Very TMI.. enter at your own risk. Question for men.
La_Amazona
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So I've been wondering. I can't um, summarize this in a "clean" way so I hope I don't get in trouble for posting about this.
This is about oral.
So I love giving oral to someone I care about. When I was married, I wasn't much of a fan and apparently, he would choose intercourse over oral so I felt maybe I wasn't good at it.
Well fast forward to now, I LOVE it. I LOVE LOVE LOVE it. It's a whole new world I've discovered and apparently I do it very well. (thanks to some videos I have watched :bigsmile: :blushing: )
Now the big question... God I hope I don't get in trouble but where else can I ask a nice group of fellas?
How do men feel about women who swallow? I mean, I know you love it... most likely, right? But how does it make you feel about her? I really shouldn't give a damn, I know. But um, I haven't swallowed, nor spit. I just stop and move on to something else usually. But lately this has been on my mind a lot as in fantasy. It's something I desire to do for someone I care about.
I asked FL about it when we went camping. (we've crossed the line and now can talk about sexing others, etc.. yippeee!) He said guys don't lose respect, they will like you more. ??? What? Is this true?
I'm just curious about this.
Tell me, what do you think about a woman who swallows? Does it make a difference if she's your gf or some random chick?
Okie dokie. Thank you boys.
This is about oral.
So I love giving oral to someone I care about. When I was married, I wasn't much of a fan and apparently, he would choose intercourse over oral so I felt maybe I wasn't good at it.
Well fast forward to now, I LOVE it. I LOVE LOVE LOVE it. It's a whole new world I've discovered and apparently I do it very well. (thanks to some videos I have watched :bigsmile: :blushing: )
Now the big question... God I hope I don't get in trouble but where else can I ask a nice group of fellas?
How do men feel about women who swallow? I mean, I know you love it... most likely, right? But how does it make you feel about her? I really shouldn't give a damn, I know. But um, I haven't swallowed, nor spit. I just stop and move on to something else usually. But lately this has been on my mind a lot as in fantasy. It's something I desire to do for someone I care about.
I asked FL about it when we went camping. (we've crossed the line and now can talk about sexing others, etc.. yippeee!) He said guys don't lose respect, they will like you more. ??? What? Is this true?
I'm just curious about this.
Tell me, what do you think about a woman who swallows? Does it make a difference if she's your gf or some random chick?
Okie dokie. Thank you boys.
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It's not something I would do for any random person. I save those type of things for my very exclusive boyfriend.0
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It's not something I would do for any random person. I save those type of things for my very exclusive boyfriend.
Yes, that's the idea.
I almost did it with Smiley. He told me nobody had ever done it. Thank God I didn't.. I hear regular pot smokers don't have the best tasting spunk!0 -
It always surprises me when they do, but it's not necessarily a turn on or turn off. I think at that point I'm in my own little world anyway so do whatever you want with it. :drinker:0
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Your emoticon says to put it in a cup and say "cheers" with it.. LOL
Sorry, it made me giggle.0 -
It's not something I would do for any random person. I save those type of things for my very exclusive boyfriend.
Yes, that's the idea.
I almost did it with Smiley. He told me nobody had ever done it. Thank God I didn't.. I hear regular pot smokers don't have the best tasting spunk!
They say pineapple makes it taste better sweeter or something, so every now and then I will grab a bowl of pineapple (usually in front of people as a inside joke) and say "here babe got you some pineapple for later." He face turns from this
to this :bigsmile: to this 
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I'm glad you caught that!Your emoticon says to put it in a cup and say "cheers" with it.. LOL
Sorry, it made me giggle.0 -
When you get to the point of having my load inside your mouth, whether you choke it down or run to the bathroom probably isn't going to alter my opinion. Besides, I will be asleep and won't notice. 0
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Well being that my male friends and I have no barriers we've talked about it .Most of them think its hot and it doesnt make them feel negatively about it. I did have one friend say he would make her brush her teeth before he would kiss her afterwards...:huh:
In my personal experience with swallowing each guy taste different and it really does depend on what they each and drink. All the guys I've ever been with seem to like it alot :bigsmile:0 -
It's not something I would do for any random person. I save those type of things for my very exclusive boyfriend.
