Monday updates....
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Oh my goodness .. you are all such busy people! lol.
Ask her flat out.
7 hours is quite a distance for a relationship.
I think that it is Twirly Monday .... !!!!!!
Married men should not be allowed in bars. Period.0 -
Eh! They need an escape from the boring wife... So no, they definitely should be allowed in bars!Married men should not be allowed in bars. Period.0 -
I have been chatting off and on with a guy from POF for a couple weeks. He currently has a horrible schedule, 4am - 630 pm damn Navy, and we talked about meeting for drinks Saturday night. I took my son to BG, Jay knew, on Saturday and I was tired and feeling pretty ****ty about myself so I told him I couldn't find a babysitter. I probably could have. His response was, it's okay but now I have to wait longer to see you and that sucks. I thought that was sweet. I don't have my son on Wed. or Thurs. so we might get drinks then.
I am not sure. I am feeling pretty ****ty about myself today too. He is really cute and I just don't think he would be interested in me once we meet. I am starting to think that I am the kind of girl guys sleep with but don't date.0 -
I had a date Saturday night with a guy I’ve been seeing off and on for the past five months. He’s perfect and I absolutely love hanging out with him. Problem….he has a lot of family and personal issues going on…..so he’s not at a place to have anything serious. It sucks and I know I’m setting myself up for heart break but I cant seem to stay away from him. :sad:0
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My Monday update....I met this guy on OKCupid a month ago and through all my apprehension and hesitation, I couldn't help it anymore and we made it official this past Saturday. Alas, my year of singledom has come to an end. I
my Single Peeps! group though and will continue to lurk here everyday. ;-) Haha. 0 -
I had a great Friday night. He text me about 20 mins after I left so I know I was on his mind. No details because you guys will rip me to shreds.0
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I had a date Saturday night with a guy I’ve been seeing off and on for the past five months. He’s perfect and I absolutely love hanging out with him. Problem….he has a lot of family and personal issues going on…..so he’s not at a place to have anything serious. It sucks and I know I’m setting myself up for heart break but I cant seem to stay away from him. :sad:
:explode: Why.can't.we.step.away.?????0 -
Well I bit the bullett and joined POF this last night since I have been on eharmony since october and had 1 date and barely get matched up. I can see why guys say they are fighting for everything on there. It has been overwhelming to the point I don't know where to start. I need to cull through the emails and respond to some that took more time then to send a "hey beautiful" message.
So funny, I just opened a PoF account yesterday too. Eharmony sucks. Keep us posted.Eharmony sucks. Keep us posted.
Uh-oh I need details on this... my friend who wants to go online is thinking about eharmony... she's convinced that's what she needs to do in order to find someone to marry rather than just a one-night-stand
When you're on Eharmony, they send you lots of matches the first month, but if you're on any longer than that it goes down to 2-3 a week. And basically no one ever writes or responds to one another (I've heard both men & women say this). It just feels pointless and expensive after a while.0 -
Damn. Except if there is a swimming pool nearby... If I start drowning I might find the energy to hang to whatever is at hand.
This is another reason why we have an "impossible love".FOREVER ALONE! :laugh:
I like to drink, you like to drink.. we'd never get anything done. Ahem.0 -
I had a great Friday night. He text me about 20 mins after I left so I know I was on his mind. No details because you guys will rip me to shreds.
Haha, did you learn from my experience?
Just kidding. I welcome it... but it doesn't mean I'll listen. :bigsmile:0 -
My Monday update....I met this guy on OKCupid a month ago and through all my apprehension and hesitation, I couldn't help it anymore and we made it official this past Saturday. Alas, my year of singledom has come to an end. I my Single Peeps! group though and will continue to lurk here everyday. ;-) Haha.
That's great!
(I haven't seen you post on here before lol... have you just lurked?)0 -
I had a great Friday night. He text me about 20 mins after I left so I know I was on his mind. No details because you guys will rip me to shreds.
Haha, did you learn from my experience?
