Uncommon deal breakers
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oh, i thought of one....doesn't give oral.
I could pretty much ask my bf for ANYTHING. Right? This makes you guys SUPER happy? :evillaugh: :bigsmile:
the simple joys in life..lol0 -
ok, i thought of another deal breaker. If a woman finds naughty texts/pics/videos gross and will not partake in it in a relationship. How does one not enjoy, just outta the blue while at work, getting a dirty pic of their s/o or a hot text message?0
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i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
LMAO!!
The better looking the woman, the more deal breakers she has. The better looking and younger she is, the more she can get away with. Guys expect this. What we really don't appreciate are the 5-7's having excessive deal breakers, nor do we appreciate older women (25+) playing games straight out of high school. Those things happen.
25+ are not older women! Sometimes DM you really throw me for a loop! I realize you havent turned 30 yet and I dont want to sound condescending, but WTF are you thinking? At 25 you are (most people) just out of college and getting your first big boy/girl job. That makes you a new entry into the world of adulthood when you should be able to stop counting on parents et al for support (granted times are tough now and a lot of youngsters are moving back in with the folks).
So at roughly 30 ish (im ballparking here) you are a full fledged adult with a couple (2-3) years of real life under your belt.
But 25 is not and has not been an older woman since the days of agrarian society. I dont even know where older womanhood begins but I think it is north of 40. That is life experience speaking.0 -
i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
LMAO!!
The better looking the woman, the more deal breakers she has. The better looking and younger she is, the more she can get away with. Guys expect this. What we really don't appreciate are the 5-7's having excessive deal breakers, nor do we appreciate older women (25+) playing games straight out of high school. Those things happen.
25+ are not older women! Sometimes DM you really throw me for a loop! I realize you havent turned 30 yet and I dont want to sound condescending, but WTF are you thinking? At 25 you are (most people) just out of college and getting your first big boy/girl job. That makes you a new entry into the world of adulthood when you should be able to stop counting on parents et al for support (granted times are tough now and a lot of youngsters are moving back in with the folks).
So at roughly 30 ish (im ballparking here) you are a full fledged adult with a couple (2-3) years of real life under your belt.
But 25 is not and has not been an older woman since the days of agrarian society. I dont even know where older womanhood begins but I think it is north of 40. That is life experience speaking.
lol, this. Talk us when you're in your 30's. 25 is "young adult" IMO.0 -
For me height is one.
Ditto. Only for guys though. Have to be over 6ft.0 -
i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
LMAO!!
The better looking the woman, the more deal breakers she has. The better looking and younger she is, the more she can get away with. Guys expect this. What we really don't appreciate are the 5-7's having excessive deal breakers, nor do we appreciate older women (25+) playing games straight out of high school. Those things happen.
25+ are not older women! Sometimes DM you really throw me for a loop! I realize you havent turned 30 yet and I dont want to sound condescending, but WTF are you thinking? At 25 you are (most people) just out of college and getting your first big boy/girl job. That makes you a new entry into the world of adulthood when you should be able to stop counting on parents et al for support (granted times are tough now and a lot of youngsters are moving back in with the folks).
So at roughly 30 ish (im ballparking here) you are a full fledged adult with a couple (2-3) years of real life under your belt.
But 25 is not and has not been an older woman since the days of agrarian society. I dont even know where older womanhood begins but I think it is north of 40. That is life experience speaking.
WILL, YOU ARE MY NEW CRUSH! THANK YOU :flowerforyou:0 -
25+ are not older women! Sometimes DM you really throw me for a loop! I realize you havent turned 30 yet and I dont want to sound condescending, but WTF are you thinking? At 25 you are (most people) just out of college and getting your first big boy/girl job. That makes you a new entry into the world of adulthood when you should be able to stop counting on parents et al for support (granted times are tough now and a lot of youngsters are moving back in with the folks).
So at roughly 30 ish (im ballparking here) you are a full fledged adult with a couple (2-3) years of real life under your belt.
But 25 is not and has not been an older woman since the days of agrarian society. I dont even know where older womanhood begins but I think it is north of 40. That is life experience speaking.
