Very TMI.. enter at your own risk. Question for men.

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  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Anna, that comment I made about only dating guys 6'4" and up was a joke, you know that right?

    Yes! I was just giving you an out, if you didn't appreciate my matchmaking services!!! :wink: :bigsmile:
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Anna, that comment I made about only dating guys 6'4" and up was a joke, you know that right?

    Yes! I was just giving you an out, if you didn't appreciate my matchmaking services!!! :wink: :bigsmile:

    Ahaha, I just wanted to be sure. A couple people thought I was being serious because my use of sarcasm font was too subtle :ohwell:
  • jesusHchris
    jesusHchris Posts: 1,405 Member
    Anna, that comment I made about only dating guys 6'4" and up was a joke, you know that right?

    Yes! I was just giving you an out, if you didn't appreciate my matchmaking services!!! :wink: :bigsmile:

    Ahaha, I just wanted to be sure. A couple people thought I was being serious because my use of sarcasm font was too subtle :ohwell:

    Sarcasm goes over the head of 99% of the people on here and has gotten me two forum strikes so far. ;)
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Anna, that comment I made about only dating guys 6'4" and up was a joke, you know that right?

    Yes! I was just giving you an out, if you didn't appreciate my matchmaking services!!! :wink: :bigsmile:

    Ahaha, I just wanted to be sure. A couple people thought I was being serious because my use of sarcasm font was too subtle :ohwell:

    Sarcasm goes over the head of 99% of the people on here and has gotten me two forum strikes so far. ;)

    I think those go away after a while cause I keep getting warnings every now and then. If they didn't expire then there's something magical about my account that still lets me post.

    We do need to work on a sarcasm font. I don't know enough about kerning to get too into it, haha!
  • Showgirlbody
    Showgirlbody Posts: 402 Member
    So I've been wondering. I can't um, summarize this in a "clean" way so I hope I don't get in trouble for posting about this.

    This is about oral.

    So I love giving oral to someone I care about. When I was married, I wasn't much of a fan and apparently, he would choose intercourse over oral so I felt maybe I wasn't good at it.
    Well fast forward to now, I LOVE it. I LOVE LOVE LOVE it. It's a whole new world I've discovered and apparently I do it very well. (thanks to some videos I have watched :bigsmile: :blushing: )

    Now the big question... God I hope I don't get in trouble but where else can I ask a nice group of fellas?

    How do men feel about women who swallow? I mean, I know you love it... most likely, right? But how does it make you feel about her? I really shouldn't give a damn, I know. But um, I haven't swallowed, nor spit. I just stop and move on to something else usually. But lately this has been on my mind a lot as in fantasy. It's something I desire to do for someone I care about.

    I asked FL about it when we went camping. (we've crossed the line and now can talk about sexing others, etc.. yippeee!) He said guys don't lose respect, they will like you more. ??? What? Is this true?

    I'm just curious about this.

    Tell me, what do you think about a woman who swallows? Does it make a difference if she's your gf or some random chick?

    Okie dokie. Thank you boys.

    I didn't know you were allowed to not swallow. Anyhoo, most of the time I've given a BJ, it leads to other things so it's more like foreplay. If I was just in a giving mood or only going that far, then I usually just swallow. An ex told me that it cuts their orgasm if you are building, building, building, then you stop so that you don't get it in your mouth. Unless you use your hand at the same or faster pace so they can finish without cutting off the orgasm. I never understood the point of spitting, because if it's already in your mouth, you've already tasted it and you're going to be holding it in there longer to run to spit than just swallowing. A nice beer chaser, and good to go. But some people do taste pretty bad, smokers for sure do. So usually I can tell from the pre-cum taste if I would be able to swallow without gagging then it's just a move on to other things or HJ finish.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I just had a wonderful 1st date.. :smokin:
  • Sarah_Wins
    Sarah_Wins Posts: 936 Member
    Ok since La-Amazona put that out there, I feel the need to ask a queston of the ladies.

