hope that this will pass!
@Jane, the scale has been down and up during this woe, just never this much. I can accept a couple of pounds, easily, but 18! (194 to 212!) I'm completely dumbfounded over it. Must accept it and continue on, knowing I'm still doing what is best for my body.
Have a great weekend everyone!
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Wow that cheesecake looks good !
Karla, I'm behind you all the way. It's so frustrating to see the scale go up after we've been so excited to see it go down ! I had my whoosh of 8 pounds, but am now back up by 4.5 pounds, and that gets me down a bit. Meanwhile, I saw more staff I used to work with when they came to our facility for meetings this week, and many of them have such wonderful things to say, always tell me how great I look. I tell them I have a long way to go and since feeling down over the gain, tend to brush those nice comments off.
I know I have to watch that in myself. At least I am aware of it this time, so I can try to banish those negative self-defeating thoughts from my mind. In the past I would have been so upset that I would have just packed it in and quit. But this time I can see so much more clearly that I have improved my health so much. I feel so good, I fit into smaller clothes, my flexibility and endurance has improved, etc etc. I have the confidence that this weight will come off again eventually. I just have to stick with it.
Well it's going to be hot today, already muggy. Last night was the first hot night we've had. I'm airing out the house right now, have a chicken in the oven roasting before it gets hotter in here. I'm thinking of making a "no-potato" salad with cauliflower and egg and mayo. I have started to eat a few veggies. It was probably all the stress of worrying about the Dr's app't that got me started back into some veggies, the rhubarb, a few nuts. I had a large glass of my daughter's wine last night....wow, it just gets smoother and smoother, really delicious. But now that my stress seems to be abating, I hope I will have the resolve to be more diligent again. I loved how I felt on zero carb, so maybe I can squeak a couple more weeks of ZC in before I'll want to eat more veggies again.....
Well, off to clean the house and mow the lawn that I've already logged that I have completed ! Need to water the garden too, it's so dry. Have a lovely day Ladies !0 -
@ Ellen, Janice and Karla.....do you think that as all of you have tried ZC that it may be the trigger common to all of you that has pushed your weight up again for some reason???0
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@ Ellen, Janice and Karla.....do you think that as all of you have tried ZC that it may be the trigger common to all of you that has pushed your weight up again for some reason???0
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@Jumanajane Good question, but I have no idea. My calories tended to be lower while on ZC, so maybe that had something to do with it??? I asked the forum and the consensus was not to worry about lower calories as long as I wasn't hungry. Someone posted recently--maybe to you, Jane?---that we should eat close to our BMR (1481 for me), so I upped my calorie goal this week to 1400. I'm so totally frustrated and confused, not sure what I'm doing wrong that prevents loss of any kind. I wasn't losing before ZC either. How can my body not be losing something when I'm not even eating as many calories as it takes to keep me alive? Does someone know the answer?0
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I think I was eating fewer calories doing ZC. There's just only so much meat I can eat before I feel full. That and I noticed that my bowels were much looser doing ZC. As soon as I introduced a bit of fruit, veg and nuts again, I plugged right up.0
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What a great thread! I'm nearly cross-eyed from exhaustion from moving one of our business facilities today and haven't had a chance to read through everyone's posts here yet.. but I will! Just turned 58 and wanting to lose a bit more (have successfully kept off 80+ lbs for almost 15 years, after struggling with my weight for almost 20 years previously) I had managed to creep up as high as 175ish, by not paying attention and have had to work hard to lose 8 lbs in the past 2 mos with calorie counting and strict macro (under 20 gms most days) attention. 152/(5'9") as of today.
Want to get down another 10 lbs and put on a little more muscle before I hit 60! I'm trying to not rush it, but had been stuck at 160 for the past 3 years so I'd thought it was hopeless, but nope! Just a matter of tracking everything and trying to work out daily. Seeing everything in black and white and having that accountability is evidently just as important as 'they' all say! Would love to believe that just staying keto would get me all the way, but no such luck!
On bio-identical hormones (progesterone/testosterone/DHEA/melatonin) since the beginning of the year and feeling better for it. This may be a bit more of a challenge for our particular demographic, but we are a tough bunch, that we all know!
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Welcome @deboxley Deb I presume? We rather use first names in this thread, where that is ok with the poster. Awesome to read of your long-term experience with keto and tracking calories and macros. It really does seem necessary to track calories for us 'experienced in life' ladies doesn't it? Oh well, as you say, we are all tough and know how to put in the hard yards to get what we want. Jane and I both are 58 too, but my days are numbered LOL
I'm so tired. Only managed to get 6 or 7 hours' sleep each night this week and I'm definitely an 8-hour girl. Got up this morning way too early, but David's working and, for a night driver, the Sunday shifts are ridiculous. He has to start work at 11am. Didn't finish last night until 1am. So he's going to work any minute having had no real meal since brunch yesterday because it's our custom not to eat until noon and he'll be at work by then. He'll be home around 8pm. I never cook, but I think I'll need to step up to the plate and make him something to come home to LOL
@Karlotta oh wow, it's 18 lbs now? That other lady put on a stack didn't she? And then it came tumbling down and stayed there. I hope that happens soon for you. But it's great that you can see the health benefits in the meantime. Do you feel fatter, or great in your body?
