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  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    Men who are old enough to be my father and psychotic narcissists.
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    Well, I think you attract mostly who you are, in a way... :wink: Yeah, this doesn't sound good for all the people who said "losers" before me.

    Don't expect much more from a man/woman that what you have to offer... Why? It's because one (mostly) meets people in their social/professional circles, so where and with who one hangs out determines who one meets (although online dating is changing this... maybe).

    I think I like the opposites attract theory better. Besides, the psycho losers aren't attracted to me now that I'm in a terrible living situation and completely broke. Guess it's because I don't have anything left worth taking. Or maybe it's that new look in my eyes that says if someone tries taking anything from me ever again I just might go psycho.
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    Men who are old enough to be my father and psychotic narcissists.

    Nothing worse than a narcissist with old balls!
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    I have no clue... I have had some pretty solid ex gf so I guess I have that going for me.
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    Men who are old enough to be my father and psychotic narcissists.

    Nothing worse than a narcissist with old balls!

    Thanks, I needed a fresh reason not to get back out there and start dating. This mental image will do nicely.
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    Men who are old enough to be my father and psychotic narcissists.

    Nothing worse than a narcissist with old balls!

    Thanks, I needed a fresh reason not to get back out there and start dating. This mental image will do nicely.

    I'm here to help :happy:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Men who are old enough to be my father and psychotic narcissists.

    Nothing worse than a narcissist with old balls!

    Old balls.....
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    Men who are old enough to be my father and psychotic narcissists.

    Nothing worse than a narcissist with old balls!

    Winning combo.
  • jend114
    jend114 Posts: 1,058 Member
    the crazies lol
  • Anu_mee13
    Anu_mee13 Posts: 69 Member
    Not a lot of guys approach me, but for the ones that do, they're shorter. I'm 5'8, so it would be nice if he was taller.
  • hypallage
    hypallage Posts: 624 Member
    married guys & guys who are too needy...
  • Kerri_is_so_very
    Kerri_is_so_very Posts: 999 Member
    Married guys, all kinds, younger, older, my age....all married :grumble:

    I wish I could get that much attention from not married guys!! Even 1/2 would be good!
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

    This has happened to me one time, so I left my own house for the day... the key is to take your dog with you!
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

    This has happened to me one time, so I left my own house for the day... the key is to take your dog with you!
    I've tried leaving for a while but they generally just wait around until I get back. I haven't tried bringing my dog yet, that's a good idea.
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

    This has happened to me one time, so I left my own house for the day... the key is to take your dog with you!
    I've tried leaving for a while but they generally just wait around until I get back. I haven't tried bringing my dog yet, that's a good idea.

    You guys are horrid!!! :laugh: Just say you have stuff to do and offer to drive her home?? Far more polite :bigsmile:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

    This has happened to me one time, so I left my own house for the day... the key is to take your dog with you!
    I've tried leaving for a while but they generally just wait around until I get back. I haven't tried bringing my dog yet, that's a good idea.

    You guys are horrid!!! :laugh: Just say you have stuff to do and offer to drive her home?? Far more polite :bigsmile:

    Exactly..

    The routine for me was to go over ex's Friday night and stay till Sunday. If he thought I was being clingy, or needed his space, speak up!

    Now if you're talking about a chick you just met.. yeah that's a little creepy. But if it's someone you're in a relationship, speak up. Don't be afraid of hurting her feelings.. and maybe you won't hurt her feelings. Maybe you're assuming you will. Maybe she thinks you want her there too. Communication is underrated. :tongue:
  • NCTravellingGirl
    NCTravellingGirl Posts: 717 Member
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

    Sounds like a stage FOUR clinger? They aren't very good clingers if you can get them leave by just asking, hello?!

    I agree with Diana... just talk to them! Unless she's batsh*t crazy, most women will respect that and go!!!
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

    This has happened to me one time, so I left my own house for the day... the key is to take your dog with you!
    I've tried leaving for a while but they generally just wait around until I get back. I haven't tried bringing my dog yet, that's a good idea.

    You guys are horrid!!! :laugh: Just say you have stuff to do and offer to drive her home?? Far more polite :bigsmile:

    Exactly..

    The routine for me was to go over ex's Friday night and stay till Sunday. If he thought I was being clingy, or needed his space, speak up!

