Uncommon deal breakers
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The thing is there is a 99% chance I have nothing in common with someone that would rather stay home and play Call of Duty then go out and interact with people face to face. I really don't think that is a small thing.
I can understand if a dude is playing everyday for hours ..at that point he probably doesn't even have a girlfriend...but if you met someone and REALLY hit it off and then weeks later you found out he plays once a week for 2-4 hours with friends...would you dump him because of his one day of game playing? It could be a day you aren't together...and if you do live together, he has a day with his buds online vs outside.
It would depend. Would he rather be playing a video game or would he rather see his friends face to face. If someone is passing up on seeing their friends face to face to play video games it is an issue. I would prefer a guy that has healthy realtionship with some guy friends. I have no issue with a guy that has guys nights as I tend to have girl nights. I probably judge a guy less for going to a strip club with his buddies then sitting around playing video games.
Sorry but this just reminded me of when we would set up all the computers in one house so we could all drink and hang together ..... Man havent had a LAN party in forever lol0 -
(Not so) Uncommon Dealbreakers:
Smoker
Insane
Vane (full of themselves)
Jealous / controlling / paranoid
Messy (a little mess is ok but there's a limit)
Dumb (which has nothing to do with education - some people with PHD's are dumb)
Anyone who doesn't know what a paragraph is or how to use one.
I just realized this list could go on forever (eg axe murderer, rabbit boiler) so I'll just leave it there :bigsmile:0 -
The thing is there is a 99% chance I have nothing in common with someone that would rather stay home and play Call of Duty then go out and interact with people face to face. I really don't think that is a small thing.
I can understand if a dude is playing everyday for hours ..at that point he probably doesn't even have a girlfriend...but if you met someone and REALLY hit it off and then weeks later you found out he plays once a week for 2-4 hours with friends...would you dump him because of his one day of game playing? It could be a day you aren't together...and if you do live together, he has a day with his buds online vs outside.
It would depend. Would he rather be playing a video game or would he rather see his friends face to face. If someone is passing up on seeing their friends face to face to play video games it is an issue. I would prefer a guy that has healthy realtionship with some guy friends. I have no issue with a guy that has guys nights as I tend to have girl nights. I probably judge a guy less for going to a strip club with his buddies then sitting around playing video games.
Fair enough. I don't know why i keep bugging you about it..lol..i guess cuz I play once a week and found what you said about gamers intriguing. While I do play maybe 3 times a month with them...any other time we go out and hang.0 -
Sorry but this just reminded me of when we would set up all the computers in one house so we could all drink and hang together ..... Man havent had a LAN party in forever lol
We went out Friday night, Saturday morning we gamed...i just happen to have my xbox there cuz mine broke so we moved my bro's bedroom TV to the living room....bro and friend playing BF3
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(Not so) Uncommon Dealbreakers:
Smoker
Insane
Vane (full of themselves)
Jealous / controlling / paranoid
Messy (a little mess is ok but there's a limit)
Dumb (which has nothing to do with education - some people with PHD's are dumb)
Anyone who doesn't know what a paragraph is or how to use one.
I just realized this list could go on forever (eg axe murderer, rabbit boiler) so I'll just leave it there :bigsmile:
I don't like the negativity
Turning it around - Deal Makers
Cares about their health and personal hygiene
Sane
Has some degree of humility, selflessness and empathy for others
Trusting
Clean and relatively tidy
Sensible and reasonably intelligent
Literate.
That's better :bigsmile:0 -
DM I can very much appreciate that point. Hell I wouldnt have even qualified it, Id have just said dont play childish games.
You would really tell a woman you just met that? Yeah ok.
DM there are many reasons she could've acted that way. Like Danielle said, she could be constipated. I'll add feeling ill from working out, having to go to the bathroom, having a boyfriend or being with someone like her boyfriends mom.
You can't take everything personally. If I met a cool guy but my bladder was about to burst, for example, I wouldn't be my normal charming self.0 -
This thread made me laugh.
Some of these deal breakers are downright insane (and I thought I was bad w/ my preferences!) Some people said jean shorts, penciled in eyebrows, and under 5'10". I'm sure if Channing Tatum showed up at your door wearing jean shorts or if Megan Fox came knockin' with some penciled in eye brows, you wouldn't tell them to leave. How can these small things be such definitive deal breakers? I can understand the enormous things, like attractiveness, but I can't wrap my head around the small stuff. I wouldn't give a crap if my girlfriend played Call of Duty or even watched My Little Pony.
My only uncommon deal breaker is if a woman has pets. That's only because I'm heavily allergic to cat and most dogs. It just wouldn't be enjoyable spending time at their place if they had pets.
I think kls13la was spot on in her earlier thread. She said as she has gotten older, her deal breakers are getting fewer and fewer. I think it has less to do with age and more to do with experience. A lot of very inexperienced women on here have a laundry list of uncommon deal breakers, whereas the more experienced women have a much shorter list.
lol, mine seem to be mostly sex related...she has to give oral and like baby batter. I'm pretty easy to make happy.