My son, Coyotee, had to race out at 5.30pm yesterday to take his partner to emergency. I know he wasn't home by 2am when we went to bed and he's sleeping now. So I'm 'sitting' my grandson and trying to keep him quiet while my son sleeps. We've no idea what time Coyotee got home (how much sleep he's managing). Once he wakes I think I'll be going back to bed myself ha ha!
@Janice I'm so pleased your stress levels are reduced now
@Jane that cheesecake looks gorgeous. All we can get here are frozen raspberries and the 'woody bits/pips' are horrible. Huge, tasteless strawberries are the only berries Perth really produces. I'd kill for a blackcurrant or a gooseberry. Haven't had either of those since 1971. I've seen fresh raspberries twice. They sell them at a similar price to gold and they don't taste very fresh. Probably flown here from Tasmania or even overseas.
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I am 48 and it has been hard to lose the weight and keep it off. I started off on 1500 calorie but now I am trying 1200. I am so addicted to the carbs. each day I try to reduce the carbs but it is so hard. I am thinking about going cold turkey on all carbs maybe I will see the results I am looking for. I want to be 150 pounds again and I know it is going to take a lot of work. Plus I have limitation after a spinal infusion surgery in 2012. But I just keep pushing on thus far post surgery I weighed 256lbs but got back up to 276, last week I was up to 280 for not exercising and not really paying attention to calories. But, now I am at 278 and I boy do I pay attention. I am sticking to my 1200 calories diet and that is that. I will not eat calories back and I will drink 64 ounces of water a day. As a diabete I was told to eat 1/4 carbs with each meal but I know carbs love me like I love them. So, no carbs for a week and let me see how this goes or at least try no starchy carbs for a week.0
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Welcome @FaithMathias I hope we can all help you through this. I think that going cold turkey is a good idea. Or at least to have around 20 grams or less of carbs per day. I went cold turkey, carbs below 15g per day and no sweet foods at all for 3 months. I had no cravings at all, and I used to be totally addicted to sugar.
I eat around 1300 calories per day. I'm 5' 5" / 165cm, and 58 years old.
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Right. Having a moan. And then a sleep LOL
Whilst I *totally and 100%* understand what my Father-in-Law must be going through, I am also really fed up that he's expecting us to drop everything to go and visit my MIL in hospital so often. Unfortunately (from one way of looking at it) David's sister goes to visit about 5 times a week on her way to or from work. We can't do that. We have to make a special trip, further than she does. David worked the weekend including a 1am finish Saturday night followed by a 10.30am start Sunday, which was through until 8pm Sunday. How are we supposed to fit visiting into that schedule? Albert doesn't understand any of that. His world is small and limited. I completely get it.
When we got there to visit today, after walking around the hospital for 15 minutes even trying to find the right building, he knew we were there because Enid spoke and so did we. He sat there with his back to us, ignoring us, quite literally giving us the cold shoulder. We could have visited on Friday but he *told us not to!!!* Now he's angry because we haven't been sooner. He's truly 'losing it' himself and we know that his head is full. He can't take any more, but it doesn't make it any easier about having him angry with us for things either beyond our control, or of his own making! Obviously we will ignore him in the future if he says not to come, but... well, aarrrggghhhh!
Even while visiting there is absolutely nothing to talk about and it's agonising. David's sister is bright and chirpy, loud, and can have fun in any situation, laughing about things nobody else would get away with laughing at - she's adorable. But she wasn't there, so we all sit there in virtual silence between inspired sentences that fizzle away into lack of conversation once more.
How are we supposed to 'win' in this situation? I just don't know. Looks like she could be in there for up to 3 weeks more, meaning she'll come home a day or two before we go away and will be out of phone contact. We don't even think she should be going home at all. She can either lay in bed, or sit in the chair. The hospital have banned her from moving without a staff member there because she's so weak muscled, and she's getting dizzy spells as well. How's Albert (86) supposed to manage her physically if she goes home again?
I'm so tired. Didn't sleep well any night last week because of having to get up for commitments of one kind or another, and David having 1am finishes so we weren't getting to bed until 2am or later. He had to wake me today so we could fit in a visit to Enid because this week he's on 'early starts' (3pm) but we have to fit a meal in there as well as his prep for work.
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I should add. David has rung once or twice each day when we can't visit so it's not like we've ignored them.
On happier news, I was down a sudden 300 grams this morning (6½ lbs). That's the last thing I expected, but after a week of 'short nights' (not enough sleep) I did have a bit more last night. Good sleep often seems to help the scale results.0 -
@May Wow---6 1/2 lbs in one fell swoop? How exciting and wonderful!! That's a WHOOSH! I hope it's gone for good.