    Please explain the fascination being taken doggy style and having your hair pulled. :bigsmile:

    Do we really need to delve into the psychology behind this? If it feels good, do it. End of. :wink:
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
    Ok since La-Amazona put that out there, I feel the need to ask a queston of the ladies.

    Please explain the fascination being taken doggy style and having your hair pulled. :bigsmile:

    Very animalistic, primal and just plain HAWT!!!!!!
  • ewl6850
    ewl6850 Posts: 158 Member
    I just had a wonderful 1st date.. :smokin:

    Tell us more!
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I just had a wonderful 1st date.. :smokin:

    Don't leave us hangin'!
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I just had a wonderful 1st date.. :smokin:

    Tell us more!

    We went for sushi. I was extremely shy but he seemed nervous too. We had some sake which calmed my nerves. Soon we were talking a lot and then after a couple of hours at sushi place, I asked if he wanted to go to a dive bar I frequent. We headed out and stayed for about 1.5 and just talked more. By then we were smiling a lot, flirting. He had to head out early because he had to be at work very early in the am. So we walked outside and dive bar so happens to be by an adult store. He thought it was hilarious and so I said lets go. He was red the whole time, was cracking up while we made fun of all the huge *kitten*.
    We came out and we hugged, I gave him the eyes, he leaned down and gave me the softest, sexiest kiss. It was an awesome 1st kiss!! Very sensual with very little tongue.. It was so sweet. Ahhhh!!

    I texted him later on reminding him that I had a great time with him to which he said he did too. He's kept in touch today through text while he's at work. :bigsmile:

    He kept complimenting my smile, he said I was pretty and adorable and that POF had so far impressed him (I'm his 1st POF date). He has asked me out again for sometime this week. Yipeee!
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I just had a wonderful 1st date.. :smokin:

    Tell us more!

    We went for sushi. I was extremely shy but he seemed nervous too. We had some sake which calmed my nerves. Soon we were talking a lot and then after a couple of hours at sushi place, I asked if he wanted to go to a dive bar I frequent. We headed out and stayed for about 1.5 and just talked more. By then we were smiling a lot, flirting. He had to head out early because he had to be at work very early in the am. So we walked outside and dive bar so happens to be by an adult store. He thought it was hilarious and so I said lets go. He was red the whole time, was cracking up while we made fun of all the huge *kitten*.
    We came out and we hugged, I gave him the eyes, he leaned down and gave me the softest, sexiest kiss. It was an awesome 1st kiss!! Very sensual with very little tongue.. It was so sweet. Ahhhh!!

    I texted him later on reminding him that I had a great time with him to which he said he did too. He's kept in touch today through text while he's at work. :bigsmile:

    He kept complimenting my smile, he said I was pretty and adorable and that POF had so far impressed him (I'm his 1st POF date). He has asked me out again for sometime this week. Yipeee!

    Yes! Now I'm not the only person who has gone to an adult "book store" while on a first date! High five!
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    He came straight from work, took a detour to meet me. He lives 45 min away. He is off next Saturday so I think he wants a real whole date. He told me he had to take that detour because according to him, "this girl isn't going to wait around too long".

    He has prettttty blue eyes, blonde hair, a pretty smile with dimples, and seems adventurous, oh and is 6'5!
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Lol I asked him at dive bar if he was a prude which he said no. He asked if I was.. I said no. What brought this up, I had to take a call at dive bar (bad bad but it was my BFF about my new job and possibly starting today). Anywho, I was outside and I saw my bro in laws step mom going into adult store. Being me and awesome, I waved and said hi. She was mortified!!
    So I go back in and tell him. He asked if I looked down in her for visiting naughty store and I said no, but it was funny. He said he had never went to a toy store before.