All your euphemisms are really disgusting. The further down I read the more grossed out I'm getting!0 -
All your euphemisms are really disgusting. The further down I read the more grossed out I'm getting!
You're a barrel of fun.... Said no one ever.
Lighten up.0 -
3) Probably Height. Being 6'2", I usually steer away from women that are less than about 5'4". Tried dating shorter women around 5'0" and it was just awkward...tho easy to throw around. :bigsmile:
OY! My ex was 6'3" and 280lbs!! I'm 4'11".....lol........It wasn't awkward. I certainly got nailed tho!!! :laugh:0 -
All your euphemisms are really disgusting. The further down I read the more grossed out I'm getting!
You're a barrel of fun.... Said no one ever.
Lighten up.
Just call it like it is bro. "Baby batter" is disgusting. It is semen.0 -
All your euphemisms are really disgusting. The further down I read the more grossed out I'm getting!
You're a barrel of fun.... Said no one ever.
Lighten up.
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All your euphemisms are really disgusting. The further down I read the more grossed out I'm getting!
You're a barrel of fun.... Said no one ever.
Lighten up.
Seconded!
I agree with Christine on this one.. said no one ever!0 -
OMG - Been working all day and missed this thread.........you guys crack me up!! :laugh:
My uncommon dealbreakers are:
- A teetotal or fussy eater - I'm not a heavy or frequent drinker (once per week?) but my social life is based around food and alcohol, and I love it like that :drinker:
- A guy that constantly plays with his balls!! (see other thread for recent experience) :sick:
- A guy that picks at his *kitten*!! (another experience I had recently) :huh:
- A guy that is overly fussy about paint colours, clothes, hairstyles - I think the generic word would be effeminate?
The last three guys I have met during the course of my business lately. Fairly attractive, and coming on to me, but I was turned off instantly by their antics.........0 -
All your euphemisms are really disgusting. The further down I read the more grossed out I'm getting!
You're a barrel of fun.... Said no one ever.
Lighten up.
Seconded!
I agree with Christine on this one.. said no one ever!
Why are all you guys ganging up on Christine? Her comment wasn't untrue. Those euphemisms are gross, hell even gag worthy! It doesn't mean that they aren't funny. Even if she doesn't find them funny, what's the problem? Isn't the point of comments like that to be gross?0 -
I'm 6'3 and thinking about that hurts my back. Either a stool or some really high heels. Or if she was flexible. >,> Not saying it's a deal breaker but my back lol3) Probably Height. Being 6'2", I usually steer away from women that are less than about 5'4". Tried dating shorter women around 5'0" and it was just awkward...tho easy to throw around. :bigsmile:
OY! My ex was 6'3" and 280lbs!! I'm 4'11".....lol........It wasn't awkward. I certainly got nailed tho!!! :laugh:0 -
I'm 6'3 and thinking about that hurts my back. Either a stool or some really high heels. Or if she was flexible. >,> Not saying it's a deal breaker but my back lol3) Probably Height. Being 6'2", I usually steer away from women that are less than about 5'4". Tried dating shorter women around 5'0" and it was just awkward...tho easy to throw around. :bigsmile:
OY! My ex was 6'3" and 280lbs!! I'm 4'11".....lol........It wasn't awkward. I certainly got nailed tho!!! :laugh:
Note to self.... wear heels to SDCC....0 -
All your euphemisms are really disgusting. The further down I read the more grossed out I'm getting!
You're a barrel of fun.... Said no one ever.
Lighten up.
Seconded!
I agree with Christine on this one.. said no one ever!
Why are all you guys ganging up on Christine? Her comment wasn't untrue. Those euphemisms are gross, hell even gag worthy! It doesn't mean that they aren't funny. Even if she doesn't find them funny, what's the problem? Isn't the point of comments like that to be gross?
not ganging up on her. She made her point numerous times that she's not into sex/pics/vids...we got it. Don't keep waving it in our face or calling us out that enjoy naughty pics/vids and crude humor like "baby batter"....so tired of people being so offended about EVERYTHING.
That's my rant for the night...i'm good now.0 -
Im gonna have to agree with the men on this one....we have threads in here (single peeps) that are all over the place and include a lot of sick humor. And it is repeatedly said in a lot of threads that everything in here is okay short of lewd pictures...so im gonna agree, let it go.0
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Fair enough. I don't know why i keep bugging you about it..lol..i guess cuz I play once a week and found what you said about gamers intriguing. While I do play maybe 3 times a month with them...any other time we go out and hang.
On the flip side why won't you consider a girl that likes sports?0 -
Fair enough. I don't know why i keep bugging you about it..lol..i guess cuz I play once a week and found what you said about gamers intriguing. While I do play maybe 3 times a month with them...any other time we go out and hang.
On the flip side why won't you consider a girl that likes sports?
The last girl I dated was a huge Eagles fan...i had fun watching games with her even though I don't know all the rules and stuff about football...ill joke and say "are we in the 4th period" or "that quarterthrower just threw a ****ty pass"..lol.