I'm so sorry about the hard times with your in-laws. Family relationships can be so uncomfortable and difficult to make better. With your MIL in this physical/mental state, your FIL's world is collapsing and it seems he's taking it out on you and David. It's hard to do anything right and pleasing in that situation no matter how hard you try. I dread getting older. I don't want to be an unreasonable and demanding old lady.
@FaithMathias Welcome! What May says is right--cut those carbs! After a few days you'll be surprised at how the cravings have gone and you feel so much better. Sweet stuff is so addictive and keeps the desire for more sweet going. Don't be afraid of substituting with fat which is far more satiating.
I wish we could confer with a doctor or someone who understands post-menopausal body function who could steer us in the right direction for successful weight loss. Most of us are having such ongoing difficulty and I don't understand WHY!
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I'm doubting my maths now. That might be only .66 of a pound. Translating (and maths in general) are not my forte LOL But either way it's a new low weight and that will do me.
Thank you dear Ellen for your understanding. It's so hard to understand completely what's going on for Albert and the suffering he's enduring, and to distance ourselves from the emotional fallout. His childhood was pretty much the worst that you could imagine so his life has been the 63 year marriage to Enid.
I think if you're aware of not being unreasonable or demanding then you won't be. Albert has never been in the situation that we are. His mother died when he was 2 years old, and his estranged father a couple of years after Albert married, so he's not in the least understanding of what he's expecting of us. Even his in-laws lived with them, and one died relatively young, the other died suddenly at home so these repeat hospital visits and subsequent expectations are all new territory.
I wrote to a web podcast of Prof Tim Noakes asking for help with our situation, but it seems they had 823 questions in response to their request about all things LCHF so I guess we may never in our lifetimes see an answer tee hee! They do 3 podcasts a week and are choosing the 'most asked questions' to answer
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jumanajane wrote: »Just thought I would pop this in quickly....sorry I havent time to do a full post....
YES May!!! Lolol. No socks! The badge of an Englishman.....trainers AND socks...usually grey! Uuuggghhh.
Made this yesterday...OMG its to die for and only 3gm carb a slice and soooo easy! Raspberry cheesecake slice.
http://www.ibreatheimhungry.com/2012/10/low-carb-raspberry-cheesecake-bars.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Feed:+blogspot/VCiSP+(I+Breathe...I'm+Hungry...)
At Ellen and Kathie...really hope you get some sleep soon! I am right there with you!
Love and hugs to all of you.
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Good Monday morning everyone !
@May , I hope things get easier for you with the family. I find that when someone is not well it is the expectation that everyone else stop their lives to be there. I understand it but it's not realistic. Hope you get a little more sleep. Congrats on the loss !!
I suffer from insomnia so I know the sleepless nights can be taxing on you.
@FaithMathias and @ Welcome to the group
It was so hot here the past few (Upper 90'sF, 37C) which is unseasonable for me. To hot to work outside and I have so many projects on the go LOL!!
Had a dear friend come over yesterday and we set up my pool. Gonna take a couple days to fill it, I am on a well and am only filling it an hour at a time so's I don't burn out my well pump. Can't wait!! I can add swimming to my daily exercise. This is the first time I've had a pool, bought it at an end of season sale last year
@Jane, that cheesecake looks so good !!! Thanks for sharing !!
Wishing you all a wonderful day xo
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Thank you Cindy. I think our 'lack of interest in regular visiting' is because she's been in and out of hospital so frequently over the past 3 years that it's just not that unusual any more. Though we have to admit she seems very weak this time, she's been quite literally at death's door so many times and bounced back that we're now completely immune to finding her situation anything out of the ordinary. It's going to be a shock when we're wrong. I understand what you mean about expectations of being there, and we certainly were the first half a dozen times. Sigh. There's no perfect answer, I do know.
I hope your LCHF lifestyle will lead to better sleep for you! We get those temps here in summer and that's definitely too hot for working outside, but your pool sounds exciting. And cool. I hope you love using it.
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Good afternoon/evening ladies. Had a marathon bouquet making session this weekend & we're done the 8 (seriously?) bridesmaids' bouquets. Now to start altering the dress this afternoon.
@May. The trials of aging parents are tough. I feel for you. As my MIL steadily worsened, my FIL was same as yours it sounds. It seems that their world shrinks so much so fast (only have room for each other) they have no idea how to handle external stuff. Add to that we had 2 sisters who Google too much, but wouldn't be hands on & a brother who just didn't give a s***, & my poor hubby was swamped. Make sure you take time for yourselves & try not to let the guilt-trips get to you. (Easier said than done, I know). Hugs. (Also 1kg=2.2lbs).
@Karla, Ellen, & Janice. I read somewhere that reintroducing certain carbs can cause an overnight gain of 15 or so lbs. don't know if this is true, just thought I'd share. Hope you're all doing well otherwise, tho.
@Jane. Sleep has still been elusive, but figure wedding night I should have a good one. Just hoping a Hashimoto's crash doesn't develop with all the craziness going on. The cheesecake bars look awesome. You should go into mail order treat business & send us samples. I'd be your taste tester for sure.
Well gotta run, have get started on this dress. Have no idea what I'm doing, so it could be very interesting, lol.0
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