    Well fast forward to later that night, I dragged him into the toy store. I said I wanted to pop his cherry. He was like "this is a funny 1st date!" :blushing:
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    Lol I asked him at dive bar if he was a prude which he said no. He asked if I was.. I said no. What brought this up, I had to take a call at dive bar (bad bad but it was my BFF about my new job and possibly starting today). Anywho, I was outside and I saw my bro in laws step mom going into adult store. Being me and awesome, I waved and said hi. She was mortified!!
    So I go back in and tell him. He asked if I looked down in her for visiting naughty store and I said no, but it was funny. He said he had never went to a toy store before.

    Well fast forward to later that night, I dragged him into the toy store. I said I wanted to pop his cherry. He was like "this is a funny 1st date!" :blushing:

    You have one mode of dating and it's 4 on the floor!! haha, good for you though, you seem to have fun!
  • kerrymh
    kerrymh Posts: 912 Member
    Lol I asked him at dive bar if he was a prude which he said no. He asked if I was.. I said no. What brought this up, I had to take a call at dive bar (bad bad but it was my BFF about my new job and possibly starting today). Anywho, I was outside and I saw my bro in laws step mom going into adult store. Being me and awesome, I waved and said hi. She was mortified!!
    So I go back in and tell him. He asked if I looked down in her for visiting naughty store and I said no, but it was funny. He said he had never went to a toy store before.

    Well fast forward to later that night, I dragged him into the toy store. I said I wanted to pop his cherry. He was like "this is a funny 1st date!" :blushing:

    I wanna be you lol sounds like a blast.
  • Sarah_Wins
    Sarah_Wins Posts: 936 Member
    We went for sushi. I was extremely shy but he seemed nervous too. We had some sake which calmed my nerves. Soon we were talking a lot and then after a couple of hours at sushi place, I asked if he wanted to go to a dive bar I frequent. We headed out and stayed for about 1.5 and just talked more. By then we were smiling a lot, flirting. He had to head out early because he had to be at work very early in the am. So we walked outside and dive bar so happens to be by an adult store. He thought it was hilarious and so I said lets go. He was red the whole time, was cracking up while we made fun of all the huge *kitten*.
    We came out and we hugged, I gave him the eyes, he leaned down and gave me the softest, sexiest kiss. It was an awesome 1st kiss!! Very sensual with very little tongue.. It was so sweet. Ahhhh!!

    I texted him later on reminding him that I had a great time with him to which he said he did too. He's kept in touch today through text while he's at work. :bigsmile:

    He kept complimenting my smile, he said I was pretty and adorable and that POF had so far impressed him (I'm his 1st POF date). He has asked me out again for sometime this week. Yipeee!

    Yes! Now I'm not the only person who has gone to an adult "book store" while on a first date! High five!

    I did this on a first date recently, as we kept walking around an area with a HUGE adult bookstore in the center so we couldn't ignore it. He said later it suprised and impressed him that I was spontaneous and down for some fun. :laugh:

    He knows me better now.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Did y'all know there was a ball spreader toy!? I am up to date on toys usually but this one made us WTF?
  • denezy
    denezy Posts: 573 Member
    Ok since La-Amazona put that out there, I feel the need to ask a queston of the ladies.

    Please explain the fascination being taken doggy style and having your hair pulled. :bigsmile:

    Sciatic nerve endings around the base of your spine can assist with orgasms if you are good at timing. Or properly follow the instructions of a women who is very body-aware.

    Just saying.
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    Glad your date went well!
    Did y'all know there was a ball spreader toy!? I am up to date on toys usually but this one made us WTF?


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  • jesusHchris
    jesusHchris Posts: 1,405 Member
    Lol I asked him at dive bar if he was a prude which he said no. He asked if I was.. I said no. What brought this up, I had to take a call at dive bar (bad bad but it was my BFF about my new job and possibly starting today). Anywho, I was outside and I saw my bro in laws step mom going into adult store. Being me and awesome, I waved and said hi. She was mortified!!
    So I go back in and tell him. He asked if I looked down in her for visiting naughty store and I said no, but it was funny. He said he had never went to a toy store before.

