Uncommon deal breakers
MissingMinnesota
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So we all know the deal breakers like smoker, not attractive to you, beats people or animals etc. Do you have any deal breakers that you would term uncommon?
For me I could never date a man that wears jorts (jean shorts for those that don't know), manpris (capris for men) , skinny jeans, or meggings (leggings for men). Shorts on men should be knee length (unless they are running in them), khaki or some type of cotton (but not jean), or athletic in nature. Swim trunks should be board shorts and board shorts only, no banana hamocks.
For me I could never date a man that wears jorts (jean shorts for those that don't know), manpris (capris for men) , skinny jeans, or meggings (leggings for men). Shorts on men should be knee length (unless they are running in them), khaki or some type of cotton (but not jean), or athletic in nature. Swim trunks should be board shorts and board shorts only, no banana hamocks.
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lol I dont think I could ever date a man who wears skinny jeans or flip flops with socks but thats about it.... And I mean skinny jeans not leather pants that cling those are different0
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I'm with you ladies- skinny jeans are atrocious and jorts are the WORST.
There's lots of guys that wear sandals down here & most of the time I wish they didn't because their feet are disgusting. It's not a total deal breaker for me though. It gets so hot in the summers that I can't really blame them for wearing sandals but is a pedi that hard to maintain?0 -
I'm with you ladies- skinny jeans are atrocious and jorts are the WORST.
There's lots of guys that wear sandals down here & most of the time I wish they didn't because their feet are disgusting. It's not a total deal breaker for me though. It gets so hot in the summers that I can't really blame them for wearing sandals but is a pedi that hard to maintain?
Oh I don't mind sandels or flip flops I practically live in them myself. Its when they wear socks with them that it drives me nuts0 -
These are my dealbreakers that could be considered uncommon:
1. If he can't change the oil in a vehicle, change lightbulbs, replace brakes/pads/rotors, and at least trouble shoot
2. If I kill an animal and he says something like eeeww.... or won't help clean/process it. :grumble: He's OUT!
3. Id like to say, if he doesn't own a truck of some sorts.... but I know that's pushing it, I'm kind of open to it, but it's a big deal to me.0 -
i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol0
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i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
LMAO!!
The better looking the woman, the more deal breakers she has. The better looking and younger she is, the more she can get away with. Guys expect this. What we really don't appreciate are the 5-7's having excessive deal breakers, nor do we appreciate older women (25+) playing games straight out of high school. Those things happen.0 -
i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
LMAO!!
The better looking the woman, the more deal breakers she has. The better looking and younger she is, the more she can get away with. Guys expect this. What we really don't appreciate are the 5-7's having excessive deal breakers, nor do we appreciate older women (25+) playing games straight out of high school. Those things happen.
I, of course, don't agree complete. I find I have a larger deal breaker list now at 34 as I did at 22. I've lived and learned and know what I will and will not deal with. And somehow I get away with it, imagine that
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As long as they don't annoy me...i'm easy to get along with.0
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i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
LMAO!!
The better looking the woman, the more deal breakers she has. The better looking and younger she is, the more she can get away with. Guys expect this. What we really don't appreciate are the 5-7's having excessive deal breakers, nor do we appreciate older women (25+) playing games straight out of high school. Those things happen.
That goes for men too. It seems that guys that are 5-7s seem to have excessive deal breakers while guys that are 8+ are more open.0 -
i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
LMAO!!
The better looking the woman, the more deal breakers she has. The better looking and younger she is, the more she can get away with. Guys expect this. What we really don't appreciate are the 5-7's having excessive deal breakers, nor do we appreciate older women (25+) playing games straight out of high school. Those things happen.
Sorta agree. I don't think my flat out deal breakers have changed however I'm less willing to put up with things just to be in a relationship.. When I was younger I was more willing to let my SO get away with things that would bother me because I wanted the relationship to work. Now however I know I'm awesome and I don't need anyone to make me well, me. A guy is like a cherry on top of a really kickass sundae. However the sundae is still great without the cherry.0 -
For me height is one.0
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I agree with the jorts... But also, I simply can't date a guy with girly hands or slim fingers... it creeps me out! And perhaps an a** to grab on to :blushing:
Show me your manly hands!!0 -
For me height is one.
how short/tall lol we need specifics0 -
1. If he wears tighty whiteys.
2. If he gives me the vacant ape-like expression when I speak about politics, science, philosophy, or conspiracy theories.
3. If he wears the following brands of clothing: SKIN, Famous Stars & Straps, or Affliction.0 -
For me height is one.
how short/tall lol we need specifics
Idealy 5"10 + because if she's a lot smaller than me it just feels a little strange to me.0 -
i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
hey vice...is your screenname related to the kind of car you drive? i used to have a strange attraction to men that drove a 350z...odd but true. lol0 -
For me...
