Weight Loss Surgery - Daily Conversation 2013

Hello all and welcome to all new members!

Please feel free to use this thread for daily conversations and to get to know one another. Share success, struggles, etc

Have a good day and remember success is never giving up! :flowerforyou:
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  • MSWDiet
    MSWDiet Posts: 399 Member
    I WAS FINE THEN I SAW A TRIGGER FOOD ON TV. WLS FRIENDLY BUT A MAJOR BINGE RISK. I'M ON POINT TODAY AND DESPARATELY TRYING TO STAY THAT WAY. TONIGHT WILL BE A TOUGH ONE. THANKFULLY I HAVE NO RISKY FOODS IN THE HOUSE TODAY. I'M UNDER HOUSE ARREST. HOW SAD IS THAT.
  • AmyNVegas
    AmyNVegas Posts: 2,215 Member
    Happy New Year!!!! Really getting back to everything this week! Went to the gym and upgraded my membership so I can go to the new location by my house, shopped for good healthy food, and made a plan with my nutritionist and bariatric doctor. I am going to make progress this year!:drinker: I ordered a month's supply of Medifast products to use for snacks and small meals for convenience. My doctor said he didn't want me eating only the Medifast program but he liked the products as a helper to get the 6 meals a day in.
  • so how do you like the medifast ? looks like you have lost a lot of weight !! congrats !!
  • AmyNVegas
    AmyNVegas Posts: 2,215 Member
    Lisa, it is convenient, I do not follow the plan itself, I just use the products, I love the eggs and I haven't used much else yet still waiting on the order. I got the eggs and mango softserve from my nutritionist to try the mango was okay I can't wait to try the cappuccino, I love coffee. I will let you know how the rest are once I get them. I am very limited in what I can use since I am allergic to wheat and soy they have only like 10 products that do not contain one of those. They use soy protein in most of their entrees. I got the cappuccino, mango and coffee soft serves, cran/orange drink, eggs (original) and that is pretty much it. I have gone back to eating 6 times a day and these make it easy to have a quick meal in class(I am a teacher). I can shake up a protein shake or one of the soft serves(smoothies) and drink it right in class. I also use 2% string cheese and Champion Nutrition Chocolate Whey Protein Protein Stack shakes I get on Amazon. Before Christmas I had lost 8lbs in the 2 weeks I was sticking to it with the 6 small meals and snacks. It really got my metabolism going I was constantly hungry though at the 800-1000 cals so my doctor moved me to 1200-1400 especially when working out.

    The eggs make a good crepe and you can fill it with chicken and veggies or wrap in seaweed to make a mock sushi without rice of course. I want to try it with riced cauliflower, haven't done that yet. Once I get everything in and get going again I will post again to let you know how it's going.
  • Mummsy
    Mummsy Posts: 347 Member
    I was all set to have my day of pre-op testing for the sleeve on January 31. I had a follow up with my endocrinologist for a thyroid mass. I had to undergo another biopsy and now am opting to have a lobectomy. So, that puts off my sleeve procedure. A bit down about it but I need to do non-electives first. Happy Day all. :tongue:
  • Struggling to get in all my protein and vitamins. I know the importance of both, but yet am having a hard time. I never thought this would be the case being 10 years post op RNY. I had weight regain due to steroids and poor eating choices. Trying to get back on track. I think once the school semester starts again on the 14th, I can get into a new routine. Just trying to get one together for between now and then. I've been through so much the past 10 years and I deserve to get back to a healthy weight and will get back to a healthy weight!!!!!!
    Stephanie E
  • AmyNVegas
    AmyNVegas Posts: 2,215 Member
    Stephanie- I know it is hard eating the right proportions. It takes so much planning and prepping. When I am in school (I am a teacher) I have to prep and plan things on Sundays or I get so off course and that is what happened so far this school year. But I am getting back on track and I will love myself enough to take the time to take care of me. I am a little over 11 years out (Dec. 2001) and I still find it hard, too.
  • MSWDiet
    MSWDiet Posts: 399 Member
    HEY ALL,

    i'VE BEEN NAUGHTY TODAY. THE PERFECT BAD EXAMPLE. MY MEALS WERE TWO 1 CUP VEGGIE MEALS AND JUNK FOOD ALL THE WAY. I HAVE TO HAUL *kitten* TO MAKE MY CALORIE AVERAGE FOR THE WEEK BUT NO BINGE EATING WAS INVOLVED.