I'm open to dating a sports girl as long as she doesn't mind dthat I don't know much. When I said what i said earlier it was years ago when I was on dating site..i'd just skip over them cuz i figured they wouldn't want to be bothered by a non-sports guy.0 -
All your euphemisms are really disgusting. The further down I read the more grossed out I'm getting!
You're a barrel of fun.... Said no one ever.
Lighten up.
Seconded!
I agree with Christine on this one.. said no one ever!
Why are all you guys ganging up on Christine? Her comment wasn't untrue. Those euphemisms are gross, hell even gag worthy! It doesn't mean that they aren't funny. Even if she doesn't find them funny, what's the problem? Isn't the point of comments like that to be gross?
not ganging up on her. She made her point numerous times that she's not into sex/pics/vids...we got it. Don't keep waving it in our face or calling us out that enjoy naughty pics/vids and crude humor like "baby batter"....so tired of people being so offended about EVERYTHING.
That's my rant for the night...i'm good now.
Just because I don't like naughty pics or videos doesnt mean that I don't like sex or whatever. You've known me online for maybe a week? You think you have me figured out?
Look, "baby batter" is gross. You just admitted it was crude.
You could be mature and call it semen. I like some crude humor but that just is toooo far.0 -
Just because I don't like naughty pics or videos doesnt mean that I don't like sex or whatever. You've known me online for maybe a week? You think you have me figured out?
Look, "baby batter" is gross. You just admitted it was crude.
You could be mature and call it semen. I like some crude humor but that just is toooo far.
no, i don't have you figured out, i'm just going by what I've read...but i realize its wrong to judge a book by its cover so I apologize.
"baby batter" may be gross to you but I find it funny...and crude. I also apologize if I offended you with that but I'm not going to censor myself because of a few people on here if I'm allowed to say stuff like that. Baby batter, jizz, cum, banana juice, man chowder, nut butter, two ball throat cream....who cares what its called.
And that's all i gotta say about that
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Let's be honest, it is gross. And it's funny. Part of the funny is making someone say "Oh GROSS ewwww!" I also intentionally do this when I make jokes to men about menstruation and they squirm. Then we all laugh because ha ha. In this group we do let a lot of gross stuff slide, and that's fine. All Christine said was that it was gross and immature... and it is. And she's allowed to be icked out and say so. And then we all laugh and move on. I did feel that the tone of the reaction to her statements got mean so I spoke up. That's all.0
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Let's be honest, it is gross. And it's funny. Part of the funny is making someone say "Oh GROSS ewwww!" I also intentionally do this when I make jokes to men about menstruation and they squirm. Then we all laugh because ha ha. In this group we do let a lot of gross stuff slide, and that's fine. All Christine said was that it was gross and immature... and it is. And she's allowed to be icked out and say so. And then we all laugh and move on. I did feel that the tone of the reaction to her statements got mean so I spoke up. That's all.
Thanks Kits think you hit the nail on the head!0 -
Missing teeth.
I hated it when I was a kid, but so glad my parents paid for fluoride treatments, braces, and whatever I needed for healthy teeth.
Bad breath.
Not into sports. I dated a couple of guys who were not into sports. I was fine with that. I said we just won't hang out when I am watching football. He came over on a Sunday and had the balls to ask me if we could change the Cowboys game. I kindly suggested he put the remote down or I was going to rip his arm off and smack him with it. You do not change the channel when my Cowboys are on in my house!!!
Socks with sandles. Really bad when it is brown or black socks!
Socks and underwear with holes! Why do some men hang onto these until the last thread?0 -
or maybe she was totally and completely NOT interested in DM.DM...did you ever stop to consider she was shy? Blown away by your devastating charm? English was her second language? Constipated? Just wanting to focus on the class?0
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i completely agree! it's fun! i like doing itoh, i thought of one....doesn't give oral.
wait there are honestly women who don't... I'm so sorry. Personally I think its fun :bigsmile:0 -
what's the point of giving a guy a bj if you're not gonna finish what you started??? the whole point is to get him TO finish, using your mouth, right?!?!
I had one who did oral and as I was close to getting off just stopped. She asked if I would finish it myself because she didn't want it in her mouth or on her hands.
lol, how annoying was that after awhile, right? Same with me...once I was about to go I had to pretty much pull out and jack myself off either on to a towel or on myself. Yaaah...hot.
Oh boy, was that too NC-17 for this group?0 -
exactly!!!However, the best ones will just keep going for a minute or two longer until you are begging them to stop.0
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Missing teeth.
I hated it when I was a kid, but so glad my parents paid for fluoride treatments, braces, and whatever I needed for healthy teeth.
Bad breath.
Not into sports. I dated a couple of guys who were not into sports. I was fine with that. I said we just won't hang out when I am watching football. He came over on a Sunday and had the balls to ask me if we could change the Cowboys game. I kindly suggested he put the remote down or I was going to rip his arm off and smack him with it. You do not change the channel when my Cowboys are on in my house!!!
Socks with sandles. Really bad when it is brown or black socks!
Socks and underwear with holes! Why do some men hang onto these until the last thread?
OMG ANOTHER COWBOYS FAN PEEP.
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