    Now if you're talking about a chick you just met.. yeah that's a little creepy. But if it's someone you're in a relationship, speak up. Don't be afraid of hurting her feelings.. and maybe you won't hurt her feelings. Maybe you're assuming you will. Maybe she thinks you want her there too. Communication is underrated. :tongue:

    Yeah... in my case, I might have just met her the night before :devil:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

    This has happened to me one time, so I left my own house for the day... the key is to take your dog with you!
    I've tried leaving for a while but they generally just wait around until I get back. I haven't tried bringing my dog yet, that's a good idea.

    You guys are horrid!!! :laugh: Just say you have stuff to do and offer to drive her home?? Far more polite :bigsmile:

    Exactly..

    The routine for me was to go over ex's Friday night and stay till Sunday. If he thought I was being clingy, or needed his space, speak up!

    Now if you're talking about a chick you just met.. yeah that's a little creepy. But if it's someone you're in a relationship, speak up. Don't be afraid of hurting her feelings.. and maybe you won't hurt her feelings. Maybe you're assuming you will. Maybe she thinks you want her there too. Communication is underrated. :tongue:

    Yeah... in my case, I might have just met her the night before :devil:

    Dirty dog!!!

    Or shall I say.. stud! She didn't want to leave your place after just one night? I'm impressed!
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

    This has happened to me one time, so I left my own house for the day... the key is to take your dog with you!
    I've tried leaving for a while but they generally just wait around until I get back. I haven't tried bringing my dog yet, that's a good idea.

    You guys are horrid!!! :laugh: Just say you have stuff to do and offer to drive her home?? Far more polite :bigsmile:

    Exactly..

    The routine for me was to go over ex's Friday night and stay till Sunday. If he thought I was being clingy, or needed his space, speak up!

    Now if you're talking about a chick you just met.. yeah that's a little creepy. But if it's someone you're in a relationship, speak up. Don't be afraid of hurting her feelings.. and maybe you won't hurt her feelings. Maybe you're assuming you will. Maybe she thinks you want her there too. Communication is underrated. :tongue:
    This has happened to me at all stages of relationships, it's okay if you're serious or if someone came from out of town, but it's usually the most uncomfortable after it's only been a couple weeks or so and they think it's okay to camp out at my house for the weekend. If I want them to leave I ask them to leave or come up with a lame excuse, but I always feel bad. Sometimes I start cleaning and try to get things done but they never seem to take the hint.

    If I stay at someone's house I offer to take them to breakfast and then I get out. I know I have things to do and I assume they do too. I may stay for a while if they specifically invite me.

    One time I was getting ready to throw a barbecue at my house. I was working my *kitten* off for a couple days getting ready for it and the girl I was seeing at the time slept for literally the whole day. Like magic, the minute I got done she woke up. Now, I didn't need help, nor did I ask for it, but I mean try to make yourself useful or get the f**k out of my house.
  • NCTravellingGirl
    NCTravellingGirl Posts: 717 Member
    This has happened to me at all stages of relationships, it's okay if you're serious or if someone came from out of town, but it's usually the most uncomfortable after it's only been a couple weeks or so and they think it's okay to camp out at my house for the weekend. If I want them to leave I ask them to leave or come up with a lame excuse, but I always feel bad. Sometimes I start cleaning and try to get things done but they never seem to take the hint.

    If I stay at someone's house I offer to take them to breakfast and then I get out. I know I have things to do and I assume they do too. I may stay for a while if they specifically invite me.

    One time I was getting ready to throw a barbecue at my house. I was working my *kitten* off for a couple days getting ready for it and the girl I was seeing at the time slept for literally the whole day. Like magic, the minute I got done she woke up. Now, I didn't need help, nor did I ask for it, but I mean try to make yourself useful or get the f**k out of my house.

    It sounds like you're OK with it when someone is from out of town or things are serious, which makes sense, but not when it's fairly early on??

    Not meaning to sound all weird on you, but maybe having a girl sleep over after two weeks is causing that?! Most women can't separate sex from a relationship and that would cause the clingers you mentioned earlier.... JUST Sayin'!! That's not all on you, mind you, but you can prevent clingers somewhat (other than the crazy ones...)...
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

    This has happened to me one time, so I left my own house for the day... the key is to take your dog with you!
    I've tried leaving for a while but they generally just wait around until I get back. I haven't tried bringing my dog yet, that's a good idea.