    DAMN THIS CAST IRON BOTTOMLESS POUCH OF MINE. AT TIMES I WISH I DUMPED EASILY. THANKFULLY I COULD STICK TO MY MAINTENANCE CALORIE AVERAGE NO PROBLEM. EXCEPT NOW MY MAINTENANCE CALORIES HAVE BEEN SLASHED TO COMPENSATE FOR MY SCREWED UP METABOLISM & MEDICATIONS.

    THINGS ARE NOW THAT MUCH HARDER. BUT, IF IT WILL KEEP THE WEIGHT GAIN AWAY I WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN. AS I GET FURTHER POST OP IT DOES NOTGET ANY EASIER. FORTUNATELY, I NEVER EXPECTED TO GET USED TO THIS. ACCEPTING THAT IT IS WHAT IT IS HAS TO BE ENOUGH.

    I JUST WANT TO KEEP THE CALORIES DOWN; EXERCISE UP; AND NO BINGE EATING. INCLUDING LOW CAL BINGEING. BIG SIGH.
  • Compudad
    Compudad Posts: 54 Member
    Had my first "dumping" experience, wow...not fun. I guess the pork roast was a bad idea. At least I know where the line is now.
  • grim_traveller
    grim_traveller Posts: 625 Member
    Had my first "dumping" experience, wow...not fun. I guess the pork roast was a bad idea. At least I know where the line is now.

    I'm sorry to hear that. I have never dumped, but I did have two incidents where I didn't chew quite thoroughly enough, felt really horrible for a bit, and threw it up. One of the two was a porkchop. It shouldn't have taken twice, but I finally learned.
  • AmyNVegas
    AmyNVegas Posts: 2,215 Member
    Compudad- Did you dump or throw up? Dumping is from sugar or fat hitting the system too fast which causes you to dump insulin into your blood stream and causes heart palpitations, sweating, and a general feeling you are going to pass out or die- seriously I thought I was going to die the first time it happened to me from some OJ :laugh: . Sounds like you had something get stuck in your stoma (opening out of your pouch)and you re-fluxed and threw up. Still not fun but they are different things. I do not do well with pork loin at all unless it is the darker sections that are fattier and even then I have to have mashed cauliflower with it to help it through my pouch and I am 11 years out. Pork loin and I do not get along no matter how well I chew it.:sick:
  • Compudad
    Compudad Posts: 54 Member
    Nope, I did not throw up, I ate something that was too fatty (pork roast).
  • MSWDiet
    MSWDiet Posts: 399 Member
    WHAT AN AWFUL FEELING COMPUDAD.

    I REMOVE ALL VISIBLE FAT FROM MEATS AND COOK BACON EXTRA CRISPY. FOR EXTRA TENDER ROASTS, I USE BAKING BAGS AND SKIM ALL THE FAT BEFORE MAKING GRAVY. AS LONG AS I DON'T SLIP UP & SIP TOO SOON AFTER EATING MEATS REST EASY. HOPE THIS IS HELPFUL.
  • My local grocery store had protein powder on sale and buy two get one free, so I stocked up. I made sure they weren't close to their expiration date too! Made that mistake once. I chose chocolate, strawberry, and chocolate peanut butter. Now I need to research some good recipes with those flavors. So I have no excuses not to get my protein in daily!

    Stephanie E
  • Duckie015
    Duckie015 Posts: 3 Member
    Thank you for explaining the difference between the two. I experience my first dumping yesterday then. It was exactly how you explained it and it happened while I was out grocery shopping and I had to leave the store. I thought I was going to die. I had a 4oz cup of fat free cappiciuno (spelling). I hear how everyone drinks coffee and ect and so I tried it and paid the price afterwards. Never again!!!!!!
  • AmyNVegas
    AmyNVegas Posts: 2,215 Member
    I have no problem with fat only with sugar, even complex carbs do me in. I cannot take too many carbs at once or I have a hypoglycemic episode or in the least I go straight to sleep! But thank goodness fat has never really bothered me since I eat a relatively high fat low carb diet with moderate protein. (Primal Blueprint mostly)
  • Laura8603
    Laura8603 Posts: 590 Member
    Well I made it through the holidays unscathed, but alas, the Girl Scout cookie season is near!! Ugh!! (my daughter is a brownie and is taking orders now- cookies come in the beginning of February)
  • DebbysJourney
    DebbysJourney Posts: 82 Member
    The New Year is now here so it's time for me to start my waiting process for my surgery. I met with the nutritionist this week and gained from my last month's visit, so now I have an additional 5 pounds to lose. I'm off to a good start. My husband has had a really tough time since his surgery last October, so I have been doing a lot of stress eating. I've just got to plan around it.
  • CruellaClo
    CruellaClo Posts: 48 Member
    New year new goals.... this year focus on getting strong. Lift weights, walk, lots of water and good rest. ohhhh and Love love love
  • AmyNVegas
    AmyNVegas Posts: 2,215 Member
    Laura this is the time of year I am SO glad I am allergic to wheat I hope the GSA never develops a gluten free GS cookie :laugh:

    Debby- good luck! :flowerforyou:

    Clo- I hear you and say ditto!:flowerforyou:
  • trud72
    trud72 Posts: 1,912 Member
    well I AM certainly glad xmas is over! no weight on....yes good but god did i hate having all those goodies around and how many times did i dump...ummm lost count xmas seemed to me like one giant dump!lol i am certainly NOT looking forward to next yr! :huh: yep just call me scrooge! :mad:

    My rant over with lol i do hope you had brilliant xmas's and a happy new yr to all of you! :drinker:
  • TeriLynnSpano
    TeriLynnSpano Posts: 103 Member
    Hi, I want to be part of this group because I would like to have the sleeve bariatric surgery. My highest weight was 439lbs. I'm now at 345lbs. I'm 5'4.75", gotta add that.75"! I would like to weigh about 120lbs-130lbs. I'm not really sure what I should weigh, it's been many years since my weight was near that. Thanks for being here!:flowerforyou:
  • Hello Everyone:

    I have to lose 12 pounds before my surgeon can resubmit my package to Kaiser. They denied the request for surgery after I've done every single thing I was supposed to do . . . maybe they wanted me to lose weight pre-op as well. I am hoping to get the sleeve, but I must admit after reading the posts, I'm afraid. It seems like you're damned if you get it and damned if you don't! I'm reading about those who have regained, those who are dumping, those who have lost, but are still having a hard time with food. This is VERY scary!

    I know the surgery is not a magic pill or anything, but I sure hoped that it would help me get on the right track and be able to limit my portions. The surgeon told me that with the sleeve they would cut out part of the stomach that made the hormone, gherlin (spelling) which will help decrease appetite! But I'm reading about struggles with food. I just want to lose the weight and keep it off. I know I have to eat right and exercise no matter if I have the surgery or not. But I've lost weight before and gained it ALL BACK! So I hoped the surgery would at least help to limit my intake and help me stay on track! I don't know what to do!

    Peace,
    Carlygirl412
  • annwyatt69
    annwyatt69 Posts: 727 Member
    I was denied three times by my insurance company in the last year and had finally decided to "do it on my own." Weight loss was happening, but was a bit slow, and I still tended to give in to the fast food urge when my sons wanted it for lunch or dinner. This was mostly to please them. Out of the blue, one day in July 2012, my surgeon's office called and said--"resubmit the appeal and send in the fair hearing papers." I did and was surprised that I was approved in a matter of days.
    Yes, many people have struggles with food issues and have problems after surgery. But most of us do not. I am three months out and have no real issues. I follow my meal plan, keep my appointments, and I put my food issues behind me a long time ago. I don't go hungry and I make sure I do my best each day to get in all my supplements, protein, and water. Some days I am under, but I remember that tomorrow is a new day. If I eat something I shouldn't, my body tells me so, and I don't do it again.
    In the three months since I had gastric bypass I have gone from morbidly obese to overweight on the BMI calculator. I can walk for miles, breathe better, have no heartburn or digestive issues that I had before. I can tie my own shoes, polish my toenails, bend over to pick things up off the floor. I can vacuum, move furniture around, and feel like a million bucks. And it's only been three months!
    I have not vomited once since my surgery--a couple times food swallowed wouldn't go down early on, but no vomiting. I have never had dumping syndrome, unless you count the couple of times my heart beat rapidly during the first month after. All in all, this has been one of the best decisions I ever made. I would do it again in a heartbeat. Will I ever gain weight back? I hope not, but if I do, it's my fault--and I don't think that it will ever be to the extent that it was before.
    Yes, your portions for life will be smaller for the rest of your life. You will be healthy because you have to focus on healthy, clean eating. Stay away from junk, processed foods, etc. Eat your meat, veggies, and fruits. Don't drink high calorie beverages. If you can do this, you will succeed.
    Good luck with everything!
  • Compudad
    Compudad Posts: 54 Member
    I am officially one month post-op today and I am pleased as heck with my progress so far.