Just kidding. I welcome it... but it doesn't mean I'll listen. :bigsmile:
No shreds! Promise!0 -
Damn. Except if there is a swimming pool nearby... If I start drowning I might find the energy to hang to whatever is at hand.
This is another reason why we have an "impossible love".FOREVER ALONE! :laugh:
I like to drink, you like to drink.. we'd never get anything done. Ahem.
Ha!
TMI but I can't find my bra from that night. It was my wonder bra too.
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Well I bit the bullett and joined POF this last night since I have been on eharmony since october and had 1 date and barely get matched up. I can see why guys say they are fighting for everything on there. It has been overwhelming to the point I don't know where to start. I need to cull through the emails and respond to some that took more time then to send a "hey beautiful" message.
So funny, I just opened a PoF account yesterday too. Eharmony sucks. Keep us posted.
There must be something in the water! I joined POF last Thursday and yeah tons to cull through. I came up with a generic "i'm not interested" that I send right away to those I know it wouldn't work out well with. Actually having ongoing conversations with 3-4 really interesting potentials and a date for drinks with 1 of them this Thursday. Really nervous as I haven't met anyone off the internet before!0 -
Eh! They need an escape from the boring wife... So no, they definitely should be allowed in bars!Married men should not be allowed in bars. Period.
And you question "forever alone" LOL...0 -
I came down to Pensacola for a date/weekend.
The good, we spent the entire 48 hours together and get along great.
The bad, I'm not certain she's serious about being exclusive.
Hey! Give it time!! How many times have you met? How far do you live away from each other??
This was our first real date. We live about 7 hours apart.
Holy smokes! I have a difficult time seeing someone who lives more than 20-30 minutes away from me.0 -
Eh! They need an escape from the boring wife... So no, they definitely should be allowed in bars!Married men should not be allowed in bars. Period.
And you question "forever alone" LOL...
Good one!0 -
Damn. Except if there is a swimming pool nearby... If I start drowning I might find the energy to hang to whatever is at hand.
This is another reason why we have an "impossible love".FOREVER ALONE! :laugh:
I like to drink, you like to drink.. we'd never get anything done. Ahem.
Ha!
TMI but I can't find my bra from that night. It was my wonder bra too.
Thanks for the TMI, made me laugh!0 -
I had a date Saturday night with a guy I’ve been seeing off and on for the past five months. He’s perfect and I absolutely love hanging out with him. Problem….he has a lot of family and personal issues going on…..so he’s not at a place to have anything serious. It sucks and I know I’m setting myself up for heart break but I cant seem to stay away from him. :sad:
:explode: Why.can't.we.step.away.?????
I tried! I didn’t talk to him for a month and a half and then out of the blue he text me this weekend. My head said don’t see him....but my heart of course won! I can’t help but thinking that something will develop in the future because I know we have something special. I'm just REALLY bad at waiting!0 -
I had a date Saturday night with a guy I’ve been seeing off and on for the past five months. He’s perfect and I absolutely love hanging out with him. Problem….he has a lot of family and personal issues going on…..so he’s not at a place to have anything serious. It sucks and I know I’m setting myself up for heart break but I cant seem to stay away from him. :sad:
:explode: Why.can't.we.step.away.?????
I tried! I didn’t talk to him for a month and a half and then out of the blue he text me this weekend. My head said don’t see him....but my heart of course won! I can’t help but thinking that something will develop in the future because I know we have something special. I'm just REALLY bad at waiting!
Good luck there!
I hate my heart. No, I don't. I love my heart. I love it!0 -
Damn. Except if there is a swimming pool nearby... If I start drowning I might find the energy to hang to whatever is at hand.
This is another reason why we have an "impossible love".FOREVER ALONE! :laugh:
I like to drink, you like to drink.. we'd never get anything done. Ahem.
Ha!
TMI but I can't find my bra from that night. It was my wonder bra too.
Thanks for the TMI, made me laugh!