    You guys are horrid!!! :laugh: Just say you have stuff to do and offer to drive her home?? Far more polite :bigsmile:

    Exactly..

    The routine for me was to go over ex's Friday night and stay till Sunday. If he thought I was being clingy, or needed his space, speak up!

    Now if you're talking about a chick you just met.. yeah that's a little creepy. But if it's someone you're in a relationship, speak up. Don't be afraid of hurting her feelings.. and maybe you won't hurt her feelings. Maybe you're assuming you will. Maybe she thinks you want her there too. Communication is underrated. :tongue:
    This has happened to me at all stages of relationships, it's okay if you're serious or if someone came from out of town, but it's usually the most uncomfortable after it's only been a couple weeks or so and they think it's okay to camp out at my house for the weekend. If I want them to leave I ask them to leave or come up with a lame excuse, but I always feel bad. Sometimes I start cleaning and try to get things done but they never seem to take the hint.

    If I stay at someone's house I offer to take them to breakfast and then I get out. I know I have things to do and I assume they do too. I may stay for a while if they specifically invite me.

    One time I was getting ready to throw a barbecue at my house. I was working my *kitten* off for a couple days getting ready for it and the girl I was seeing at the time slept for literally the whole day. Like magic, the minute I got done she woke up. Now, I didn't need help, nor did I ask for it, but I mean try to make yourself useful or get the f**k out of my house.

    isnt this why most guys hook up at a girl's place instead of his? :laugh:
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    One time I was getting ready to throw a barbecue at my house. I was working my *kitten* off for a couple days getting ready for it and the girl I was seeing at the time slept for literally the whole day. Like magic, the minute I got done she woke up. Now, I didn't need help, nor did I ask for it, but I mean try to make yourself useful or get the f**k out of my house.

    This made me laugh out loud. haha

    "like magic".. haha
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

    Just kick 'em the hell out! I generally try to tell people up front that I really appreciate my alone time. Or just go to her house and leave when you want...

    I hate staying over.
    Get the hell out before it's time to sleep! (I'm only half joking)
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    This has happened to me at all stages of relationships, it's okay if you're serious or if someone came from out of town, but it's usually the most uncomfortable after it's only been a couple weeks or so and they think it's okay to camp out at my house for the weekend. If I want them to leave I ask them to leave or come up with a lame excuse, but I always feel bad. Sometimes I start cleaning and try to get things done but they never seem to take the hint.

    If I stay at someone's house I offer to take them to breakfast and then I get out. I know I have things to do and I assume they do too. I may stay for a while if they specifically invite me.

    One time I was getting ready to throw a barbecue at my house. I was working my *kitten* off for a couple days getting ready for it and the girl I was seeing at the time slept for literally the whole day. Like magic, the minute I got done she woke up. Now, I didn't need help, nor did I ask for it, but I mean try to make yourself useful or get the f**k out of my house.

    It sounds like you're OK with it when someone is from out of town or things are serious, which makes sense, but not when it's fairly early on??

    Not meaning to sound all weird on you, but maybe having a girl sleep over after two weeks is causing that?! Most women can't separate sex from a relationship and that would cause the clingers you mentioned earlier.... JUST Sayin'!! That's not all on you, mind you, but you can prevent clingers somewhat (other than the crazy ones...)...
    I don't know, maybe I just like my personal space more than the average person. I've been single for way too long.
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    I usually attract clingers. They come over Friday and they won't leave until Monday morning. Sometimes it's nice, but I hate having to kick people out.

    Just kick 'em the hell out! I generally try to tell people up front that I really appreciate my alone time. Or just go to her house and leave when you want...

    I hate staying over.
    Get the hell out before it's time to sleep! (I'm only half joking)
    :love: :love:
    Finally somebody gets it!
  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member
    I have no idea what type I attract. If anyone here is attracted to me, what type are you?
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I have no idea what type I attract. If anyone here is attracted to me, what type are you?

    smooth operator!!
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Okay yesterday I was a smart *kitten*...

    Today I'll say, I attract:

    All kinds!

    I seem to attract black guys a lot. They like my bod.
    I'm starting to attract older men as well... as in 50's. Hope it's not because I look old!
    I'm still waiting on a 22 year old to hit on me. That has yet to happen.
    I attract white guys with latina preferences.

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