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  • Jeneba
    Jeneba Posts: 699 Member
    I confess that I don't really care if I ever have another relationship with a man again and don't care AT ALL if I never ever never do that Twirly Thing again in my entire life. Nyah nyah!
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    I confess that because my boss is gone and I'm only working a half day, I plan to not be productive while I'm here.

    I also confess that I have fallen off the healthy lifestyle wagon and I need to get back on!
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I have a confession!

    Im in very custom-designed open-ish sort of LDR type situation and although I don't act on that open-ish part, ever, EVER, I have to confess that I have a little bit of a school girl crush on someone.

    Since the day I showed up on our scene in the LES rock network, I have stuck flawlessly to my pact with myself to never not once ever hook up with anyone in my scene. Ever. No dating, no drama, no exes, no awkward, no jealousy, no discomfort, no catty btches, no rumors, no bad reputation. perfection! I live my life so that when (because they DO) someone says something slutty about me, everyone laughs and says you wish or yeah right - cause I walk the walk.

    Well.... ugh. There's this one guy who has grown on me since February. And Im tight knit with more bands and promoters and sound guys and venue people and production people than I can shake a stick at and Ive gotten very very very good at putting my shyness away and just doing the social networking thing with some class and style, ya know? But this guy - shakes head- I just get tongue tied and smile and say nothing and refuse to ever interact with him. Im totally fourteen and sitting on the other side of the cafeteria as far from my crush as possible.

    He's been texting me since February and Ive been cool and unresponsive unless we are discussing music and business stuffs. But lately its getting more and more direct from him.

    Its a little tough to ignore him, but I just think of it as a harmless crush Im only aware of when he is in front of me and making me unconfortable on purpose (cause he knows I clam up when he stands too close).

    Anyway everyone knows now that this guy is trying to get into my pants and I have to admit, I like that attention, even if Im not going to act on it. The public declarations of love and affection and dedicating songs to me from the big stage while I just stand there and smile sweetly and go about my business.

    I must confess, always being the girl that never hooks up at shows EVER ever EVER - is a good thing... but it also means that Im always the girl that isnt hooking up. Im the asexual buddy flying solo when everyone else is slipping off into the vans and dark corners and side streets or even just walking ahead of the rest of us hand in hand. It would really nice to have a FWB in my scene, even if it was kept entirely secret and the guy is only 5'7". Then I think, ugh... some day.

    For reference, this is the guy that loves making me tongue tied, I shot him Saturday and Monday:

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    doesnt hurt that he's a firefighter/first responder. also probably famous-ish, but not sure. If you know his face LOL - give him a hi from me :P

    Anyway - Just saying, your reputation doesnt keep you warm and your integrity doesn't make your heart race. Someday Im going to go to a show and have my own beautiful man standing there with me trying to get into my pants :(

    But in the meantime, I like to look when no one is watching me.
  • Marc713
    Marc713 Posts: 328 Member
    I confess that I'm sick of dating. I know myself too well and have a very strong idea of the things I can't deal with in a partner, and it really makes it hard to get past the first month or two. Either they are clingy, manipulative, or bat **** crazy....or just don't have their lives in order....It's been a long time since I've looked forward to the holidays and got to get excited about sneaking around doing covert shopping to get great gifts for my special someone. I'm happy for the most part, but being in the right relationship with someone you click well with, I feel, adds a certain multiplier to your happiness.

    There are a lot of ladies that crossfit though, so maybe now that I started that, I'll meet some new folks that at least share in the desire to be fit and active.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I hope things improve for you soon :(
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    Yoovie - He's a cutie.......good for you for standing your ground, though. :)

    Marc - You know my thoughts. She'll come around when she's supposed to. And, I already know you won't settle for anything less than what you deserve. So, don't lose the faith. :smile:
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I confess...and this might sound conceited...I don't get how I'm single yet there are many coupled up people that I know that are weirdos. It just doesn't make sense to me. Sorry if that sounds bad, but it's the truth. Do I suck that bad lol? Or am I really super weird and just don't know it? I mean, I can't even get a date haha.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I confess...and this might sound conceited...I don't get how I'm single yet there are many coupled up people that I know that are weirdos. It just doesn't make sense to me. Sorry if that sounds bad, but it's the truth. Do I suck that bad lol? Or am I really super weird and just don't know it? I mean, I can't even get a date haha.

    Maybe the problem is that you aren't super weird? la.gif

    Let's get WEIRD! squee.gif
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I have a confession!