Oh just one of the reasons I enjoy you! Well said.0 -
i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
LMAO!!
The better looking the woman, the more deal breakers she has. The better looking and younger she is, the more she can get away with. Guys expect this. What we really don't appreciate are the 5-7's having excessive deal breakers, nor do we appreciate older women (25+) playing games straight out of high school. Those things happen.
25+ are not older women! Sometimes DM you really throw me for a loop! I realize you havent turned 30 yet and I dont want to sound condescending, but WTF are you thinking? At 25 you are (most people) just out of college and getting your first big boy/girl job. That makes you a new entry into the world of adulthood when you should be able to stop counting on parents et al for support (granted times are tough now and a lot of youngsters are moving back in with the folks).
So at roughly 30 ish (im ballparking here) you are a full fledged adult with a couple (2-3) years of real life under your belt.
But 25 is not and has not been an older woman since the days of agrarian society. I dont even know where older womanhood begins but I think it is north of 40. That is life experience speaking.
You took something way out of context. 25 is too old to be playing high school level games. That was the point. Case in point, I was at a fitness class a couple of weeks ago, started a conversation with a woman and I was asking open ended questions and getting 1-4 word responses. That was adolescent, high school behavior to the extreme and she was probably 23-26. Too old to pull that sort of nonsense.
In a way, you make a really good point. People are taking far longer to grow up these days. You've got a lot of people up until age 35 living at home these days. Some of this can be attributed to the recession, but some trends pre-date the recession. Macroeconomic and public policy occurrences play a role in this.0 -
Hmmm deal breakers ..
Fanny pack. lmao.
I don't like it when guys pull up their pants really high on the waist. I don't mind skinny jeans and what not. I don't like tho when they wear the jeans below their butt either .. on the hips please ..lol.
Anyone that does anything remotely like my exhusband. hahahahaahaha0 -
DM...did you ever stop to consider she was shy? Blown away by your devastating charm? English was her second language? Constipated? Just wanting to focus on the class?0
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Ok my deal breakers!!!
You have to be at least 26 to ride this ride (lots of research done on this)! Exceptions/loopholes have been made (for instance Im going to Vegas next weekend...no age limit while on vacation)
Dont drag your teeth
If you are going to ***** about something but are not willing to make changes or work on said issue, hit the f***ing road
Be more of an adult then your children
Constantly seek self improvement
Try new things (in life and in the bedroom!!!)
Dont bore me0 -
Of course I didn't. English was not her 2nd language.
The conversation occurred after class. At exercise classes, social time is before and after class.0 -
DM I can very much appreciate that point. Hell I wouldnt have even qualified it, Id have just said dont play childish games.0
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i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
LMAO!!
The better looking the woman, the more deal breakers she has. The better looking and younger she is, the more she can get away with. Guys expect this. What we really don't appreciate are the 5-7's having excessive deal breakers, nor do we appreciate older women (25+) playing games straight out of high school. Those things happen.
25+ are not older women! Sometimes DM you really throw me for a loop! I realize you havent turned 30 yet and I dont want to sound condescending, but WTF are you thinking? At 25 you are (most people) just out of college and getting your first big boy/girl job. That makes you a new entry into the world of adulthood when you should be able to stop counting on parents et al for support (granted times are tough now and a lot of youngsters are moving back in with the folks).
So at roughly 30 ish (im ballparking here) you are a full fledged adult with a couple (2-3) years of real life under your belt.
But 25 is not and has not been an older woman since the days of agrarian society. I dont even know where older womanhood begins but I think it is north of 40. That is life experience speaking.
lol, this. Talk us when you're in your 30's. 25 is "young adult" IMO.
Hmmmm I'm only 26 but I moved out of my parents' house when I was 17.
Started paying all my own bills and finished HS (with high honors btw)
I had my daughter 16days before my 21st birthday and have been a single mom since she was 16mos old.