Yes, that's the idea.
I almost did it with Smiley. He told me nobody had ever done it. Thank God I didn't.. I hear regular pot smokers don't have the best tasting spunk!
They say pineapple makes it taste better sweeter or something, so every now and then I will grab a bowl of pineapple (usually in front of people as a inside joke) and say "here babe got you some pineapple for later." He face turns from this to this :bigsmile: to this
Hehe, my ex always knew what would coming when I'd hand him some pineapple. Made for some fun, teasing, delicious days I tell ya!0 -
OK, I don't mind embarassing the hell out of myself here for your benefit! Obviously, I'm not a guy so I can't fully understand their perspective... but I can tell you my most recent ex shared with me a lot his feelings on it. I don't mind sharing that I did fairly regularly, haha... sandrina isn't kidding about the taste changes, btw... alcohol horribly impacts it for those drinkers out there, HA!
I think with the porn industry as strong as it is, it's given most men a fantasy that they enjoy seeing fulfilled. It was the visual part of WATCHING me do that which turned him on. Semi-funny story...the first time he asked me to, I wasn't so sure, but I did. He was actually upset with me after (ok, not upset, but ticked) because I just swallowed... he didn't get to SEE me do it, haha....from that point on, it was very clear that if I was going to do it, what EXACTLY it was he was wanting.
So that's my experience. Only one guy I've ever done that with, so it's not common for me, but I do think when you build a bond with someone, I personally don't mind indulging a fantasy if it doesn't make me gag... HAHAHA, ok, just had to say that, sorry about the pun!0 -
Honest answer is it doesn`t matter one way or another.
Yes it is nice as it is very intimate but on the other hand if the lady does not enjoy any part of finishing me inside her mouth I am certainly not going to get uptight over it.
Besides,I prefer to be the giver with a lady so as long as she is happy with that things will be good.:bigsmile: :smokin:0 -
Didn't know it was deemed that sexual.
It doesn't change my opinion of someone whether they swallow or not.0 -
I typically drink vinegar before and aim for the eyes! 0
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I typically drink vinegar before and aim for the eyes!
See, I use expensive mascara! That would just piss me off!0 -
It always surprises me when they do, but it's not necessarily a turn on or turn off. I think at that point I'm in my own little world anyway so do whatever you want with it. :drinker:
Roadie, I love your attitude to women. Almost every comment you make has me smiling in appreciation of man! :happy:
Just thought it was about time I said that :flowerforyou:
As for my experience, any guy I've ever been with has never pushed a preference or an attitude towards the 'spit or swallow' or hand job/intercourse end. I think most men are just happy with the sensation of blowing them, not what you do with the results!!! :bigsmile:0 -
I typically drink vinegar before and aim for the eyes!
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Well! This is refreshing. On the forums 99.9% of subjects with TMI = NO MEN It's nice to see a change.How do men feel about women who swallow? I mean, I know you love it... most likely, right?
I don't know any man that would say "BJ? ehh, ok honey but please don't swallow this time"
But how does it make you feel about her?
I asked FL about it when we went camping. (we've crossed the line and now can talk about sexing others, etc.. yippeee!) He said guys don't lose respect, they will like you more. ??? What? Is this true?
Yes they will.0 -
Well! This is refreshing. On the forums 99.9% of subjects with TMI = NO MEN It's nice to see a change.How do men feel about women who swallow? I mean, I know you love it... most likely, right?
I don't know any man that would say "BJ? ehh, ok honey but please don't swallow this time"
But how does it make you feel about her?
I asked FL about it when we went camping. (we've crossed the line and now can talk about sexing others, etc.. yippeee!) He said guys don't lose respect, they will like you more. ??? What? Is this true?
Yes they will.
You just made me lol with your BJ comment.......
Honestly I think girls worry about this more then the guy0 -
Just make sure to log the calories.0
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Personally it is a true bonding experience. I love to give and receive, both are fantastic. Plus, it's pretty hot to follow it up with a nice long kiss afterwards too :smokin:0