    Im in very custom-designed open-ish sort of LDR type situation and although I don't act on that open-ish part, ever, EVER, I have to confess that I have a little bit of a school girl crush on someone.

    hey Yoovie! Do you think the LDR thing is just not fulfilling enough? Sounds like your needs aren't being met so you're naturally drawn to someone who's giving you attention? Not saying this is a bad thing, only to think of what you REALLY want before you jump into bed with the 'never, ever, ever, drama potentional' guy!! :flowerforyou:
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    This is the 2nd time this has happened to me in 3 months. I think i'm just going to start hitting on their sister from now on. If they have a daughter over 18, I may hit on the daughters too. WTF?

    Do you agree with her? ARE you too good for her?? Perhaps you need to higher your standards!! :flowerforyou:
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I have a confession!

    Im in very custom-designed open-ish sort of LDR type situation and although I don't act on that open-ish part, ever, EVER, I have to confess that I have a little bit of a school girl crush on someone.

    hey Yoovie! Do you think the LDR thing is just not fulfilling enough? Sounds like your needs aren't being met so you're naturally drawn to someone who's giving you attention? Not saying this is a bad thing, only to think of what you REALLY want before you jump into bed with the 'never, ever, ever, drama potentional' guy!! :flowerforyou:

    My LDR is actually perfection, as I need super duper amounts of space for like, the first - at least YEAR LOL!, my needs are being met. I mean, itd be nice to hook up at a show, but thats NOT a need. And this guy has been giving me attention for a very very long time, its just the part of me that feels like the odd wheel out all the time thats like- well- if I was a slut - this is what I would do. And like I said, Im not jumping in bed with him. Im not even slowly accidentally getting into bed. Just a small school girl crush based on circumstances that I forget about when Im not around him.

    Its a pretty person to look at when Im at a show, since I never get to look at the pretty people at the shows except through my camera. As far as Im concerned though, my LDR situation, yeah - lol - no man can touch that. They can TRY... hahahahahaha but will fail -_-

    Im a little too fulfilled.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
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  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I have a confession!

    Im in very custom-designed open-ish sort of LDR type situation and although I don't act on that open-ish part, ever, EVER, I have to confess that I have a little bit of a school girl crush on someone.

    hey Yoovie! Do you think the LDR thing is just not fulfilling enough? Sounds like your needs aren't being met so you're naturally drawn to someone who's giving you attention? Not saying this is a bad thing, only to think of what you REALLY want before you jump into bed with the 'never, ever, ever, drama potentional' guy!! :flowerforyou:

    My LDR is actually perfection, as I need super duper amounts of space for like, the first - at least YEAR LOL!, my needs are being met. I mean, itd be nice to hook up at a show, but thats NOT a need. And this guy has been giving me attention for a very very long time, its just the part of me that feels like the odd wheel out all the time thats like- well- if I was a slut - this is what I would do. And like I said, Im not jumping in bed with him. Im not even slowly accidentally getting into bed. Just a small school girl crush based on circumstances that I forget about when Im not around him.

    Its a pretty person to look at when Im at a show, since I never get to look at the pretty people at the shows except through my camera. As far as Im concerned though, my LDR situation, yeah - lol - no man can touch that. They can TRY... hahahahahaha but will fail -_-

    Im a little too fulfilled.

    Twas just a thought. I dunno. I tend to only crush on people when I'm either single, or not fulfilled in a relationship. (Perhaps I'm strange...lol) So, it was just a bad guess that was what was going on with you :flowerforyou:
  • Marc713
    Marc713 Posts: 328 Member
    @ Yoovie - Things aren't bad, I'm happy and love my life, I just wish I was sharing the fun with someone as awesome as me! I think a big part of it is I work full time & I've been taking 11 hours of college this semester so I really haven't been dating as much as I usually do, and the prospects haven't been so great....falling for someone that wasn't ready to be in a relationship earlier this year put me in a little funk, but she was the one that helped propel me into getting back into a healthy lifestyle.