    A few people have voiced there fear of complications in having this surgery done and fear of dumping and other changes as well. I too had those fears, but greater than those fears were the fear of not having it done and continuing on my old path leading to an early death, missing my daughter grow up and being a health burden to my family.

    I took four years to make my decision and looking back I am confident that for me, the surgery was the correct choice. It is not easy, but I am committed to make the changes in lifestyle and my relationship with food in exchange for the reward of living.

    I feel good about myself, have more energy and already am leading a more active lifestyle.
  • Can anyone suggest some websites to find good recipes for protein shakes? I just bought strawberry, chocolate, and chocolate peanut butter flavors. I am determined to get my protein in daily. I have no excuses now! Thanks!!

    Stephanie E
  • Mummsy
    Mummsy Posts: 347 Member
    I'd start with the website of the protein that you bought. They may have some recipes. I mainly do the same thing all the time..... 1 cup of unsweetened almond milk, 1 scoop of protein powder, 3 frozen strawberries, 1/2 frozen banana, 1 tbps extra virgin coconut oil, a handful of spinach and 1tbsp of ground flax meal. I love it. You can use any kind of milk that you prefer or water. You can exchange any of the fruits for other fruits, etc....

    You can use milk and peanut butter or almond butter with the chocolate/ and or the chocolate peanut butter. The banana would be a good addition to the choc pb. Yummm.
  • AmyNVegas
    AmyNVegas Posts: 2,215 Member
    Stephanie, I have 2 smoothie recipe booklets in electronic form I have gotten from different things. If you message me your email I will send them to you. The protein powder that they call for is VERY expensive so I use my own brand of course, but some of the recipes are really good.

    Compudad- I agree, even with the minor things like occasional dumping and vitamin deficiency and any other minor issues I have had to deal with I would have surgery again in a heartbeat and I am not even to goal yet after 11 yrs. I could not even imagine what my life would be like if I still carried that 220 extra pounds around or most likely more by now and with 11 more years of age. I am grateful I was able to have the surgery and I never regret it!
  • Hello Awyatt:

    Thank you VERY MUCH for such an encouraging post! I needed to read that today. My therapist told me it may be a good thing that I was denied right now, because when she said I'll have to change how I enjoy myself with my friends (not have every outing involve food), it was hard to hear. She didn't say I could never eat out or have fun with friends with food involved, but she said early on, I'll have to find other ways to enjoy myself and kind of cut back on having food be the main part of the get-together!

    I admit and I know that I am addicted to food and there are a lot of issues surrounding my relationship with food. I'm in counseling to help me deal with and heal those issues . . . they go all the way back to childhood. I've been fat all my life and I've lost huge amounts of weight twice in my life: once when I was 30 years old, I lost 112 pounds on Weight Watchers. Then when I was in my 50's I lost 50 pounds because I was diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes. But both times I regained all the weight. Now, I want to get rid of the weight for good and I hope the surgery can help me. But as my couselor said, after surgery, it is still up to me if I can hold myself accountable and love myself more than I love food.

    I really appreciate your frankness and congratulations on your weight loss and how you feel about it and what you can do in your life since you had it! I hope and pray I can be like you once I have the surgery . . . appreciate what the sacrifices will do for me and how I live my life!

    Peace,
    Carlygirl412
  • Hello Amy and Compudad:

    After I read both your posts, I find them to be encouraging as well. I have to be realistic and know that for me food is an addiction and it will be a struggle to change my life for the better. I guess it is just like a person on drugs or alcohol, they have to go one day at a time to keep clean and sober. I will have that same goal to stay clean and sober with food! My counselor tole me weight loss is mostly in the head/mind. It's the mind set that is the most important part, becasue that is what drives you to do your best with your food choices and exercise. It's the mind set that will keep you in maintenance and not in regaining weight. I'm glad to have this forum to write how I'm feeling. I never thought I'd try to have weight loss surgery because I love food so much, but I can't control myself enough to keep weight off once I lose it. My mindset has to change to decide to value myself, my health, and my life, more than I value food.

    Thanks for your posts!

    Peace,
    Carlygirl412
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