I'm not your typical "young adult"
However I have realized I'm at an odd age where little 21y.o. boys like me because the whole older woman milf thing and men in their early 40s like me b/c well...I'm still in my 20s haha
Weird deal breakers for me:
if they're in their 20s still hahaha
Not a fan of blondes generally
Prefer they be over 6ft so that I can still be shorter when I wear my 5inch heels (I'm only 5'5)
Men who are rude to servers or OVERLY picky
I went out on a date with a guy who wanted to plan every detail - annoyed the *kitten* outta me! There wasn't a 2nd date
Another guy started talking about how he's ready to settle down and wants marriage and kids blah blah blah on the FIRST DATE. Then told me at dinner he had bariatric surgery at 18 yet had no known medical reason for not being able to lose weight; still didn't work out or eat healthy and liked to drink. - there wasn't a 2nd date with that one either
OH one more that's fairly odd b/c I do have a child - I don't think I want more children but I wouldn't mind being a stepmom (providing the ex isn't overly crazy) so I think I'd actually prefer a guy that doesn't care one way or another about having (more) children. I don't think I want to start over knowing that my daughter will be raised by the time I'm 400 -
i guess accidentally showing a topless pic of an ex to a current date lol
LMAO!!
The better looking the woman, the more deal breakers she has. The better looking and younger she is, the more she can get away with. Guys expect this. What we really don't appreciate are the 5-7's having excessive deal breakers, nor do we appreciate older women (25+) playing games straight out of high school. Those things happen.
25+ are not older women! Sometimes DM you really throw me for a loop! I realize you havent turned 30 yet and I dont want to sound condescending, but WTF are you thinking? At 25 you are (most people) just out of college and getting your first big boy/girl job. That makes you a new entry into the world of adulthood when you should be able to stop counting on parents et al for support (granted times are tough now and a lot of youngsters are moving back in with the folks).
So at roughly 30 ish (im ballparking here) you are a full fledged adult with a couple (2-3) years of real life under your belt.
But 25 is not and has not been an older woman since the days of agrarian society. I dont even know where older womanhood begins but I think it is north of 40. That is life experience speaking.
You took something way out of context. 25 is too old to be playing high school level games. That was the point. Case in point, I was at a fitness class a couple of weeks ago, started a conversation with a woman and I was asking open ended questions and getting 1-4 word responses. That was adolescent, high school behavior to the extreme and she was probably 23-26. Too old to pull that sort of nonsense.
In a way, you make a really good point. People are taking far longer to grow up these days. You've got a lot of people up until age 35 living at home these days. Some of this can be attributed to the recession, but some trends pre-date the recession. Macroeconomic and public policy occurrences play a role in this.
Honey, she just wasn't that into you...:flowerforyou:
Sometimes us women just aren't in the mood to converse too...especially while sweating in tight gym clothes when we could be on the couch with a good book.0 -
DM...did you ever stop to consider she was shy? Blown away by your devastating charm? English was her second language? Constipated? Just wanting to focus on the class?
Or just not in to you?0 -
Hmmmm I'm only 26 but I moved out of my parents' house when I was 17.
Started paying all my own bills and finished HS (with high honors btw)
I had my daughter 16days before my 21st birthday and have been a single mom since she was 16mos old.
I'm not your typical "young adult"
However I have realized I'm at an odd age where little 21y.o. boys like me because the whole older woman milf thing and men in their early 40s like me b/c well...I'm still in my 20s haha
oh, you can totally be a responsible "young adult"..i was just agreeing wiht the other dude saying that a 25 yo shouldn't call them selves and "older woman"...tis all.0 -
Hmmmm I'm only 26 but I moved out of my parents' house when I was 17.
Started paying all my own bills and finished HS (with high honors btw)
I had my daughter 16days before my 21st birthday and have been a single mom since she was 16mos old.
I'm not your typical "young adult"
However I have realized I'm at an odd age where little 21y.o. boys like me because the whole older woman milf thing and men in their early 40s like me b/c well...I'm still in my 20s haha
oh, you can totally be a responsible "young adult"..i was just agreeing wiht the other dude saying that a 25 yo shouldn't call them selves and "older woman"...tis all.