    Like the saying goes, people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Apparently she only had part of a season, lol....had some great times. Then I dated the most boring doctor on the planet once I regrouped from her...now I'm talking to a lady that has her life in order but is a little on the tame side for me and seems a bit clingy and like she's fine just rushing into things. I've learned that I need to take things slow so the lust and infatuation don't get confused for stronger feelings that may actually never develop.
    Yoovie - He's a cutie.......good for you for standing your ground, though. :)

    Marc - You know my thoughts. She'll come around when she's supposed to. And, I already know you won't settle for anything less than what you deserve. So, don't lose the faith. :smile:

    Thanks! There are so many great ladies on this site, but you all live in the wrong states/cities, lol!
  • Miss_dannii
    Miss_dannii Posts: 1,351 Member
    I confess i am talking to a handful of men, none of them no each other, and i have to set up different times and days to see them.....is this wrong of me?

    This made me lol. I've been doing the same, except for the meeting up part
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    I confess I hung out with FFWB last night at the bar. I practically wiped his tears poor thing was so depressed. But he is in that pissed off /sad phase rather than that I'm so hurt its painful to look at me phase... She was supposed to hang with him last night and didnt show/call/text him at all. Finally texted him @1am with the whole "I dont expect you to forgive me but be safe and dont do anything stupid." Then she called him psychotic for being upset she didn't show :grumble: Honestly
  • Canther
    Canther Posts: 14
    I confess I do jump straight to the photo section on online dating profiles. Then if I find them attractive I'll check out their actual profile. Height and weight are not important to me, but boobs are.
  • MikeM53082
    MikeM53082 Posts: 1,199 Member
    I confess I do jump straight to the photo section on online dating profiles. Then if I find them attractive I'll check out their actual profile. Height and weight are not important to me, but boobs are.

    Isn't that what all men do? I certainly do that!
  • Canther
    Canther Posts: 14
    I confess I do jump straight to the photo section on online dating profiles. Then if I find them attractive I'll check out their actual profile. Height and weight are not important to me, but boobs are.

    Isn't that what all men do? I certainly do that!

    I confess I am a man.
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    I confess that I could use a glass of wine. Or a shot of whiskey.

    Or maybe just one bourbon, one shot and one beer? :smile:
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I confess I do jump straight to the photo section on online dating profiles. Then if I find them attractive I'll check out their actual profile. Height and weight are not important to me, but boobs are.

    Isn't that what all men do? I certainly do that!

    I confess I am a man.

    It's not the first place I go, but it is part of the "routine" and can be qualifying or disqualifying depending on their profile. I think anyone is willing to admit that.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    I confess that I am getting sick of my own *****ing lately but can't stop because I cannot let it be bottled in otherwise I will blow.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I confess I do jump straight to the photo section on online dating profiles. Then if I find them attractive I'll check out their actual profile. Height and weight are not important to me, but boobs are.

    I do this and I'm not a man... Boobs not preferred though.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I confess I do jump straight to the photo section on online dating profiles. Then if I find them attractive I'll check out their actual profile. Height and weight are not important to me, but boobs are.

    I do this and I'm not a man... Boobs not preferred though.

    i DO THIS.

    If im not hot for you, that means I dont want you which means we would be friends and thats not why im on a dating website :D
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I confess I do jump straight to the photo section on online dating profiles. Then if I find them attractive I'll check out their actual profile. Height and weight are not important to me, but boobs are.

    I do this and I'm not a man... Boobs not preferred though.

    i DO THIS.

    If im not hot for you, that means I dont want you which means we would be friends and thats not why im on a dating website :D

    Exactly.
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    I confess I do jump straight to the photo section on online dating profiles. Then if I find them attractive I'll check out their actual profile. Height and weight are not important to me, but boobs are.

    Isn't that what all men do? I certainly do that!

    I confess I am a man.
    Not me. Boobs are nice but I am a leg/hips/*kitten* guy.
  • Danielle_2013
    Danielle_2013 Posts: 806 Member
    I confess I do jump straight to the photo section on online dating profiles. Then if I find them attractive I'll check out their actual profile. Height and weight are not important to me, but boobs are.

    I confess I have boobs.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    I confess that my dinner tonight is going to consist of ice cream, cookie dough, whip cream and chocolate sauce.
  • Jennifer2387
    Jennifer2387 Posts: 957 Member
    I confess I do jump straight to the photo section on online dating profiles. Then if I find them attractive I'll check out their actual profile. Height and weight are not important to me, but boobs are.

    Isn't that what all men do? I certainly do that!

    I confess I am a man.
    Not me. Boobs are nice but I am a leg/hips/*kitten* guy.

    hee hee .. you said @ss.

    My dinner last night Ruth was microwave popcorn and a fun size three musketeer
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    I confess that I am jumping for joy that it is Friday and that I have a full 2 day weekend.

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