I even went back to the pool last night to check and nothing.0 -
I had a date Saturday night with a guy I’ve been seeing off and on for the past five months. He’s perfect and I absolutely love hanging out with him. Problem….he has a lot of family and personal issues going on…..so he’s not at a place to have anything serious. It sucks and I know I’m setting myself up for heart break but I cant seem to stay away from him. :sad:
This sounds like bad news written all over it.0 -
Just an FYI, I am officially NOT friendzoned.
Pretty much asked her straight out if we were both on the same page and her response is, "I wouldn't laugh so much and have such a good time if I wasn't interested" she also goes on to tell me she's not good about constantly reassuring, so I'm gonna need to just accept it and move forward. So time for me to get that intestinal fortitude.0 -
Just an FYI, I am officially NOT friendzoned.
Pretty much asked her straight out if we were both on the same page and her response is, "I wouldn't laugh so much and have such a good time if I wasn't interested" she also goes on to tell me she's not good about constantly reassuring, so I'm gonna need to just accept it and move forward. So time for me to get that intestinal fortitude.
Woot!! :drinker:0 -
Damn. Except if there is a swimming pool nearby... If I start drowning I might find the energy to hang to whatever is at hand.
This is another reason why we have an "impossible love".FOREVER ALONE! :laugh:
I like to drink, you like to drink.. we'd never get anything done. Ahem.
Ha!
TMI but I can't find my bra from that night. It was my wonder bra too.
Thanks for the TMI, made me laugh!
I even went back to the pool last night to check and nothing.
Maybe Friend-Lover nicked it :bigsmile:0 -
My Monday update....I met this guy on OKCupid a month ago and through all my apprehension and hesitation, I couldn't help it anymore and we made it official this past Saturday. Alas, my year of singledom has come to an end. I my Single Peeps! group though and will continue to lurk here everyday. ;-) Haha.
That's great!
(I haven't seen you post on here before lol... have you just lurked?)
Thanks! Lol, I've posted here and there -- not a total lurker. I had a very very similar friend lover situation like yours and it went on for a year and I just could not quit him...until I met this new guy. Very happy to finally be able to put friend lover situation to rest!0 -
Eh! They need an escape from the boring wife... So no, they definitely should be allowed in bars!Married men should not be allowed in bars. Period.
my exhusband met the girl he cheated on me with at a gas station so its not just bars.
Nothing this weekend. Nada. Nil. Zilch. I need to get out more0 -
Damn. Except if there is a swimming pool nearby... If I start drowning I might find the energy to hang to whatever is at hand.
This is another reason why we have an "impossible love".FOREVER ALONE! :laugh:
I like to drink, you like to drink.. we'd never get anything done. Ahem.
Ha!
TMI but I can't find my bra from that night. It was my wonder bra too.
Thanks for the TMI, made me laugh!
I even went back to the pool last night to check and nothing.
Maybe Friend-Lover nicked it :bigsmile:
hopefully not.. after what you all said (he sounds gay lol).0 -
Dateless wonder here!! I hear you all talking so much about POF. Been a few years since I was on there and it was a freakshow then. Entertaining, but definitely a freakshow. lol
Hmmm, dare I go there again?? :huh:0 -
Well I bit the bullett and joined POF this last night since I have been on eharmony since october and had 1 date and barely get matched up. I can see why guys say they are fighting for everything on there. It has been overwhelming to the point I don't know where to start. I need to cull through the emails and respond to some that took more time then to send a "hey beautiful" message.
So funny, I just opened a PoF account yesterday too. Eharmony sucks. Keep us posted.Eharmony sucks. Keep us posted.
Uh-oh I need details on this... my friend who wants to go online is thinking about eharmony... she's convinced that's what she needs to do in order to find someone to marry rather than just a one-night-stand
The matches on Eharmony for me are few and far between. I think there have been about 70 matches and probably about 1/3 were from another state even though I put I didn't want to be matched with anyone over 100 miles away. That has been since mid october and out of that only about 4 icebreaker/ get to know you things. The one guy I actually met was nice there was just no click at all and I met him the first weekend I was on there.0
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