1) Messed up teeth. They are just something that I can't get around when they are all crooked or dirty or whatnot.
2) Man Hands - I find this more as I date taller women (just saying in my particular cases, not generalizing). Decided to stop dating the volleyball/basketball females in college b/c they could palm my face.
3) Probably Height. Being 6'2", I usually steer away from women that are less than about 5'4". Tried dating shorter women around 5'0" and it was just awkward...tho easy to throw around. :bigsmile:0 -
]For me height is one.
how short/tall lol we need specifics
Idealy 5"10 + because if she's a lot smaller than me it just feels a little strange to me.
How tall are you!?:noway:0 -
For me height is one.
how short/tall lol we need specifics
Idealy 5"10 + because if she's a lot smaller than me it just feels a little strange to me.
Sorry...we are going to need to know your stats...height, age, picture of your face, thoughts on feminism before the group collectively decides to make you its new crush.
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If he's obsessed with brands/appearances it probably won't work. That being said, I did stop dating a guy (or it was one of the reasons I stopped dating him) because he rolled up his pant legs so they became these awkwardstrange high waters. It was awful. He considered it fashionable.
I will not be with a guy if he doesn't agree with my animal training style. Or rather, at least let me take the lead on animal care in the home. If he wants to train, he does it my way (positive reinforcement only household).0 -
For me...
1) Messed up teeth. They are just something that I can't get around when they are all crooked or dirty or whatnot.
2) Man Hands - I find this more as I date taller women (just saying in my particular cases, not generalizing). Decided to stop dating the volleyball/basketball females in college b/c they could palm my face.
3) Probably Height. Being 6'2", I usually steer away from women that are less than about 5'4". Tried dating shorter women around 5'0" and it was just awkward...tho easy to throw around. :bigsmile:
1) Messed up teeth is a definite. I stopped talking to a few people because of it. :sick:
2) HA!
3) How tall are you?0 -
]For me height is one.
how short/tall lol we need specifics
Idealy 5"10 + because if she's a lot smaller than me it just feels a little strange to me.
How tall are you!?:noway:
I'm 6"5'0 -
i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
hey vice...is your screenname related to the kind of car you drive? i used to have a strange attraction to men that drove a 350z...odd but true. lol
lol, yes, I had a 350Z...it was pretty f'ing sweet. I had the custom plate 3FITTYZ...a play on TwinTurbo/Gangsta
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Huh. I don't really have a lot of these. I should be more fussy!
Height is probably my main "superficial" desire..I do enjoy over 6"0...though even my recent ex was about 5"11 and that was perfect as he had very broad shoulders and I always felt very feminine with him.0 -
]For me height is one.
how short/tall lol we need specifics
Idealy 5"10 + because if she's a lot smaller than me it just feels a little strange to me.
How tall are you!?:noway:
I'm 6"5'
Well hello there.. I am exactly 5"10' 0 -
For me...
1) Messed up teeth. They are just something that I can't get around when they are all crooked or dirty or whatnot.
2) Man Hands - I find this more as I date taller women (just saying in my particular cases, not generalizing). Decided to stop dating the volleyball/basketball females in college b/c they could palm my face.
3) Probably Height. Being 6'2", I usually steer away from women that are less than about 5'4". Tried dating shorter women around 5'0" and it was just awkward...tho easy to throw around. :bigsmile:
1) Messed up teeth is a definite. I stopped talking to a few people because of it. :sick:
2) HA!
3) How tall are you?
He is 6'2. You are going ot have to find a woman between 5'5 and 5'9 if you don't want the man hands, it would be strange for someone 5'10 and over not to have bigger hands. Like one of those Burger King commericals with the guy with small hands.0 -
For me...
1) Messed up teeth. They are just something that I can't get around when they are all crooked or dirty or whatnot.
2) Man Hands - I find this more as I date taller women (just saying in my particular cases, not generalizing). Decided to stop dating the volleyball/basketball females in college b/c they could palm my face.
3) Probably Height. Being 6'2", I usually steer away from women that are less than about 5'4". Tried dating shorter women around 5'0" and it was just awkward...tho easy to throw around. :bigsmile:
1) Messed up teeth is a definite. I stopped talking to a few people because of it. :sick:
2) HA!
3) How tall are you?
He is 6'2.
Duh! :facepalm: no pun intended!0 -
oh, i thought of one....doesn't give oral.0
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oh, i thought of one....doesn't give oral.
I could pretty much ask my bf for ANYTHING. Right? This makes you guys SUPER happy? :evillaugh: :bigsmile:0 -
For me height is one.
how short/tall lol we need specifics
Idealy 5"10 + because if she's a lot smaller than me it just feels a little strange to me.
How you doin' :blushing:
Too bad I'm taken...0
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