What "type" do you attract?
Darkskinned88
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Not essentially the type you are attracted to, but what types of women/men always seem to like you. For me i attract alot of older women(35+), otherwise shy women (guess i dont make many nervous) and alot of really skinny women (even though i prefer my women thick) how about you
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Well usually I have no clue when a guy is attracted to me but when I do they are usually black, I prefer white guys. Lately I have been attracting guys I am more interested in though but that is because since I have lost weight I am doing more things that interest me (sports/athletics) which puts me in to the path of those guys.0
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losers!! :laugh:0
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I can`t say that I really (in everyday life) attract anybody.0
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I think there isn't a pattern or well, maybe they all are manly men, who want to be in control but are going totally overboard trying to set out rules to my life (now, as I am very much my own woman and do not take lightly to people telling me what to do, this is bound to go awefully wrong)
It's almost always the fact that I am being told they want a strong woman, with a clear head, who doesn't freak out when they are away, who doesn't have to be with them 24/7 - but when I play those rules (and I actually like my life like that, I do not want companionship 24/7 I do my own thing, I have a life and I have work to do and I am not always depending on others) they start running :S0 -
I can`t say that I really (in everyday life) attract anybody.
I would have said this as well yet people encouraged me to pay more attention because that was not likely the case. I have to say they were right, but I'm not sure it makes me feel any better. I'd say that men old enough to be my father usually notice me as well as men without teeth. I think I'll go back to not paying attention....0 -
The most people I get attention from are black men in my age range or Middle Eastern men (the really creepy ones at the gas station). When I DO get hit on by white guys, they're normally...creepy...or older than I am interested in. (which says a lot because I love old guys!)
It's a rare gem when I'm approached by someone attractive!0 -
Debt Collectors for fictional debt
The mailman comes to my house 5 times a week
Santa Claus comes once a year
Squirrels
ants
Nigerian princes that want to give me money
Salesman
And I assume eventually I'll attract the grim reaper.
No women though.0 -
I don't usually always attract alot of guys but it does seem like super older men (like 50 plus) sometimes try to get my attention lol...0
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Married men :noway:0
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I, like most people, am pretty oblivious when someone is in to me.. But if I had to guess I would say...
Clingy guys who end up trying to control me. Or guys who lose interest out of no where and just vanish.
Neither are appealing in any way....0 -
I, like most people, am pretty oblivious when someone is in to me.. But if I had to guess I would say...
Clingy guys who end up trying to control me. Or guys who lose interest out of no where and just vanish.
Neither are appealing in any way....
Hey, me too!0 -
Guys who are older than me by 10-20 years and guys who are clingy/dependent. :-/0
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Losers or freaks...0
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i seem to attract 2 types of nationalities and for some reason the only guys who approach me are foreign. i'm pretty much invisible to american men.
luckily the guys that do approach me are pretty assertive about it so i dont ever have to wonder what his intentions are :laugh:
type 1: super tall (i'm 5'5 so i consider anyone over 6'0 super tall), lanky, fair skinned to the point of being transparent northern europeans, especially germans and swedes. very reserved and rational on the outside but fun goofballs in private.
type 2: short or a little taller than me welsh or irish guys. tons of swag on the outside but sensitive mushballs in private.
it's kind of a running joke with my friends : mesha met a guy. let me guess hes name is either sven or seamus.
every now and then i get approached by italians or french, but i think the last time an american guy tried chatting me up was like 1999 :laugh: and the last time i was approached by a black guy was probably in high school0 -
Men over 30.0
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Milfs. No joke, lately it seems like every girl that approaches me has a child.0
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Married men :noway:
^^ This - had a married man on POF try to get his groove on with me - had to shut that down ASAP!! :grumble: :noway:0 -
I can`t say that I really (in everyday life) attract anybody.
What? How many times have the ladies on here said they are sooooo in love with you. You need to make some visits, mister!0 -
Debt Collectors for fictional debt
The mailman comes to my house 5 times a week
Santa Claus comes once a year
Squirrels
ants
Nigerian princes that want to give me money
Salesman
And I assume eventually I'll attract the grim reaper.
No women though.
Thank you for the laugh :laugh:
I attract indecisive men, exactly what I do not want.0 -
Fixer uppers. I am a fixer, so I guess it's mostly on me. If they are a drummer with emotional issues, we will end up together.
Recently got asked out by a guy 12 years my senior... I said sure! Not gunna knock it til I try it...
I've noticed since I started trying to get healthy I'm attracting guys more, the confidence thing.
Why most of them are either unemployed, un-autoed, or have kids they don't support... I haven't the slightest idea. :ohwell:0 -
Obviously the wrong ones.0
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~Young men
~Men who don't seem to know what they want
~Married Men
~and for the normal guys... I usually get a mix of races but black men tend to like me the most.0 -
I honestly have no idea, I guess I should pay more attention.
Probably ones with daddy issues, drug problems, insecurities, etc. That sounds about right. Attracting cute girls hasn't been the issue, it's attracting ones who aren't bat *** crazy that I seem to have a problem with.0 -
I attract one of two types of guys.
First type are younger guys 16-22 tall, thin/athletic, usually quiet, secretive mysterious guys.
Second type of guys are 45+ either under 5"5 or 6ft+, usually married with kids wanting to do God knows what! lol
A little far from what I want.
I'd like a guy 25-30, 5'10+, a little extra meat on his bones, a leader, smart, driven. Yea, that's pretty much it.
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The ones with penises.
No really. I mostly attract the complete a-hole or the complete clinger. Never anything in the middle.0 -
Not so much a type but always 15-20 years older. There's nothing wrong with that but what does a girl gotta do to attract someone in my same age bracket?0
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Debt Collectors for fictional debt
The mailman comes to my house 5 times a week
Santa Claus comes once a year
Squirrels
ants
Nigerian princes that want to give me money
Salesman
And I assume eventually I'll attract the grim reaper.
No women though.
I suspect the grim reaper is female. :drinker:0 -
The invisible kind...0
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I, for once, would love to meet someone of the same caliber as me! Smart, can hold an intellectual conversation, educated, has a stable job, is a family man, hasn't been married or has children, has morals and values....GOALS in life.....believes in some sort of higher being.....Is that too much to ask for?? lol I seem to attract the COMPLETE opposite! Ah....c'est la vei.....lol0
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Dang it! Beat me to it!The invisible kind...0