I had a 20 y.o. try and take me out last year....that did make me feel old! lol he reminded me of a puppy: cute but needed trained and I have no patience for all that business0 -
DM...did you ever stop to consider she was shy? Blown away by your devastating charm? English was her second language? Constipated? Just wanting to focus on the class?
Or just not in to you?
I am here for DM and only for DM .. 0 -
I had a 20 y.o. try and take me out last year....that did make me feel old! lol he reminded me of a puppy: cute but needed trained and I have no patience for all that business
Older guys always say "oh i'd love to be with a young woman"....i couldn't imagine being 40 and able to tolerate a 20-21 year old woman...i'm sure these guys are talking about being with these young women just to have sex with.0 -
I had a 20 y.o. try and take me out last year....that did make me feel old! lol he reminded me of a puppy: cute but needed trained and I have no patience for all that business
Older guys always say "oh i'd love to be with a young woman"....i couldn't imagine being 40 and able to tolerate a 20-21 year old woman...i'm sure these guys are talking about being with these young women just to have sex with.
I can't tolerate most women that age. Usually I'm looking at them like they've been inhaling glue!
There are always exceptions and I have my goofy moments believe me .... my soon to be 6y.o. and I farting wars (but only in private) haha0 -
Ok, here we go -
- Under 31, Over 44
- Taller than 5'6"
- Police Officer (was married to one, dated one, I seem to be a target for them. Cops have a hard time being "people" outside of work)
- Someone that goes "clubbing". I enjoy small bars and live bands, just not the club atmosphere and not every night and definitely not to close it down.
ETA - One more. A man that has dated a woman that is in her early 20s (I've met a few men in their late 30s/early 40s like this). In one instant I realized we were looking for much different things in life.
And, to fix the first one...oops...supposed to be dealbreakers.0 -
Ok, here we go -
- Over 31, under 44
- Taller than 5'6"
- Police Officer (was married to one, dated one, I seem to be a target for them. Cops have a hard time being "people" outside of work)
- Someone that goes "clubbing". I enjoy small bars and live bands, just not the club atmosphere and not every night and definitely not to close it down.
*hangs head in shame*
*walks way*0 -
There are always exceptions and I have my goofy moments believe me .... my soon to be 6y.o. and I farting wars (but only in private) haha
lol...good to know! Hopefully you play under a blanket...lol0 -
]For me height is one.
how short/tall lol we need specifics
Idealy 5"10 + because if she's a lot smaller than me it just feels a little strange to me.
How tall are you!?:noway:
I'm 6"5'
I'm 5'7 and am almost always in heels. How YOU doin'? 0 -
Ok, here we go -
- Over 31, under 44
- Taller than 5'6"
- Police Officer (was married to one, dated one, I seem to be a target for them. Cops have a hard time being "people" outside of work)
- Someone that goes "clubbing". I enjoy small bars and live bands, just not the club atmosphere and not every night and definitely not to close it down.
*hangs head in shame*
*walks way*
Awww....But, but, but....but I
you Tyler.... Really, truly.... 
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Ok, here we go -
- Over 31, under 44
- Taller than 5'6"
- Police Officer (was married to one, dated one, I seem to be a target for them. Cops have a hard time being "people" outside of work)
- Someone that goes "clubbing". I enjoy small bars and live bands, just not the club atmosphere and not every night and definitely not to close it down.
*hangs head in shame*
*walks way*
Awww....But, but, but....but I you Tyler.... Really, truly....
that is -1 pt for you Run!!!0 -
that is -1 pt for you Run!!!
Sum beach!! I'm pissing off men left and right today..... why did I lose a point now?0 -
]For me height is one.
how short/tall lol we need specifics
Idealy 5"10 + because if she's a lot smaller than me it just feels a little strange to me.
How tall are you!?:noway:
I'm 6"5'
Well I'm 5'9 so its close lol0 -
oh, i thought of one....doesn't give oral.
wait there are honestly women who don't... I'm so sorry. Personally I think its fun :bigsmile:0
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