    Well fast forward to later that night, I dragged him into the toy store. I said I wanted to pop his cherry. He was like "this is a funny 1st date!" :blushing:

    That's a ganster-*kitten* first date. Well done!
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Did y'all know there was a ball spreader toy!? I am up to date on toys usually but this one made us WTF?

    I do not even want to think about what that may be. *shudders*
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Carl, I swear I don't have one of those.


    I just wanted to post in this thread because my ex stalks me and the topic will give him a coronary:laugh: :laugh:

    (btw, will NOT date a smoker):tongue:

    Luckily I quit that in 2003. :wink:
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    Glad your date went well!
    Did y'all know there was a ball spreader toy!? I am up to date on toys usually but this one made us WTF?


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    this is my favorite gif (I better get off this thread before someone thinks I read it)
  • Marc713
    Marc713 Posts: 328 Member
    I respect the women I’m with and I don’t judge them or deduct “points” if they don’t, but with that being said, for me, if a woman is talented enough to get me off orally, and they just keep going and swallow, it feels immensely better than if they stop early. Some women don’t even want it in their mouth. I guess the more important issue is, how good are your sandwich making skills? :smokin:
  • toots99
    toots99 Posts: 3,794 Member
    Easy DT... It's primal, animalistic, and raw. When a man has me in that way I'm nothing but a rag doll ready to be taken. My hair/ head is very sensitive. I can get purring by a man softly touching my hair or he can get me growling by pulling it. The latter is such a submissive position to be in, a lovely one.

    Hot damn.

    Yes. This. God yes.
  • toots99
    toots99 Posts: 3,794 Member

    :laugh:

    Let me tell you about Sharon..

    Sharon insisted on swallowing. She had the attitude that she had to work for it and she earned it and wanted it (well, demanded it).

    She was an interesting one..


    This is even funnier because that's MY name! :happy:
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    I respect the women I’m with and I don’t judge them or deduct “points” if they don’t, but with that being said, for me, if a woman is talented enough to get me off orally, and they just keep going and swallow, it feels immensely better than if they stop early. Some women don’t even want it in their mouth. I guess the more important issue is, how good are your sandwich making skills? :smokin:

    I'm still waiting to find a man rich enough to send me to culinary school. I figure, if a man wants gourmet food, he can damn well pay for it. Otherwise, he gets some meat slapped on some bread, and only then if he bought enough bread and meat for both of us! :tongue:
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I respect the women I’m with and I don’t judge them or deduct “points” if they don’t, but with that being said, for me, if a woman is talented enough to get me off orally, and they just keep going and swallow, it feels immensely better than if they stop early. Some women don’t even want it in their mouth. I guess the more important issue is, how good are your sandwich making skills? :smokin:

    I'm still waiting to find a man rich enough to send me to culinary school. I figure, if a man wants gourmet food, he can damn well pay for it. Otherwise, he gets some meat slapped on some bread, and only then if he bought enough bread and meat for both of us! :tongue:

    I usually tell guys that I'll make them a damn sandwich when they change the oil in my car! For as long as I change my own oil, I make my own sandwiches (my sandwiches even come with beer!)
  • Marc713
    Marc713 Posts: 328 Member
    I'm still waiting to find a man rich enough to send me to culinary school. I figure, if a man wants gourmet food, he can damn well pay for it. Otherwise, he gets some meat slapped on some bread, and only then if he bought enough bread and meat for both of us! :tongue:

    I don't think an after-sex sandwich requires culinary school.


    I usually tell guys that I'll make them a damn sandwich when they change the oil in my car! For as long as I change my own oil, I make my own sandwiches (my sandwiches even come with beer!)

    What the heck does changing oil have to do with an after-sex sandwich? I mean, I've "checked the oil" during sex...but I think we are talking totally different things here :smokin: just sayin!